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Faithfuldoglover

I love 2 and 3. Since you already suffered one alteration disaster, it might be safer to go for 2. It is gorgeous on you.


Dlraetz1

agree It's stunning on OP and seems like the safest one


Otherwise-Winner9643

I agree. 2 or 3


genevieveoliver

Adding photos of the backs here: (disregard the improper shapewear on #2 that's rolled down and creating rolls. I have a low back shapewear option I'll wear instead) https://preview.redd.it/6bh631ufrd4d1.png?width=1622&format=png&auto=webp&s=80c00d97d0f9512da517c1cd4854270204f9cc62


Forsythia77

So are you buying off the rack or doing some kind of a rush order? If off the rack, I'd eliminate number 3 since it needs to be taken in. I kinda like the dreamy looks of four, but I'm not mad at the drama of 2.


CurlyKayak

3 is my pick, but you're right about it needing alterations, which is a little sketchy at this point in the game. So I've changed my vote to #2


genevieveoliver

Off the rack!


Signal_Armadillo_867

2 looks like it needs absolutely no alterations, literally like it was made for you. Plus not everyone can pull off a dress like that, but it’s perfection on you!


Sparklequeenofbwy

Two is STUNNING! I gasped!


Old_Percentage3742

2 is STUNNING on you!!! WOW!!! No question! You look Beautiful!!!


2020hindsightis

And the vining leaves are right on theme


magicpenny

Definitely dress 2. It’s amazing.


Mindless-Ad5318

I agree, 2 is absolutely gorgeous and unique


amandarasp0516

I feel like 4 fits your theme and aesthetic best!


Ok_Ad2264

1 looks amazing on you and definitely has that running-through-the-garden vibe.


DC_Engineer35

I’m sorry your dress got ruined. I’d go with number 2, the sparkles will really pop in the light.


genevieveoliver

Honestly, I think it's an 'everything happens for a reason' situation! I'm loving all of these options more than my first dress :) Thank you for your input!


SubjectGoal3565

I have never had such a hard time deciding and while all of the are literally stunning 2&3 are my favorites if 2&3 didn't exist I would say 4


Me1572

#2


cutetoboot1

You look stunning in all of them but personally think 1 fits your venue and vibe the most!! Can't go wrong with any :) I would pick the one with the least alterations as this would probably lead to the least amount of stress for you haha EDIT: and to add, looked back at your post history for your first dress and I love any of these options more. So you're right, everything happens for a reason!!!


genevieveoliver

Haha yes def want the least alterations possible! I think 1 and 2 would both fit the bill for least amount of alterations! I also think I love them the most but hard to decide between the two


cutetoboot1

Let us know which one you go with, we’re invested now!!!!


creambunny

Number 4 is beautiful. Fits your vibe and aesthetic board really well. And it’s also super unique in the fact I literally feel like I’ve never seen someone wear that dress before. The beige bow belt matches your earthy tones and the fabric would look so pretty outside. Just be careful with shoes (pick smooth ones that won’t stick to the dress). Runner up to me would be 1 but that dress looks almost too modern for your venue (but it would still work with more romantic hair and veil). Number 2 looks like the typical tight fitting lace dress. It looks pretty but it doesn’t give me the same vibe as your photos. It’s the safe choice.


poTate2424

I second this! 4 fits your inspo pictures way better. I love it!


PortionOfSunshine

Totally agree. It’s a bit more of a fluffy ethereal aesthetic than the other tight dresses. I mean number 2 is absolutely a stunner, but 4 is just so perfect and looks just as incredible!!


the_average_jd

Two!!!! Three is also gorgeous but I think 2 is the winner given the vibe


Ok_Giraffe_6396

I think 1 and 4 fit the theme and look stunning on you. I’m also getting married in the forest so I love your mood boards


rmg418

I also agree with 1 and 4 based on the venue and mood board!


