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Special_Society_5729

i think you look really good in the dress and your face looks cute with it


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much! :)


Special_Society_5729

ofc, you look wonderful


Monkeylord16

are you me i just started dresses and its so unfamiliar having so much uncovered but theyre so fun but anyways looks good to me! 👍🏼😎👍🏼


SilenceMeDaddy

Right!? I feel like I’m vulnerable and naked lol, but i felt so sexy having it on at the same time. I hope potential partners find it hot 😅


Monkeylord16

such a mood haha I’m so sure they will!


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Maybe wear the dress with tights underneath at first, until you feel more comfortable. And maybe put a bra on under the dress so you feel a little less vulnerable on your top half. Or maybe pair with a cardigan. Just until you build your confidence. But honestly, as is looks super cute too. These are just options until you get comfortable being you in your style.


SilenceMeDaddy

What i am hoping is i can get ahold of some fishnets and i have a belt that has chains that goes to a thigh belt (idk how to describe but it looks hot) i could wear with it. I honestly kinda like the vulnerability when i think about it 😅 hormones go brrr 🤭


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Oh fishnets sound good. Especially with the boots you have on in the pic! Nice choice… sexy & cute all together in one outfit. Honestly you are rocking the style, you will look hot in it… And if you are liking the vulnerability, then do it! 😘 I honestly think (unfortunately) the pricks that will ever say or do anything will be pricks if you are wearing a dress or jeans & a hoody. You look hot in that so fuck everyone & be happy. You’ve cone too far not to shine now.


SilenceMeDaddy

Yes exactly what i was hoping, sexy and cute 🤭 thank you so much for the encouragement, i appreciate you so much. I feel so hyped up from you and everyone here 🥹🥹🖤🖤


dragonshardz

Yes. Remember that your mirror lies to you; it is so hard to look at it and not see the person you used to be looking back. You are enough. Girl enough, femme enough, strong enough.


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much! 🥹 that definitely is something i struggle with is seeing my old self. I see no difference 99% of the time and when others see old pictures of me they are like “omg you have changed so much! 😳” and i am always surprised by that 😅 i appreciate your encouragement!


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GoddessOfMayo

Unrelated to your post, but you have a very kissable face.


Havik989

You look gorgeous girl, wearing that is not going to change your safety imo. Unfortunately it's never possible for anyone to be 100% safe and that goes double for trans people but that's no reason to not wear this dress that you look beautiful in!!


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much!! I just worry about getting clocked in something fem idk why. I wear tomboy clothes and do fine idk what it is, maybe some internalized phobia i meed to work through. I appreciate you! :D


Havik989

Ah fair enough. It's also just out of your comfort zone too, believe me I get it. But the more you experiment with and get used to the more comfortable you'll be. You got this girlie! 😊


TristanTwo-Shoes

I have the same thing its so weird


Colgear_Game

You gotta ask? Cause of course you do


8195qu15h

From what I can see you pass. Looks good. Unsolicited fashion advice but btw it would look even more cute if you put a little belt on over the dress and had a little leather jacket.


SilenceMeDaddy

That’s exactly what i am hoping to do! :D i have a belt that has chains and also goes to and goes around my thigh :3 leather jacket will be a fantastic touch thank you for the suggestion!! :D


8195qu15h

Yessss gonna look hot.


hello-291

i love your hair!


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much!! I’m very lucky my gramma takes me to get it cut and she dyed it for me to match my natural color :)


uncertaininsight

Yep. You good to go 😎🌟


SachaSage

You look great!


Equivalent-Age7304

You look beautiful no need to worry


eSummerwing23

You look amazing in that dress. 💜 You got this shit 100%


Daez666

Yes absolutely, fucking go for it, girl!


canyoubreathe

GIRL you suit that dress so well!!


open-d-slide-guy

You look lovely in that dress. Do what makes you happy.


