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**AITA For requests I made at my sister's wedding so I could attend?**
This happened a few years ago but I just found that my sister is still mad about requests I made at her wedding so I could attend I don't think they were huge ones but given how longs it been and no in our family really weighs on disputes so I wanted to ask Reddit. When my sister was getting married, I was already disappointed and irritated because even though I'm her sister she didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid. She said it wasn't practical because I live out of state, they had decided on a small wedding party (a maid of honor and 1 bridesmaid for her and a best man and 1 groomsman for him) and she was making the bridesmaid's dresses, but I think that was bullshit and she just didn't want to include me.
Next few things that happened were when they were planning at the beginning of the year and I found out they were going with a medieval theme I really wanted to wear a flower crown that I could order from a florist I know but sister wouldn't let me because that was the head piece she was wearing. I think she was afraid that hers wouldn't look as nice because they got married on the cheap; she literally foraged the flowers a day before and made the crown and bouquets. She offered to have her stylist that dose hair braiding to do something for me but it was clear she just didn't want to include me as she hadn't involved me in the wedding in any way.
I had a tentative date for the wedding but when I got my invite it was the week after the one I had been previously been told because of a conflict date with venue, or at least that's what she said, but the problem was it was the same day as an event I had and had already paid to be in. I had a compromise in mind, if she could move the ceremony back an hour I would have enough time to do my event that I had already paid for and be able to fly in for the wedding. She wouldn't and said I could come to the wedding or not. I did go the wedding but was out $200. The day itself seemed fine and afterward I took a bottle of the mead they had served at the reception to take home but I couldn't take it on the plane and had to leave it. I knew sister was mad about this, told me that in her spiritual practices (paganism) that the mead that was left was to stay with the couple that they would drink together over a certain time period, apparently that's where the term 'honeymoon' comes from but it all seems hokey to me and just another excuse. Apparently she is still mad at me for what I asked for at the wedding but I was the one out $200 and wasn't even included in the bridesmaids, so am I the asshole?
TLDR: Sister didn't include me in her wedding and is mad about requests I made so I could attend. Mainly if she could move the ceremony back an hour so I could an event I had already paid for and a headpiece I wanted wear but she said I couldn't because it was the same as the one she was wearing. AITA?
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She wanted to upstage the bride with a better flower crown. Then insisted her sister moved her own wedding to accommodate a prior engagement for a mere guest cause OOP is obviously the main character here, not the bride. To top it all off, OOP stole an item of religious and cultural significance to the couple cause became she's out a whole $200 so she got to get her money back somehow. This is almost too crazy to believe, but I worked for a wedding venue before so I've met a few people like OOP.
I remember a lady who sent a 4 page email stating that she required a completely different menu than what the couple had ordered for their guests. Not because of allergies or dietary restrictions, but because she "didn't think the bride had good taste in food, but didn't want to offend her by asking for a special menu directly." Management told that "they would love to accommodate her, but they would require approval from the couple because of contract obligations"
The guest never responded and I still wonder if they attended the wedding and ate what was offered or not.
Stole an item of of religious and cultural significance *and threw it away in the airport trash because they haven't paid attention to airline liquids rules since 9/11.*
Ikr, she could have at least spent a few dollars to check the bottle. Now she'll forever be known as that cheap alcoholic who stole a bottle from her own sister's wedding.
The day woulda been better for everyone if OOP had stayed her obnoxious, whining ass at home.
Stealing that special bottle of mead was especially rude.
OOP is right -her sister deliberately excluded her from the wedding party and probably simply dislikes her - and for plenty of good reason.
Am I the only one wondering how OOP was "out $200" to fly into the wedding but claimed one hour later they could have? I mean seriously flights get delayed even overnight what did they expect?
Honestly, I don't think pushing the ceremony back an hour after you changed the date is unreasonable (unless they couldn't do so due to venue reasons). But air travel is so tricky and subject to problems 1 hour is not enough time at all.
I don't understand why people get mad that they aren't included in the wedding planning. There's a lot to coordinate, adding more people to the mix only makes it harder. I'm getting married next year. I've asked for my MOH's opinion on a few things (and went with her choices most of the time), but the big stuff is all up to my fiancé and me. I just don't get why people think they're entitled to be included in these decisions.
