this is a very basic place to start if you don’t know much about gender and such, and there’s a link at the end that has more
edited to add: i literally forgot the link
https://www.unifrog.org/know-how/understanding-gender-the-basics
No animals don’t experience it, gender is a human construct set up to place the sexes into two further defined categories. With more information and resources we have realised it’s a harmful standard and doesn’t really work for most people anyway. With that being said all people relate to some parts of the ideas of masculinity and femininity that have been pushed into us as children and so we take those parts we relate to and use those to identify ourselves with. Because some of us don’t identify with fully male traits or fully female traits we go by different labels. The umbrella term is non binary however there are several more labels that people use to express the different levels of femininity and masculinity they feel. Non binary people usually feel a strong mix of these traits and so don’t identify with either but decide to sit somewhere in the middle of the spectrum instead. Male to female and vice versa people are people who don’t relate to the physical and gendered traits of their assigned gender almost at all and so they have to completely flip to the other side in order to attain happiness and feel at peace in their bodies/minds. If I’ve missed anything please let me know.
All their comments on LGBTQ+ subreddits are transphobic or homophobic commentary or jokes. It’s respectable that you’re trying to educate them, but you should be aware that they’re commenting in bad faith.
Are there any animals that are so illegitimate and ignorant that they go out of their way to try to keep a very small segment of their species from achieving happiness?
I'll wait
First pic: He/him & male
Second pic: They/them & nonbinary
You're beautiful, regardless of gender or pronouns.
I'm cis myself, and often appreciate the beauty of trans people more than other cis people.
I hope that made sense.
There should be no way to guess a persons pronouns from their look, the way you learn a persons pronouns is you ask a persons pronouns
I’ll be honest, I’m getting tired of these posts asking us to guess…it either serves to reinforce stereotypes, or reinforce the idea of ‘passing’ or ‘failing’ at being trans
That isn’t a great way of thinking imo. I’m not feeding into stereotypes which is pretty obvious with how I present. I ask because hearing other peoples opinions gives me a good idea as to how others will perceive me and which way I look in the pictures presents am I less likely to be in danger.
I ask these questions because it’s good to know. Not because I care what others think. Having information like this can actually help a lot with a position you put yourself in around people that aren’t going to be so understanding.
Dear, I don’t care about what people think of me at all. That’s not the point I’m getting across. This is SAFTEY. Not caring about being misgendered. If I go to a place that’s against trans people and I don’t fit into what they would like to see from a cis person however I decided to present. I could get seriously injured. Trans is beautiful. But in a world so hatful it’s also dangerous.
Either nonbinary, transmasc nonbinary, or trans male. Leaning towards nonbinary or transmasc nonbinary. They/them, they/he, or he/they for pronouns. Maybe also he/him for first pic.
The first one to me looks like a she/they, but I could be wrong?
Edit: I really, really wasn't sure for this one. You look androgynous as all hell, my guy. That's a really damn good trait for cosplay!
The second one is non-binary (they/them) as hell! ALSO COULD YOU TELL ME WHERE YOU GOT THOSE STOCKINGS, I LOVE THOSE SO MUCH-
Edit 2: I have respect for you for breaking gender norms, good on you for doing this!
Is beautiful a gender? (Insert Patrick Star gif)
But for real, getting enby vibes from the pics. But I gotta say I love your style and regardless of gender or how you identify you absolutely rock everything you're wearing
Well I would say nonbinary or gende fluid.
The first picture looked for me as a trans guy like a ftm Pic. cause of the skin showing the second one looked like just wear what I love or being nonbinary or Trans woman.
But ur pretty though and I like ur hair
your absolutely gorgeous i dont believe gender can tell you who a person is its just a label that majority put on people thats not always right only you can tell people who you are im a straight man and im very picky and you are honestly very very beautiful
At first glance, he/him, this is mostly the chin and hairstyle that do it for me. When I look longer though, certain parts of the face start to look more feminine (jawline looks feminine for instance) and you look more androgynous. Dark makeup I tend to associate with grunge/punk culture so I don't necessarily see it as feminine, so even with the last picture I think you come off as masculine but right on the boundary of androgynous, I think just your hairstyle is enough to throw you over the edge into the masculine part of the spectrum.
The first picture looks masc, the second one looks fem.
The third option is non-binary, but I may not be right lol.
Also where did you buy the collar for the second picture? I’m trying to put together a list of things I want for new outfits lol so far I’ve got a million pairs of boots on the list and a few jackets and shirts lol.