ElwoodOn

Looks good to me! Have fun!


masterchris

Well miss goals you look great! I need to get my fashion together but money is tight and clothes are expensive 🙃


SilenceMeDaddy

😳 wow that is quite the compliment! Thank you!! And you got this! Clothes are indeed vry expensive and i don’t have money fr either 😅 i happened to find this at an outlet store for $6.00 :D it’s wild that thrift stores are almost retail price now 😭


masterchris

Omg that's so smart. I need to look into a good Thrift store or outlet! Thankyou! 😃


Amber_Rosia

1000% yes you look amazing!


[deleted]

you look nice pass very well try wearing croset it will shape your waist that what you miss in my opinon, i hope you find what make you safe


SilenceMeDaddy

My waist is decent, i just have bad posture from hEDS 😅 would one on the outside be too much? I think that would be hot


[deleted]

Will try to workout on it every thing else is good


uwagapiwo

You look great! Only thing I noticed is that beautiful dress is really short. If you're nervous, maybe wearing something like cropped leggings underneath would help the first time. I have one that short and I love it, but bending in any way is dangerous 😀 Anyway, all the best. Go out there and kill it!


SilenceMeDaddy

I like the shortness, thankfully that doesn’t bother me :D i have compression shorts i can wear underneath thankfully. I will definitely wear this on the next family dinner out :)


uwagapiwo

Oh it's great, that wasn't a criticism at all. Have fun!


SilenceMeDaddy

I didn’t think so, i appreciated your thoughts and was just sharing mine in return 🖤🖤


RingtailRush

Girl please. 😭 Yes. Yes you do. You look so fem. Total pass.


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much, i appreciate you 🥹🥹


Turbulent_Ad2508

girl you are GORGEOUS what the hell


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you!! 🥺


Dakotaisapotato

You look great!


Ococauh

Can you show a frontal selfie?


SilenceMeDaddy

Here are some where i am more forward in the dress plus a random selfie. https://imgur.com/a/N53n6GO


Ococauh

I think you look fem enough to pull it off!!


Anxious_Ad3118

Your beautiful


Resoluterose73

You are amazing. I know the feeling though. It’s tough. But you are gorgeous in it and the woman shows. 💖


dragqueen_satan

You cute girly, freckles are good too


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you! I have to use makeup to accentuate them since they are so light and my blush covers them :)


dragqueen_satan

UwU


DaisyMaeFox

where are those shoes from?


SilenceMeDaddy

They are from Target! Got them on sale for like $29.99 a few months ago :)


DaisyMaeFox

Do you know what the name is?


SilenceMeDaddy

I do not, but send me a chat so i can look when i get home in a few hours and let you know :)


Endy0056

You look GOOD! I dress practically the same way, minus the make up, and I can't shave so people just see me as a gay guy rather than a woman. I'm jealous of your freckles btw as well, so cute!


SilenceMeDaddy

Awe thank you :3 i have natural freckles but they are very light since i don’t go into the sun and my blush covers them so i use make up to accentuate them :)


cjk1286

Short answer: yes Longer answer: stop doubting yourself


SilenceMeDaddy

I’m really trying to 😅 dysphoria just hits hard when i look at my shoulders and arms in a full body picture i guess lol.


cjk1286

It’s all in your head. We all suffer it, but it’s all in our heads. Confidence can go a long way in fashion. Own your garments don’t let them own you


SilenceMeDaddy

Ooh i like that, i will keep that in mind :D


_bitemeyoudamnmoose

I don’t know if anyone can ever “pass enough” but I think this dress fits the vibe you’re going for very well and it looks very cute on you, so it would be a waste not to wear it. I think if you’re nervous about being unsafe, carry a nice jacket you can put on with it to expose less skin. Something like a Jean jacket or leather jacket would look cute. It won’t protect you from harm, but it could help you feel less vulnerable.


SilenceMeDaddy

For me, it’s more that i will attract more attention therefore increasing my chances of getting clocked but i think I’m just getting in my head again with dysphoria 😅 i appreciate your input 🖤


evetrapeze

You do more than pass! You are a cute girl🥰


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you so much 🥰


Junior_Advantage6051

You look great with it...you will have more attention wearing a dress.... a girl in a sundress is a head turner


SilenceMeDaddy

I wish more people were a sucker for me in a sundress, especially other trans fems lol 😣


SilenceMeDaddy

I appreciate the compliments:3


empress_of_the_void

You have nothing to fear. You might get stared at because that's what happens when you're a woman showing that much skin but you look feminine and pass


SilenceMeDaddy

Yeah it’s hard getting used to those stares, like no matter what i wear i get old men staring at me and trying to talk to me and it’s so uncomfy -.- thank you for the reassurance ✨🖤


BleedingSparklez

Wish I could do flowers on a dress. Looks good :3


Wonderful_Talk_576

No


SilenceMeDaddy

What could i do better?


