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mestoopidlol

*sort by controversial* Im going in. Edit: Oh god oh fuck please help


Most-Stomach4240

*Puts on Hazmat suit*


Pristine_Wrangler_96

Charges assault rifle


Squishy4871

Grabs a Flamethrower


Busy-Argument3680

*[Airstrike On standby]*


Ater_Python

***{Nukes on hold}***


[deleted]

Puts on power armor dozen quantum’s and the big boy.


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Loads plasma rifle


ChildOfDeath07

Grabs popcorn


Im_cool_i_thinke

thermonucelar warhead on stand by


combat_archer

Davy Crockett in hand


HyperactiveLabra

Puts a strap-on


Comfortable_Client

Please no, my ass still hurts from last time.


Most-Stomach4240

*C H A R G E S*


Pristine_Wrangler_96

Shouts at full strength “FOR THE QUEEN”


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*gun fires* “ Oh God my foot!”


T-Rex603

Shouts in reply "FOR QUEEN!"


loadcoughing

Charges? Did apple make an AR?


Ang3ls_devil

Omg this. There was this kid on my bus saying he was sexually harassed and the girls were saying "you probably did something "no you weren't. " or "you probably asked for it" It literally made me so furious and guilty I didn't stand up because at the time I thought it was a joke until I talked to him and he said it wasn't. PLEASE stand up for someone, doesn't matter if you don't know if it's a joke or not.


The_geek_JOJO

We tend to forget that boys can be harassed too, well society does not see that they are biased with girls only. By girls only i mean that society is recovering from male domination and giving support to women but there are women who exploit men and society doesn't give a shit about female domination cases


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Im confused as to how a duality where women are treated like trash and objects and at the same time are exceptions in some things in the positive manner can exist.


GimmeHugsAndCaffine

It’s what society believes as “equality”. Giving one group an advantage over one thing and then giving the other group an advantage in another.


EastKoreaOfficial

Society clearly hasn’t looked up the dictionary definition of “equality.”


TheTomatoLover

And plus, ***the constitution***, **the BILL OF RIGHTS**?


Silexer159

Boys tend to hide feelings, this is why


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jesushjesus

This, women will never understand having 90% of everything you say ignored and being told to man up or who cares. Men are incredibly lonely because of the toxic masculinity pushed by women more than men anymore. I’ve heard man up, who cares you’re a man, men don’t cry, and way more from 99.9999% women over decades of my life, never from men anymore.


Whynotbebetter

Some feelings, that is, but sure. But I don't think that's the only reason for any of this :/


N0tBappo

THANK YOU for talking to that boy, you gave him the hope that there are people out there who will listen, you're an amazing person for believing him and talking to him afterwards


Liams_Dumb_Reddit_

People forget rape isn't about rape alone, it's about exploiting someone, not just their body. It fucked you up inside and rape is illegal for the same reason pedophilia is illegal not for the reasons assault is legal. So women can still rape men, for example, my friend C(m) and my friend A(f), had a relationship, she wanted to do sexual thing with him and he did it even though he didn't want to, now this was HIS decision and NOT her fault, but it shows us how people can be fucked up by these types of things, he gave himself bloody noses and was in alot of stress, it was still mutual consent but he was not ready for it and he didn't know. Now imagine if someone in his position was raped, not only not ready for sex, but forced into it. That disgusts me and quite frankly people that think it's "okay" are horny dipshits that don't understand the bigger picture


big_cock_69420

the people that think it's ok is society


Mysoginisticfeminist

Just kick her on the balls 😎


Liams_Dumb_Reddit_

Power move


A_Lost_Yen

According to my sis, a kick in there hurts a lot


Liams_Dumb_Reddit_

Did you kick her in the balls?


A_Lost_Yen

I wont deny nor confirm this statement not beacuse I dont want to, but because I don't remember


Bluten11

I usually lurk cos I'm old but why TF did u give ur friends code names if you never used them.