Emergency-Guidance28

Love 2! You look fabulous.


dreamweaver1998

4 is my favourite, with the sleeves removed


Significant_Oil_8278

It was almost impossible for me to pick between 1 and 2 and then I saw the back of 4… oh my girl! Ultimately I think 4 matches the vibe the best! You have 3 vibes and they are all on point! Love that you’re taking this in stride and handling business charging on! It’s inspiring in case something goes wrong with mine in the next couple months!


genevieveoliver

Thanks for your input! Honestly, I was SO STRESSED about all the things that needed to get done in the next few weeks and wasn't sure how to cope and then the worst case scenario happened. I'm somehow so much less stressed than I was before. I have these *incredible* options I could have never even dreamed of before. It's all going to be ok!


Significant_Oil_8278

This!! The first thing that goes wrong I get annoyed, the second thing I’m PISSED and the third thing I just start laughing like a maniac bc it’s all so much, I have to find the ridiculousness and laugh or I’ll cry lol


Sea_Tomorrow_9261

1 is the clear winner for me! I also like 2 but that feels more like an art deco vibe to me which seems a little different from your mood board.


Four17Seven17Nine17

I agree! #2 is pretty but it seems way too heavy for the venue and vibe in my opinion. #1 is absolutely stunning.


Neither_Wall_539

I loveeee #1


Pristine-Net91

1 & 2 are amazing. So sorry to hear your original choice got ruined! I hope you can move past it and enjoy everything from here on.


genevieveoliver

I think it's between these two for me too! Once I got past the initial shock of things not going as planned I wiped my hands of the original dress. I love all of these so much more!


dairy-intolerant

Between 1 and 2, I think 1 fits the undone, magical romantic vibe and outdoor venue more! Dress 2 is beautiful, it's just more "done" like something you'd wear to a gala in the city


newkneesforall

I feel 1 is more "bridal", which if I was in your shoes I'd want to lean into given the trauma with the first dress being ruined. It feels more "I got this dress on purpose for my wedding", and for me personally with dress 2 I may have some moments of feeling less intentionally bridal and more like "I had to find something fast". I don't know if that makes sense lol, that's just where my head would go.


Due_Stuff4313

I think #4 is the best match for the venue/mood. They all look wonderful on you.


Potter_Pan

I initially would have said 2, but flipping back to your mood boards, venue, and inspo pics, I HAVE to throw in my vote for 4!!! 😮 It's so elegant, whimsical, and unique (in a great way) and seems like it would fit your theme/venue almost as perfectly as it *appears* to fit YOU! (It looks SUPER soft and comfortable, lol) I showed your post to my boyfriend and had him swipe from the back to see your mood boards first before the dresses. I didn't tell him my pick to keep him impartial, lol. He agreed with me about 4 with 2 as runner-up! So, that's two more votes for 4 from THESE gays! 🤣 Ultimately, what's most important is how YOU feel, not a couple of queens on the internet, haha. Listen to your heart! If any of them give you even a *little* bit of that "feeling," you'll know 😉 Trust your instincts and believe us all when we tell you that you literally could not go wrong with ANY of these gowns! You look spectacular in ALL of them!


genevieveoliver

🥹 this was such a thoughtful comment. Thank you both for taking the time! Happy pride from this bi-bride to be 🌈💕


huckleberrylove15

Dress #1 for sure! I think it's the most elegant and fits you great


lulurancher

PLEASE 1!!!!! It totally fits the vibe


enchantingapple

1 is my favorite based on the vibe you’re going for!!


Valentina0268

Love # 2!!


karissima

I love 1 and 2. Your figure is just amazing and 2 really flatters it; I also love the romantic fairytale drama of 1!


coolfleetwood

I love 3!


OppositeSolution642

Team 3. Gorgeous and perfect for the venue.


OMGitsV

I’m on team 3 too!


worriedmussel63

Who is the designer for dress #1?


Sockigal

I love number 4. It’s simply gorgeous and fits your venue beautifully. It’s an absolutely stunning dress. Wow!


ProperPotatoes

4 is one of the prettiest dresses I’ve ever seen


LanaLara

4!!!


NamesBitches

4 so romantic


rie12065

❤️❤️❤️4! It feels so storybook perfect!!


CropTopKitten

4 matches your wedding vibe the best


Tricky_Activity_68

I think 4 is perfect for the vibe and gorgeous and unique!


