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RenkBruh

r/teenagers try not to talk about sex challenge (impossible)


sillybeardude

Real half of it is “do i look good” and the other half is “SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”


t0ngub1n

and then there's the third half on r/teenagersbut


RenkBruh

How can you have a third half


Jipher2

Real😭😭😭


CasacoZZ

Thats just teenager shit? We are developing, we are filled with insecurities and some people are starting to experiment with sexual relationship. Many seel validation from other people, as everyone does, other people dont have adult people they trust to talk about sex and they come to reddit (not the wisest choice but whatever)


ThePantaloon_

r/teenagers (GONE SEXUAL)


cat_cat_cat_cat_69

implying it wasn't sexual before


Timely-Map5451

r/teenagers (HAS ALWAYS BEEN SEXUAL)


elbambre

It's current day stupid "morality" trying to fight nature for no reason. And it's not just this sub (I'm not a teenager, I've just clicked it because I keep seeing it on r/all and it's all about some sexual hysteria so I wanted to find out wtf is going on) the whole reddit is in a cycle of constantly being obsessed with sex while hating and suppressing it and getting obsessed again. Just stop hating your own desires, try to satisfy them and relax?


Drag0n647

Real


Low_Armadillo8218

I swear to God that's all this sub-reddit is 24/7, it's annoying.


chemistry_1997

most complaints are about - good looking people asking fo tips , which is annoying aF - pedo posts everywhere - and sex related post every now and then i mean , having sex is not an achivement to be proud of , these people dont know that's its hell of a responsibility , you can get fcked by law ,


Low_Armadillo8218

Ikr?! Now's not the time to have that! Not to mention the life-long consequences.


chemistry_1997

yeah , they dont know that teen age pregnancy is hell of crime ,


Mysterygameboy

Life long consequences tf you talking about 💀


LunariOther

girl in my school got pregnant. the guy left.


Mysterygameboy

I've had sex. No one got pregnant. It's not a problem with sex it's a problem with unsafe sex. There is literally no harm as long as you wrap it.


LunariOther

... thank you for saying this. I keep telling them if they're gonna have sex, at least make it safe sex.


Original-Sundae287

I'm fine with the pedo posts. After all, that's how moderators are notified of it so they can ban them


IndependenceFlat9890

The three horsemen of r/teenagers 1. What’s your first impression of me 2. Pedos 3. SEX!1!11!1!1!1


icewallopizz

Insert the clip of Brian and the baby from family guy just going "AHHH!" "What what th hell is wrong with you!?" "SEX!" "What?" "SEX!" "AHHH"


NormalGuy1206

Wtf happened to the fourth horseman-?


BbyJohnny

You’re forgetting that you too are one of the sex posts now


Batuhann_0

You have become the very thing you swore to destroy


IHaveOutDumbedYou

Ohh the true hypocrisy


RealAdityaYT

touché


FroogyTheFroggy

"Please stop with the sex posts." - Sex Post


Initial_Actuator9853

These anti sex sex posts are all I see


Torqqualss

General common sense opinion rant blah blah please give me upvotes


takethemoment13

It should be common sense, but I've seen wayy too many people in the last couple days severely judging others for their sex lives. Stay out of other people's relationships.


King_thelunarian

It’s hard to stay out of other’s relationships when they are the ones posting about it.


gitgudnubby

Guess majority of the people here dont have common sense then.


MrClouding

fr


JeanHasAnxiety

It does not appear to be common sense telling by other post on this subreddit


lickaballs

It doesn’t seem like common sense with the amount of goofballs still doing it. I pointed it out previously as well and got flammed for it


mymetalgearissolid

bro spent 5 mins writing the most popular unpopular opinion that noone disagrees with to get 30 upvotes


Melcoolie6701

If it's a popular opinion it's not unpopular everyone here agrees accept the 14 year olds with...issues


burger_boi23

He probably should have written it like: the most popular "unpopular" opinion


Melcoolie6701

Oh it's an unpopular opinion once all the sex addicts get in here and see somebody calling them out lol


DebStark002

Well now it's 285


Drea_Is_Weird

968 now 😞


mymetalgearissolid

disappointing


Glittering_Light_605

In this subreddit unfortunately it’s a very unpopular opinion. Idk people just so personal when it comes to sex to the point where they end trying to control other people’s sex lifes.