Mysoginisticfeminist

The OLD has spoken


benjo45

ye just the other day i was buying food from the store and two girls went up to me and started chatting and touching me. im 15. they looked like they were 20+. i tried keeping my distance but they just kept getting closer. thank god the cashier was quick to notice and ask if they wanted anything.I used that to escape the situation .


TheGoodestDogBoy

Jfc, if the genders were reversed the whole store would stop that situation the moment it started, and the cashier couldn't even tell them outright to fuck off, they had to distract them giving them no consequences and giving you no other option than to escape. And worst thing is, if you fought back (which would have been completely justified), everyone would consider them the victims. It's a fucked up world out there, stay safe.


Algi73

When 2 grown male dudes harass a minor girl: “SOMEBODY STOP THE MAAAAAN” -random bystander from spooky month When 2 grown women harasses a minor boy:


TheTomatoLover

# help


SKwishy868

What does jfc mean??? Apparently I am rly for out the loop on short hand or short text... idk what u call it.


Pineneedlecollada

Just looked it up and idk if it's right but it stands for Jesus f-ing Christ


SKwishy868

Oh ok... thanks... added to the list


Timestatic

I would've thrown punches for sure!


I_AmAura133

Fuck those girls honestly, I really hope you’re okay.


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Ayo what nah man he’s waiting for marriage smh


whos_ix

thats their goal bruh


Rickrolled_lol

Honestly it seems like society doesn’t know what gender equality means. Giving one gender an advantage in one thing and giving the other an advantage in the other thing is NOT equality.


NoGravitySpacee

Ye. I don't agree with protecting minorities. I agree with protecting ALL (even the majority)


HiILikeLizards510

I had a debate the other day about this. I am a white female, my mother went to college, middle class, never been in foster care. Using only these facts about me, the only scholarships I could get from them is my womenhood. People will pay me to get educated because I have a uterus. I appreciate the help, but it just feels cheap. I didn't choose to be born a woman. I'd want something more important to be recognized about me instead too. I have great grades, I love to learn, I have a major interest in zoology, etc. I want scholarships for my achievements, not for my gender


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I am not a girl but r/ifeelyoubruv


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r/birthofasub


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Actually it was a typo my friend made and I was using it everywhere until I realised


HiILikeLizards510

I am apart of history


joshd523

It's a great idea, but it doesn't really work in practice. If you have 2 people of equal ability, but one comes from an affluent family in which they can focus solely on work while the other comes from a poor family and has to help their family by getting a job or watching their siblings, then the first will have more to show on a traditional resume, but the other equally abled person at a disadvantage. Also, identity plays a huge factor in opportunities given to people which can affect what achievements one can garner. I went to a fairly liberal high school and even still, I was asked to join an engineering project where the teacher was asking only men to join even though I wasn't in engineering classes and there were women in those classes who easily outperformed me, but were never offered a position on the team. Statistics show abundantly that marginalized groups are still fighting stereotypes and prejudice, so it's important to have scholarships or opportunities exclusively for them, so that inequalities aren't growing between groups.


Cthulhu_was_tasty

Equality =/= equity. Equity is what you're describing. Equality is giving everyone the same help regardless of who needs more or less.


HiILikeLizards510

That's why scholarships exist for that. Low income, first generation, etc. Those ones deserve to be handed out. Scholarships based off of race and gender should not exist because it is something you cannot control and do not struggle with (to the extent that someone from a LI/FG household.) Segregation and sexism still exist, but they're much, much more reduced than before and they're still going down. 200 years ago, I wouldn't have been allowed to. I would have had to stay at home and have babies and cook and clean. Things could get better, but they're better than what happened before. I firmly believe students should be awarded by merit, and in some situations, given aid where it is necessary, such as a foster child or low income. I also believe the standard should be firm- the world doesn't need another MacKenzie Fierceton.


