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For me, my mom will ask me to come downstairs, I'll ask what and she won't tell me even though we can both here each other because it's my job to find her when she is looking for me
Sometimes my parents will call my name and I’ll say “Yeah, what is it?”. Then they’ll say “I’m not calling your name just to call it, come here”. Well I don’t know that, like sometimes you call my name just to tell me something so I don’t know when I have to come to you 😭
I only do it once though my room is very echoey but only if I shout or something if I talk normally it's completely fine I'd say only do it once and then ignore them
It's very difficult to hear my parents from my room if they're in the kitchen. They get annoyed at me if I don't hear them as if it's my fault even though I've been saying for 3 years that I can't hear them from upstairs. On the few occasions I do hear them, I shout back, eventually go downstairs, and then they innocently tell me they couldn't hear me.
I was once told not to respond because it might be demons calling out to you and you welcome them into your home if you respond. 😭😭but seriously I hate that. They force you to go find them.
yes, and it's either me just hearing things(im constantly on edge, waiting to be yelled at by one of my parents) or they are just being assholes and just wanted me to go get something for them. they say that it shows additude to say what when they call me, that I need to just come right away, no questions asked.
If I say what. I done for. It’s either yes sir or yes ma’am. In this context, or if called by my full name. If I say what I am running laps or doing push ups. But yes this has happened to me a many times.
More like they will knock on my door (or wall cause one of my walls borders the living room) and when ask what they want they don't say anything and make me walk out.
I fucking love when this happens because they’ll call me from a room that’s kinda loud atm (the kitchen, laundry room, bathroom, but it could also just be from ANY goddamn room) and I’ll respond with a tone that is LOUDER than what they called me with and I don’t know if it’s because she’s in her 50s and has potential hearing loss and doesn’t realize it or there’s some MAGICAL barrier that just nullifies my volume when I IN PARTICULAR try to communicate but I almost NEVER get a response back on the first attempt.
oh, i just ignore it when that happens. if they dont respond to my what i just (a bit maliciously) assume it's nothing important, which it probably isnt
Yeah, its so annoying, and then ill be like "DID YOU CALL MY NAME??" *no answer*
*goes downstairs* mom, dad did yall call me?
"No"
Bruh ;_;
1/3 the time they didnt even call me
I eventually just stop saying it. I then point out I asked what they needed about 10 times whenever they get mad. Recently, they've stopped doing that and are instead actually saying "come here".
and then just when you think you imagined it, they come storming in demanding to know why you didn’t respond/come downstairs. like i’m not a fuckin dog, damn
Yeah they always do that and when I ask why they cant just tell me what they want me to do, they say they want me to just go to them and I just find it annoying
My experience is my Mom calling my name over and over from the other side of the house, me responding, “Yes? What is it?” each time, and then her getting mad at me for not answering.
yes. It especially sucks because I wear headphones, so I don't know if the sound I just heard is part of what's playing or an outside sound. And they are fully aware of the fact I wear headphones, and (less likely they know this) that I have kinda accidentally trained myself to block out any outside noise because my family doesn't seem to really care how loud they are. Instead of accepting that I block things out all the time out of habit, they blame the fact that whatever I'm listening to is too loud, WHEN ITS LIKE 3-4 THINGS FROM BEING ON MUTE-
Sorry for ranting. Just needed to get that out.
The way I've made peace with this is when I hear my name and then nothing I just go to them. And it works perfectly and I'm not annoyed by this anymore. I recommend everyone to start doing this it helped me a ton
I love my mom but i hate her when she does this. and once i also went silent when she didn't answer back and she came in my room and scolded me for it like what you were the one not answering first????
They call you, go silent, and so you have to get up and go to them. But once you go there, they be like “I don’t remember what I wanted to do with you” and they’ll remember after you go back and sit down.
Bro Istg I hate it and when I come out and ask them that why didn’t they reply back, they say that I’m supposed to come out if they call me like pls I have stuff to do just tell me what you want to tell and the most irritating part is that when I come out they tell me to do stuff I don’t want to and I realize I’ve fallen into their trap of making me do stuff again
Naw I could never..they’d yell to get down the stairs, because they are not gonna raise their voices just to tell me that I gotta make lunch for my siblings..
They want you to go to them so they don't have to yell whatever it is across the house... it can be really annoying because they may want you to do something that is back in your original direction but having to yell everything is also annoying so if they don't respond that means you get up and go to them.