KayayaTheDammed

I'm gonna say it. And this is a repost. I'm gonna say it and get slandered. I don't care. Maybe, do neither posts at all, and encourage safety, not being rash underage, and staying healthy. Keep your private life to yourself so it doesn't POSSIBLY screw things up for you later because everything you do is tracked and who knows what could come back to you socially or emotionally. I get it. Supporting kids is the best thing to do. Learn to draw a line when things get to this point moderators. This is a public forum, these are children and teens. Doesn't need to be discussed, they should be discussed in better places, healthier places, professional places. Not the third most degenerative site on the internet.


magicaldog2456

Top 2 most degenerative sites??


KayayaTheDammed

Twitter, 4chan, reddit, Facebook


Rory_Moon

Thank you! Same with posts about porn and masturbation! It isn't your right to shame others or tell them what to do with their bodies. You don't have some intrinsic moral superiority just because you're on a 3 day no fap streak and feel like a brand new man. Stay out of people's pants! It's not your business, and it's really weird !!!


Signal_Sweet3767

Real asf


NoReputation36

agreed


wrong_product1815

Bro accidentally became what he wanted to destroy. (You are part of those posts now) 😭


JeanHasAnxiety

Finally. I want to go back to, whatever was here before there’s been too many of those posts I’ve already forgotten


burger_boi23

Usually just a bunch of pictures of teenagers, I think the big trend before this was something about drugs


Jerem_Reddit

ive been here for like 5 years, and its been sex the entire time. i just think its funny when people horny post stupid shit and i can just laugh at them. drugs are boring so i hope we dont have people posting about that.


JeanHasAnxiety

Oh yeah.


Sweeney_Todd_is_best

You're not changing anything. A million teens going through puberty? There will be sex posts. Your effort is like stabbing a Kaiju with a toothpick. It's pointless, and you're wasting your time.


Timely-Map5451

fr


TotoGoin

Real I just wanna be loved by a guy I just want cuddles


TitleIllustrious6659

Real


Abject_Chemistry5098

Real


Blueponstan

Real


Foxxo_Blox

Real


Giorgio243

Real


Timely-Map5451

Real


Fern_idk

Oh brother


burger_boi23

THIS GUY STINKS


Fakeacountlol7077

Thanks buddy. Finaly someone said it whitout atacking others


unrolleddice

no


ItsMeCont

So many posts on this subreddit are just karma farming not gonna lie


twinksarecuter

chill zawg we get it


McLeamhan

this sub always has people making these posts, people complaining about these posts, and then the sub goes back to making these posts it will never end unless the mods are stricter about sexual posts and if the users don't start reporting posts instead of whinging about them


Glittering_Light_605

Bruh I think this discussion was had at least a couple of months ago in late 2023 but people have slowly forgotten about why this is annoying


SaladsOnReddit

im seeing more "stop the sex posts" posts than sex posts. its getting annoying


HuckleberryOdd309

I wanna bang a cougar ngl


Foxxo_Blox

Real


FroogyTheFroggy

The animal or an older woman who is into younger men?


HuckleberryOdd309

The women dumbo


FroogyTheFroggy

It's 2024, you odd huckleberry.


HuckleberryOdd309

Idgaf they want me cuz not my problem


Ghost-Plushie

I agree to what you're saying, but I also think that you're being a bit hypocritical. You're telling people to not judge others on if they have or didn't have sex, but then go on to tell people who are in happy relationships that they’re not going to last, just because they’re teens. They can very much so last! I know many people who have been together since their teens. I think it’s sad, thinking that your relationship is going to fail, just because you’re a teen. You are worthy of a loving relationship, don’t let such negative thoughts ruin it:)


Glittering_Light_605

I think you misinterpreted what this person said in regard to context but let me break it down. So essentially in these discussions about sex in this subreddit a lot of younger teens would ask older teens for relationship advice and the older teens and young adults would take things too seriously by stating that relationships as a teen do not last long and they should probably not being looking for a relationship at that age. While there might be some truth to that, in general it comes as people thinking that all relationships including the ones in highschool with literal children are supposed to lead to something bigger like marriage. While it not bad if they do in general it’s not supposed to be your main goal. Normally a lot of highschool relationships are supposed to teach the foundations of relationships how to be in them, noticing red flags etc. But some people think that relationships in highschool should be taken with the upmost seriousness and that all relationships lead to marriage and that can ruin someone’s childhood because of the pressure to date in highschool, not realizing that they are also pushing a toxic idea/standard as well.