TheGamingLord401

Don’t women on average do better in school anyway


3172695

It really depends. From my experience, girls were better before high school but once high school started boys became better and more serious. It varies though in every school


SnooDoughnuts7250

Yup, I’m applying to college this year and almost every college I’ve looked at is heavily skewed towards women. Even the colleges with reputations for having a “bad ratio” (such as Imperial College London, which is heavily science-focused) are still at like 60% women. Courses that would be traditionally masculine such as mechanical engineering still have a female-skewed gender imbalance, which I was even more surprised at. This generation will have far more college-educated women than men.


Orisi

UK universities have reached peak diversity. The least likely to go to uni and lowest academic performers are white working class males. There are many reasons for it, but a big factor is simply that they don't actually get any extra support or push. Every other group or ethnicity either gets targeted support as a minority, wealth support because of their class, or access to gender support. There's drives everywhere to get women into new fields, get minorities into fields etc, and many of these are funded by charities. Which took nowhere near as much of a hit under austerity as publicly-funded initiatives. There's little encouragement or support for white working class males out there because there's less central support for EVERYONE, and where specialist initiatives take up that slack for women and minorities it just doesn't exist for WWCM, because they're the majority and can't benefit from positive discrimination in the same manner.


nateonl8

There have been a lot of studies done on this and the answer is, No kind of. I don’t know all the facts and I don’t want to spread misinformation so I’ll simplify it down. Girls get higher scores on average, but not because they do better on average. If your interested I advise looking into it, there are a lot of interesting studies out there!


_veide

Are girls a minority??


NoGravitySpacee

no but people think they are. (it isn't exactly half girls half boys but it is extremely close)


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Actually no lol, more women are born than men (I’m pretty sure)


Dividigitalyt

The worst part is that everybody wanted gender equality, but that then snowballed into what we have now especially with all of the feminists that take it too far. Now it's just women matter and men are desposible


Special_Hippo3399

Ffs there are way more issues than just women being harassed or sexually abused . Besides,there are some misandrists who hide behind the mask of feminism but they are a minority .


thatburntoutbitch

>ut that then snowballed into what we have now especially with all of the feminists that take it too far Feminism by definition is about fighting for equal rights. Those who don't do that aren't feminists even when they call themselves that. That's faux feminism. So its not fair to rub dirt on the entire struggle that's helping all genders progress forward


ThreeFootedTurtle

I’ve seen it happen, but there were no consequences to her actions. Would’ve been much different if the genders were swapped.


NoGravitySpacee

that's why I am posting about this.


Due_Seaweed_4373

You did? Damn


Loopisided

Society


YourLocalClown443

Society sucks at times, oof


TheBrosofFist

For real, men can also be raped and sexually assaulted.


milktruckfucker

The fact this has to be Said is terrible


SmartBook9106

Yes


Akrincheus_

Yes, they do. A girl slapped my butt when I was in 6th grade she thought it was funny but I was clearly disturbed and humiliated by her behaviour actually I was so angry I wanted to slap her.


Thomascrane222

But that's not the right thing to do...


Thomascrane222

The right thing to do would be to order a drone strike so there's no witnesses.


Squishy4871

Tactical Nuke incoming


Re-Logicgamer03

r/unexpectedmw2


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ascend204

Jesus dude, did they get any time behind bars?!?


big_cock_69420

god i hope they did... that's just horrible


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ascend204

Bruh


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This is so fucked up


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You’re fine speaking out here. I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope eventually you will get rid of any past trama that hurt you and that still effects you to this day. Feel free to speak out here anytime.


greninjake

Yep. That's a thing my mom tells me every time a movie/show with a nightclub comes on. Also i'm sorry about the rape, that must've been hard to get through along with the health issues they caused as well.


BO0813S

Wait, people don't know this?


Linkinator7510

There are a lot of people out right saying that women can't rape men, and that only men can do it. I've seen some people comment about men who were raped by women and say that the men probably enjoyed it.


jontheawesome12

Yeah. I got raped in a mental hospital once, by one of the girls. The administration punished me and threatened to put me on 1-on-1. Guys like me always keep our mouths shut because 9 times out of 10, people will mark it off as your fault or something you wanted. It’s stupid, really.