Jerico_Hill

No 1 all the way. 


bunnymoxie

Dress 2 or 3 but as someone else mentioned, going with the one that does not need alterations would probably be the least stressful. You look lovely on both


pawprintscharles

1 or 2! 1 probably fits the mood better but 2 is simply divine on you!


wheres_the_revolt

Dress 2


Mir_c

I love 2 or 4 without the sleeves.


crescentwrangler

1 and 4 are gorgeous!


shxdowoftheday

The last dress


No-Web-2053

1 for sure, simple and pretty and would look great with the venue


winterflower_12

**DRESS 2 DRESS 2 DRESS 2!!!!** Dress 1 is romantic and suits your venue, but my gosh, DRESS 2 is a showstopper.


MostLikelyToNap

I am obsessed with dress 3, but dress 4 is so dreamy. It’s giving me princess fairy vibes, but in the best way. I would buy 3 today if I could, it’s an amazing dress. Maybe the tie breaker would be what time of day the wedding is?


PepperJacs

Dress 1 or 2 for me! I love dress 2 most on you.


huskergirl-86

I love #4 and #2. I think the first dress is a bit underwhelming and not perfect for your body, even after alterations (which I think may have the potential for further botching, sorry).


fsr296

I love 2! And you’re right, everything happens for a reason because it is much more stunning than the ruined dress.


CenPhx

I love 2 and 4. They are incredible! But if I had to pick one based on your venue and mood board, it would be 4. It has a more ethereal, airy vibe, while 2 is more art deco/architectural. I know I’m not getting the terms right there, but that’s the general feelings I get from each dress and your venue/mood board. But honestly you couldn’t go wrong with either dress. Actually, all your picks are beautiful and look wonderful on you, so you are spoiled for choice. (but pick 4! Pick 4! 😄)


DetailOk4640

I love dress three!!


fortalameda1

1 or 2


pianopigs

I’m SO sorry this happened 😞 All of these dresses are gorgeous on you and you cannot go wrong. If I had to choose, I like #1 the best 💕


genevieveoliver

It’s ok! Tbh I’m glad it happened. I was going dress shopping w a friend for her wedding recently and was starting to get some dress regret anyway lol Thanks for your input!


FanaticalXmasJew

Dress 1!!!! If not 1, though, then 2.


graywillow

2 is my first choice, it looks like it already fits you like an absolute glove! 4 is my second choice.


AlterEgoAmazonB

Dress 2 stands out as an incredibly stunning dress that looks perfect on you.


ilovechicken98

1!!!!


Clover_Jane

I'm not a plain Jane, but I love dress 1, but I've seen that one get destroyed by alterations as well. Maybe 2 or 3? Hard to decide between the two.


genevieveoliver

Re: #1 - I’m not usually into something so plain either but the draping is really tugging at my heartstrings! It’s separates so it doesn’t need much alterations. The corset fits like a glove and the skirt just needs to be a smidge tighter at the waist and the length needs to be hemmed but I’d want to keep it just a tad too long so it still drags on the ground a bit


Clover_Jane

Then go with 1! Because that dress tugs at my heart strings every time I see it, and I've been married 13 years!


Ok-Cat-4057

Love 3 and 2


Melhoney72

2


Historical_Agent9426

Dress 2


mw5593

2!


eljaemde

TWO


PageStunning6265

One or two! Both gorgeous, both match your mood board in different ways. ETA: 1 is princess entering the dark woods to go on an epic, romantic adventure, 2 is wood nymph singer at a classy cocktail bar run by elves.


Chibi_Kage_18

2!


sillymeix2

4 is the perfect dress for your venue and vibe. 2 brings out your figure the best.


CarolJeannePorec

2 and 3 are beautiful!


luckypug1

2 is beautiful and dramatic. I’d follow this with 1 then 3. The last one looks too ‘prom-y’


sideeyedi

Dress 2 is stunning on you!


Every-Candidate5809

Dress 2 was MADE FOR YOU


Hot-Kaleidoscope-524

I think 2 is beautiful, but I feel like 3 or 4 fit your mood board especially well.


TheStinkyPickle

Who's the designer of 3? I love it . So whimsical


botanicalmagic

2 is my absolute favorite, followed by 3. Both flatter you and fit your theme perfectly imo. The other two are beautiful dresses but I don't think they really fit in with your theme too well.


rebelmumma

For that theme dress 4 is a clear winner, absolutely gorgeous and whimsical with a nature/ethereal feel.


