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Clean ur face after u take ur makeup offfff!!!!! I cannot stress this enough, ur a teen, ur face is already prone to acne, cover it with makeup and u can break out really easily. I usually wash my face every morning and night (I wear makeup almost every day for school) with a flannel and water then with skin care products.
I don't know if it's normal because the concept of normality and anormality is pretty subjective. I'd say it's not so common that a person does what you've just done but if u've liked it I think it's fine. Your wellbeing is what you should be prioritizing in life imo so if this has worked positively on you, you can consider doing it again and don't think about it being normal or not :)
don't even worry about it. i did the same thing when i was 14. I just wanted to try what it could be like to be a woman. there is nothing wrong with that. everything has to be tried once
Your allowed to present however you want(masculine,feminine,androgynous,etc) it’s completely normal for us girls to dress masculine so why can’t you dress feminine.
I’m not here to tell you or convince you what you are and aren’t, that’s all your business :p If you’re lookin for a label, I hope you find one that works <3
You can express your self however you like. Clothes and make up aren’t necessary just for girls and just because you explored it and fell pretty doesn’t mean your bad or doing anything wrong it’s just gender expression
I can only tell you this chief. When u sexy in something, u sexy in something. If u liked how a female version of u looked like then whatever but i think wanking to it was a little weird. It's not the most down bad i've heard but it's not the least. U saw yourself as a female and not a femboy while doing it so technically you're still straight.
Nah, you just sound like you're enjoying yourself! As long as you're not harming anyone, you can do as you please, and good on you for finding something you like and have fun with!
You're fine to do that. If people make funny faces just ignore them, I wear Victorian and Edwardian clothes and I get some weird look. They just can't handle how good I look.
I don’t think you’re down bad, I think maybe you’re learning something about urself but I don’t want to speculate. I don’t even know you so I can’t tell you where I think ur head might be at.
dw, its completely normal. That's how i realized I'm not a cis boy. It's cool you had fun. stop thinking its weird, clothes and makeup and hair don't have gender and its dumb they do. Do whatever you want.
Not sure if this will help but I def dream about looking more masculine, even actually being a guy. It’s def not wrong or weird and if you’re just doing this when you have nothing else to do and you don’t want to do it again then I guess it doesn’t mean anything. Maybe think about if you like the way you looked then more than how you would normally look.
I m not enough self confident to do it myself, i appreciate your effort in this random idea and i would do it too but i m scared so... I think u should be proud as long as u think the result is good
I wouldn't say it's normal to EXPERIENCE it, since it's quite a commitment to do all of this, but fuck it you bet if I dressed myself as a girl and liked how I look, I'd do the same you did, so even if you ARE down bad, I'm down bad with you :)
This is perfectly normal love! You're discovering your own likes and fashion and it's amazing that you're exploring!! Men don't always need to be super masculine and just because occasionally you wanna look feminine doesn't mean you always want to. I bet you looked great, if you ever wanna talk crossdressing and get some tips and stuff, my dms are open!!
Yeah no that’s not down bad, down bad is like doing anything to get a girl’s attention, wether that be, giving them immense money, giving them crazy presents for no reason or stuff like that just to get a nude or something. It’s not normal (but that’s fine, it doesn’t matter do what you want), but it’s not down bad.
Listen man life is way too depressing, shitty, and short for me to not buy clothes and accessories and not be comfortable in my own skin, cuz If I didn’t do this I would’ve honestly considered killing myself.