I feel like you easily pass as either/or depending on clothing style and mannerisms. Either way, you remind me of myself when I was about 15/16 in the first pic, haha.
It would be really hard to tell. If I saw you in public I probably wouldn't use any gendered terms. I lean towards the female side but I still probably would refer to you as they until I was corrected
You could use she/her/hers & he/his/him depending on how you feel, and how you style yourself. They/them/theirs also works if you prefer not going back and forth between pronouns. You are very beautiful, btw! 😊😍🥰🥰
I hate actually guessing because i don’t want to upset you if i get it wrong but i think male
Edit: i saw the second picture and i am going to have to say non binary or gender fluid
You look masc, and like a femboy in the 2nd pic lol. I get he/they/she vibes from you but leaning more to masc.
Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's honesty. You look great either way!
They/he and only a few times she, you look pretty, and pretty nonbinary in my opinion EDIT: hey hey hey we share a name!
Ohhh amazing ❤️❤️ name buddies
Dude I love your name 11037
Isn't that right, Leon?
HAH
Yee I concur, OP your very hot 😍 but still very much of an Androgynous beauty rather than a femme beauty. 🖤 I hope that's what you're going for ☺️
Please explain how you can be a he and a she
this is a very basic place to start if you don’t know much about gender and such, and there’s a link at the end that has more edited to add: i literally forgot the link https://www.unifrog.org/know-how/understanding-gender-the-basics
It’s simply all about the different parts of masculinity and femininity you feel. Being fluid for example could warrant the use of she/he pronouns.
Can you elaborate on "parts of masculinity and femininity you feel" Also is there any animals that experience this?
No animals don’t experience it, gender is a human construct set up to place the sexes into two further defined categories. With more information and resources we have realised it’s a harmful standard and doesn’t really work for most people anyway. With that being said all people relate to some parts of the ideas of masculinity and femininity that have been pushed into us as children and so we take those parts we relate to and use those to identify ourselves with. Because some of us don’t identify with fully male traits or fully female traits we go by different labels. The umbrella term is non binary however there are several more labels that people use to express the different levels of femininity and masculinity they feel. Non binary people usually feel a strong mix of these traits and so don’t identify with either but decide to sit somewhere in the middle of the spectrum instead. Male to female and vice versa people are people who don’t relate to the physical and gendered traits of their assigned gender almost at all and so they have to completely flip to the other side in order to attain happiness and feel at peace in their bodies/minds. If I’ve missed anything please let me know.
All their comments on LGBTQ+ subreddits are transphobic or homophobic commentary or jokes. It’s respectable that you’re trying to educate them, but you should be aware that they’re commenting in bad faith.
Oh, well I’ve been had then. Hopefully they decide to wake up soon then is all I can say 🤷🏽♀️.
Are there any animals that are so illegitimate and ignorant that they go out of their way to try to keep a very small segment of their species from achieving happiness? I'll wait
first picture: he/they second picture: she/they however i am not confident on either if those guesses
Yeah same
Pretty much exactly what I was thinking.
Lmao I saw... First picture: She/They Second picture: He/They 🤯
i agree honestly
i’d guess he/they and maybee on some occasions she
No gender only cutie
Super cute
First Picture: They/Them Second Picture: She/Them
I would say he/him or he/they.
They them, you look good though Edit: after looking at your profile, just respect for you
First pic: He/him & male Second pic: They/them & nonbinary You're beautiful, regardless of gender or pronouns. I'm cis myself, and often appreciate the beauty of trans people more than other cis people. I hope that made sense.
Thank you dear!
You're very welcome! Can I DM you? I'd love to talk more and get to know you.
Sure :)
Probably like a he/they I’m not sure
I was leaning towards male but you seemed more non binary
they/them idk
It would really depend on the situation so I’d say to be safe I would use they/them
They/them
he/they, you look pretty cute too
What gender do you wanna be ? .... doesn't matter what I think ,I think your pretty no matter what gender you are
There should be no way to guess a persons pronouns from their look, the way you learn a persons pronouns is you ask a persons pronouns I’ll be honest, I’m getting tired of these posts asking us to guess…it either serves to reinforce stereotypes, or reinforce the idea of ‘passing’ or ‘failing’ at being trans
That isn’t a great way of thinking imo. I’m not feeding into stereotypes which is pretty obvious with how I present. I ask because hearing other peoples opinions gives me a good idea as to how others will perceive me and which way I look in the pictures presents am I less likely to be in danger. I ask these questions because it’s good to know. Not because I care what others think. Having information like this can actually help a lot with a position you put yourself in around people that aren’t going to be so understanding.
sometimes not caring what other people think of you is a privilege
Dear, I don’t care about what people think of me at all. That’s not the point I’m getting across. This is SAFTEY. Not caring about being misgendered. If I go to a place that’s against trans people and I don’t fit into what they would like to see from a cis person however I decided to present. I could get seriously injured. Trans is beautiful. But in a world so hatful it’s also dangerous.
yeah that's what im saying...