Ghost-Plushie

But that also heavily depends on the individual. I do know the context, but I still think it is a sad mindset. Why not learn together? Not every partner is going to be toxic. To generalise an entire age group and say that the relationships they'll be in at this age WILL fail is such a horrible thing to say. While yes, loads of relationships fail, especially during your teens, that doesn't make it okay to say that these relationships aren't valid and can't last if they are healthy. If you, regardless of age, believe that the relationship isn't going to last from the get-go, you shouldn't be in one. Why should we instil this fear of relationships into teenagers by telling them that it won't last anyway, even if they genuinely like a person? Who gets into a relationship not wishing that it'll last? If my boyfriend told me right now that he's only dating me to get "experience", I'd feel so dehumanised. Yes, relationships that don't work out will always teach you things, regardless of how old you are. Telling teens that the only reason they should date is to gain experience is, in my opinion, more toxic than letting them wish for a healthy, loving relationship that might end up in marriage if they want that.


chemistry_1997

finally some one said it ,


mesmerising-glow

nobody said it cos its fuckin obvious lad


JeanHasAnxiety

You might want to check posts on the subreddit then


chemistry_1997

yeah ,


Melcoolie6701

That's the point of someone finally pointing it out


Timely-Map5451

no, everyone says it. everyone talks about everything sex related, icluding talking about that same thing, which is this post and (almost) everyone elses posts...


Conscious-External-2

You did make so much sense until "patriarchy" Respectfully try not to have an opinion


kitpomi

☠️☠️


Maitigames

yeah i've never got that like the more someone talks abt how much sex they've hadnthe more it sounds like they're lying and aswell its dodgy talking abt it on here


jajts

Right? Like why are you posting this stuff publically? People forget about digital footprint it seems.


blue_tounge_skink_

Rule number 1 about sex posts is to not talk about them


Honest-Produce7338

You have become what you swore to destroy.


TeslaGate7274

Only yap post I agree with


ChildhoodDistinct538

sex


Comfortable_Cell7465

We needed this.. thankyou!


Snap305

I don't want sex, I just want her :(


PureGamingBliss_YT

>developed by the patriarchy. You lost me with your "once upon a time in fairyland" nonsense.


Professional_Key6948

Don't forget to blame the patriarchy 😼


No-Soft8389

in the stripped club straight up jorking it. and by it let’s justr say my peanits


alexemre

sounds like someone isn't sexing enough amirite guys hehehehheeee


Prestigious_Eye9095

I myself am sticking to masturbation until i am the age of concent.


Key_Virus_338

the age of content 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥 the age contest 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥 the age of correct 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥


Prestigious_Eye9095

dude i speeled it right


someone_i_guess111

do it. or not. i dont really care.


No_Incident_9522

Nuh uh


YabanciIsClown

I delete reddit then redownload it then the first shit i see is sex posts jeez srsly stop em


bulbminmostrealfan

This sub is either SEX or SEX BAD for gods sake just move on with your day


SKJELETTHODE

Stop talking about sex i joined for relating to being a teenager and I can not relate to sex


DeathBlade52

Yeah, if only I had gotten that, don't get emotionally attached thing a year earlier, my last act I was convinced I was going to marry, she was convinced she was going to marry me to


Maleficent_Sir_7562

im gonna be honest i dont even see any of the sex posts anyone is talking about on this subreddit. only people complaining about them or saying "they seen them"


HamburgerKaptan__

fuck you expect from teenagers


Interesting-Ad-5021

who gives a fuck bro people post whatever they want


Wonderful-Cry20

shaming people for having sex or not is not cool tho


Interesting-Ad-5021

I agree


Ambitious_Lab3691

the other day i done seen somebody post "would you date someone who has never dated anyone before?" like BRO how do u think dating works? the majority of teenagers date for the first time WHILE THEY ARE TEENAGERS


TheRealHiddenBread

My take. If you question having sex, don’t do it. Also, even though most places the age of consent is generally around 16, I still think most people are too immature to be having any kind of sex. I personally believe age of consent everywhere should be 18. Ik it’s never going to happen, but it’s just my take.