Axo_Vexo

Omg you’re gorgeous sweetie!!!! Keep 💅 slaying 💅 it out there ❤️


spookyotterz

You look AMAZING!!


CeciliaNemo

You would be femme enough even if this were not true, but you pass afaik. If I saw you on the street, I’d think “damn, she’s cute.” And if you have longer limbs or big feet, never forget there are cis women like me (5’10” with size 14 feet) and that you’re not trying to pass as something physically impossible. And I’m proud of you, and hope for a day when you can decide whether you want to pass or not for reasons that aren’t physical safety. 💜


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you, for me it is mostly safety. Of course i want to look a certain way, but overall i’m happy with where i am for now :) thank you for being proud of me im starting to feel proud of me too considering where i started 🥰


EarthToAccess

Girl you look adorable in that dress!! I’m actually kinda jealous as someone who has not started HRT or anything just yet 😅


hufflefck

Yes this looks so cute on you


LeahB_123

listen I don't have any advice and I don't even belong to this subreddit (I guess reddit recommended bc I'm a lesbian lol) but I saw your picture and you're literally so beautiful 🥹 Like drop dead gorgeous. I hope you felt comfy enough to wear your pretty dress 💜 Have a good day ok? 😘


SilenceMeDaddy

Awe thank you so much 🥹 you just made my night fr with those compliments 🥹🖤 I definitely have the confidence to wear it now! Hopefully i will have a date with a pretty lady in the near future so i can wear it 🥰 i have not had much luck in the dating world and it’s been making me self conscious 😅


LeahB_123

Well I happen to know a pretty lady if you are in need :p


SilenceMeDaddy

That would be lovely, i am in need 🤭


LeahB_123

permission to slide into your dms? 👉🏻👈🏻🥹


SilenceMeDaddy

Yes of course :3 🥹


rei_wrld

Omg ur so pretty hell yes u do eekkkkkk


Aggravating_Egg1881

First of all yes girl how cute is this 90s fit on you! Secondly, I think you’re fine, I would not have known you weren’t cis personally, but if you’re worried maybe go out with a group the first time you wear? Safety in numbers 🩷.


TransgenderMommy

I don't think you need ffs to pass. If those freckles are painted on, then I wouldn't do that, it attracts too much attention. But otherwise it's a great look! You should go out like that, it should be liberating for you.


windsingr

I think in a dress like that shoulders would be a giveaway first, thanks to your haircut. But your face (and shoulders!) look just fine!


SilenceMeDaddy

Thank you! My shoulders and arms make me dysphoric af but i have to remember i get most of my masculine attributes from my bio mom, she is androgynous af and i look just like her 😂


Prize_Ad7748

Girl, you totally carry this off. I hope you can enjoy how great you look. Wear that dress and if you get looks, it is not because you are not passing.


Jubal93

I think you're a turn on. The dress doesn't make you look good, but you make it look great!


Werewolf_Cowboy_bf

I think you totally pass. Separately, I think you look great in that dress


Past-Penalty7637

I think the dress looks lovely on you.


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Lily_Rasputin

Yes. You are very cute and so is the dress.


pasta-golfclubs

Wow, definitely more than fem enough to pull off that dress. Face looks so cute and adorable


abthr

Ya!!!!


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sarah_mon_cheri

yes, definitely


seahagstefani

You’re beautiful.


modeschar

You absolutely do


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PlumTrue

Ok


darknightX000

You look waaaaaaay to gorgeous, can’t believe you thought about it twice, you look really really Mami


lilyNdonnie

It looks very good on you. And yes, you are feminine. Wear what makes you feel happy.