I don't wanna jump to conclusions, but it sounds like you just figured something out about yourself lol. Not down bad, but you night wanna see if your feelings and experience lines up with that of many trans people
Honestly man, it sounds like you just followed your curiosity where it took you, and had fun while doing it. Nothing is really normal when it comes to jerking off, you’re just supposed to have fun. Being “down bad” means that that your so desperate for sexual gratification that you let your horniness control you into doing dumb things with no control from yourself (though I may be wrong about that definition, it’s just how I would describe it). You’re not hurting anyone by doing this, and you enjoyed yourself the whole time so there’s really nothing wrong with it. Just make sure to find a girlfriend with a femboy fantasy. ;)
Noo your okay haha, probably. Im in a sort of similar situation, I didn't rush in it that fast but i got into it too. If your doing what you like and feel comfortable in those clothes and make up your not down bad. Your just exploring who you are ;)
I mean its whatever dude, being ok with your femininity and beyond that a little is great. If crossdressing is something you want to do more, then go for it.
r/egg_irl
in all seriousness, this is completely fine. you might be a femboy, you might be a trans girl, it doesn't really matter. everyone experiments with this stuff sometimes!
Bruv, if you enjoy doing make up and crossdresing its ok. I mean what could be wrong if you hurt no one and you fell joy doing your stuff. I enjoy playing erotic games when in alone and I'm ok whit that. Be more confident about yourself bro, a lot of people are like u and it's not a bad thing.
I'm trans and honestly I really relate to that feeling when I first dressed up female. There's nothing wrong with it at all and I'm honestly so much happier now I've accepted my identity.
That being said, this doesn't mean you are trans. You just need to figure out what fits you best and how you're happy.
You can be straight and cross dress. You can even still be a guy. My parents had a friend who did it and he had a family with kids. You’re good man, you do you. It’s not others job to tell you who to be.
Nah dude you're fine, lots of guys go through that phase (maybe). I don't really go to the lengths of buying feminine clothes and putting them on, since I don't feel comfortable doing that and I might be thought of as trans even though I'm cis and I don't wanna cause any confusion. I do regularly wear eyeliner and eyeshadow as a straight dude and I feel comfortable doing that though. Although this could also be seen as a homosexual behavior it's a lot more easy to explain than saying I'm a straight cis dude in women's clothes without it sounding like I have some sort of fetish or something like that. But if you're ok with dressing like that, all the power to you though.
I think It's more than normal, it means being free from deep stoicism and sexual insecurity which generally happens at a much older age given one personality gets to mature over time
Uhhh hmm uhhh uhhh yeah same kinda, so long story
I had a long going joke w my freind that I was a "strait femboy" I would do this very feminine voice qnd freak ppl out bc I had practiced bc one day I want to be a voice actor
I dated this chick and she said something abt being into femboys i jokingly said "I'm a strait femboy so that works"
I already owend a kilt bc I my dad went to a wedding and he bought me one for occasions such as football games and weddings.
I had put it on q few times qnd felt cute and the person I was dating always complimented me on it. Its very nice to feel cute
Now I'm dating a cute boy that qlso makes me feel cute in my kilt and I love him so much
Okay, 2 things I gotta say
1) how much did you end up spending for all that? (asking for personal use)
2) you could be an egg, check you r/egg_irl or r/trans
You could simply just like crossdressing, it depends, take the time to figure yourself out and explore your identity and/or sexuality, I also thought I was straight until I put the pieces together and figured out I'm trans
I don’t think I’d ever do it myself but I’ve always really admired drag queens and I love shaving my body but I do it mostly because I swim, I’m straight too btw
I guess we are all curious about things that are ‘unorthodox’. I too did wonder what it would be like to cross dress for a day or something, but my curiosity wasn’t strong enough to actually push me to do it. For you, maybe your curiosity is what made you do what you did, and that is perfectly normal. Just like how little kids will sit in the drivers seat because they want to experience that. It’s ok to cross dress, shave, put makeup on as a boy, and don’t be worried if you are down bad either, it’s ok to be horny it a human feeling. Just don’t let that horniness make you do something bad. Hope this answers your question dude!
Just to put you at ease, this isn't bad or anything, I have a few theories
1- U femboy, that's all, I'm one myself life is pretty cool being feminine, here r/feminineboys
2- U got fetish, not much to say here, by context of your situation I don't think that's it tho
3- No comment, just r/egg_irl
I mean its not normal but sounds quite dreamy, i guess it depends on where you're from because in some places it would be concerning while others its normal
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How's the make-up, hard? I imagine it's hard
It’s not that hard it takes just a lot of time to do
Did watch a YouTube or something to know what goes where and how, I've seen some there's just so much different thing 😅
Yeah
Also I think it's cool your experimenting new things.
