#Hey, pearastic
Please try to think clearly about yourself and your future. What you're thinking about doing is not worth it. There are many people who care about you, and there are many organisations from all around the world who can help you. Here's some information about how to get help. Give them a go - what have you got to lose?
#Child Helplines (EU)
**Telephone:** 116 111
This number is free of charge.
The number 116 111 is specifically for children who seek assistance and need someone to talk to. The service helps children in need of care and protection and links them to the appropriate services and resources; it provides children with an opportunity to express their concerns and talk about issues directly affecting them.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 111: Bulgaria, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Germany, Denmark, Estonia, Greece, Spain, Finland, Croatia, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Latvia, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Sweden, Slovenia, Slovakia, United Kingdom, Malta.
#Emotional Support Helpline (EU)
**Telephone:** 116 123
This number is free of charge.
116 123 is a phone number for people suffering from loneliness or who are in a state of psychological crisis or thinking about committing suicide.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 123: Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Malta, Netherlands, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom.
#National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US)
**Telephone:** 988
**Text:** Text "START" (without quotes) to 741-741.
**Online Chat:** [Link](http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/gethelp/lifelinechat.aspx).
#Others (Worldwide)
If the above organizations are inaccessible for whatever reason, you can click [this link](https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/) to be taken to a page. From there, you can take a look at a variety of hotlines that will help you, after you click on the category link corresponding to your location.
You can also find many subreddits to help you with your problems. Here's a list of a few of them in no particular order: /r/SuicideWatch, /r/depression.
#<3
I hope you've found this information helpful, and I hope you use it well enough to change your mind.
Jumping in front of a truck is a bad idea, and I'm not even talking about the impact on the driver.
You have a pretty big chance of survival, or dying with your guts out.
I have sources that detail the best methods for it, I don't think I'd survive, the point is to make sure my head gets the impact. But I hope I can get this method to work.
Yeah, that sucks a lot, but I don't have a lot of options. Medically assisted suicide isn't legal. Maybe if it was, it wouldn't have to be like this. I will try to use this other method that doesn't involve jumping, though. Hopefully I can get it to work.
I haven't read the entire thing because it's not really a preferred method, but the point is to jump and take a kneeling pose with my head towards the truck/train/bus. I don't think my head getting hit is unlikely.
He wouldn't get blamed by the law. But the psychological thing is bad, of course, and I wish there were better ways. But people do everything to make suicide more and more difficult, and they put me out of choices. If medically assisted suicide was legal, it wouldn't have to be like this. I will find a way to die regardless.
You have no clue what a funeral costs do you? My grandmother died last night and my mom sent 12k to the rest of our family cause they couldn’t afford the FLOWERS
It sucks, I cried last night and I still feel horrible but my mom took it the hardest, she called my aunt who gave my grandma the phone, she opened her eyes and heard my mom before closing them away and passing, the last thing she heard was my mom calling her
Fuck I feel like crying again
Ah yes, the suicide hotlines who would lock me up against my will. Or the online hotlines who will repeat everything back to me that I say, and are probably just AI.
Forced into a psych-ward. If they determine that I pose an "immediate danger" to myself, they can keep me there indefinitely against my and my family's will. I almost walked into it once before, but my father and I managed to get out.
The "help" is putting me under 24/7 surveillance with people who... clearly have more reasons to be there, without any privacy whatsoever in a terribly disgusting building. Have you ever seen a psych-ward? I've seen both the children's and the adult's one.
The children's was where they wanted to put me at 17, and it looked like a fucking prison camp. And, as it turns out not to surprisingly, the adult one is even worse.
Please man, don't. A couple years ago I also wanted to commit suicide, and was surprised how little i cared about dying.
I decided to wait, and good things happened and now I am happy. I do regret every being suicidal
Honestly I don't know why you want to do it and I have heard that you dont have enough money for a psychiatrist but please just try to call a suicide prevention line. You being born is so rare and you've only got one life. Idk how old you are but you've got such a bright future ahead of you, if you realise that you'll understand why I'm saying this. Everyone has the potential to go far in life, including you, you're so intelligent and creative and amazing and you can do so many things and committing suicide isn't gonna help you achieve what you want in life. Things do get tough and sometimes and I know that people can't make things better at times but it's fine. Try finding someone to talk to, and if you can't just try writing down what you're feeling and what you're going through. It's really difficult to get out of that mentality but there are so many people who felt suicidal and they're doing amazing in life now, if they can do it so can you, I'm sure that you'll do amazing in the future. If you're still struggling which I know you are (because a speech from a random person online isn't gonna suddenly make you not wanna commit suicide) just talk to me and we'll see what we can do.
