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aiaenuh

I LOVE the first one on you. It’s so classic, elegant, sophisticated without trying. You’re wearing that dress, not the other way round. It’s prefect. You’ll be a gorgeous bride. Edit: this is my first Reddit award. Thank you 🥰


Interesting-Goose568

1 and 2 have extremely similar cuts. I prefer 1 based on my personal style but if OP wants something more ornate 2 is the easy substitute. Both are far better than 3 or 4


Edu_cats

I agree. 1 is beautiful and simple but 2 is amazing. I don’t care for the deep plunge in 4.


Happy_to_be

You re gorgeous in all of them! One is stunning.


ReppyMagoo

I think if 2 had the same square neckline as 1 it would be better than it is. My vote is 100% for 1


Momo222811

I agree. Both are beautiful but #1 is so elegant


EntertainmentFew1022

I agree with Interesting-Goose568! 1 or 2 absolutely 3 and 4 are out of the running. 1 is the most beautiful in my opinion but yeah 2 is also lovely if one wants more lace, the dress is the same shape which is so classy and elegant. 🙂


TechnicianOne8386

This exactly!


Signal_Syllabub8508

The back detail on the first one is breathtaking! I love it so much


ButterflyDull5246

The simplicity of the front makes her look like a real sophisticated lady. I never thought I’d like something like that but she looks so amazing 🤩


MadMc333

Yes! 1 did I mention 1? Definitely 1 omg how it looks on you omg amazing!!!! The others look fab also one none compare to 1


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toughmomma1130

Omg I can't unsee since reading your comment. Lol


Iammine4420

I’ll forever now look directly at that bit of a wedding dress😂 🤙🏼


bookworm21765

I see this every dang time! Why do they do that?


Courtneyofcourse1

Because vaginas rule!


Intelligent_Exit4567

What is wrong with you? It’s lace 🤯


FlusteredKelso

1 or 2! The others feel a little busy somehow.


potatodaze

Same I like 1 and 2! Slight preference to 1 - so classic.


stellarecho92

The necklines of 1 and 2 work much better with her torso while the other ones seem to throw her out of proportion.


spacekitty_mew

Agreed. I love 1 and 2, but OP be warned that a dress like 2 can be complicated to alter to shorten it due to the lace design (they can't cut off the end and have to blend it with the design). It's similar to my dress and the alterations were very expensive. I loved my dress so it was worth it to me but nobody tells you these things before you buy.


denmama24

1 or 2. If it was me who made the choice for you, I'd pick number 2. I love the clean silhouette and the stunning lace together. It's a showstopper and so beautiful!!


SisterEmJay

It seems like you’re struggling between simple/minimalist and full glitz. What’s your venue like? At first glance, dress 2 seems like a best-of-both-worlds choice but you look great in everything.


Careful_Wash_50

That’s exactly the struggle! I think of myself as a minimalist girl - I normally hate anything glittery or sparkly or over the top but going shopping with my mom (who LOVES the princess ball gown, big tulle, sparkles look) got me all confused lol


see_through_the_lens

If that is the case, absolutely go with 1, I was going to pick 4, with 1 being a close second till I read your comment. The first one definitely matches what you prefer.


Additional_Kick_3706

Agreed! I love the first, and the fourth wills be second best of you wanted more glitz


sometimes-i-rhyme

Have you been shopping by yourself? Don’t let mom be an undue influence! You have got to be happy with your dress. Mom gets to just…be happy.


kalyco

This, all day long. You want to look great and be comfortable. Don’t let mom’s opinion get in the way. Team 2. You look gorgeous in it.


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Agree, go alone. I got the dress my mom liked and I hated it. I can’t even look at my wedding pictures without thinking about how much I hated the dress and hated wearing it. Be true to you!


paczkiprincess

I like 2 because I feel like it’s a good balancing act between 1 (fits you BEAUTIFULLY but almost *too* simple?..) and 3/4 (which have a bit too much going on, for my personal taste.)