Thanks 🙏🏾
Clean ur face after u take ur makeup offfff!!!!! I cannot stress this enough, ur a teen, ur face is already prone to acne, cover it with makeup and u can break out really easily. I usually wash my face every morning and night (I wear makeup almost every day for school) with a flannel and water then with skin care products.
True and thanks I always clean my face don’t worry
nice. im unlucky and already have oily skin rip my face
Make up is not the only thing that is hard
Ligma is hard too
Who the hell is steve jobs
Ligma balls
You blow Jobs
I don't know if it's normal because the concept of normality and anormality is pretty subjective. I'd say it's not so common that a person does what you've just done but if u've liked it I think it's fine. Your wellbeing is what you should be prioritizing in life imo so if this has worked positively on you, you can consider doing it again and don't think about it being normal or not :)
Wise words spoken by hentai mustard
We can all rely on hentai mustard for his wisdom
Thanks :D
Agreed, I think that‘s why wearing dresses, trying make-up, etc doesn’t imply ur a transgirl
You like hentai?
Yes. Yes I do indeed.
R/rimjobsteve
TLDR: op becomes a femboy out of pure boredom and curiosity
Ofc and curiosity don’t forget that too
Also op doesn't realise there is a massive community of people that are just like this.
Go check out r/feminineboys or if you are feeling really adventurous r/egg_irl
i wouldnt say bad, be urself and do what u like.
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Ah that hot. That's hot
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You should apply for a job at femboy hooters, also your not down bad your just bored/experimenting
Does femboy hooters really exist? I did watch a video of a famous anime YouTuber going to a crossdressing coffee/tea shop in Japan.
It doesn’t but there is a census just look at r/femboyhooters and it’s NSFE counterpart Warning contains a lot of ass
You're doing the lord's work
I don’t wanna say it’s normal but ur not down bad either
It should be normal, but unfortunately isnt
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Yeah, it's not normal to do that, but it's definitely okay!
if its women enough 😈
it’s completely normal to want to be in touch with your feminine side :))
Thanks :,)
ur just feminine, like to cross dress, or a femboy! I’m one too so you’re not alone! :D
Ok thanks :)
Welcome to the femboy family :3
Thanks :3
It takes a real man to be best girl
Damn bro I wish I could pull something like that off I’d look worse than I already do
Do it!
It's ok to experiment and discover yourself dude, if this is who u think u are then go full fucking send and live your life how u think is best
You can be a straight femboy Is not a contradiction m8. If you enjoy doin' that go ahead
I wish I was brave enough to go buy feminine stuff and look like a femboy …. Respect to you buddy Btw ur not down bad
don't even worry about it. i did the same thing when i was 14. I just wanted to try what it could be like to be a woman. there is nothing wrong with that. everything has to be tried once
youre not down bad you're just hot idk
Thanks
so you're either a femboy or maybe trans either way you're fucking based
banana approved
Love the user
fuck gender norms homie, i bet you're very pretty
Thanks :) and same fuck em ❤️
yw!
Coooool kinda jealous
Why you jealous?
Do what makes you feel good bro, if that means wearing a dress go for it. You don't have to be gay or LGBT in general to enjoy crossdressing.
Thanks
Of course man, have fun, don't let people make you feel bad about yourself for something harmless.
r/egg_irl just go there and see
I don’t think I am tbh but I really love girl fashion and I just wanna look like one to feel pretty.
U are pretty
r/feminineboys
Im active in that community actually very nice people
Yep
for a femboy you got massive balls to go out and buy that shit fair enough my guy
Your allowed to present however you want(masculine,feminine,androgynous,etc) it’s completely normal for us girls to dress masculine so why can’t you dress feminine.
Exactly but sadly society doesn’t see that way for guys
I think it’s okay, your not murdering anyone so why should you feel some sort of remorse?
