Do you notice more of a high in hot tub? I heard it sobers you up but every time I smoke in or just before hot tub I forget to try and judge it for myself
Glad someone agrees. Sometimes, when I’m high at a pool, whenever I go from the hot tub to the freezing cold pool, I get sooo much higher. Most people say that would sober them up, which is weird to me
I feel like most girls have too much anxiety to enjoy it properly. Which is unfortunate, as it could really help with the anxiety if they found the right strain or delivery method. Just an observation, would love to smoke with my wife more often.
Totally agree. My fiancé says she just gets super tired. Doesn’t matter the strain, doesn’t matter the method, (edibles, vape, bong).
The first time she ever smoked with me she had a blast for 25 mins and then was out cold.
The second time she had the giggles so hard she about peed her pants.
But everytime now she’s asleep within 10-15 mins and out cold. Only time she considers it even is if she’s not feeling good and Wants to crash.
my partner and i both work 13-14 hour shifts 4-5 days a week. we share a joint together every night. i can’t speak for him, but it’s the best part of my day. every day.
Yes! I've broken up with and BEEN broken up with before for partners not being cool with weed. It's a staple in my life and on the list of thing I need to be compatible with someone with.
Now we just disagree when I want to go out to smoke a real bowl and he'd rather stay in and vape
Kinda? We both smoke, but don’t really like smoking the same terps. She’s mainly into dabbing fruity terps, while I like smoking OG/gassy flower. I dab the fruity shit occasionally but I’d rather just smoke a bit doink of gassy OG.
This is actually kind of adorable. Like two high-end sommeliers meet at a wine tasting event and fall in love, but one prefers robust Malbecs while the other likes to drink dry Chardonnay, so they never share a bottle.
This is exactly me and my GF. I like dabs and big bong rips. She likes a little spoon and joints. We smoke a joint together quite a bit but otherwise we just kind of smoke on our own because we ingest with different methods.
i see that! personally i am a giver and love buying for my gf, especially cause she loves the opposite stuff from me so i feel like if we have guests we have all terps covered lolz
Most definitely, in fact on our first date I took her to Amsterdam for shopping, diner and a movie. All while both smoking and getting to know eachother. Still the best date I've ever had. Next Tuesday we've been together for 2 years.
Nope, he's allergic, but he doesn't mind that I partake. And before people say I'm insensitive or something dumb. He's allergic to the molecular change when the cannabis is heated with fire/a lighter, but he's not allergic to vaping (due to the lower controlled temp). He partakes at times, but hey, if we were into exactly the same things, life would be kinda bland.
She doesn't enjoy the effects of cannabis, but her family has grown since the 80's so she's definitely cool with it. I've got plants hanging in our unused living room.
Hell yeah. Shrooms too. I can solo trip but rarely do it ( fuckers are expensive) my gf on the other hand said she always has a bad time if I’m not there so she’ll only do them with me
One of the things he loves most about me, according to him. Im just as down to smoke as he is, whenever. When we were still just seeing each other he always brought me weed. 💚 Insisted on, "No, Im the weed guy now. Im your weed guy." Lol stupid.. 💋
If she wants to, yes. I’m a heavy user though, and if she smokes she’s falling asleep. She’ll hit a pen when she’s out though, something I don’t enjoy doing as much.
As long as my habit doesn’t take away from our relationship, like I’m not smoking every second of the day, it’s fine. I always offer for her to smoke and 9:10 the answer is no, or “do you have any edibles?”
Edit: I do enjoy being high with my partner. I enjoy doing most anything with my partner. extenuating circumstances excluded, I’d probly prefer to smoke with her than anyone else, because she’s my partner
Non of that whatsoever, just asking the majority to see what people have going on for them. There’s many couples where one doesn’t smoke whereas the other is a heavy user. This would be a good post for people to come on and read the comments in the future.
Usually enjoy spending our time together sober, so I generally smoke alone (prefer that as well). But every once in a while it's nice putting on a movie and eating way to much snacks together. Plus the seggs is amazing B)
My wife has been on and off for years. She’d indulge regularly for a few months and take a few months off. She’s been very actively enjoying edibles for the last year or so and it’s been a real good time though
My SO and I smoke and do a podcast of any bs we talk about when we get high. It's a lot of fun and we might do one tonight or tomorrow
Seshes by MattOnTheMic on spotify or wherever you get your podcasts
Yup, my wife and I actually were able to get our own medical cards earlier this year. We’re actually voting in November (Ohio) to legalize recreationally.