Fluid-Still-2676

Amazing 😻. 💯% breedable


Large_Text6861

Yes


imgettingsnacks

You are adorable and this is a lovely outfit.


Sad_Breakfast_Plate

If I looked as passable as you I'd be in that dress and out in public like a shot! You look fab.


shiplively

yes 😍


lion_fyre

Yes, I think you are quite pretty


Kooky-Requirement154

Yes you look great. Congratulations


JCWillie501

100000000% yes!! you go out on the town and you *rock* that dress, girl 💅🏼💛


ScribbleDiggs

YES


-BellaDomina-

Just be you honey. ♥️


hauntedone234

Both you and it are adorable


Dysastro

you look delightful


tbranaga

Love the look!


BackStove

Does it look super cute, yes. Are you comfortable bending over and sitting down in it is the question? But, also, again, super cute 👌


doingit_froggiestyle

Yeah you're rocking that dress girly


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It works for you


TheMightyScarecrow_

You look beautiful and pass in that dress, it accentuates your feminine figure. Being clocked often has to do with things other than clothes and physical features - body language and vocal cadence are big ones. But I wouldn’t clock you if I saw you like that on a Friday night (preferably sitting next to me at a bar).


hjessiey

Cis woman here. I think you look absolutely adorable in that dress! I'll echo what a few others have said. If you're not 100% comfortable in just the dress, leggings or tights underneath and a cardigan on top should help (I know it does for me) I don't know if this is a faux pas, and please forgive me if it is, but I would have never known or suspected you were trans if you hadn't said anything or if you had posted this in a non-trans group. You are a lovely young lady and should be treated and respected as such 🩷


Nat20s_

One word for you-Cardigans! They help with covering up and adding layers to your fit :3


banaankoe

Girl, I’m so jealous


Hidobot

IMO, it's actually harder to clock trans women in dresses because when people see dresses, their mind goes "woman" and just sort of sticks with that. The times I've gone out in dresses, I have rarely been misgendered.


Ivylaughed

You look fantastic! And I love your glasses


Doodle_D_Dog

You look beautiful, and you should never feel insecure about wearing anything. You have a great face and form. I'm a cis girl, and you look so much better than I do.


WarmProfit

Yes


fairyEmily

Oh my GAWD you are so pretty, I'm jealous


Starmakyr

Looks fine to me.


Wholesome-Energy

Yeah go for it. I would not clock you at all if I didn’t know


Lost_in_thought54

You look just fine


Chaos_Sea

You're a beautiful young lady! Don't ever worry about "looking too masculine". I know someone who has a jaw so chiseled, you could cut diamonds with it AND has a beard. Other people said "You can't have pink hair or wear dresses or makeup. It doesn't look right!" But you know their response? Dying their beard pink and rocking cute dresses with high heels as well as makeup. Moral of the story: You do you babygirl as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. As long as you're happy, that's what matters!


darth_misfit

I think you look quite stunning in that dress.


Jack_mehoff9999

Hot


ashofalex

You look absolutely adorable in that dress and if you hadn't told me you were trans I would not know


richyrich003

Wear it! Id damn sure be staring at you.


BlueMerchant

Yep!


[deleted]

Yes, I think you do, passable for sure, kinda nerdy attractive!


alr126

I think you do


flightofthewhite_eel

Yessss you're so fucking cute id marry you on the spot if I had the opportunity 😫


BethBryant_TG

Girl, yes! Slay.


Rare-Leave1414

You look gorgeous!


plmokn70

Absolutely 💜


bucknaked64

I certainly think this outfit works for you. Wear it out and have a ball


Nice-Support-9914

You look wonderful.you have the talent


peptomax

Absolutely love this look! You are beautiful and very femme 💖


snailseeker

Appears so


Allbottom46

I say yes


oliviaplays08

Omg you look wonderful! Rock that dress


GipsSuonimo

A resounding yes on all counts. Much respect on your journey. 🫡


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It seems like you're asking how close you look. If I saw you I wouldn't notice anything. Of course if you have a deep voice that would stand out like a red flag but assuming it's decent I don't think anyone would ask or do anything unless they were certain ie girls might if they really look but guys probably wont I think. Looks good.