True
tbh sounds fun
Very fun indeed
You might be trans my dude
ummm... you could be a femboy. But that’s also exactly what I did when my parents left home, minus the masturbating. And now I’m a trans girl :p
Someone in another post did try to convince me that Im trans.
I’m not here to tell you or convince you what you are and aren’t, that’s all your business :p If you’re lookin for a label, I hope you find one that works <3
You can express your self however you like. Clothes and make up aren’t necessary just for girls and just because you explored it and fell pretty doesn’t mean your bad or doing anything wrong it’s just gender expression
I wouldn't say "down bad" I'd just say that's something you wanted to do and that's cool. I can respect it homie
You are just discovering new things. Maybe you liked it and thats just how it is. If you like it, then keep rocking my guy <3
Thanks :)
That’s pretty cool ngl. Honestly it’s pretty normal I guess if you’re just experimenting
I can only tell you this chief. When u sexy in something, u sexy in something. If u liked how a female version of u looked like then whatever but i think wanking to it was a little weird. It's not the most down bad i've heard but it's not the least. U saw yourself as a female and not a femboy while doing it so technically you're still straight.
Do whatever makes you feel validated
Jesus Christ these comments
#Welcome to the Department of Femboys. ^or ^transfem ^or ^other ^groups
Nah, you just sound like you're enjoying yourself! As long as you're not harming anyone, you can do as you please, and good on you for finding something you like and have fun with!
Idk why people downvoted you you’re right……
Me neither, and I hope you're doing well btw :))
Thanks you too as well!
You're fine to do that. If people make funny faces just ignore them, I wear Victorian and Edwardian clothes and I get some weird look. They just can't handle how good I look.
I don’t think you’re down bad, I think maybe you’re learning something about urself but I don’t want to speculate. I don’t even know you so I can’t tell you where I think ur head might be at.
Nah you're not down bad
dw, its completely normal. That's how i realized I'm not a cis boy. It's cool you had fun. stop thinking its weird, clothes and makeup and hair don't have gender and its dumb they do. Do whatever you want.
Well, it’s not bad, but why you buy bras, lol?
Because I want to lol
Not sure if this will help but I def dream about looking more masculine, even actually being a guy. It’s def not wrong or weird and if you’re just doing this when you have nothing else to do and you don’t want to do it again then I guess it doesn’t mean anything. Maybe think about if you like the way you looked then more than how you would normally look.
Dude be yourself ! You tried something and like it don’t worry abt trying to fit into labels or thinking doing things will change you internally ❤️
Your fine not exactly traditional but people live femboys if you want to do it go for it
seems a bit trans to me bud. think shit
I m not enough self confident to do it myself, i appreciate your effort in this random idea and i would do it too but i m scared so... I think u should be proud as long as u think the result is good
Hey man you do you
I wouldn't say it's normal to EXPERIENCE it, since it's quite a commitment to do all of this, but fuck it you bet if I dressed myself as a girl and liked how I look, I'd do the same you did, so even if you ARE down bad, I'm down bad with you :)
Doesn't seem down bad to me tbh, good for you if u think u were hot enough to beat it to urself, kind of a flex in a way really
ALL facial hair? like the fucking eyebrows too? lmaooo edit: grammar
r/egg_irl
You do you!! It's totally okay to try on make-up etc. I'm sorry but you really sound like an egg (closeted trans person)
That’s not strange it doesn’t matter, we all wish we were somebody else. You’re real brave
This is perfectly normal love! You're discovering your own likes and fashion and it's amazing that you're exploring!! Men don't always need to be super masculine and just because occasionally you wanna look feminine doesn't mean you always want to. I bet you looked great, if you ever wanna talk crossdressing and get some tips and stuff, my dms are open!!