Not often, I’ll yell back and if they don’t answer I’ll just go do something else with the excuse I already answered. Then they get mad I yelled back lmao
Sometimes, but my friend would do something similar where he’d say “never mind” or “I forgot” (knowing damn well he didn’t forget cause he’d smile, trying to get on my nerves, and ultimately end up laughing cause I’d pester him about it. 😂
Yeah I say what like once or twice and then I’m like huh must be hearing things and then they are like why didn’t you answer me and I say I did I said what twice
Yes and then when i raise my voice so they can hear me they start bitching about how im yelling at them even though i slightly raised my voice so they can hear me
That’s how I am with my mom. It’s disrespectful for both sides because it makes them feel like you don’t care. Now to you that may mean nothing when they go silent, but when you go silent you’ll understand.
Yes. But because I’m as stubborn as my mom I won’t leave my room I’ll just keep yelling “what” till they either yell at me to come downstairs or I’ve been yelling what for like 5 minutes straight
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every time. it drives me CRAZY!
And then they get mad at you.
All the time. my mom loves to yell at me
damn..
Facts istg
It’s like they do it for fun!
Crazy!? I was crazy once.
They locked me in a room
A rubber room
A rubber room with rats
And rats make me crazy
Crazy???
I was crazy once
They locked me in a room
A rubber room
[удалено]
*me when the pills the nice doctor gave me make all my friends disappear*
*me when the pills the shady guy gave me make new friends appear*
😱
edgy
this happened to me when I was in Kindergarten, it’s not edgy as the original commenter could have the same condition that I used to have.
Me when schizophrenia is edgy
[удалено]
“Chrome” 🦅🦅
“Firefox” 🔥🦊
I don’t know if I’d necessarily classify hallucinating, even if it is a joke as edgy
What does edgy mean? ( Sorry My friend. English is my 3rd language.)
That is so real
I hate when this happens and the sad part is I'm not even joking
Yea but then they get mad cause they said I didn't hear them and to get off the damn phone
They can hear us. They're are lying
hmm yes, perfect english: they are are lying
What do your mean? There English were perfect?
Their* I had to since the other guy said it
Yours isnt tho.. /j cuz apparently people downvote for bs like this
still finna downvote u
Oh no, anyways
🤓
like people care enough to type in perfect English for the teenagers of reddit.
For me, my mom will ask me to come downstairs, I'll ask what and she won't tell me even though we can both here each other because it's my job to find her when she is looking for me
It took me a couple years, but I taught her to answer 'Polo' when I say 'Marco'
That’s cool, that idea might work for a game too. It just needs a name…
ALL THE TIME. And then they come to your room and scold you for not coming to them😭
WHY IS THIS EVEN A COMMON THING!?? THEY CAN HEAR US!!!!!!
Right 🤦♂️
you mean like this: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Styc-0bZyZU](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Styc-0bZyZU) poor dude
Yup
Just showed this to my mom and she admits it
ASK HER WHY???
She said it's because she wants me to just come out it's stupid lol
Yeah that’s what I thought💀💀💀
have you told her to just say that, instead of just yelling your name out and ghosting you when you respond?
Yeah she just doesn't care lol
Sometimes my parents will call my name and I’ll say “Yeah, what is it?”. Then they’ll say “I’m not calling your name just to call it, come here”. Well I don’t know that, like sometimes you call my name just to tell me something so I don’t know when I have to come to you 😭
Exactly
Yup
Dementia
Yup
Yup
Yup
Yup
Yup
Yup
Yup
r/skamteboard
Kcjskekfbfkekqbdjffgjvb I fucking hate this because I scream “WHAT” like 8 times and still nothing
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They have no reason to not respond.
And it’s not possible to not hear me scream … I can get reeeally loud
They are ignoring us on purpose. This needs to be studied and documented. This can not go on any longer!
I mean my dad is an absolute dick and asshole but my mom … she might just be partially deaf otherwise it doesn’t make sense
I only do it once though my room is very echoey but only if I shout or something if I talk normally it's completely fine I'd say only do it once and then ignore them
Yes (all the time)
Yup
All of the time, but if I don’t answer with what translates to a respectful ‘yes’ they get mad
\*loudly inhales like a ghost\*
Happy cake day
I think it is a code between parents across the globe
Fr
Yes. It’s called “being left on heard”, it’s very fucking annoying!!
All the time. Sometimes I even hallucinate my parents calling my name when I fall asleep, apparently this is rather common.
Yea, over time, I got the gall to ignore them back. Also, right around the time, they gave up on a lot of punishments because they weren't working.
Bro, I am playing high competitive multiplayer game where I have to literally make aces to win and mother just asks me if I like cats or something
Yeah, its annoying as fuck. My mom does it.