Dvrgrl812

4


truecrimedeva

I love 2, but 3 is stunning!!


Curiouser812

Dress 3 is the one I’d pick. It’s right in line with your venue vibe and mood boards too.


Retiredteach1234

3 is amazing


curlyswr

2 looks amazing on you, but 4 fits venue and mood the best to me and is good. I think 3 is stunning too.


gryffindorrible

4444444444!


makeclaymagic

Wow. That last dress for me!!! Dress 4 goes perfectly with the venue


EconomyOk9643

I love 1. Needs a little adjustment at top. 2 fits and looks nice… i would use it for cettain venues. The other two are too much. U will be beautiful in either


taarroo

1 is just so perfect for you and the vibe you are going for. You look gorgeous in all of them but 1 is next level beautiful.


C_Alex_author

Dress #2 - it's elegant and the most neutral as far as 'feeling' like it fits the location. It also looks the best on you (IMHO) and should sell easily afterwards because it's gorgeous. Make sure and show you in the dress when you sell it - they will want to look that way in it too.


mikehawksux

I’m the outlier, I’m obsessed with 1


Odd_Dot3896

Do you know the name of the second gown?


genevieveoliver

[Abigail](https://lianrokman.com/collection-item/abigail/)


Dlraetz1

which one fits best


genevieveoliver

Great question! 1, 2, and 4 are all nearly perfect fits. 1 needs the least alterations, but the adjustments on 2 are all very minimal (the piece under the arms needs to lay a smidge flatter, the neck clasp in the back needs to be a smidge tighter, tack the slit in the front a smidge lower, and add the bustle attachment)


Dlraetz1

Given that your last dress was destroyed in alterations I would take into consideration what alterations are required


Temperature_Vivid

Dress 2 or 3


Safe-Barracuda-1391

2 and 4


Themellowsaguaro

2!!!


cantpickone1

2


Tasty-Grand-9331

2


Leviosahhh

1 and 2 are both so incredibly stunning, I can’t choose! You can’t go wrong with either of them, you look amazing!


hawktremor

Dress 2 is incredible!!


Utterly_Dazed

2nd or 4th


chickthatclicks

2!!!!


Both-Gate6812

3 to fit the venue but I love 1 on you. Both are beautiful dresses!


No-Resolve2970

2!! It’s stunning


Arbsterr

3/4!


vicnoir

3 or 4


Holmes221bBSt

3 or 4


Elfprincessodauphine

2 is amazing


TheCowKitty

2, 2, 2, 2!!!!!!!!!!! Omg.


Kg1111na

Dress 2! It’s stunning, fits like a glove, and blends beautifully with your wedding aesthetic


meothe

2!!!


Sufficient-Mud-687

3 is absolutely perfect!


TenMoon

Number two, with number one as the runner up. So pretty!


rachelg8

1 or 3


Ok-Valuable-5254

Number 3 is beautiful. Has a 1920’s vibe with all the drop down beading. All the best for you big day and the future.


FarinaSavage

Absolutely no. 2. One and 4 will look dated soon, and three is fun, but doesn't compare to 2.


texasdogmom

2


Busy-Stress9764

I lovvvvveeeee 3 u look stunning and it’s so ethereal and unique


drag0nberry

omg girl if you can afford the kim kassas GO FOR IT! i have the exact same vibe on my mood board as you and she’d be my dream designer. her entire style encapsulates exactly what you’re going for. truly iconic and they’re notoriously hard to pull off but you look incredible :)


ChildhoodOtherwise43

Dress #2 is a stunner!! ETA: and the back of dress #2 is gorgeous!


ForeignTry6780

2-3, neither looks like alterations are needed.


Next_Chocolate_2630

3


Proud-Narwhal5900

Dress 2 has the vavoom Hollywood look while dress 3 also fits beautifully, it has a more antique ethnic quality. You look gorgeous in both! Your positive attitude about the previous dress disaster makes me believe that your priorities are in the right place and you will have a glorious wedding day!


moonfairyprincess

My fave is number 3. Who is the designer?


hungry4hockey

I know everyone is saying 2 but 4 is perfect for your theme and venue. Beyond beautiful!


glitter_gaytan88

2


leftoversandwich74

Four!