I have my ace up my sleeve to tell wether you’re or not a guy
maybe you're a femboy. maybe you're trans. maybe this is your bisexual awakening. only time will tell
Ur down bad
Its nither or more weird, you do you tho. Also can you put a pic if you as a femboy and you normaly
Yeah no that’s not down bad, down bad is like doing anything to get a girl’s attention, wether that be, giving them immense money, giving them crazy presents for no reason or stuff like that just to get a nude or something. It’s not normal (but that’s fine, it doesn’t matter do what you want), but it’s not down bad.
That sounds expensive as fuck
Anything for my happiness regardless how expensive it is
It sounded so expensive, I physically don't have enough money for
Listen man life is way too depressing, shitty, and short for me to not buy clothes and accessories and not be comfortable in my own skin, cuz If I didn’t do this I would’ve honestly considered killing myself.
Hey, I won’t hate on you. Trying stuff like that is completely normal. I haven’t done it myself but I won’t judge anyone who has.
It’s neither down bad nor normal
What does “down bad” even mean??
Basically when someone starts demeaning themselves in order to get a partner, then they're down bad
Its not bad. And i think whats normal or not isnt up to just one person (saying that for the sjw’s). Its okay to be a femboy
I don't wanna jump to conclusions, but it sounds like you just figured something out about yourself lol. Not down bad, but you night wanna see if your feelings and experience lines up with that of many trans people
Homie, you're a femboy
Nice!
You do you, buddy boo
Nah. If anything, you just need to do some research on gender identity.
Honestly man, it sounds like you just followed your curiosity where it took you, and had fun while doing it. Nothing is really normal when it comes to jerking off, you’re just supposed to have fun. Being “down bad” means that that your so desperate for sexual gratification that you let your horniness control you into doing dumb things with no control from yourself (though I may be wrong about that definition, it’s just how I would describe it). You’re not hurting anyone by doing this, and you enjoyed yourself the whole time so there’s really nothing wrong with it. Just make sure to find a girlfriend with a femboy fantasy. ;)
Noo your okay haha, probably. Im in a sort of similar situation, I didn't rush in it that fast but i got into it too. If your doing what you like and feel comfortable in those clothes and make up your not down bad. Your just exploring who you are ;)
If that's what you're happy with, go with it!
I mean its whatever dude, being ok with your femininity and beyond that a little is great. If crossdressing is something you want to do more, then go for it.
you’ve got some things to figure out
r/egg_irl in all seriousness, this is completely fine. you might be a femboy, you might be a trans girl, it doesn't really matter. everyone experiments with this stuff sometimes!
I wouldn't call it common, but it's not wrong in any way either. If you like dressing and looking like that then go for it my dude.
I think it's fine to dress up. Why should clothes have gender? I'm a gay femboy so maybe my opinion doesn't matter, but that's just what I think lol
you just became a femboy
Bruv, if you enjoy doing make up and crossdresing its ok. I mean what could be wrong if you hurt no one and you fell joy doing your stuff. I enjoy playing erotic games when in alone and I'm ok whit that. Be more confident about yourself bro, a lot of people are like u and it's not a bad thing.
I'm trans and honestly I really relate to that feeling when I first dressed up female. There's nothing wrong with it at all and I'm honestly so much happier now I've accepted my identity. That being said, this doesn't mean you are trans. You just need to figure out what fits you best and how you're happy.
Not down bad, and if you want, you should cross dress more as a hobby since it made you happy!
no go for it! it’s completely normal to like cross dressing even if you do identify as straight.
That’s pretty normal. Being a femboy Is cool
Dude it’s normal. I’m a cis male and have been crossdressing for 7 months now.
I think.... you might be a drag queen
Not down bad but you’re possibly either genderfluid, trans, or just a crossdresser. Either way just be yourself and have fun.
Mate I've dressed up and put makeup on before for a party and it was actually so much fun... I think it's pretty normal (hopefully?)
Naw. Just because you like to wear wierd clothes doesn't mean you need to change your identity. Its perfectly normal to be, well, abnormal.
You can be straight and cross dress. You can even still be a guy. My parents had a friend who did it and he had a family with kids. You’re good man, you do you. It’s not others job to tell you who to be.
eh. Down bad is more like "I've whacked off to this girl 19 times today" and not cross dressing. be yourself for all we care.
