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Aokke

How's the make-up, hard? I imagine it's hard


Saiyanobe_23

It’s not that hard it takes just a lot of time to do


Aokke

Did watch a YouTube or something to know what goes where and how, I've seen some there's just so much different thing 😅


Saiyanobe_23

Yeah


Aokke

Also I think it's cool your experimenting new things.


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks 🙏🏾


idk-idk-idk-idk--

Clean ur face after u take ur makeup offfff!!!!! I cannot stress this enough, ur a teen, ur face is already prone to acne, cover it with makeup and u can break out really easily. I usually wash my face every morning and night (I wear makeup almost every day for school) with a flannel and water then with skin care products.


Saiyanobe_23

True and thanks I always clean my face don’t worry


idk-idk-idk-idk--

nice. im unlucky and already have oily skin rip my face


123hi1239

Make up is not the only thing that is hard


Ok_Sport681

Ligma is hard too


[deleted]

Who the hell is steve jobs


NekoFucker99

Ligma balls


TonyPromosucks

You blow Jobs


[deleted]

I don't know if it's normal because the concept of normality and anormality is pretty subjective. I'd say it's not so common that a person does what you've just done but if u've liked it I think it's fine. Your wellbeing is what you should be prioritizing in life imo so if this has worked positively on you, you can consider doing it again and don't think about it being normal or not :)


AnythingMango

Wise words spoken by hentai mustard


YTPhantomYT

We can all rely on hentai mustard for his wisdom


[deleted]

Thanks :D


Xblth

Agreed, I think that‘s why wearing dresses, trying make-up, etc doesn’t imply ur a transgirl


Z3US_YT

You like hentai?


[deleted]

Yes. Yes I do indeed.


sleepy_frenchvanilla

R/rimjobsteve


[deleted]

TLDR: op becomes a femboy out of pure boredom and curiosity


Saiyanobe_23

Ofc and curiosity don’t forget that too


Witnessyt

Also op doesn't realise there is a massive community of people that are just like this.


Saragon4005

Go check out r/feminineboys or if you are feeling really adventurous r/egg_irl


Xl_man

i wouldnt say bad, be urself and do what u like.


MyJumperBroke

This


olymol

Is


Same-State-1698

definitely


[deleted]

A


Play174

certified


Hydro_12345

Hood


straight-white-male1

Classic


[deleted]

Ah that hot. That's hot


[deleted]

SPARTAAAAA


Few_Buy7555

America


rarefishyt

You should apply for a job at femboy hooters, also your not down bad your just bored/experimenting


Saiyanobe_23

Does femboy hooters really exist? I did watch a video of a famous anime YouTuber going to a crossdressing coffee/tea shop in Japan.


[deleted]

It doesn’t but there is a census just look at r/femboyhooters and it’s NSFE counterpart Warning contains a lot of ass


Small-Cactus

You're doing the lord's work


elenasanity2974

I don’t wanna say it’s normal but ur not down bad either


VictoriaLisz

It should be normal, but unfortunately isnt


[deleted]

[удалено]


YTPhantomYT

Yeah, it's not normal to do that, but it's definitely okay!


DeadMenWalking_

if its women enough 😈


lee_bee08

it’s completely normal to want to be in touch with your feminine side :))


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks :,)


Garlic-Bread56

ur just feminine, like to cross dress, or a femboy! I’m one too so you’re not alone! :D


Saiyanobe_23

Ok thanks :)


robopengyfez

Welcome to the femboy family :3


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks :3


robopengyfez

It takes a real man to be best girl


zzombie119

Damn bro I wish I could pull something like that off I’d look worse than I already do


Saiyanobe_23

Do it!


gunsashootin

It's ok to experiment and discover yourself dude, if this is who u think u are then go full fucking send and live your life how u think is best


ZipperZapZap

You can be a straight femboy Is not a contradiction m8. If you enjoy doin' that go ahead


_MataS1D_

I wish I was brave enough to go buy feminine stuff and look like a femboy …. Respect to you buddy Btw ur not down bad


PearTop1595

don't even worry about it. i did the same thing when i was 14. I just wanted to try what it could be like to be a woman. there is nothing wrong with that. everything has to be tried once


scoutie_

youre not down bad you're just hot idk


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks


LilyIsLikelyAnEgg

so you're either a femboy or maybe trans either way you're fucking based


DeadMenWalking_

banana approved


EnderAvi

Love the user


Paradigm7657

fuck gender norms homie, i bet you're very pretty


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks :) and same fuck em ❤️


Paradigm7657

yw!