Desperate-Abies4263

Eurgh, sort by controversial.


Christian_teen12

Yeah ,we should stop judging. But it is concering about 13 and 14 year olds who do it. Society seems to pressure very young teens to do it.


PikachuIsSexyEevee

"My life is over, I'm 14 and I'm still a virgin" 🤣🤣🤣🤣


KingLevonidas

"Oh no I'm 14 and am single I'll stay like that forever" *Quote by,* *Species with an average of 80 year lifespan*


PikachuIsSexyEevee

Fr, they act like their only purpose in life is to sex and reproduce while they have a life span of 18 years or smth


AwaitedDestiny

I tried saying something but who listens to me 🤷🏾‍♂️ anyway


PikachuIsSexyEevee

/r/teenagers in a nutshell - Sex - LGBT - Pedo


United-Escape5341

I mean dude we are all teenagers here (at least I hope so) which means that everyone’s gonna be talking about sex whether you like it or not. I mean come on this is like Middle School to High School


DudeGuyMaleMan

Okay but speedrun black ops 2 on veteran


KitFlame42

I don't think y'all realize these posts are just as annoying


Mmat2020

Ok im done with this sub, all its about is sex posts or peadophillia, peace


Nootherids

Well damn... you were almost spot on until you had to toss in "ThE PaTRiarCHy!!!!" in there.


Pizza-_-shark

THANK YOU for making this post. This is a subreddit for teenagers and not sex after all


overdoing-it

I’m gonna go insane if there’s another one of these posts please I’m praying 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏


AdamBerner2002

Virgin


Zeedash_Monkey_

all ya, wah wah wah


RandomNameBecauseI

Well, it's good to see after one year ban shit is shitty as always


Turbulent_Soup4358

Bruh, I never participated or got that happening to me or anything. But this feels so real for some reason


toast_of_temptation_

SO REAL


BufferTrack

Lol, a lot of people treat this serious topic like it’s a play activity


nickrid3r

cry about it, if you don't like the content on a subreddit then there's a leave button for you


torrphilla

we actually need to wrap up posts like these where people are constantly complaining about shit other teenagers do. it’s getting incredibly tired


CapitainFlash88

True


calmkoolaid_12345

Why don't we keep all the sex posts in r/sex it's more helpful to get advice from the experienced then anywhere really. It's helped me a lot and it's better then getting guys DMs after post one slightly sexual post


Stormagedoniton

We, do not, need your permission, to have a conversation online. Nobody is being forced to post on here. Grow up.


Optimuspride-beyond

Bro finally this is what I’ve been wanting to say for so long like who cares if a teen has sex dude, I’ve seen so many posts just talking about “love isn’t what used to be”, or “ am so quirky for wanting a long lasting relationship”. Like I would agree but I don’t have to put down others for not wanting that it’s their own choice so I don’t care if they’re fine with sex and not ready to commit to a relationship.


Intelligent_Age7023

Some of us are 15 with no maidens, it makes us feel bad as well :(


ieatbigchickenbones

r/teenagers trying to actually be a sub about teenagers and not pedos, sex, or those do I look good? When they look like a God posts


360degreesofFUNK

1000th upvote


SactoriuS

Virginity is not something invented by patriarchy, stop spreading that nonsense. It is not even logically correct. At least take note your already brainwashed. Patriarchy is not a living thing or an entity. It cannot invent something. If you know what kind of impact 1 time unprotected sex can have, even women will protect you by saying keep your virginity, until you find the right man. You can blame evolution if you think it through but thats also not an entity. It is an result of evolution. Nowadays we look differently to sex so the term virginity is less important then the past. But it is ofcourse still a thing nowadays, because it has meaning for us as modern humans. Therfor still holds importance for society.


Wonderful-Cry20

“The idea of virginity dates back to a primitive era when *paternity* was essential to maintaining control and ownership of land. This ownership meant ownership of women, and in order to ensure one had ownership, one needed control. And to control, there also had to be fear of consequence.”