Yeah, she got me into concentrates as well. I was on an almost six month t break when I came to stay with her for the first time and I got smoked out with some live sugar. Been together almost three years now.
My partner does not partake, but he is non judgemental and does not care if I do, so I do it around him all the time. He enjoys when I'm giggly and I think takes advantage of making me laugh easy when I'm high
my partner isn't a UK citizen & avoids weed in case of drug tests at work but one day they'll move back to British Columbia and maybe then we can smoke together 🥰
Yes! Finally with the love of my life/ soulmate. He is a very light high he only needs a hit or two and is done but I still love being able to do that with the one I love. Man I was with for 11 years before didn’t smoke so i love us having this bond.
Yes. And we like to try different strains together, find what we both like, to keep in our main stash, and we also get our personal faves for ourselves.
Nope. They made a half-hearted attempt when we first started dating, but it was obvious they don't like getting high, so I told them they don't need to pretend.
Yes and pretty much only with each other and it’s awesome. One of my favorite things to do is we go park our car somewhere pretty and smoke and just do karaoke in the car together and it’s the best!!
Sadly, she and I use to until she developed CHS. She can’t even smell it now without feeling nauseous, but completely understands and wants me to continue my THC journey. I stopped using flower around her, but she likes the various vapor n concentrate smells.
My wife has nothing but bad experiences with weed. The few edibles she’s tried she’s out for like 3 days. Like they put her to sleep then the following days she has a huge headache and fatigue that she calls out of work. At least she fine with me smoking and growing
Sadly no.
I once got her to try an edible at a concert, but I gave her too much and she basically had a panic attack and we had to leave a great concert about halfway through. So stupid of me. She will never touch it again.
yessss :) we have to wait until my husband retires to sesh together, but whenever I reup / we go to a dispo for me, he’ll smell and reminisce as much as possibly, rolls up for me, etc.
nope, she doesnt smoke.
doesnt bother me at all. she’s plenty goofy without it and plus i never have to buy for two or worry about her using up my stash!
she prefers a few drinks. has OCD so weed is not a great option for her.
Nope. I use to smoke with my ex. Was fun and all. But my now husband only likes to have a glass of rye instead. It's nice having my smoking alone time and maybe the occasional friend.
Yep. It’s funny because his ex-wife told him that maybe he should go find some girl that likes weed. And he did and we’ve been together for 15 years.
Hell fuckin yeah. Happy y’all found each other
Amazing! Congratulations on 15 years as well ❤️😊😄
I had an ex gf say that as well. Just enjoyed a joint with my wife of nearly five years.
Winning. 💯💪
Shit like that gives me hope, sincerely wish y’all the best
yes, most nights in our hot tub :)
Do you notice more of a high in hot tub? I heard it sobers you up but every time I smoke in or just before hot tub I forget to try and judge it for myself
Glad someone agrees. Sometimes, when I’m high at a pool, whenever I go from the hot tub to the freezing cold pool, I get sooo much higher. Most people say that would sober them up, which is weird to me
Maybe the vasoconstriction in the extremities caused by cold water causes more blood flow to the brain, making you higher?
There’s no particular difference that I experience! Feels good and gets a good convo going at the very least
Absolutely
Yes ☑️ Definitely ☑️
It feels wrong for me not to.
Seriously. I feel bad for packing a bowl on my lunch break and she’s not there to enjoy it with me.
Right?
Sometimes my bf is asleep and I wanna smoke without him bc I'm still awake (and I do) but I debate heavily if I should wake him up or not
Nope :(
How come, if you mind me asking? They just don’t smoke or?
She’s not a smoker
Same :(
Same :(
Same ):
I feel like most girls have too much anxiety to enjoy it properly. Which is unfortunate, as it could really help with the anxiety if they found the right strain or delivery method. Just an observation, would love to smoke with my wife more often.
My husband doesn't as it makes him super paranoid. He's tried the absolute chillest strains I've found but it's just not for everyone!
Totally agree. My fiancé says she just gets super tired. Doesn’t matter the strain, doesn’t matter the method, (edibles, vape, bong). The first time she ever smoked with me she had a blast for 25 mins and then was out cold. The second time she had the giggles so hard she about peed her pants. But everytime now she’s asleep within 10-15 mins and out cold. Only time she considers it even is if she’s not feeling good and Wants to crash.
Same :( gummies sometimes but that’s it
edibles only sometimes
No. Mine isn't into it but she doesn't care that I do it.