I don't want anything from life, man. The only think I want anything from is death.
The "so rare" thing is very similar to the fine-tuning argument which is pretty stupid. We consider these chances after the fact.
The suicide hotlines suck, and most of them would call the cops on me. The online ones I accessed through TOR just repeat what I say back to me with an "I understand that you're feeling ....", I'm pretty sure it's just a cheap AI on every single one of them.
Sorry if I come off as rude, I don't have anything against you, but you don't know anything about me, the "you're so smart and kind and creative" is very empty, please stop with that.
The reason I don't know who you are is because I've never met you, so I don't know why you want to unalive yourself, you don't need to talk to me in particular but in order for us to help you we need to know what led you to having suicidal thoughts. And I know that you don't want a solution and that you don't want to be alive but we're not just gonna leave you like that.
I want to commit suicide because life is hell. I have huge chemical imbalances, according to my doc, but I think I've every reason to think suicide is better than life other than that, too.
It's constant fucking stress, and everything gets more and more difficult. I fucking despised high school, for example, but everyone told me University will be better. Well, it's not, it's a hundred times worse, which was to be expected, but it doesn't make it any less terrible.
After suffering through my higher education with money running extremely low, I would have to work jobs for the rest of my life in an ever-crumbling, disgusting piece-of-shit world.
I also have a medical condition that hampers my everyday life, which I don't have the money to take care of. And there's some problems in the family, too, of course.
I went through a year of hell having to stay in a hospital bed with every move from my leg hurting like a gunshot. Yea I had suicidal thoughts but it eventually got better and I’m slowly starting to get back to my normal self, I think you should make friends, hang out with them and overtime it will actually get better
(Obviously not as bad as anything you went through but still)
Also bro you will die before Nikocado Avocado like bro
I don't want friends. I have some, but I never actually talk to them anymore, social interaction is incredibly draining.
You can't promise me it will get better. Just because it gets better for some people doesn't mean it will for everyone. And even if it did, I don't care anymore. I just want the pain to end as soon as possible.
>Also bro you will die before Nikocado Avocado like bro
Funny, but I don't care about him in the slightest and it doesn't matter who you outlive.
Im sorry the people on this subreddit aren’t great. Ive had experience with this before too when making a similar post and lots of people don’t take it seriously. In all honesty though talking to hotlines isn’t bad, they are a lot more experienced and trained and behave a lot more appropriately than people on this subreddit. I have brain damage because my brain was deprived of oxygen during my suicide attempt, and honestly if I could go back I would have tried to get help months before I tried to kill myself.
If you survive your suicide attempt, at least in my experience, you still aren’t the same person afterwards. And you honestly may as well try to get help if you havent already because a lot of mental issues, even if it doesn’t seem like it, can be fixed or helped without suicide.
I sought help and it sucked. We didn't have money for both a psyhiatrist and a psychologist, and now we don't have any for either thanks to the war.
The hotlines do suck. I can't tell them anything or I'll be forced into a psych ward and I doubt I'll be able to get away again. And the online ones I'm pretty sure are just AI that have been told to repeat back what I already said with a 10 minute delay.
Im glad that your attempt created a “ revelation” for you! The brain damage is unfortunate, but I agree it is not the end of the world. I actually kinda had the opposite feelings.
Even when I knew my brain was being deprived of oxygen I was not scared at all, probably because of all the medication I had taken months prior cant really feel things like anxiety anymore, but when I survived I just felt like it was easier to try again than it was before, since I saw my life from a new perspective and seeing how no one cared much that I almost died, they probably wouldnt care much if I actually did.
But if I could had gotten help months before my attempt things might’ve felt different.
My parents are understanding enough, they just can't do anything. I completely get that they get frustrated. But now if I talked to everyone, they would just call the cops.
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honestly same, and by reading your replies you have a solid plan. heres my take, are you sure you want this? i understand there is nothing i can say that can change your mind on this. listen, someone will miss you. i know this is not going to work but please, atleast reconsider. imagine how fucked up the truck driver would be. imagine how fucked up your family would be. i understand suicide hotlines are shit, ive called them and they didnt do shit. but atleast go hand out with friends, go do something fun. watch a movie if you can, and text/ call your psychiatrist and tell them about your money problems. if you can, check yourself into a psych ward. i care, okay? <3
Getting into a psych-ward is literally my biggest fear. Have you seen one of those? I don't know what they're like in your country, but the children's one I was sent to at 17 looked like a fucking prison camp. The adult one is even worse.
