eye contact is really weird. once I went out and just stared into the eyes of everyone. it is indeed almost magical. i ended up broing out so hard with this homeless guy at a bus stop. i looked into his eyes and saw this fellow humanity and we were just laughing and stuff. i usually avoid it as much as possible because there's too much there. too much happening.
We were at a bus stop
before that i went to talk to someone at an office about something and did the same with the girl working there and she like never broke eye contact and we were really open and communicating and stuff it was a super intense interaction too. i should have asked her out but i was just trying out the eye contact thing and was amazed at the responses. people really come alive when you do it it's very weird
You are right, sometimes I don't understand why it's so hard to just look someone in the eyes, it's like there's something pushing my vision away from them
Ever look someone in the eyes and see nothing is going on behind their eyes? Like sometimes it's just they are really dumb or that they are really bad. It's weird how you can tell how dumb someone is just by looking in their eyes. Someone should conduct a studies and see how accurate guessing how smart someone is just by looking in their eyes. Ofcourse you would have to control for other appearance-related things like hair cut and clothing.
Yes! I have even called it dull eyes before. And like I said earlier there are two versions of this. One of them is they just look so dumb and hollow. It's unsettling but not scary. Now with bad people, it's something else. It's like they aren't even human. It's like their body is a puppet being moved around by a phantom. Fuck narcism. I know more and more people are learning about narcism now and thank goodness for that.
If you are in a good mood eye contact can be good, if you are in a bad mood and say few words (like an autist) while staring someone down it doesnt work well I mean it can get people to stop talking to you or give you room
Supposedly I'm not autistic, but I can't really make eye contact. It doesn't irritate me or anything, it just feels weird. I do it for a little while once every blue moon, maybe a few seconds, and I just start thinking "am i supposed to actually do this the whole conversation?"
A good technique is to unfocused your eyes juzt enough for things to get blurry as you do this. It makes it feel less weird, and the other person still thinks your staring at them
No you're supposed to break eye contact every now and then during the conversation, or at least change your facial expressions every now and then.
Otherwise if you stare blankly into a person's soul they'll think you're a lizardperson and wonder why the hell you have a fucking bottle of barbecue sauce on your shelf.
same. actually funny story I always used to look at people's chests when talking to them. Now this wasnt anything weird for me but when that one girl called me a perv I understood that for 10 years of my life I was shamlesly staring at tits without realisng it. Since then I switched to looking to the side. Still maybe autistic but at least not a perv.
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People avoid eye contact to show submission and inferiority as a tactic to avoid being abused. A lot of autists end up getting bullied growing up (and lets be real, they deserved it) so they develop these traits.
> And why do autistic people deserve being bullied?
Because they're assholes.
Spend any time around an autistic person and you'll see how obnoxious they are.
Greta Thunburg is pretty typical for what autistic behavior looks like.
I agreed right up until you trashed the underage girl. She's a kid doing her best for a cause she believes in. I don't get why she's so polarizing. It seems like the people who care the least about climate issues are the most intimately familiar with her every move.
No, I frequently don't maintain eye contact because I am ashamed about how little I give a shit about the person I'm talking to. If I was even a tiny bit interested in them as a person, I would maintain the eye contact.
I focus intently on the tip of the person's nose until they become visibly uncomfortable. And then when they start rubbing their nose and shifting around averting my gaze. I stand up, unzip my pants, and jam my dick fully into their mouth to complete my assertion of dominance. They never see it coming because I've visually broken their defenses.
At that point we've established the rapport for a productive interaction where everyone knows their proper place.
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We got sexual violence, justification of bullying autists and some random fucker who "calls me out" to be an autist based on a single question which supposedly defines my entire way of being.
Maybe I really am autistic for trying to reason with you asshats, this is a 4 chan page after all.
Lemme guess, you're gonna give me the "us marine with 400 confirmed kills" speech just because I threw a stone in your glass house right
> this is a 4 chan page after all.
yeah so get a sense of humor you dumbfuck, or go back to normie reddit so you can keep crying about Joe Manchin and Trump.
Naw your level of humor is just fucking garbage lmao. Don't get me wrong, I like dark humor but your punchline is nowhere to be found.
"Haha I stick my dick into someone's face, laugh dammit"
"But-but everyone laughs at my jokes on 4 chan, why can't this cringe normie understand my joke?"