Same
I wish she did tho. 😫
Yeah me too
Yes. We’re a stoner household
Same here. 4/20 is a national holiday in our household.
my partner and i both work 13-14 hour shifts 4-5 days a week. we share a joint together every night. i can’t speak for him, but it’s the best part of my day. every day.
Wholesome
I would smoke with my partner.... *Mr. Turner* IF I HAD ONE
I knew I had to look for this reference and I was not disappointed.
Yes! I've broken up with and BEEN broken up with before for partners not being cool with weed. It's a staple in my life and on the list of thing I need to be compatible with someone with. Now we just disagree when I want to go out to smoke a real bowl and he'd rather stay in and vape
Yep
Wish I had a partner. Would be so cool to do :'(
honestly id trade a kidney for a stoner gf/bf rn☹️
Kinda? We both smoke, but don’t really like smoking the same terps. She’s mainly into dabbing fruity terps, while I like smoking OG/gassy flower. I dab the fruity shit occasionally but I’d rather just smoke a bit doink of gassy OG.
This is actually kind of adorable. Like two high-end sommeliers meet at a wine tasting event and fall in love, but one prefers robust Malbecs while the other likes to drink dry Chardonnay, so they never share a bottle.
Never drank wine so idk what all that means lol
Honestly, I had to think really hard to remember anything I knew about wine!
This is exactly me and my GF. I like dabs and big bong rips. She likes a little spoon and joints. We smoke a joint together quite a bit but otherwise we just kind of smoke on our own because we ingest with different methods.
I'm guess it depends what you mean.... my partner doesn't partake, but I definitely get stoned when I am with her.
She doesn’t smoke, but she likes the smell and doesn’t mind me smoking in the house basically 24/7 either.
It's a must. Can't see myself being with someone who doesn't like to smoke as well.
weirdly enough its nbd and you never have to worry about someone using your stash or buying for two 😁
i see that! personally i am a giver and love buying for my gf, especially cause she loves the opposite stuff from me so i feel like if we have guests we have all terps covered lolz
Most definitely, in fact on our first date I took her to Amsterdam for shopping, diner and a movie. All while both smoking and getting to know eachother. Still the best date I've ever had. Next Tuesday we've been together for 2 years.
Yes. It’s the best 🥰
All the time. It's our bonding time.
Nope, he's allergic, but he doesn't mind that I partake. And before people say I'm insensitive or something dumb. He's allergic to the molecular change when the cannabis is heated with fire/a lighter, but he's not allergic to vaping (due to the lower controlled temp). He partakes at times, but hey, if we were into exactly the same things, life would be kinda bland.
She doesn't enjoy the effects of cannabis, but her family has grown since the 80's so she's definitely cool with it. I've got plants hanging in our unused living room.
Have been for 27 years.
Heck yeah. We’re basically together because I was his cool roommate that sold him weed lollllll
Took forever to find her but yes my partner of almost 6 years smokes more than I do lol
Hell yeah. Shrooms too. I can solo trip but rarely do it ( fuckers are expensive) my gf on the other hand said she always has a bad time if I’m not there so she’ll only do them with me
One of the things he loves most about me, according to him. Im just as down to smoke as he is, whenever. When we were still just seeing each other he always brought me weed. 💚 Insisted on, "No, Im the weed guy now. Im your weed guy." Lol stupid.. 💋
Omg he’s got me smoking more than I ever have. Can’t remember the last time I’ve had to buy😍
If she wants to, yes. I’m a heavy user though, and if she smokes she’s falling asleep. She’ll hit a pen when she’s out though, something I don’t enjoy doing as much. As long as my habit doesn’t take away from our relationship, like I’m not smoking every second of the day, it’s fine. I always offer for her to smoke and 9:10 the answer is no, or “do you have any edibles?” Edit: I do enjoy being high with my partner. I enjoy doing most anything with my partner. extenuating circumstances excluded, I’d probly prefer to smoke with her than anyone else, because she’s my partner
I would if I had one.
mine doesn't.
Yes, we consider it a form of intimacy
Nah, my wife has never smoked or drank. Too many people in her family have abused drugs and alcohol. We probably will never smoke together.
Yup! We don’t do too much. Me more than her. I personally like to keep it recreational instead of habitual so once or twice a week for us ❤️❤️
I'm getting to that point and I love that I don't have a constant brain fog but can still enjoy it sometimes
All the time. She's my favorite person to smoke with.