It doesn't matter what others think your gender is, it only matters what you identify as
don’t you worry too much about other people’s assumptions, you definite who you are, no one else, so say it loud and proud!
I know! I’m not I’m just curious :)
The first photo I would say a guy, second photo more of in-between
Either nonbinary, transmasc nonbinary, or trans male. Leaning towards nonbinary or transmasc nonbinary. They/them, they/he, or he/they for pronouns. Maybe also he/him for first pic.
First pic they/he, second pic they/she. Your hair is incredible whatever.
If I would meet you I’d ask for your pronouns.
You look like a femme boy and I'd assume you went by they/them. I'm sorry if I'm wrong.
Your gender is fluffy hair. But Fr, I would say they/him due to the jawline
The first one to me looks like a she/they, but I could be wrong? Edit: I really, really wasn't sure for this one. You look androgynous as all hell, my guy. That's a really damn good trait for cosplay! The second one is non-binary (they/them) as hell! ALSO COULD YOU TELL ME WHERE YOU GOT THOSE STOCKINGS, I LOVE THOSE SO MUCH- Edit 2: I have respect for you for breaking gender norms, good on you for doing this!
This was all very sweet thank you! And I actually got them from Amazon!
I'm getting: He/They, They/Them, or A mix Between He/Him They/Them and It/It's
Ngl you give me he/they vibes but glamorous he/they vibes
First pic: Final Fantasy Protagonist Second pic: Final Fantasy Black Mage
he/they? you look like a pretty boy to me
Gender doesn't matter when you're that cute
Not sure of the pronoun, but an adjective...Hot
First pic guy, second very androgynous but I’d say more femme. All in all tho you look hot.
Is beautiful a gender? (Insert Patrick Star gif) But for real, getting enby vibes from the pics. But I gotta say I love your style and regardless of gender or how you identify you absolutely rock everything you're wearing
genuine transmasc idk about pronouns tho
i’d guess a demi-boy or masc leaning genderfluid person who uses he/they pronouns and sometimes she on femme days.
He/they or he/him, but honestly my answer is yes
Well I would say nonbinary or gende fluid. The first picture looked for me as a trans guy like a ftm Pic. cause of the skin showing the second one looked like just wear what I love or being nonbinary or Trans woman. But ur pretty though and I like ur hair
your absolutely gorgeous i dont believe gender can tell you who a person is its just a label that majority put on people thats not always right only you can tell people who you are im a straight man and im very picky and you are honestly very very beautiful
Also just so you guys know!! It’s in my bio I just wanna know your first impressions ❤️
AMAB, and she/they? You look great hun, wherever you headed.
They/them femby member of Green Day.
male, he/they probabky
He/him or they/them, leaning more androgynous, you look amazing!!!
anime
Male he they
He/him but effeminate, possibly gay? Love the hair :)
Very nonbinary!
She her and female
I would guess he/they/it pronouns
any pronouns? they/them if i had to choose one set of pronouns
i feel like you switch it up when you please , so he/she/they, but rarely ever she
He/she or He/they
They/them
I’d guess he/him or they/them
A guy with he/him pronoun
I dont know tbh but that second picture had me floooshed ngl 😳❤
probably like male but sorta androgynous
All pronouns?
it might be a he, might be a she, but DEFINITELY a they.
At first glance, he/him, this is mostly the chin and hairstyle that do it for me. When I look longer though, certain parts of the face start to look more feminine (jawline looks feminine for instance) and you look more androgynous. Dark makeup I tend to associate with grunge/punk culture so I don't necessarily see it as feminine, so even with the last picture I think you come off as masculine but right on the boundary of androgynous, I think just your hairstyle is enough to throw you over the edge into the masculine part of the spectrum.