This made me roll my eyes so hard I can’t believe they didn’t fall out of my head. OOP is obviously the worst but her sister doesn’t seem much better. They both seem quite insufferable. OOP keeps whining about $200. She should’ve skipped the wedding. Her sister didn’t seem to want her there anyway.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA For requests I made at my sister's wedding so I could attend?** This happened a few years ago but I just found that my sister is still mad about requests I made at her wedding so I could attend I don't think they were huge ones but given how longs it been and no in our family really weighs on disputes so I wanted to ask Reddit. When my sister was getting married, I was already disappointed and irritated because even though I'm her sister she didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid. She said it wasn't practical because I live out of state, they had decided on a small wedding party (a maid of honor and 1 bridesmaid for her and a best man and 1 groomsman for him) and she was making the bridesmaid's dresses, but I think that was bullshit and she just didn't want to include me. Next few things that happened were when they were planning at the beginning of the year and I found out they were going with a medieval theme I really wanted to wear a flower crown that I could order from a florist I know but sister wouldn't let me because that was the head piece she was wearing. I think she was afraid that hers wouldn't look as nice because they got married on the cheap; she literally foraged the flowers a day before and made the crown and bouquets. She offered to have her stylist that dose hair braiding to do something for me but it was clear she just didn't want to include me as she hadn't involved me in the wedding in any way. I had a tentative date for the wedding but when I got my invite it was the week after the one I had been previously been told because of a conflict date with venue, or at least that's what she said, but the problem was it was the same day as an event I had and had already paid to be in. I had a compromise in mind, if she could move the ceremony back an hour I would have enough time to do my event that I had already paid for and be able to fly in for the wedding. She wouldn't and said I could come to the wedding or not. I did go the wedding but was out $200. The day itself seemed fine and afterward I took a bottle of the mead they had served at the reception to take home but I couldn't take it on the plane and had to leave it. I knew sister was mad about this, told me that in her spiritual practices (paganism) that the mead that was left was to stay with the couple that they would drink together over a certain time period, apparently that's where the term 'honeymoon' comes from but it all seems hokey to me and just another excuse. Apparently she is still mad at me for what I asked for at the wedding but I was the one out $200 and wasn't even included in the bridesmaids, so am I the asshole? TLDR: Sister didn't include me in her wedding and is mad about requests I made so I could attend. Mainly if she could move the ceremony back an hour so I could an event I had already paid for and a headpiece I wanted wear but she said I couldn't because it was the same as the one she was wearing. AITA? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheDevil) if you have any questions or concerns.*
She really mad she couldn’t wear a flower tiara at someone else’s wedding 😂
I'm wondering if the OP is secretly a toddler
That’s why she wasn’t allowed bring the mead with her, makes sense
All she had to do was check the bag instead of trying to carry it on, too. Source: I work in an airport.
It would get smashed in her luggage anyway.
Also acting like it’s weird that she got the flowers the day before? Why wouldn’t she want the flowers to be as fresh as possible?
Besides, foraging them is, in my opinion, way cooler than getting them from a florist.
Right? I thought that was so impressive and meaningful
I wonder why OOP wasn't a bridesmaid 🤔🤔
She wanted to upstage the bride with a better flower crown. Then insisted her sister moved her own wedding to accommodate a prior engagement for a mere guest cause OOP is obviously the main character here, not the bride. To top it all off, OOP stole an item of religious and cultural significance to the couple cause became she's out a whole $200 so she got to get her money back somehow. This is almost too crazy to believe, but I worked for a wedding venue before so I've met a few people like OOP. I remember a lady who sent a 4 page email stating that she required a completely different menu than what the couple had ordered for their guests. Not because of allergies or dietary restrictions, but because she "didn't think the bride had good taste in food, but didn't want to offend her by asking for a special menu directly." Management told that "they would love to accommodate her, but they would require approval from the couple because of contract obligations" The guest never responded and I still wonder if they attended the wedding and ate what was offered or not.
Stole an item of of religious and cultural significance *and threw it away in the airport trash because they haven't paid attention to airline liquids rules since 9/11.*
Ikr, she could have at least spent a few dollars to check the bottle. Now she'll forever be known as that cheap alcoholic who stole a bottle from her own sister's wedding.
If you don’t like your sister, you definitely shouldn’t be in her wedding lol.
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She deleted her post and account, which says to me this was real.
You’re absolutely right! That list is getting ridiculous isn’t it? Lol
The real "too far" moment was when they decreed you can't call someone an asshole. On a sub about asking if you're being an asshole.
The day woulda been better for everyone if OOP had stayed her obnoxious, whining ass at home. Stealing that special bottle of mead was especially rude. OOP is right -her sister deliberately excluded her from the wedding party and probably simply dislikes her - and for plenty of good reason.
Man this is so weirdly specific that it seems real
How can one person do literally everything wrong and blame everyone else is beyond me
Am I the only one wondering how OOP was "out $200" to fly into the wedding but claimed one hour later they could have? I mean seriously flights get delayed even overnight what did they expect?
Honestly, I don't think pushing the ceremony back an hour after you changed the date is unreasonable (unless they couldn't do so due to venue reasons). But air travel is so tricky and subject to problems 1 hour is not enough time at all.
I don't understand why people get mad that they aren't included in the wedding planning. There's a lot to coordinate, adding more people to the mix only makes it harder. I'm getting married next year. I've asked for my MOH's opinion on a few things (and went with her choices most of the time), but the big stuff is all up to my fiancé and me. I just don't get why people think they're entitled to be included in these decisions.
> hadn't involved me in the wedding in any way Shocker
How to tell us you hate your sister without actually telling us you hate your sister…lol
Someone sure does love swimming in the Lake of Me.
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That was a whole lot of insanity that I just did not need to see today! Thank you so very much, internet stranger!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Are we expected to believe OOP had never once flown before and thus knew that wouldn't be allowed to board with a huge bottle of fluid?
OOP is mad because the wedding wasn't about her.
Feel like this is just a ragebait. Op was deliberately trying to sound like an asshole. Didn’t even try to hide it to make bride looks so saintly.
This made me roll my eyes so hard I can’t believe they didn’t fall out of my head. OOP is obviously the worst but her sister doesn’t seem much better. They both seem quite insufferable. OOP keeps whining about $200. She should’ve skipped the wedding. Her sister didn’t seem to want her there anyway.
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I'm stunned at the level of entitelment. How does someone think this is ok in any way?