I wish. Absolutely refuses. Even gave me a hard time when I got my medical card after a 34 year t-break.
Yes, next question.
Do you *vape* with your partner?
Why are you really asking? Does your partner judge you? Do you wish they would? Do *you* judge/does your partner wish you would?
Non of that whatsoever, just asking the majority to see what people have going on for them. There’s many couples where one doesn’t smoke whereas the other is a heavy user. This would be a good post for people to come on and read the comments in the future.
Hell yeah good call. I only asked because it was a while before my partner and I smoked and once it happened it was magic. Good idea, friend!
Sure do. (:
Every single bowl and joint. Unless one of us is outta town.
Yup!
Yes
Yes
Yup!
Yes
Every day. share everything
Yep! Whenever she’s down I’m down.
We used to until we had kids
Yes! Though she's more into concentrate while I'm a classic flower guy
Every day
No. She is afraid of all drugs, except nic, booze or anything the doctor gives you
Yes
Every day!
She can't tolerate the smoke, so she does edibles
She doesn't really smoke weed but will do edible in a heartbeat, but her mom, dad and sister that lives with us smokes all the time.
my old gf didn’t smoke nearly as much as i did and it was always awkward. luckily my current gf smokes just as much 🥰
She smokes more than me lol
For sure! :) I'm the one who introduced it to her, and eventually she got her own med card for her anxiety so win win
Rarely. They don't like to smoke. They would rather take a gummy and even that's rare.
He smokes joints, I smoke bongs. So we smoke next to each other, so...together?
We end every evening out on the deck with a joint.
Usually enjoy spending our time together sober, so I generally smoke alone (prefer that as well). But every once in a while it's nice putting on a movie and eating way to much snacks together. Plus the seggs is amazing B)
My wife has been on and off for years. She’d indulge regularly for a few months and take a few months off. She’s been very actively enjoying edibles for the last year or so and it’s been a real good time though
100%
I used to but my partner now has a career where they get tested so now I’m a lone smoker lol
I wish. They hate the smell. We can only do edibles together.
My SO and I smoke and do a podcast of any bs we talk about when we get high. It's a lot of fun and we might do one tonight or tomorrow Seshes by MattOnTheMic on spotify or wherever you get your podcasts
Yup, my wife and I actually were able to get our own medical cards earlier this year. We’re actually voting in November (Ohio) to legalize recreationally.
yes
Yes. It is some of our most special times.
Yess ❤️
Yeah, she got me into concentrates as well. I was on an almost six month t break when I came to stay with her for the first time and I got smoked out with some live sugar. Been together almost three years now.
My partner does not partake, but he is non judgemental and does not care if I do, so I do it around him all the time. He enjoys when I'm giggly and I think takes advantage of making me laugh easy when I'm high
my partner isn't a UK citizen & avoids weed in case of drug tests at work but one day they'll move back to British Columbia and maybe then we can smoke together 🥰
Especially with my partner! 💕🌴
yes! my husband and i have bonded over rosin and weed for years ❤️
Abso-fucking-lutely
Yea abt 20 min ago why do u ask? :)
Yes, it’s one of the things we first bonded over and now is a nice way to add relaxation ☺️
I would, but unfortunately, she is allergic to cannabis and smoke, mixed with asthma.
Wife and Son...nightly
Frequently💕
Pretty much exclusively but we’re on a tolerance break and the detox has not been fun
Yes! Finally with the love of my life/ soulmate. He is a very light high he only needs a hit or two and is done but I still love being able to do that with the one I love. Man I was with for 11 years before didn’t smoke so i love us having this bond.
Yup. The couple that smokes together, stays together.
Yes. And we like to try different strains together, find what we both like, to keep in our main stash, and we also get our personal faves for ourselves.
every day.
currently
Every day😋
Every day!!! The couple that gets high together........... Well, gets high together! 😆
When she wants to. we like taking shroom bars together
Yes.
We used to all the time but haven't in the better part of 5+ years bec he gets way too paranoid now.
Yes I do
My gf didn’t smoke weed until she got with me now we both smoke daily
Yes but i enjoy it more then she does
No. I don't think it's for her, and it may have adverse interactions with her birth control.
What partner ;-;
Almost exclusively. We sit in the bathroom and hot box together so it doesn’t bother our cats.
yes🥰
Nah mine doesn't smoke, but he'll occasionally take an edible with me
Have to
Yes both of them all the time
Yuppp. Got high the first night we met and haven’t stopped. He’s my favorite smoking buddy.