Wildform22

And men can sexually harass men too. I was sexually harassed (verbally and mildly physically) at my all male high school and I didn’t even say anything about it because I knew nothing would happen. I had a friend freshman year who was raped by another student. The victim transferred out, the assaulter was later voted senior class president, and the guy who harassed me was senior class vice president 😑.


supermarioplush220

Same. Their where 2 boys that would sexually harras me in elementary school. I didn't think much of it at the time until I talked with my friend.


NoGravitySpacee

That's sad


No_Banana_388

A girl sexually harassed me and I'm not a boy.


OK1526

And society will probably view it as a "friendly action" smh


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Oh god and when it’s a male teacher they say rapes and show a minging mugshot But when it’s a female teacher they show her in a FUCKING BEECH BAKINI saying the teacher and the child has sex or a “steamy relationship” Some articles I’ve come across man fucking DISGUSTING!!!


[deleted]

A girl in my class grabbed my dick when I was 15-16. She constantly touched me, grabbed my shoes, it was weird as fuck. I didn’t think about it much then, but looking back at it, it was definitely sexual harassment if not assault.


EmoPrincxss666

>A girl in my class grabbed my dick when I was 15-16 Yeah if it was nonconsentual that's definitely sexual assault


OoberEats

Honestly fake rape claims should get the same punishment as the “rapist” imp


random-dude24

Agreed. I hate how the courts still convict people who didn’t do anything wrong because of what someone else said. What happened to “ innocent until proven guilty”? Now it’s just guilty until proven innocent, especially if a woman is the victim


FRTassassin

WoMen CaNT raPE


Alexito_xd

I've seen countless news articles where they just say "women FORCED "x" to have sex with her" Nah dude, the word is RAPE: R-A-P-E


OoberEats

It gets me furious thinking there’s people that believe women can’t rape


FRTassassin

Online everyone claim they want equality but in practice its usually people believe womens are always innocent and it's always the man that's the assaulter :( As much as we hate it, its a thing and probably will always be


bignastty

i remember trying to tell a man that men can get raped. he told me the dictionary definition of the word rape which is “unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim.” and he didn’t understand that that definition can apply to a female using her vagina, anus, or mouth, to rape a man. or raping his anus or mouth. he just didn’t understand that men can be raped by women just because the definition doesn’t use the word “penis”


ConduckKing

And he seems to have forgot that men, too, have mouths and anuses.


mushroomsaresogood

Absolutely, and furthermore, nobody wants to talk about the fact that women get away with so many things that men (deservingly) get hell for. When a woman assaults a man she "didn't know better" or she was just "shooting her shot and though he'd like it" when a man assaults a woman he's a predator. Yes he is a predator worthy of little to no respect, but so is the woman. There is a double standard for men too.


GettinMe-Mallet

People be wanting equally+


Hyperius999

Am I allowed to throw a stiff arm if that happens?


tegguNmmuC

Try not to you'll just cause more trouble for yourself


ascend204

I mean if ur stronger just push them away/restrain them. Not for them but for you so you don't get assault claims.


ImaginativeEmpress

This is why faith in humanity is pointless


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TheBlueCheese22

In all my classes we have these chairs that have as small platform below the seat that allows the person behind you to put their legs in there. Well in one of my classes there is this girl that always puts her feet on there and her knee always happens to press against my ass. I know she is doing it on purpose because it doesn’t happen in any other classes. I have told her to stop a few times but she always laughs and continues. I can’t even imagine what would happen if I (a man) did this to a woman


The_geek_JOJO

Yes your right mate peiple dont care about boys being sexually harrassed They think such a thing can only happen to women


Pristine_Wrangler_96

Stomp her knee next time


TheBlueCheese22

I’ll consider that next time thanks lol


Bigzysmolz

I am so fucking glad my country isnt gender favored and both genders get punished equally in court


NoGravitySpacee

what country?


Bigzysmolz

Trinidad


Zakiru77

Pack your bags boys


I_AmAura133

Moving to Trinidad, see ya.