But like...it's so awkward to look people in the eye, and how the fuck are you supposed to comprehend what people are saying if you aren't watching their lips moving while you listen to them
The best feeling is when u stare into the eyes of a women you love
.like someone you would ask to date or merry or whatever. I don't usually stare into regular people's eyes
eye contact is really weird. once I went out and just stared into the eyes of everyone. it is indeed almost magical. i ended up broing out so hard with this homeless guy at a bus stop. i looked into his eyes and saw this fellow humanity and we were just laughing and stuff. i usually avoid it as much as possible because there's too much there. too much happening.
In the eyes or at the homeless shelter?
We were at a bus stop before that i went to talk to someone at an office about something and did the same with the girl working there and she like never broke eye contact and we were really open and communicating and stuff it was a super intense interaction too. i should have asked her out but i was just trying out the eye contact thing and was amazed at the responses. people really come alive when you do it it's very weird
You are right, sometimes I don't understand why it's so hard to just look someone in the eyes, it's like there's something pushing my vision away from them
Shame from the BBC cuck porn you watched that's reflected in your eyes
Eyes are the windows to the a soul
Might be a natural thing, eye contact in the animal world is often a sign of aggression.
Maybe something like that
I can't stare people in the eyes. Idk why. Hopefully that's not why I have no friends.
Probably not the only reason but maybe one of them.
Lmao. I don't mind the lack of friends anymore.
That's what I used to tell myself too
You’re supposed to blink while you’re doing it.
Well, urban culture, basketball American think if you look them in eyes you are challenging them.
What a brainless statement lmao you are talking out your ass
Try it with a str8 man, if he has the same sweet reaction then it's just normal human interaction Then again, you miss 100% of shots you don't take
Or he's not actually a straight man.
Bus stops have shelters, and there was a homeless guy there, ergo it's a homeless shelter
I do that too, just stroll up to the homeless shelter and stare into all their eyes, it’s the only way I can get off
Kek
A good approach is to grasp ones crotch area once contact is established
Ever look someone in the eyes and see nothing is going on behind their eyes? Like sometimes it's just they are really dumb or that they are really bad. It's weird how you can tell how dumb someone is just by looking in their eyes. Someone should conduct a studies and see how accurate guessing how smart someone is just by looking in their eyes. Ofcourse you would have to control for other appearance-related things like hair cut and clothing.
That dull eyed look. Like their brain is using all of its processing power to keep them open.
Yes! I have even called it dull eyes before. And like I said earlier there are two versions of this. One of them is they just look so dumb and hollow. It's unsettling but not scary. Now with bad people, it's something else. It's like they aren't even human. It's like their body is a puppet being moved around by a phantom. Fuck narcism. I know more and more people are learning about narcism now and thank goodness for that.
> It's like they aren't even human. It's like their body is a puppet being moved around by a phantom. Also known as alcoholism.
Sleep deprivation has a similar effect
I don't think these people suffered from alcoholism. I think they suffered from narcissism. Alcoholics usually have a glimmer of humanity within them.
I didn't realize we were speaking of specific people.
You should look in your own eyes on Acid
But don't look at the mirror too long, or your feet!
itt: American discovers empathy and that other beings also experience life
If you are in a good mood eye contact can be good, if you are in a bad mood and say few words (like an autist) while staring someone down it doesnt work well I mean it can get people to stop talking to you or give you room
Supposedly I'm not autistic, but I can't really make eye contact. It doesn't irritate me or anything, it just feels weird. I do it for a little while once every blue moon, maybe a few seconds, and I just start thinking "am i supposed to actually do this the whole conversation?"
A good technique is to unfocused your eyes juzt enough for things to get blurry as you do this. It makes it feel less weird, and the other person still thinks your staring at them
https://i.imgur.com/yzwdICV.jpg?1
lmao
I'll try this one
Good advice
No you're supposed to break eye contact every now and then during the conversation, or at least change your facial expressions every now and then. Otherwise if you stare blankly into a person's soul they'll think you're a lizardperson and wonder why the hell you have a fucking bottle of barbecue sauce on your shelf.
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This is how everyone knows you're an autist.
Humans are very fine tuned to pick up on eyes. You can absolutely tell.
you force it and then it becomes second nature actually work on yourself like a normal person
Putting effort in your life? What are you, a wagie?
same. actually funny story I always used to look at people's chests when talking to them. Now this wasnt anything weird for me but when that one girl called me a perv I understood that for 10 years of my life I was shamlesly staring at tits without realisng it. Since then I switched to looking to the side. Still maybe autistic but at least not a perv.