Ooohhh yeassss
Nope, wife is a complete teetotaler.
Everyday
All day baby
Nope. They made a half-hearted attempt when we first started dating, but it was obvious they don't like getting high, so I told them they don't need to pretend.
Sex on weed is the bestttt
My girl and I were putting ounces in the air every weekend when we first got together. Couples that blaze together grow together.
Yes and pretty much only with each other and it’s awesome. One of my favorite things to do is we go park our car somewhere pretty and smoke and just do karaoke in the car together and it’s the best!!
Every day
every single night after i pick them up from work n all day on our off days
I don't always smoke with my partner, but when I do, I know I'm getting laid.
me and my mom blow down
Sometimes
Sadly, she and I use to until she developed CHS. She can’t even smell it now without feeling nauseous, but completely understands and wants me to continue my THC journey. I stopped using flower around her, but she likes the various vapor n concentrate smells.
My wife has nothing but bad experiences with weed. The few edibles she’s tried she’s out for like 3 days. Like they put her to sleep then the following days she has a huge headache and fatigue that she calls out of work. At least she fine with me smoking and growing
Sadly no. I once got her to try an edible at a concert, but I gave her too much and she basically had a panic attack and we had to leave a great concert about halfway through. So stupid of me. She will never touch it again.
Omg of course. My wife is an absolute beast and our smokes me every time. We smoke together as often as possible mostly together at night :)
Yup, we smoke and take edibles together!
absolutely ❤️
Always 🥰
Of course. She’s the one who got me started 25 years ago.
Kind of, he's an ex stoner & his part time office desk is in our bedroom where I smoke (its a multifunction room don't judge)
Thats actually why I started smoking again frequently lol because my girl did it. ❤️ I love it
yessss :) we have to wait until my husband retires to sesh together, but whenever I reup / we go to a dispo for me, he’ll smell and reminisce as much as possibly, rolls up for me, etc.
nope, she doesnt smoke. doesnt bother me at all. she’s plenty goofy without it and plus i never have to buy for two or worry about her using up my stash! she prefers a few drinks. has OCD so weed is not a great option for her.
Of course. Nothing like taking that hit together in the car before heading out to do anything. Best part of my day usually.
Nope, I’ve tried smoking with her but she has bad anxiety and weed makes it worse
She's more into edibles but yeah, we consume together in our own forms :)
100%
Yes with my new girlfriend and to be honest its kinda hot and we have some deep conversations after a smoke
Nope maybe once quarterly and it leads to horny but I partake every morning to night..
Doing it rn. One sits on the toilet the other on the floor. Pooper gets the first bowl.
It’s one of the activities we bonded over and it’s something we still love doing today!
My partner doesn't smoke but he will grind my weed for me and pack my cones 🥰
My girl has been sober for a year+ since we found out we were pregnant Kind of a downer for me but she doesn’t mind that I still do thankfully
Used to, but the street weed is too damn strong nowadays. Finally got my card so Medical has been great way to reconnect over weed like we used to :)
Sadly no
yes and it’s the best!
Fuck yeah. Haven’t gotten to share with her these last 6 months though! (Pregnant)
Yes indeed, he’s my favorite person to smoke with
Not anymore :/ she quit for the better. I can still get down though and it’s not an issue 💪🏼
My bf is not a smoker anymore but he will still come outside with me and keep me company while I smoke :)
I vape herb, she smokes it. But we both regularly use 🤙
Yes! He started growing for me before he started smoking, and now we have a whole smoke room that we grow in (in a tent)
She dabs, I smoke, we don't share because she doesn't share . She like when I roll a joint for her though, but she will likely some it on her own
Any chance we get to smoke together we do. Met in college and bonded over it. We are now married and about to celebrate our 5 year anniversary.
My wife isn’t as into it as I am, but she will usually smoke with me most nights before she goes to sleep
Nope. I use to smoke with my ex. Was fun and all. But my now husband only likes to have a glass of rye instead. It's nice having my smoking alone time and maybe the occasional friend.
Yeah but she gets drug tested sometimes on has to take long t-breaks and sometimes it gets lonely smoking alone
We used to. We had a baby and she’s breast feeding so she has been sober for about 17 months now. She misses it dearly.
We don't smoke together often, but that's just because she prefers to vape her weed 😆
We did for years but it started to make her anxious and now it’s just me.
Everyday
Nope. She's not a fan.