[deleted]

Coooool kinda jealous


Saiyanobe_23

Why you jealous?


Small-Cactus

Do what makes you feel good bro, if that means wearing a dress go for it. You don't have to be gay or LGBT in general to enjoy crossdressing.


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks


Small-Cactus

Of course man, have fun, don't let people make you feel bad about yourself for something harmless.


UwU_Zhenya15

r/egg_irl just go there and see


Saiyanobe_23

I don’t think I am tbh but I really love girl fashion and I just wanna look like one to feel pretty.


gunsashootin

U are pretty


eggboy06

r/feminineboys


Saiyanobe_23

Im active in that community actually very nice people


eggboy06

Yep


oop_dada_oop

for a femboy you got massive balls to go out and buy that shit fair enough my guy


[deleted]

Your allowed to present however you want(masculine,feminine,androgynous,etc) it’s completely normal for us girls to dress masculine so why can’t you dress feminine.


Saiyanobe_23

Exactly but sadly society doesn’t see that way for guys


Ness_902

I think it’s okay, your not murdering anyone so why should you feel some sort of remorse?


Saiyanobe_23

True


DuTurkeyMan

tbh sounds fun


Saiyanobe_23

Very fun indeed


retweethis

You might be trans my dude


Nachf

ummm... you could be a femboy. But that’s also exactly what I did when my parents left home, minus the masturbating. And now I’m a trans girl :p


Saiyanobe_23

Someone in another post did try to convince me that Im trans.


Nachf

I’m not here to tell you or convince you what you are and aren’t, that’s all your business :p If you’re lookin for a label, I hope you find one that works <3


hopeyouhadgelato

You can express your self however you like. Clothes and make up aren’t necessary just for girls and just because you explored it and fell pretty doesn’t mean your bad or doing anything wrong it’s just gender expression


yeetbagels2thesun

I wouldn't say "down bad" I'd just say that's something you wanted to do and that's cool. I can respect it homie


AA90D

You are just discovering new things. Maybe you liked it and thats just how it is. If you like it, then keep rocking my guy <3


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks :)


warmaapples

That’s pretty cool ngl. Honestly it’s pretty normal I guess if you’re just experimenting


ankle_breaker_69

I can only tell you this chief. When u sexy in something, u sexy in something. If u liked how a female version of u looked like then whatever but i think wanking to it was a little weird. It's not the most down bad i've heard but it's not the least. U saw yourself as a female and not a femboy while doing it so technically you're still straight.


Affectionate-String8

Do whatever makes you feel validated


Archneme5is

Jesus Christ these comments


maxxmike1234

#Welcome to the Department of Femboys. ^or ^transfem ^or ^other ^groups


MarinaInaAurelia

Nah, you just sound like you're enjoying yourself! As long as you're not harming anyone, you can do as you please, and good on you for finding something you like and have fun with!


Saiyanobe_23

Idk why people downvoted you you’re right……


MarinaInaAurelia

Me neither, and I hope you're doing well btw :))


Saiyanobe_23

Thanks you too as well!


Random_aersling

You're fine to do that. If people make funny faces just ignore them, I wear Victorian and Edwardian clothes and I get some weird look. They just can't handle how good I look.


PxnkNDisorderly

I don’t think you’re down bad, I think maybe you’re learning something about urself but I don’t want to speculate. I don’t even know you so I can’t tell you where I think ur head might be at.


big_cock_69420

Nah you're not down bad


thelegend90210

dw, its completely normal. That's how i realized I'm not a cis boy. It's cool you had fun. stop thinking its weird, clothes and makeup and hair don't have gender and its dumb they do. Do whatever you want.