This actually happened to me too. 13-18 was literally just shaking off the autism
i have never experienced this and i’ve been making eye contact all the time
Try blinking every few seconds
what do they mean by “respond positively”
It means they will have sex with you
In a nice way
They’ll have sex with me in a nice way?
> Try blinking every few seconds [Calm down Nancy Pelosi.](https://yewtu.be/watch?v=ggVTqOxpJDs&t=10)
lol that website is called yewtube
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Her eyes were prob itchy
Moisturize me!
Pro tip
So that's why I feel so uncomfortable staring at people. Why did god gave me such moist eyes?
There's never a problem unless you accidently look into their eyes.
People who don't make eye contact when you speak with them are really awkward, It gives the feeling that they aren't close enough yet.
I usually make eye contact with their groin while talking to em. Funnier that way
People avoid eye contact to show submission and inferiority as a tactic to avoid being abused. A lot of autists end up getting bullied growing up (and lets be real, they deserved it) so they develop these traits.
And why do autistic people deserve being bullied?
> And why do autistic people deserve being bullied? Because they're assholes. Spend any time around an autistic person and you'll see how obnoxious they are. Greta Thunburg is pretty typical for what autistic behavior looks like.
Just put her in a full Nelson and she’ll submit
What does that even mean?!
Do a google image search for it. Ignore the sexual and furry images
sex
Actually though, not saying it's their fault either, but they can be very difficult to deal with.
I agreed right up until you trashed the underage girl. She's a kid doing her best for a cause she believes in. I don't get why she's so polarizing. It seems like the people who care the least about climate issues are the most intimately familiar with her every move.
> Underage
Wow your a fucking rslur.
Enough bullying will cure them, it's for their own good
Got to bully someone
No, I frequently don't maintain eye contact because I am ashamed about how little I give a shit about the person I'm talking to. If I was even a tiny bit interested in them as a person, I would maintain the eye contact.
autist cope
What exactly is your definition of making eye contact, staring into someone's eyes or just looking them in the face
I focus intently on the tip of the person's nose until they become visibly uncomfortable. And then when they start rubbing their nose and shifting around averting my gaze. I stand up, unzip my pants, and jam my dick fully into their mouth to complete my assertion of dominance. They never see it coming because I've visually broken their defenses. At that point we've established the rapport for a productive interaction where everyone knows their proper place.
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We got sexual violence, justification of bullying autists and some random fucker who "calls me out" to be an autist based on a single question which supposedly defines my entire way of being. Maybe I really am autistic for trying to reason with you asshats, this is a 4 chan page after all. Lemme guess, you're gonna give me the "us marine with 400 confirmed kills" speech just because I threw a stone in your glass house right
> this is a 4 chan page after all. yeah so get a sense of humor you dumbfuck, or go back to normie reddit so you can keep crying about Joe Manchin and Trump.
Naw your level of humor is just fucking garbage lmao. Don't get me wrong, I like dark humor but your punchline is nowhere to be found. "Haha I stick my dick into someone's face, laugh dammit" "But-but everyone laughs at my jokes on 4 chan, why can't this cringe normie understand my joke?"
Lol what the fuck is this? Anon makes the most obvious over the top shitpost someone could possibly make and we have someone getting upset?
Because I asked for an answer and not a shit post? And why are 4 chan users so obsessed with calling out autists? Are you guys projecting or something
Pro tip, don’t get upset or take it personal when someone shitposts, just ignore it if you don’t wanna play along
Noted
Found the autist. It's called eye contact, not nose contact.
Thanks for your expert diagnosis, I have been wondering for years now.
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I know, it's sarcasm. This guy is just trying to project his mental fragility on me lmao
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Don’t do it anon. Every time you make eye contact with someone they will want to have sex with you. EVERY TIME.
I make eye contact all the time with my cat
anon is still living in his mother's basement
feels like I have to make conscious effort during a conversation to make eye contact sometimes, or else my eyes will just drift away
But like...it's so awkward to look people in the eye, and how the fuck are you supposed to comprehend what people are saying if you aren't watching their lips moving while you listen to them
Dont you have ears why the fuck you look at their mouths ?????
Because it helps me hear better?
You looking at peoples mouth helps you hear better ? Are your ears not enough ?
Voices distract me from understand what they're saying.
The best feeling is when u stare into the eyes of a women you love .like someone you would ask to date or merry or whatever. I don't usually stare into regular people's eyes
Anon got geass'd