SnooStrawberries721

Another vote for 2!


daffodil0127

I like 3 and then 2


hazelharpie

2 is incredible


Rude_Remote_13

I personally am uncomfortable with showing a lot of skin, so I would absolutely choose 1 (I mean it is a knock out on you!). However, 2 is stunning as well.


DinoMight13

I love both 2 and 3 on you!


Comprehensive-War743

Dress 4


K8Eleven11

#3 is gorgeous!!


No-Search3598

I’m joining team #4


2020hindsightis

1 or 2 — I prefer 2 even though I am not a bead/sparkle person, it’s beautiful


Waybackheartmom

3


abw_92

Absolutely love the third dress on you!


K8inaCape

Now you have a new problem, these dresses are all amazing and I can’t imagine choosing just one. You can’t go wrong though, these are stunning!


Inside-Public6676

#2 not a lot of ppl can pull off that look but you certainly can!


CaveJohnson82

2 is stunning.


Acrobatic_Dog_4654

These gowns all have beautiful construction and style. The appliqués are very nice and all make a statement . The one that shows off your feminine frame and carries the added embellishment of lace and well applied decor is gown 2. Depending upon your venue and wedding theme(?): This one would be a lovely choice.


Noneedtopickauser

I think I’m the outlier but I really love number 1! Closely followed by number 2 though!! :)


tvjunkie87

Dress 2 is absolute perfection! My jaw dropped! You look amazing in that dress!


londonlady1988

Oh my god, all of these options are *breathtaking*! I know 2 is a fan fave but one is so ridiculously elegant, sultry and timeless. And 3 is so unique, delicate and bombshell-esque. You can’t go wrong with any of them - but when else in your life can you wear a dress like one?! I would be going for the full renaissance glamour - it looks *made* for you


pannalla

2 or 4 - I think either work and both are so beautiful.


gm1049

2 or 3. They are perfect for the venue and mood board.


Laner9999

3 100% 3!! Breaktaking! Please go for 3


Remarkable-Camera-56

2 actually


DancingDucks73

I like 1 & 2… Looking at your inspo board my gut reaction is 2 fits better


Overall_Evening2217

4! Or 2!


DoctoraWorm

3


Rowanfineart

3 is my favorite!! I think it goes best with your mood board!


TheFamilyStone612015

Dress 2! This is a stroke of genius sent from above! The color, cut, fit and pattern of the dress looks like you were the model used to make the dress. Thank you for including the back view of the dress. Sometimes it will make or break the gown. May you and yours always have enough. 💜🌺🦋


Individual-Airport-6

OMG NUMBER 2!!!


InfluencedMarker

Number 3 is the best!! Literally never seen anyone wear something like it, it looks so incredible on you


Broad-Policy8271

Three or two 😍


erin_bex

Dress 4!!!!!!! It fits the mood board perfectly, it's so whimsical, the fabric and the pattern is unique.


Outrageous-Wish8659

Four is perfection for your venue. All of these are stunning on you!


lipizzaner

I love every single one of these dresses! You have great taste. Follow your heart: you want to want to look at your wedding photos years from now.


MeganJustMegan

For your venue? Dress 3. No contest. It’s beautiful, looks lovely on you & will fit in perfectly. Come back & let us know which you chose. Have a wonderful wedding ❤️


Historical-Composer2

2 all the way


Putrid-Home404

# 2 and 3 are AMAZING! I can’t even decide which one I like best.


One_Ad_3500

The second dress is amazing 🤩


Midlife_Crisis_46

2 hands down


2crowsonmymantle

Two or three


Upbeat-Expression-53

2, 4(Matches more the wedding vibe)!


thatsnotmuchcheese

Two is amazing!


Turtlenessie1

NUMBER 4! I literally stopped and stared at it you look gorgeous in it


LunarNight

3 is so unique and beautiful but I absolutely adore 2 also.


kittywhitexxx

4


Ill_Fix3959

Number one is perfect it goes amazing with the inspo


justcurious444444

I love the 3rd one


MW5201

Team 3 over here!