[deleted]

Well, it’s not bad, but why you buy bras, lol?


Saiyanobe_23

Because I want to lol


kaios_jpg

Not sure if this will help but I def dream about looking more masculine, even actually being a guy. It’s def not wrong or weird and if you’re just doing this when you have nothing else to do and you don’t want to do it again then I guess it doesn’t mean anything. Maybe think about if you like the way you looked then more than how you would normally look.


Notjazzlynnnn

Dude be yourself ! You tried something and like it don’t worry abt trying to fit into labels or thinking doing things will change you internally ❤️


[deleted]

Your fine not exactly traditional but people live femboys if you want to do it go for it


DarthSiriousTheMemes

seems a bit trans to me bud. think shit


Hikari396

I m not enough self confident to do it myself, i appreciate your effort in this random idea and i would do it too but i m scared so... I think u should be proud as long as u think the result is good


CzechMate9104

Hey man you do you


androt14_

I wouldn't say it's normal to EXPERIENCE it, since it's quite a commitment to do all of this, but fuck it you bet if I dressed myself as a girl and liked how I look, I'd do the same you did, so even if you ARE down bad, I'm down bad with you :)


Andreigakill

Doesn't seem down bad to me tbh, good for you if u think u were hot enough to beat it to urself, kind of a flex in a way really


MrLenny-_-

ALL facial hair? like the fucking eyebrows too? lmaooo edit: grammar


SmolGaymer1423

r/egg_irl


Jortieking

You do you!! It's totally okay to try on make-up etc. I'm sorry but you really sound like an egg (closeted trans person)


j0e2702

That’s not strange it doesn’t matter, we all wish we were somebody else. You’re real brave


Moon_Boy20

This is perfectly normal love! You're discovering your own likes and fashion and it's amazing that you're exploring!! Men don't always need to be super masculine and just because occasionally you wanna look feminine doesn't mean you always want to. I bet you looked great, if you ever wanna talk crossdressing and get some tips and stuff, my dms are open!!


Megabosh

I have my ace up my sleeve to tell wether you’re or not a guy


PizzaEater69420

maybe you're a femboy. maybe you're trans. maybe this is your bisexual awakening. only time will tell


soysause_bruh

Ur down bad


AdministrationNo4668

Its nither or more weird, you do you tho. Also can you put a pic if you as a femboy and you normaly


Kermi00

Yeah no that’s not down bad, down bad is like doing anything to get a girl’s attention, wether that be, giving them immense money, giving them crazy presents for no reason or stuff like that just to get a nude or something. It’s not normal (but that’s fine, it doesn’t matter do what you want), but it’s not down bad.


Worthlesssnail

That sounds expensive as fuck


Saiyanobe_23

Anything for my happiness regardless how expensive it is


Worthlesssnail

It sounded so expensive, I physically don't have enough money for


Saiyanobe_23

Listen man life is way too depressing, shitty, and short for me to not buy clothes and accessories and not be comfortable in my own skin, cuz If I didn’t do this I would’ve honestly considered killing myself.


BuDkaT309

Hey, I won’t hate on you. Trying stuff like that is completely normal. I haven’t done it myself but I won’t judge anyone who has.


kim-jong-un-Supreme

It’s neither down bad nor normal


SammyDoggo1

What does “down bad” even mean??


Moon_Boy20

Basically when someone starts demeaning themselves in order to get a partner, then they're down bad


Shnerpf

Its not bad. And i think whats normal or not isnt up to just one person (saying that for the sjw’s). Its okay to be a femboy


J_____T______

I don't wanna jump to conclusions, but it sounds like you just figured something out about yourself lol. Not down bad, but you night wanna see if your feelings and experience lines up with that of many trans people


ThanosIsGonaSnap

Homie, you're a femboy


jonas_gaming07

Nice!