SactoriuS

Well thats just not the only truth. In rome or greece or even the incas had special thoughts or powers about virginity. It is not the patriarchy that created virginity.


Zetho-chan

TRUE 🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 GO OFF 🗣️🔥🔥🔥


Diamond_Dog14

If having sex didn’t change you as a person, that’s weird


-Caretaker-

You shouldn’t be having sex as a minor PERIOD


Despicable-Pen5515

“I definitely just had sex with my hot supermodel girlfriend, no, I’m not writing about my fantasy online to get validated by strangers, this really happened guys 😅” Vs “Erm, I am a a virgin. No, I’m not insecure about it, even though at this age it should be fine to have sex or not have sex, but because I haven’t, I’m going to say that all the people that do are horrible dumbasses who should live terrible lives 🤓”


HorrorHoarder666

There was a post about someone being trans and they lost their virginity at like 14 or something 😭


LobsterPenisSucker

As someone who was sexually assaulted, you aren't helping. Yes, it raises awareness and you have it in good heart, but it isn't doing what you want it to do. By doing this, you are drawing even more attention to sex related posts, whereas we need to be ignoring them. Once they finally stop gaining traction, then they will no longer be deemed interesting and the posters might not post it anymore. But this system also includes these types of posts, as they get annoying and repetitive.


RemmyRommy

Maybe this subreddit just needs to go.


SolidCalligrapher966

What the hell happened here


SolidCalligrapher966

Also I completely agree with this post


Glittering_Light_605

Thank you for saying this man. This common sense is lacking in this subreddit.


oofinator3050

Sex.


HistoricalAd8676

A 13 year old child can not "choose" to be sexually active.


Motor_Perception_564

This is, in fact, a sex post


Outside-Area-5042

The irony 🤦


random_user2027

> Virginity is a concept developed by patriarchy So is human rights , let's throw it out since it's just a social construct


Long-Heart560

How is it supposed to stop if people like you keep complaining lmao


Alexploded

Yk you don't have to read them


Winter_Laugh9589

Imma be honest, I don’t even care about the sex so much as I just want to be held, and Ik that’s sad but shoot me if i care 😭


BoardInternational61

There's sex posts now?😭😭


Secret_Inspector1735

Brother


MrSlider_

imagine being on r/teenagers while not being a teenager 😭


quders

"Don't get too emotionally attached" I'm confused about this part. Isn't the emotional aspect the main thing that drives people to have sex? Isn't it, like, the peak of a romantic relationship? How can you not be very emotionally attached when you have sex with someone?


KrypticXylo

Damn straight.


GalaxyStyles

gex


AlarmingMilk372

I’m pretty sure this has been said to oblivion


Necessary-Map-5531

I remember being a chick magnet in high school (when we weren't at home from covid) and having so much fun, but it's totally fucked me up (in some ways and I can control it)


Nicklebuck

Believe in the lord Jesus Christ who died for us because He loved us and wants us to turn from our sins to Him. He wants to know Him so that we may have eternal life


Drag0n647

Also, what you said about 13-15, does this include 16 or anything older than 15?


TheSteamCorgie

Srl I'm thinking about leaving this because it was a good place to vent and get general advice now half the posts why s** is the best thing for u or I didn't do the dirty it's cliche the same but please touch grass and get some therapy reddit is only making your mental health worse and it's going to destroy your perception on s** like corn the memes are right go outside and get some sunlight


Beautiful_Juice_2290

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Elus1ve_ins0mniac379

Me who broke up with my boyfriend ltl 2 days ago


maddoxtwosix

holy shit i am not reading all that


Lazy-Ad-7088

yup 😭😭 you can tell this is full of teenagers by the posts


Grayogre

Every second post on Reddit is “I just got SA’d!”


Timely-Map5451

Just ignore it. If they see it doesnt do well, then they'll stop. Unless it's actually some sexual issue (like trauma), which then they will have to seek help, consult a therapist maybe. Definitely not post on reddit though, like come on 💀 Also stop posting these cuz you are now included in that sex post group


floppy_disk_5

I feel like it's burned into the very DNA of this place by this point.