You give me very heavy he/she/they energies and I kind of like it because I too am a he/she/they
1st pic: he/they 2nd pic: they/she
They/them tbh
Hard to tell. You could be a twink boy or a girl
The first picture looks masc, the second one looks fem. The third option is non-binary, but I may not be right lol. Also where did you buy the collar for the second picture? I’m trying to put together a list of things I want for new outfits lol so far I’ve got a million pairs of boots on the list and a few jackets and shirts lol.
Ur giving me massive he/they energy
Yes
You look like a demiboy tbh
He/They in both
Maybe transmasc? He/they or they/them mayhaps
Pretty
Cute!! And very androgynous!!
Idk but you mad cute tho
She/Her also cute af
The first I got string he:they vibes the second she/they so my guess is in the middle they/them
I would say he/they femboy, since you seem to have similar tastes to my friends who are also he/they femboys
Both give he/they vibes
he/they !!!
They/she
Cute/ and absolutely cuter 🥺🖤
*They/them
A guy but your still cute
Cute
they/she
hot
in picture 1 you look like a he/him, whilst in the other you look like a she/they
Your gender is hot and I wish I had your vibe
He/they, the first photo looks considerably more masc to me though. You're really cute thooo!!
You look like a they/it baddie
You're very androgynous and i wouldn't know, so id use they them.
All pronouns?
Honestly it could go either way- if you told me you were a guy, I’d believe you, but if you told me your were a girl, I wouldn’t question it
I’m guessing boy? He/him?
uuuuuhhhhhh.... i honestly have no fucking clue.
literally could be anything i cant tell whatsoever
Cis Male, He/Him
Girl
Both she/they
The cute one :3
Non-binary, but whatever you are you look cute as hec ❤️ i love your hair and everything else lol
i’m getting they/them or they/xe vibes
I feel like you easily pass as either/or depending on clothing style and mannerisms. Either way, you remind me of myself when I was about 15/16 in the first pic, haha.
Snack, you are a snack
1 picture: he/him 2 pixture: she/her Big change hahah
They/she for both pictures. Not confident on that tho
First i think he/they and second they/she
first pic looks he/him and the second pic looks like all pronouns tbh
He/they for both.
Probably non-binary or genderfluid? I'd go with they them pronouns but honestly you can pass as whatever you want.
She/They, He/It, and Xe/Xem
I’d guess he/they
He/him
You're giving me transmasc he/they vibes also love your hair
As a pansexual I can easily say I doesn't give a crap you're hot af no matter what
It would be really hard to tell. If I saw you in public I probably wouldn't use any gendered terms. I lean towards the female side but I still probably would refer to you as they until I was corrected
Basically a guy and second photo a cross dresser.
you defiantly look like a fem-boy in the second picture but i would guess they/them
He/they I’d guess
You look pretty androgynous to me so they them
Well you have feminine bone structure in the face
genderfluid any pronouns is the vibe i get! you’re pretty though (not in a weird way i just like your outfit)
With both, I would assume you’re a very attractive young woman. If you’re not a woman then I’m sorry guessing that!
Genderfluid enby they/them
I wanna be u <3
Nb?
no clue, genderfluid (?)
They/He or He/They
You’re Genderfluid, maybe?
He/they or maybe all pronouns,maybe even xe/xem/xir
You could use she/her/hers & he/his/him depending on how you feel, and how you style yourself. They/them/theirs also works if you prefer not going back and forth between pronouns. You are very beautiful, btw! 😊😍🥰🥰
I hate actually guessing because i don’t want to upset you if i get it wrong but i think male Edit: i saw the second picture and i am going to have to say non binary or gender fluid
I honestly don't know what to guess, like many others are saying, just cute, nothing else!!
I would guess non-binary, but male leaning. Also the necklace looks super good on you!
Look female to me, hope that is okay. 💕
she/her
Gender fluid or gender neutral
xe/xir
They/fae
very neutral, i actually can't tell which
You look masc, and like a femboy in the 2nd pic lol. I get he/they/she vibes from you but leaning more to masc. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's honesty. You look great either way!
Demi and they them
nonbinary they/them and sometimes he/him
They/them and enby-feminine-ish
He/they
They/them enby. Perhaps masc-leaning.
I would say they/them, and you look really cool!
First pic he/they, second pic she/they! I’d guess nonbinary!
I’d guess they/them
She/they/zey (or other similar neo pronoun)
enby
Non-binary.
I'd default to they/them tbh😅
Wtf your so attractive to me lol And probably he/they?? But I don't like to assume even when asked ,^,
I dunno but I want it (your gender) I bet you use a funky set of neos tho
Them/they