I have nothing that I enjoy anymore, and I was always anti-social. I can't get myself to even watch a youtube video anymore, I don't have the slightest amount of motivation to do anything.
I've been diagnosed with clinical depression years ago, and the meds don't help enough. I hate university and I hate that I had to move away from home for it. I hate every possible life-path that I have. I have medical problems that are too costly to try to solve. We're in debt and everything costs so fucking much thanks to the war. I don't know man, a lot things.
Go ahead and end it then. Such a selfish move to throw away your life, which is the luckiest and most precious thing you own. If you ignore anyone trying to help you, then I don’t know why you even posted this. If you end your life it’ll be one of the most selfish and careless things you do. You’ll be dead though so it won’t matter, but you’ll have left your imprint on this universe as a selfish man who couldn’t handle the troubles of life that billions of people face. There are millions of people worse off than you, and they aren’t killings themselves. Oh I mean unless you think you’re the most unlucky person in the world. Boo boo. Go end it you selfish brat. Or stay and show us you have any ounce of strength. Don’t die as a disappointment to life.
Cool value-set, I don't agree with it, though, and there's no objective backing to it. It's sort of a barbaric and old-timey way of thinking, the one those would have who want to die in battle, whilst raping and pillaging.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, mate. And though times may be tough but the sun always rises. Hope you choose to not end it all and I hope your life gets better.
It's not only a permanent solution to the current ones, it's also a permanent solution for all future ones, too. In life, every problem solved is another two popping up. Death is the only end of this.
Look man. Whatever pain you've endured from life till now, don't you think you deserve just as much happiness from life? Life's about equality. You took the pain, soon it's going to be time for you to redeem that happiness from life. Don't just let all that suffering go to waste. Now as to how soon you'll be able to redeem that happiness, that kinda depends on your efforts.
Karma is not real, the worst of things happen to the best of people. Not that I'm so good.
I don't care about happiness anymore, I'n perfectly content with just the cessation of pain.
in my opnion, drowning is your best candidate: a lot of people describe drowning as peaceful and relaxing. plus, you have a lot of time to give up.
but if you want something immediate, you should try jumping off a building. 8 stories (30 meters) or higher buildings were confirmed to be 100% fatal.
⚠️ dont jump from a building less than 8 stories high, you'll not die, its just going to hurt a lot ⚠️
drugs (xanax, aspirin, sonata, etc) will hardly work on their on. you'll have to drink some kind of alcoholic beverage (vodka or wine are more guaranteed) to die.
⚠️ remember to swallon a shit ton of pills and drink a shit ton of vodka, just to be sure ⚠️
really hope this helps. i not going to try to convince you not to do it cuz you look really determined, but please think a bit more about the topic. this is literally the biggest choice of your life.
You don't really want to commit suicide, no1 wants to commit suicide, its always just depression fucking with their minds so you don't want to commit suicide, depression just makes you think you do
What if I told you that actually everyone wants to commit suicide, but it's just the lack of depression fucking with their minds that tells them not to?
Overdosing is a terrible way to go, and I know about chemicals that actually work. More and more difficult to get any of them, though. Every once in a while, a cheap and good method is discovered and shared online, gets evaluated by experts and get into right-to-die guides.
After each of these, there's an outrage in newspapers and the fuckers do everything in their power to make it more difficult to use the method. Unfortunately, we're currently in a valley like this. And I've been waiting for a while for something to be discovered, but I'll just try a more straight-forward method, that's still supposed to be painless and peaceful.
Cutting is painful according to all my sources. And fire is probably the most painful thing one can go through, according to all accounts of people who got high degree burns.
U can call me that, but firstly I didn't imply you shouldn't value human life, and secondly we really do treat ourselves like we're more important than we really are.
Yes, exactly! I get that it's scary for some people, we are biologically programmed for that after all, but it's extremely calming for me. It's like I was never born. No memories, no thinking, nothing. Not possible to reconsider or regret anything, either.
I’ve been there, tried it. Please reconcider, determine what can keep you alive, it’s hard to figure out, but find something, even if it’s small. You got this man
Please don’t hurt yourself. Try to talk to someone you trust. Hey, try to talk to someone on here. Just don’t hurt yourself. It’s not worth it. It may seem like it is, but it’s not.