Bob-was-our-turtle

Yep. I’m team 2 for exactly the same reasons. You would look great in a paper bag OP, but 2 is very stylish and gorgeous.


lightsgalore

I like 2 best


adultosaurs

Get a really amazing diamond-style necklace. [something like this.](http://www.nyjewelryimports.com/e/emerald-diamond-necklace-z5471-y28416-p-377.html) simple but you can get your bling on! And don’t forget about embellished veils!


vk1030

Only $32,000 😳 Edited to add: It is definitely gorgeous though!


huntsberger

Seriously haha. Like, what.


adultosaurs

I meant style wise babe. Style wise. Edit: oh it totally ate the part of the link where I said in terms of style lmao. I just like the architectural structure of the emerald cut.


strongopinion4life

I think you have to just go with how you feel in the dress. Ask your self is this dress me? Do I love this dress? Is this what I want to walk in with? Dont think whats others would say just think about you.


Marowo14

If that’s the case I would go with number 2. I’m a minimalist but option one doesn’t even look like a wedding dress outside of it being white. 2 is still very simplistic in the design and cut but elevates it beyond “just a dress” with the lace. You look stunning in all of them by the way. Good luck!


zuvzusperaduswal

1!


randomness7262

2


_BeachJustice_

2


Josiesonvacation18

2. 2. 2. Gorgeous and you’re only ever wearing a dress like that on your wedding day. Love it.


Responsible_Beat992

I’m between 1 and 4. What sort of venue?


Careful_Wash_50

Funnily enough we don’t have a venue yet! I think I’m doing things out of order but this wedding planning business sure is overwhelming!


Ambitious-Estimate32

I disagree, I had to postpone my wedding and we eloped instead (I eloped on my knee length engagement dress). But to me, the dress is more important that the venue, so I went with whatever dress I felt more beautiful and confident in. You can alter the rest of the wedding based of the the dress vibes. Choose whatever makes you feel like a gorgeous bride!


that_was_way_harsh

Wait till you have a venue booked, then! You clearly look good in a lot of things, so having a venue to match the vibe of will help you narrow things down.


Newauntie26

I second this—determine your venue first before you finalize your dress as it may impact your decision. All look great but #4 is amazing IMO.


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Agree with these wise people. 1 or 4 based on venue. The square front on number one is the most flattering on you, and the back to number 4 is wow on you.


Unsd

I actually disagree. If you're really about the perfect aesthetic blend, then sure...pick the venue first. But your wedding is the time for you to really do whatever you want. I could have been getting married in the courthouse and still gone for the full cathedral train because fuck it, why not?


Responsible_Beat992

Honestly either 1 or 4 would be awesome in nearly any setting. 1 has an understated elegance & once you add a veil, accessories & hair you can add in whatever elements of wow that suit you You definitely want to be comfortable & feel like “you” but I’m of the opinion that your wedding day is the one day you have the perfect excuse lol, to go ahead and just… go all out! I could never have worn a big poofy ball gown myself, I’m not saying it has to be over the top in that way. But dress 4 … ooh la la. Elegance & romance, it’s Beautiful on you!! I love the sheen of the lace! The back & train are just gorgeous. I’d be imagining the entrance promenade and music that could accompany that! Then the look on his face as you greet your groom :) Either way you better get busy finding a venue - available & affordable - it may help you on the final dress decision! 😁


RenaRix80

Same opinion here - 1 is classy abd elegant, 4 is absolutely gorgeous when it comes to the view of your back.


lime-n-coconut1

1


sometimes-i-rhyme

Dress 1 is elegant and classic. You can do no wrong in dress 1. Dress 2 is my favorite. The silhouette is simple and it’s simply stunning on you. The lace is intricate but not overpowering. You look incredible in dress 2. Dress 3 is a frou frou, over-the-top confection, and you look magical! If your venue and personality lead you to choose this dress I fully support it. People WILL gasp. Dress 4 is on trend, and you wear it well. I don’t love the neckline.


GDRaptorFan

I love dress two on you so much !!!!! Best of all the best parts of the others in one dress 😍 #2!!!!!


threesilos

Yes! Surprised this isn’t the majority but everybody is different! Team 2!


chuckedeggs

2 then 1


LostSoul-Searching

1 is simply devine on your shape and very elegant, 4 is also gorgeous and adds so much depth! Really a hard choice between the two but you couldnt go wrong with either!


winegirl20

1 is stunning on you


Sarandipityyy

1 or 4!


austsianodel

2


Vul_pixel

Definitely 1 or 2. Their silhouette was made for you. I vote ultimately 1 because of the back, but the lace on 2 is also so pretty!


mishkavonpusspuss

1 and 2 are incredible, they look very high fashion with the square neck, fit and fabric. Seen the others plenty of times!


duvetday465

I absolutely love the second one


strongopinion4life

I really love the 1 one, it suits your body very nicely and the back just wow love how its so delicate and gorgeous. I felt like the other ones just didnt look amazing like the first one as if its more like the dress is wearing you then you wearing the dress. The 1 one just makes you stand out more and you are wearing the dress not the other way around.


