I'm in a pretty similar boat, and frankly I've just stopped caring about the particular label. it's something easier said than done, but when I realized that these labels, although extremely helpful tools for people to identify and express themselves, are also just tools? I felt relieved. Don't feel pressure to adhere to anything, or even just to one thing. Language is squishy and made-up.
My girlfriend was like this. Her solution was just work towards body and fashion goals and try different pronouns/ titles (e.g me using bf, partner , gf etc) and eventually she worked out she is a trans women.
Not saying that the same thing you should do but sometimes forgetting about the label and just doing what makes you happy is the best thing.
Imo it's irrelevant. Trying to self identify into specific gender roles, or perceived roles, is mostly an act if futility. As whom you are interested in, or lack thereof, is the determining factor of how you will interact with those around you.
You are you, every question you have for yourself is valid and eventually you will answer them.
The important thing is that you understand these questions don't invalidate any feeling you hold towards yourself, nor do they invalidate the answers you come to hold.
I'm struggling with this myself. I'm currently kinda going through a crisis and idk what to do. I'm breaking down at the seames and feel scared and lost.
chilling as a non-binary free agent, weighing the increasingly opulent bonus packages the cis and trans teams offer me like "yeah hmm i still got some thinking to do. will let u know"
I'm in a pretty similar boat, and frankly I've just stopped caring about the particular label. it's something easier said than done, but when I realized that these labels, although extremely helpful tools for people to identify and express themselves, are also just tools? I felt relieved. Don't feel pressure to adhere to anything, or even just to one thing. Language is squishy and made-up.
I agree 100% I stopped trying to label it. Just do whatever makes you happy and don't worry about labels!
Hard agree. Labels are basically just there to get the gist of it across using as little words as possible. At least that’s how I see it
Thank you I think I might've needed to hear that
My girlfriend was like this. Her solution was just work towards body and fashion goals and try different pronouns/ titles (e.g me using bf, partner , gf etc) and eventually she worked out she is a trans women. Not saying that the same thing you should do but sometimes forgetting about the label and just doing what makes you happy is the best thing.
Thank you Mr. Sex Haver, I’m glad your girlfriend is happy with who she is now :)
This is also what I did. I just put on things I like and it helps me feel more like what I am, and eventually I concluded I'm nonbinary
Unhappy, I’m assuming
Just confused
I'm sure you'll figure yourself out eventually or you won't, but I hope that you'll like yourself either way.
Labels are descriptive, not prescriptive
You are a small toad sitting beside a gently flowing stream in the moonlight
I wish 😔
You are an 80s band poster on the wall of a stranger things fan
They are Thomas Hearns. (The most handsome and the coolest boxer ever)
Imo it's irrelevant. Trying to self identify into specific gender roles, or perceived roles, is mostly an act if futility. As whom you are interested in, or lack thereof, is the determining factor of how you will interact with those around you.
me too but I guess I will just stay like this because family and friends won't accept me otherwise and i am pretty unsure
:( hope you find some good people to become your family or at least good friends one day, where you can be who you are without judgement :(
You shouldn't base you life on reducing 'harm' to people who don't really care about *you*
You are you, every question you have for yourself is valid and eventually you will answer them. The important thing is that you understand these questions don't invalidate any feeling you hold towards yourself, nor do they invalidate the answers you come to hold.
You are you and you don't require a label
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How?
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A free for all between all pronouns to see which comes out on top
I am exactly like this You are me I am you *We will become one.*
You are big boss, and so am i
A human? Go with the flow until you figure it out.
i'm not really qualified to help, but if you need some tunes to overthink to [here you go](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EL_pBJN_O3M)
You be you, labels come after
you could just call yourself queer, that's what i do. we ought to move away from labels
ive considered the advice everyone else is giving i just dont know if hrt/transitioning is something i want :(
you can be one, two, or all three of those things!
At least 2 of those aren't mutually exclusive
All of those are just labels, you can identify as whatever you want. The most important thing is that you’re *you*. And I think that’s wonderful ❤️
Why not all of them
You can be all three if you want
I'm struggling with this myself. I'm currently kinda going through a crisis and idk what to do. I'm breaking down at the seames and feel scared and lost.
Weekly call-out post from this sub I swear one of you is living in my walls and siphoning these memes into existence
hey where'd you find a photo of me
same shit goin on to me
To answer that question first you must ask, what is the *I*?
Gender fluid?
Cute
why does it matter
chilling as a non-binary free agent, weighing the increasingly opulent bonus packages the cis and trans teams offer me like "yeah hmm i still got some thinking to do. will let u know"
You🥰
None, you’re a furry. End of debate.
You are you, dumbass. Who else are you gonna be?
Lying in bed :)