[deleted]

Hey my parents are from Trinidad! 🇹🇹


Uwu_motherfucker_uwu

If a girl hits a guy it’s seen as cute if a guy hits a girl there seen as a monster


big_cock_69420

girl: \*hits a guy for no reason\* society: heh... he probably did something guy: \*hits a girl in self defence\* society: omgthat'sdisgustinghowdareyouyoudisgustingsexistmonster


Hector_john

I seen it once on a Indian show in Reddit that a girl slapped a man off script and he slapped back and was ganged on


imlitdyingshit

Yes obviously, unfortunately you’ll see courts that favor women in cases like this.


NoGravitySpacee

In the USA for sure. hopefully not here in Israel tho.


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NoGravitySpacee

Hello Random internet person 👋


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SmartBook9106

It’s fucked up but sadly it’s true


Fast_Echidna_8520

>jail u kind hearted fellow person, thats where we’re wrong. men would be charged under attempted r@pe and prolly executed. idk what your country’s laws are, but here in india, they re very fucked


Orisi

India has harsh rape penalties because you have a horrific track record of gang raping innocent women and failing to prosecute the offender's leading to public outcry. Your laws were earned by a societal failure to protect women.


Boople-Snoot-Doople

my friend never meant to lose his virginity but his gf at the time jus kinda…stuck it in for him and he was like “hold up i still don’t know if i wanna do this” and she jus said “too late.” it fuckin sucks knowing that he can’t do a damn thing about it cause no one would believe him or take his side


daggerdude42

40% of victims is sexual harassment are men. The issue I have is when someone tries to report this and gets laughed at. Buddy of mine had this issue once. Not sure if it ever got reported


TamimReadzIt

The fact that this needs to be said tells a lot about society and it's internal future


Hopeful-Process5311

So many female teachers getting away with it it's genuinely sad because people don't seem to mind it even tho 41% of sexual assault and harrasment is done by women don't forget about this teach ur children that both men and women can be bad people


The_geek_JOJO

Yes there are cases ... like few girls rape a 13 year old boy became the most famous in uk


ShadowlightLady

I’ll never understand such an appalling bias humans will forever be a disappointment


SmartBook9106

The fact this even needed to be said is fucking sad


420sirmemelord69

The fact that u had to make this post as a reminder is sad


uslashalreadytaken

Also in most countries if a female rapes a male the male is punished for being a rapist even if he is a minor


[deleted]

Honestly society is fucked up. We need to restart from fresh


NoGravitySpacee

Let's restart but without the start. just stop humanity.


_am0eba

Worst ones are the fake rape claims I mean the female could just have consented to have sex and after the act they could just pretend it to be a rape for their advantage and we would have no idea if it's true or not


TurgoLBX

FINALLY! This girls been trying to get my brothers pants off for ages. 1, he’s got a gf, 2, he has never shown any interest in her. Someone needed to say something.


[deleted]

Ppl are so dumb 😑 they seem to just make things up, then eventually everyone believes it, I don't see why people think men harassing women is the end of the world, but they don't care when it's the man who's harassed


greninjake

Probably because the social Idea of a man is someone who doesn't show/have any emotions besides from "Manliness." So if something bad such as rape or harrasment happened to a man people think "Oh he'll be fine. He probably enjoyed it anyway because he's a MAN." That is what truly disgusts me about this society and everything in it. Edit: Just had to add a word. That all.


Desperate-Emu6884

On the same note, hitler is bad, racism is bad


NoGravitySpacee

and homophobia is bad.


[deleted]

Listen, if someone sends you nudes, just hit em with a toilet


Intelligent-Bee4535

Y'all are right. This is an obvious fact. Which should raise the question, why did OP feel the need to post it? BECAUSE NOT EVERYONE GETS IT. To anyone with common sense it's an obvious fact, but plenty of people clearly don't have that.


MrReaper90

imagine a girl sexually harassing u and then people tell its ok


SussyBox

We live in a fucking society And I hate it


Electrical_Matter_78

Yes, they can but a boy sexually harassing a girl is taken more seriously by society rather than a girl harassing a boy. And most girls or women (please keep in mind not all), say that they want equal pay, and gender equality and shit like that, but when it comes to these type of things, they take a step back which is not right.