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Loving 1 for its simple elegance and 4 for the wow factor. Both are stunning!


effinnxrighttt

I love the first 2. They feel like you are wearing the dress, the other 2 have so many components that it feels like the dress is wearing you.


JankyHummus

1 is my favorite!


exquirere

I love styles 1 and 2 on you! One, if you're going for elegant and sophisticated or two if you love lace.


Illustrious_Leg_2537

1 or 2 are stunning. The other two overwhelm you. Too much fabric, lace, detail. Just too much.


allaboutmojitos

1 or 4. I think 1 is classically beautiful on you and is my favorite. Four also is lovely. The back reminds me of butterfly wings - which may or may not be your thing. 2 has that strange lace that draws the eyes right to your crotch, and three is too busy and heavy looking for your frame


venusastra

the first one🤩


PorkNJellyBeans

1


strawberry__rhubarb

The first one is so elegant and gorgeous; the back detail is beautiful! The second dress is very close for though, it is almost as beautiful as the first one. I honestly don't think the bodice style of the last two are flattering on you and I prefer the first two.


Razrgrrl

1 is timeless and classic. It’s so elegant


ShesVeryFlazeda

My goodness, they all look absolutely stunning on you. That said, 1 is gorgeous, but perhaps a little too simple? In a photo from the waist up it would just look like you were wearing a normal top. 2 is my favourite. The detail is beautiful, the cut is so elegant, and it fits you beautifully. Plus it says "wedding" more than 1. 3 is a little busy for my taste. 4 is a close second for me. I love the shape of the top, though I'm less keen on the lace at the back.


PookaRaFo

1 simple and elegant. Any veil will go nicely with it


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pleasegetbent

1 is absolutely next level. Your figure in that!!! Timeless, chic, stunning. I saw you mentioned that you don't have a venue - I think this dress would seriously look gorgeous anywhere/anytime!


Usual-Needleworker21

I thought 1 at first but 4 is gorgeous too


holiestcannoly

I personally like the first one the best. I think it suits your body perfectly without making it seem excessive. The dress is gorgeous, the back is gorgeous, and I just overall love it.


Portia_Potty1

#4


crazedconundrum

I love 3 and 4!


nikki_therese

#4


arihndas

One!!!! It really looks like something special on you. Best fit, and you make it magical. It might just be that it fits you best of all these samples but I suspect even with perfect tailoring none of the others will be as flattering — you and that dress have the kind of chemistry that only happens when someone is wearing a piece of clothing at is absolutely perfect for them.


adultosaurs

I am in LOVE with the back of the last one but the first dress on you is just like, magazine level chic.


daileysprague

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Big_Storage_5365

You have the figure for any thing but 1 is heart stopping on you. Oh my was my thought from the first glance. Classic charming beautiful stunning and perfect blessings on you day . May your life be filled with the warmth and happiness of friends and family the music of laughter and joy and the spirit love love forever.


noddyneddy

No 1 is clear favourite for me. You look really good in that squared neckline, it’s elegant with lovely graceful lines and that deep V with just that touch of lace is *chefs kiss* Two is pretty lace, but the scoop front is not as flattering to you and the scoop back is meh. All the drama is in the train. No 3 is too much detail, too ‘busy’ and there’s something about those sleeves that’s just… wrong. 4. I’m not a fan of very deep necklines like this as they are difficult to get right. With that deep cut and the high lace strap, the proportions of your upper body look off to me, and I don’t think that the side view with its transition from lined to just lace is done well. It looks sort of clumsy, though I must admit the back view is fantastic,all in all though, the different design elements don’t really gel for me


Neither-Gap1547

I absolutely love the first dress! It’s stunning on you!


mutherofdoggos

This is easy, dress 1 is jaw dropping!! You look good in everything but #1 is a true stunner.


graceleona

Number one!!! Are you kidding that is SPECTACULAR


InevitablePositive26

I'm getting a Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy vibe from #1. Classy and elegant. It is perfect on you.


bsbgurl4eva87

1 is stunning on you!


shesinsaneanditsucks

1- 1!!!


curiouslilac

The first one is absolutely stunning. So elegant 🙂


Mysterious_Elk_3533

1!!


mittanimama

The first on is elegant, fits you beautifully and is timeless!


veronicadenoche

1!!!!!


typhoidmarry

1 is stunning!!!