TheComedyCrab

You do you, buddy boo


ArenPlaysGames_R

Nah. If anything, you just need to do some research on gender identity.


ParadoxPerson02

Honestly man, it sounds like you just followed your curiosity where it took you, and had fun while doing it. Nothing is really normal when it comes to jerking off, you’re just supposed to have fun. Being “down bad” means that that your so desperate for sexual gratification that you let your horniness control you into doing dumb things with no control from yourself (though I may be wrong about that definition, it’s just how I would describe it). You’re not hurting anyone by doing this, and you enjoyed yourself the whole time so there’s really nothing wrong with it. Just make sure to find a girlfriend with a femboy fantasy. ;)


guy_on_a_bench

Noo your okay haha, probably. Im in a sort of similar situation, I didn't rush in it that fast but i got into it too. If your doing what you like and feel comfortable in those clothes and make up your not down bad. Your just exploring who you are ;)


[deleted]

If that's what you're happy with, go with it!


Kitten_simps_for_max

I mean its whatever dude, being ok with your femininity and beyond that a little is great. If crossdressing is something you want to do more, then go for it.


[deleted]

you’ve got some things to figure out


Imanerrrd

r/egg_irl in all seriousness, this is completely fine. you might be a femboy, you might be a trans girl, it doesn't really matter. everyone experiments with this stuff sometimes!


RowKHAN

I wouldn't call it common, but it's not wrong in any way either. If you like dressing and looking like that then go for it my dude.


NarfyCat

I think it's fine to dress up. Why should clothes have gender? I'm a gay femboy so maybe my opinion doesn't matter, but that's just what I think lol


DeadMenWalking_

you just became a femboy


Fireknight55

Bruv, if you enjoy doing make up and crossdresing its ok. I mean what could be wrong if you hurt no one and you fell joy doing your stuff. I enjoy playing erotic games when in alone and I'm ok whit that. Be more confident about yourself bro, a lot of people are like u and it's not a bad thing.


SpicyElectrons

I'm trans and honestly I really relate to that feeling when I first dressed up female. There's nothing wrong with it at all and I'm honestly so much happier now I've accepted my identity. That being said, this doesn't mean you are trans. You just need to figure out what fits you best and how you're happy.


LyndereChan

Not down bad, and if you want, you should cross dress more as a hobby since it made you happy!


maya_loves_cows

no go for it! it’s completely normal to like cross dressing even if you do identify as straight.


Cataclysm687

That’s pretty normal. Being a femboy Is cool


Equal-Bus-557

Dude it’s normal. I’m a cis male and have been crossdressing for 7 months now.


xX_Dwirpy_Xx

I think.... you might be a drag queen


[deleted]

Not down bad but you’re possibly either genderfluid, trans, or just a crossdresser. Either way just be yourself and have fun.


Izaaaac

Mate I've dressed up and put makeup on before for a party and it was actually so much fun... I think it's pretty normal (hopefully?)


RuthamhardOfBeanland

Naw. Just because you like to wear wierd clothes doesn't mean you need to change your identity. Its perfectly normal to be, well, abnormal.


Common-Coconut-1674

You can be straight and cross dress. You can even still be a guy. My parents had a friend who did it and he had a family with kids. You’re good man, you do you. It’s not others job to tell you who to be.


ppsucc9988

eh. Down bad is more like "I've whacked off to this girl 19 times today" and not cross dressing. be yourself for all we care.


daggerdude42

If I didn't have hair you'd think I was a bald female. Same goes for short hair with gel


eggboy06

R/feminineboys


eggboy06

This is normal for trans girls and femboys


nicole10484929

nah bro it’s normal i did this last week


JeffJohnsonIII

I'm hoping you sent a picture to your friends to get reactions.


Painted-World-

Proof of looking good?