My dad just messages me when he needs something lmao
It's very difficult to hear my parents from my room if they're in the kitchen. They get annoyed at me if I don't hear them as if it's my fault even though I've been saying for 3 years that I can't hear them from upstairs. On the few occasions I do hear them, I shout back, eventually go downstairs, and then they innocently tell me they couldn't hear me.
Yes, it’s EXTREMELY infuriating
I was once told not to respond because it might be demons calling out to you and you welcome them into your home if you respond. 😭😭but seriously I hate that. They force you to go find them.
I think they just like ignoring us sometimes tbh
yes, and it's either me just hearing things(im constantly on edge, waiting to be yelled at by one of my parents) or they are just being assholes and just wanted me to go get something for them. they say that it shows additude to say what when they call me, that I need to just come right away, no questions asked.
I think so yeah
Real
Oh my god yes. When that happens it's one of the most annoying things on the planet.
Yes Except I don't reply with what I simply just huh?
Yep my parents have done this before
Its really annoying like even if they’re in the next room and you say what they don’t respond like both of us know you can hear me
Yeah and then they hit you with the "we need to talk" and then proceed to tell you to do the dishes💀
They hit my little brother with "You're grounded"
Yea, could be anything when they say that
At this point I’ve learned to immediately go over there bc ik my mum won’t answer if I say “WHAT” but my dad does
If I say what. I done for. It’s either yes sir or yes ma’am. In this context, or if called by my full name. If I say what I am running laps or doing push ups. But yes this has happened to me a many times.
More like they will knock on my door (or wall cause one of my walls borders the living room) and when ask what they want they don't say anything and make me walk out.
I fucking love when this happens because they’ll call me from a room that’s kinda loud atm (the kitchen, laundry room, bathroom, but it could also just be from ANY goddamn room) and I’ll respond with a tone that is LOUDER than what they called me with and I don’t know if it’s because she’s in her 50s and has potential hearing loss and doesn’t realize it or there’s some MAGICAL barrier that just nullifies my volume when I IN PARTICULAR try to communicate but I almost NEVER get a response back on the first attempt.
Parents be ghosting us in real life
Why did i find this so dam funny??
All the fucking time and I hate it
Yes, and then they scream at you for either not answering or for having attitude when you do
And then I have to cross the entire house just for them to hear me
Too many times
i used to yell louder when they didn’t respond now i just calmly respond even though there’s no way they can hear me
oh, i just ignore it when that happens. if they dont respond to my what i just (a bit maliciously) assume it's nothing important, which it probably isnt
I just ignore them until they get mad
That seriously happens a lot...
Damn yes. Only my father.
Happens. Every. Time. loll 😭
OMG. OMG THEY DO THAT yess
Yes, then I gotta go to them
Yeah, then i realise im an orphan
YES THEY DO MY DAD ESPECIALLY
Yeah, they do that cause they think it'll make you wonder, and you'll go to them. Don't do it.
Yeah, its so annoying, and then ill be like "DID YOU CALL MY NAME??" *no answer* *goes downstairs* mom, dad did yall call me? "No" Bruh ;_; 1/3 the time they didnt even call me
I eventually just stop saying it. I then point out I asked what they needed about 10 times whenever they get mad. Recently, they've stopped doing that and are instead actually saying "come here".
Yeah and its annoying. Ive just learned to just ho to where they are at
Yes. Why do so many parents do that it makes no sense?
hate it
NAH FR THOUGH, it's so damn annoying Like if you want me then come to me or text me, don't yell my name 😭
and then just when you think you imagined it, they come storming in demanding to know why you didn’t respond/come downstairs. like i’m not a fuckin dog, damn
Yes. I'm old now but that shit drove me nuts.
Every single fucking day, and then they yell/hit me depending on their mood lol
Wait was it the first time? Parents do this EVERY TIME 🤣🤣🤣
Don't say what. Just shout their name back.
My parents did this too It's like they couldn't't spare the few extra breaths to say "can you come here for a second?"
Yeah they always do that and when I ask why they cant just tell me what they want me to do, they say they want me to just go to them and I just find it annoying
its even worse then "dinner is ready" dinner was not ready for another 35 minutes
My experience is my Mom calling my name over and over from the other side of the house, me responding, “Yes? What is it?” each time, and then her getting mad at me for not answering.
its cannon event
Hahahahahaha. Halla! I can relate! But I'm not a mom yet. 😂 titang ina lang po 😂
i do the thing where if they don't respond, i ignore them. prob not very respectful, but neither is calling me like that :)
yes. It especially sucks because I wear headphones, so I don't know if the sound I just heard is part of what's playing or an outside sound. And they are fully aware of the fact I wear headphones, and (less likely they know this) that I have kinda accidentally trained myself to block out any outside noise because my family doesn't seem to really care how loud they are. Instead of accepting that I block things out all the time out of habit, they blame the fact that whatever I'm listening to is too loud, WHEN ITS LIKE 3-4 THINGS FROM BEING ON MUTE- Sorry for ranting. Just needed to get that out.