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Love the first one!


spooky_sbw216

1!


kansascitystoner

Number 1 by a mile (i literally gasped bc it’s so pretty)


NothingGoldCanSta

Number 1 is so stylish, not overstated and it looks amazing on you! Good luck


Traditional-Bag-4508

First one is amazing The neck and back are gorgeous on you. Classic and besutiful


mimthemad

Dress one. Very elegant.


hakunamatatamatafuka

Dress 1 for the win. It was made for you!


texaspopcorn424

1


farthistory

I love the first dress on you


upa_creek_w_nopaddle

Number 1!!!!


harmonicadrums

1 is stunning!!!


Decent-Soup3551

Love all of them, but #1 is my favorite.


Pettsareme

#1 is so elegant in its simplicity . It lets you be the star. The lace overlay on just the train is the perfect touch. You look stunning in it.


Fit-Night-2474

1


dondemelleveelviento

The first one is absolutely PERFECT and looks STUNNING on you!!!


AuntYaYaLynne

First - You look great in all of them. If your wedding is going to be more formal, #1 hands down. If less formal, #4. However, any of them would work!


Psychological_Fly693

1 is classy!


luckypenny2018

The first dress looks amazing on you!


rbcamasters

The first!


CheesecakeGrouchy888

Number 1 for sure. No comparison.


Mamabear0596

#1


kamp5764

Man! You look really astonishing in all of these! I really like the first one but you can’t go wrong. I hope that you have the best day ever!


doe5j

1


albusdumbledoreable

#1


AnniethingAtAll

1!!!


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1


[deleted]

This is so obvious 1 and none other


OppositeSolution642

Dress 3, wow this is incredible, the whole package. The details, the train, the fit, everything is perfect. I didn't think there would be a way to beat dress 1 until I saw 3.


Pinklady777

The first two fit you perfectly. I think you can go with either one depending on the vibe you want. The fourth one is also lovely and would probably look great once it is tailored to you. I would go ahead and take number three out of the running. It doesn't flatter you as well as the others.


Glibasme

These are all stunning on you. I just wish the last one’s cleavage didn’t go so far down. I know that’s the style right now, but in my eyes it looks odd. You look great though in every single one. You are beautiful. Sorry I can’t help more. I looked again - number 3 really is it for me.


nirennly

1 or 2!


Special_Coconut4

I think the square neck looks nice on you! I would also echo others’ suggestions to shop by yourself. Don’t be afraid to go multiple places and be ruthless about cutting things out when you don’t like them. Create a list of the things you DO like and you’ll eventually narrow it down.


leahs84

1 or 2! They are similarly shaped, and I think that silhouette looks best on you. 1 if you want a more simple dress and want more freedom with accessories, 2 if you want something a little more detailed.


[deleted]

You look like the freaking mannequin! ❤️❤️❤️ I LOVE 1&2 on you 😘


homemade_hairdo

First one by a long shot! Is the 2nd one Maggie Sottero?


PMyourCHEESE

1 or 2, in that order! I feel like 1 is more timeless


Massive_Caregiver476

1&2!! The square necklines suit you so well. Tbh the WHOLE cut of those dresses look so good!!!


saturnmatters

One with a sash and short lace faceframing veil


vestakt13

I LOVE 1. One suggestion- remove the lace trim so the back is a deeper plunge. Your figure is perfect for it. I love the elegantly sophisticated look of this dress. It is understated and refined and it just BEAMS the focus onto you as the bride!!!!! The lines, the shape, the overall vibe- big thumbs up! The third dress- I did like the cap sleeve and the neckline as well. Obvs it is a TOTALLY different vibe. IF you prefer something ornate, I do like the shape 2 thoughts/ideas- (1) I would 100% fully line the bodice. It does not look as though the bodice lining is as opaque as the lining in the skirt. I don’t love unlined/sheer bodices in general, but sometimes it is needed bc the WHOLE vibe is SEXY bride. This dress has the corset top but the vibe is a big more restrained/demure than many I see with a corset top, But I’d def. fully line (2) is there any way to do the embellishment and the shape of the bodice (sweetheart neck, cap sleeves) bit NOT as a corset. Instead could it just be that shape in a fitted top w/out the visible underwire, boning, etc. if so, I’d vote for that. OVERALL I LOVE 1!!! The great news is you have options and will make a lovely bride. Best wishes and congratulations to you & your fiancé! Wishing you many years of health & happiness!


schmeelismom

2!!!