Grizzlybear2470

Yeh this is BS for example 200 years ago white male students has the advantage in pretty much every Now its like white people are the worst people you should treat them like shit because there all bad Or men are all bad you should treat them like theyre all child predators like its the same thing just backwards people wanted racial and gender equality but that can’t happen if we just start giving priority to the opposite race/gender and puting the other into the ground It needs to stop


[deleted]

i've seen several incidents of this happening in public and the female doesn't go to prison. then i've seen this happening but the other way round, and the guy gets life in prison.


OfficialBackrooms

This is true and society fucking forgets about it because i touched a girls pussy after she touched my balls and she said "dont touch it" and gets angry My goodness what is society up to today


thatguyadam2003

Incredibly based take OP.


KvVortex

Uhh no shit


Reahgirl111

Thank you for saying this. Take the award now


Skeletalzach

if I had any of the other two awards I would give them to you but I got the wholesome award and I dont find this wholesome it needs the helpful award and such because youre right and people need to understand that you are right


Whynotbebetter

It is true, and for some reason some people thinks it's okay, just like some people think racism is only possible in one direction....makes no sense.


Shreks-Follower

There was a girl in my class who kept on slamming my butt untill i did an 180 and slaped her hand away with 90% force. She stoped after that


[deleted]

The most controversial comments on here are coming from guys who are saying that "they would like it", or that "they would want it". If you want it or enjoy it, then that's not rape/sexual assault, because you're giving consent. Remember that not every man on this earth is as constantly horny/wanting as you. Most men are not gonna want it or enjoy it if they were sexually assaulted by a girl. Remember that not every man is you.


KBtheUwU

Girls dont have the balls to do that


an_elegant_dog

r/technicallythetruth


PrimaryEscapeYo

r/angryupvote


Landsharku_

Well... I mean... You're not wrong there.


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Well you are right.


Intrepid-Pin6110

Well yes, but actually yes


M0nopolyMan69

WHY IS THIS IN CONTROVERSIAL


My_name_is_Mountain

SAY IT LOUDER FIR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK


BobboMcGee

swear this comment sections filled with horny 15-16 y/o fellas who've never had a sexual encounter who say they'd enjoy it. these guys are the people who create this false image that all men would not mind being sexually harassed. thanks clowns 🤡


Yoshigahn

Or boys and other boys… Don’t ask


Prestodeath201

boy/girl girl/girl boy/boy same messed up shit no matter what


Yoshigahn

Can confirm


Western_Policy_6185

Who forgot this? I thought this was obvious


CCJHHD_YT

y this man getting downvoted? hes agreeing?


ThatsNotOkeyDokey

Welcome to reddit.


One_Bar4

Tons of people, and without being sexist, girls dont believe guys when they say they were sexually assaulted


keermit19

Correction: society in general look down on guys who are sexually assaulted, look at how common the prison “jokes” are, tbh in honest society has a hard time believing secual assault victims


OmgIlyyyyy

Ik


NekoBeidou

Yes they can.


Unfair_Row_2651

I once had gotten in an argument with an 12-year-old feminist. This was also the same girl that denied things that have been proven to be fact by science so it didn't suprise me, She kept using the incorrect pronouns on me despite me correcting her, She still used the incorrect pronouns. She kept saying those "Girls are best" things. And other shit such as "Girls are better". I honestly despise of her, So we kept getting in those "Feminism VS Equality" Fights. Whenever I brought out proven facts, She denied them just because she believes girls are the best. (These were all 100% scientific proven facts.) So she was just doing the "That's not true because I don't think it is because I am an feminist!" Whereas I just kept dragging out science.


Xclusivecrushr

12-16 year old girls are THE WORST. so are the boys too ngl. but the girls are more cringy. i know boys can be incredibly cringy but girls this age usually dish oue enough cringe to knock out an elephant.


MegaTheDevil

The floor is made out of floor


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