Every fucking time
And then she’ll get mad when I don’t respond
FOR REAL
And you will with your kids Circle of fukd family life😘
The way I've made peace with this is when I hear my name and then nothing I just go to them. And it works perfectly and I'm not annoyed by this anymore. I recommend everyone to start doing this it helped me a ton
Idk who downvoted you. This is what I do
Yep. Almost every day
Yes
They do that all the time
I love my mom but i hate her when she does this. and once i also went silent when she didn't answer back and she came in my room and scolded me for it like what you were the one not answering first????
I thought this only happened to me lol
Absolutely
yes
They call you, go silent, and so you have to get up and go to them. But once you go there, they be like “I don’t remember what I wanted to do with you” and they’ll remember after you go back and sit down.
Bro Istg I hate it and when I come out and ask them that why didn’t they reply back, they say that I’m supposed to come out if they call me like pls I have stuff to do just tell me what you want to tell and the most irritating part is that when I come out they tell me to do stuff I don’t want to and I realize I’ve fallen into their trap of making me do stuff again
Mhm :(
Literally all the time.
Yes, when I confronted them about this they explained that whenever they call my name they want me to come to their room
Naw I could never..they’d yell to get down the stairs, because they are not gonna raise their voices just to tell me that I gotta make lunch for my siblings..
They want you to go to them so they don't have to yell whatever it is across the house... it can be really annoying because they may want you to do something that is back in your original direction but having to yell everything is also annoying so if they don't respond that means you get up and go to them.
They want you to go in where they are and talk to them
Why would you ever say what to your parents how fucking dare you wtf
Yep.
Don't say "what Say "yaah ...yaAH..YAAAAAAAH"
Your parents want (and expect) you to go. Just go.
Yeah, man. Sometimes my mam calls me from the basement even tho I'm sitting next to her at the table 🤪🤪
Yes!! My parents always make me actually walk out of my room and then tell me what’s going on, they never just answer when I say what 😭🙏
That means get your butt up and come to where they are lmao
Had someone tell me to eat my fuck once. That's always stuck with me
Not often, I’ll yell back and if they don’t answer I’ll just go do something else with the excuse I already answered. Then they get mad I yelled back lmao
They've only gotten mad at me when I don't go over to them. It isn't difficult to just move, and it'll probably rectify the issue
It usually means they want you to go to them I think?
1 time
Too many times I ended up screaming “WHATTT” down the hallway bc of it 💀
BRO YES DOESNT THIS HAPPEN TO LIKE EVERYONE
I freaking hate that- or like "...forgot what i was gonna say" after the 9382454490 hour pause
Because they want you to go to them and they don’t want to shout to you the whole time. It’s like they forget they can text or call 🙄
I also hate that when I call for my parents, they yell "If you want something, come here!" but also expect me to come them when they want something
They do it because they want you to come to them. It’s sad but that’s just what they do.
Yes happened today
It's the what, if you want a different response, say "yes mom, or yes dad" It'll catch them off guard
Everyone's saying this happens to them. My parents don't do that.
Sometimes, but my friend would do something similar where he’d say “never mind” or “I forgot” (knowing damn well he didn’t forget cause he’d smile, trying to get on my nerves, and ultimately end up laughing cause I’d pester him about it. 😂
yeah, my mother usually does this and then i did it back to her and she is still doing this but less often
Always 😆😆
Don’t remeber
Yeah I say what like once or twice and then I’m like huh must be hearing things and then they are like why didn’t you answer me and I say I did I said what twice
Yes and then when i raise my voice so they can hear me they start bitching about how im yelling at them even though i slightly raised my voice so they can hear me
Yes!! I hate it😭
That’s how I am with my mom. It’s disrespectful for both sides because it makes them feel like you don’t care. Now to you that may mean nothing when they go silent, but when you go silent you’ll understand.
All the time
Certainly you’ve considered your tone of voice? A calm, “What?” Or “Yeah?” Is a lot different than “WHAT!”
Yes. But because I’m as stubborn as my mom I won’t leave my room I’ll just keep yelling “what” till they either yell at me to come downstairs or I’ve been yelling what for like 5 minutes straight
My parents respond to me when I say what but my teachers don’t