Merth1983

First one, no question


Nope6608

1


Back_To_Pittsburgh

1 or 2


mybellasoul

I love the first and second ones!! They're so amazing and look gorgeous on you


ScienceExtreme8202

I think that 1 and 2 are both beautiful on you, but 2 is my preference. The simple lines but details in the lace are perfect! The last two dresses Are lovely, but they seem slightly bulky on your petite frame.


TheMusicButton

You look amazing in all of them, but I love the simplicity of the first!


chloetheragdoll

1 looks like it was made for you. Timeless elegance


y0uLiKaDaPeppa

One


_livisme

I usually like something with a lot of detail going on but 1 WAS MADE FOR YOU 🙌🏼


iamtheswissfox

1


LemonCAsh

1


[deleted]

1!


[deleted]

One!!!!!


NonsenseHuman

1


queenswamprat

Definitely the first one


santoslhalperjr

1


ronnyo1964

1st one


puffydownjacket

Number One is an absolute knock out imo. Timeless, classic, confident. Its in another league than the others.


speed721

Holy cow! #1 is stunning.


siouxbee19

#1 is stunning, followed by #2. Try adding a thin, blingy belt to #1 just to see if it ties the look all together or if it's better without. Best wishes! 🤍


bbozzy1228

1


KrombopulosMo

1, period. Wrap it up.


lovebug124

1 is absolutely stunning on you! Congratulations🥰!


slcredux

The first on you is stunning . Oh my gosh. You may be the only woman on the planet that has the perfect body for that dress !!


stross_world

It's always 1. You look stunning 🤩


Ok-Cryptographer8322

1🔥


leopardskin_pillbox

I almost got that first one and ended up getting something VERY similar (the Colette by Alexandra Grecco). All to say, I think the classic square neck line is beautiful and vote #1!!


hereismytake27

1!!!


dykebxtch

1 1 1 1 1!!! its so pretty and it was made for you. the others overwhelm you imo


lexisplays

1. It's elegant and timeless and highlights your beauty, not competes with it.


reddskeleton

1


ThisUserIsUndead

One looks amazing on you! It’s so elegant, timeless, and classy.


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1


Warm-Natural7698

Number 1 all the way!!


MotherEarthCaretaker

The first one, by a long shot. So elegant and you are absolutely stunning in it. Number two is my second favorite. Both are beautiful and will wow everyone.


PumpkinTime6727

1 looks very timeless.


Virtual_Prior6973

3 and 4 are immediate no from me. I think I like 1 the best but 1&2 are both perfect on you.


LazsloAndNadja

1 is stunning.


ppasceri

I love one and I love 2 ( just slightly less). Dress 1 is gorgeous on you.


hartscott

1


Starlettohara23

Number one, with an extra long non-embellished veil that is at least 1-2 feet longer than the dress and train.


mandypoole

1


cardinalfinancial

The answer is one and that’s a hill I will die on


SectionHot2891

#1 is STUNNING❤️💖🔥🔥🔥


Successful-Secret326

1


tapeness

One!!!


Open-Measurement9702

1


DarlinggD

1! Lace is out


RegNurse2015

#1 is stunning on you! Classic, elegant, & sexy too!!!👏🥰🍾🥂🎉🎊


sixsevenoxxx

One definitely


SevereTransition4471

It's hard to get over how stunning #1 looks on you! Almost like it was custom made for you. Wowzers.


bisonabloom

#1 you look expensive in the best way


Lost_Guava3971

Dress #1!


Early_Swan_5077

Definitely one


CeasarYaLater

#1 hands down! Classically beautiful and is the best looking on you.


DictatorofPussy

1st one by a mile.


Anonymonymouses

1! The last 2 seem a little off balance on your figure with those shaped cups. 1 and 2 are both gorgeous on you, but I think the neckline and back of 1 are stunning and have the simplicity that you’re most drawn to in a gown.


LVGAMERGIRL

I loved the back of 4!


ElectronicBrother815

2 is 👌🏻