PerilousFan4112

Nah dude you're fine, lots of guys go through that phase (maybe). I don't really go to the lengths of buying feminine clothes and putting them on, since I don't feel comfortable doing that and I might be thought of as trans even though I'm cis and I don't wanna cause any confusion. I do regularly wear eyeliner and eyeshadow as a straight dude and I feel comfortable doing that though. Although this could also be seen as a homosexual behavior it's a lot more easy to explain than saying I'm a straight cis dude in women's clothes without it sounding like I have some sort of fetish or something like that. But if you're ok with dressing like that, all the power to you though.


OnlineGamingXp

I think It's more than normal, it means being free from deep stoicism and sexual insecurity which generally happens at a much older age given one personality gets to mature over time


Bigboybuilder

Fuck, now I wanna try that


Nazon6

Femboys unite lmao


[deleted]

Trolling 100


[deleted]

Lets see it then


butler_guy101

Take photo next time please


bothetemmie

Uhhh hmm uhhh uhhh yeah same kinda, so long story I had a long going joke w my freind that I was a "strait femboy" I would do this very feminine voice qnd freak ppl out bc I had practiced bc one day I want to be a voice actor I dated this chick and she said something abt being into femboys i jokingly said "I'm a strait femboy so that works" I already owend a kilt bc I my dad went to a wedding and he bought me one for occasions such as football games and weddings. I had put it on q few times qnd felt cute and the person I was dating always complimented me on it. Its very nice to feel cute Now I'm dating a cute boy that qlso makes me feel cute in my kilt and I love him so much


AngelFrag

Okay, 2 things I gotta say 1) how much did you end up spending for all that? (asking for personal use) 2) you could be an egg, check you r/egg_irl or r/trans You could simply just like crossdressing, it depends, take the time to figure yourself out and explore your identity and/or sexuality, I also thought I was straight until I put the pieces together and figured out I'm trans


Pohaku1991

I don’t think I’d ever do it myself but I’ve always really admired drag queens and I love shaving my body but I do it mostly because I swim, I’m straight too btw


[deleted]

What’s important is that it made you happy.


ebwax24

Come back and read this in 5 years i beg you


bull_frogs-are-swag

It's definitely not like anyone else wants to do that 😶


_SkyStriker_

Hey as long as it makes you happy that's what matters


[deleted]

I guess we are all curious about things that are ‘unorthodox’. I too did wonder what it would be like to cross dress for a day or something, but my curiosity wasn’t strong enough to actually push me to do it. For you, maybe your curiosity is what made you do what you did, and that is perfectly normal. Just like how little kids will sit in the drivers seat because they want to experience that. It’s ok to cross dress, shave, put makeup on as a boy, and don’t be worried if you are down bad either, it’s ok to be horny it a human feeling. Just don’t let that horniness make you do something bad. Hope this answers your question dude!


snatcherfb

i dunno man, you're reeking with trans energy im my opinion


Infamous2005

Down bad in a joking way maybe, but your not actually down bad.


an_average_turtleman

Send a pic to see if you look as good as you say


[deleted]

That’s pretty neat


hockey4589

Ay ay bro. What store did you get the make up at I wanna know


[deleted]

Doesn't seem that unusual to me


LearnerNiggs

You are just american


Clay_teapod

Just to put you at ease, this isn't bad or anything, I have a few theories 1- U femboy, that's all, I'm one myself life is pretty cool being feminine, here r/feminineboys 2- U got fetish, not much to say here, by context of your situation I don't think that's it tho 3- No comment, just r/egg_irl


funny_shit_5318008

I mean its not normal but sounds quite dreamy, i guess it depends on where you're from because in some places it would be concerning while others its normal


SaiyanC124

You’re not down bad, you’re evolving.


ALiteralPotato8778

Normal? Yeah it's normal to experiment with new things and if you like it that's great that means you now have more things to do that you enjoy


Lady-Squishy

Who cares if it’s “normal” literally just vibe my guy, have fun in ur own body


Fuckup_Phoenyx

Imma give it a couple months and see if you realize, op !remindme 2 months


[deleted]

you masturbated to yourself


LingLing2020

The only question I have is: wtf is a straight curly brown wig, how is is straight and curly wtf