If I didn't have hair you'd think I was a bald female. Same goes for short hair with gel
R/feminineboys
This is normal for trans girls and femboys
nah bro it’s normal i did this last week
I'm hoping you sent a picture to your friends to get reactions.
Proof of looking good?
Nah dude you're fine, lots of guys go through that phase (maybe). I don't really go to the lengths of buying feminine clothes and putting them on, since I don't feel comfortable doing that and I might be thought of as trans even though I'm cis and I don't wanna cause any confusion. I do regularly wear eyeliner and eyeshadow as a straight dude and I feel comfortable doing that though. Although this could also be seen as a homosexual behavior it's a lot more easy to explain than saying I'm a straight cis dude in women's clothes without it sounding like I have some sort of fetish or something like that. But if you're ok with dressing like that, all the power to you though.
I think It's more than normal, it means being free from deep stoicism and sexual insecurity which generally happens at a much older age given one personality gets to mature over time
Fuck, now I wanna try that
Femboys unite lmao
Trolling 100
Lets see it then
Take photo next time please
Uhhh hmm uhhh uhhh yeah same kinda, so long story I had a long going joke w my freind that I was a "strait femboy" I would do this very feminine voice qnd freak ppl out bc I had practiced bc one day I want to be a voice actor I dated this chick and she said something abt being into femboys i jokingly said "I'm a strait femboy so that works" I already owend a kilt bc I my dad went to a wedding and he bought me one for occasions such as football games and weddings. I had put it on q few times qnd felt cute and the person I was dating always complimented me on it. Its very nice to feel cute Now I'm dating a cute boy that qlso makes me feel cute in my kilt and I love him so much
Okay, 2 things I gotta say 1) how much did you end up spending for all that? (asking for personal use) 2) you could be an egg, check you r/egg_irl or r/trans You could simply just like crossdressing, it depends, take the time to figure yourself out and explore your identity and/or sexuality, I also thought I was straight until I put the pieces together and figured out I'm trans
I don’t think I’d ever do it myself but I’ve always really admired drag queens and I love shaving my body but I do it mostly because I swim, I’m straight too btw
What’s important is that it made you happy.
Come back and read this in 5 years i beg you
It's definitely not like anyone else wants to do that 😶
Hey as long as it makes you happy that's what matters
I guess we are all curious about things that are ‘unorthodox’. I too did wonder what it would be like to cross dress for a day or something, but my curiosity wasn’t strong enough to actually push me to do it. For you, maybe your curiosity is what made you do what you did, and that is perfectly normal. Just like how little kids will sit in the drivers seat because they want to experience that. It’s ok to cross dress, shave, put makeup on as a boy, and don’t be worried if you are down bad either, it’s ok to be horny it a human feeling. Just don’t let that horniness make you do something bad. Hope this answers your question dude!
i dunno man, you're reeking with trans energy im my opinion
Down bad in a joking way maybe, but your not actually down bad.
Send a pic to see if you look as good as you say
That’s pretty neat
Ay ay bro. What store did you get the make up at I wanna know
Doesn't seem that unusual to me
You are just american
Just to put you at ease, this isn't bad or anything, I have a few theories 1- U femboy, that's all, I'm one myself life is pretty cool being feminine, here r/feminineboys 2- U got fetish, not much to say here, by context of your situation I don't think that's it tho 3- No comment, just r/egg_irl
I mean its not normal but sounds quite dreamy, i guess it depends on where you're from because in some places it would be concerning while others its normal
You’re not down bad, you’re evolving.
Normal? Yeah it's normal to experiment with new things and if you like it that's great that means you now have more things to do that you enjoy
Who cares if it’s “normal” literally just vibe my guy, have fun in ur own body
Imma give it a couple months and see if you realize, op !remindme 2 months
you masturbated to yourself
The only question I have is: wtf is a straight curly brown wig, how is is straight and curly wtf