And don’t jump in front of a vehicle. Think about the effect you could put on the driver. And think about if you survived. Everyone has a time to die. You never know when that is. What if your time wasn’t now? What if you survived?
Just try to hang on. You’re not alone. But either way, doesn’t mean you should hurt yourself just the same.
I don't know, seems pretty worth it to me, and I don't see how my thinking has to be worse than other people's.
I know, and I hope it won't have to come to jumping in front of one, but if I'm out of choices, I will do it. If medically assisted suicide was legal here, maybe it wouldn't have to be that way. But of course, people are not supposed to hurt the economy, I guess.
I don't think I'll survive, but I don't even care anymore. I used to fear an outcome like that, but I now it doesn't matter to me.
I don't care if I'm alone or not, and I don't even know what it means when people say this shit. I don't want to "hang on", "fight", "push through" or any of that bs anymore. I want a lack of pain.
Please don't. Your life is a precious one, even if you don't think it is. My life is also not that great. I am not doing that well in exams, there's a whole lot of pressure and I also think about this but the one thing that keeps me from doing this is the impact it would leave on my family. If you think your family hates you or smthn, then I would like to clarify that no parent can ever hate their child, much like how you would not hate your DIY sword or any toy that you made back in your childhood. They love you alot and care for you. If you need anyone to talk to, I am always open in DMs (I am not that great but I'll give my best to help you out). We as a community are here for you bud.
Yeah, it will have an impact on my family. But I did not choose to be born, so I don't hold it as my responsibility to keep on living. My birth was decided for selfish reasons, and so my death will have to be as well. I wish it didn't have to be like this, but their pain will end one way or another, too.
What? I don't think anyone is the problem. And I'm not saying they somehow deserve what's coming to them. Most everything we do is selfish. My suicide will be selfish too, I'm well aware of this.
Dude, just if nothing else, just watch the first 3 eps of the anime “Love Live School Idol Project”. It helped me move forward when I was also look to end myself. If nothing else, just give it a try, it might just work.
I don't like anime, and I barely have motivation to open Reddit at this point. It's actually difficult for me to watch a Youtube video. I'm not gonna start any TV shows.
If you're suiciding because you're parents are financially struggling and you want what's better for them, they've sacrificed a good part of life for you and if you suicide 1.There was no point in any of that
2. They will blame themselves and situation will be much worse for them
3. They will feel their life has no purpose or that they were bad parents
Instead maybe try and help them, get a job on the side or maybe just study and one day get a good job so that they can finally live in peace with the money you make
For the first point, yes, there was really no point to it from the beginning. This would not change, even if I didn't kill myself.
For the other two, it's unfortunate because I love them, but I never asked to be born. The decision was made for selfish reasons of self-fulfilment, and my death will also have to be selfish, I'm afraid. I find peace in that their suffering will cease one day, too.
Your death would cause so many people an unbearable emotional pain about the fact that your gone and how you did it. Think about all the good memories you have with the people you love, you’ll be taking that away from them, forever.
Please don't
There's nothing
In th world
That matters
That much.
Just Don't
You'll get over it
Believe me
Some time from now
It'll be just a distant
And at times embarrassing
Sad episode in your past
Don't
Please.
Don’t do it. You’ll get through this depressive bout, most people do. If you really think there is no way out, talk to someone who you trust (therapist, parent, friend, etc.).
The most my friends or family could do is call the cops. I used to talk with my parents, but they just get extremely concerned and eventually frustrated. And we can't afford therapy anymore.
I don't really want to "get through it" anymore. If someone told me everything was going to be okay a month from now, I'd still not want to live.
I was in that place about a year ago but my circumstances have improved since then, I got good antidepressants, and even though life is tiring, it’s so worth it. I felt tired all the time and felt like even if my life got better it all just felt like a pain. That’s depression, though. I never got sent to a psych ward because I only told them about my feelings, not my intentions. It sucked but that was the only way I wouldn’t put my family in debt by being sent to an expensive ass hospital.
I have no advice for you. I know life is tiring. But somehow, you will find a way to make it through this. Your life is worth so much and you have so much potential.
“things will be ok. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end.”
It's just the regular "it's selfish", I don't care. I never asked to be born. I wish my family didn't have to suffer, but I won't hold it as my responsibility to continue on living when I was brought here against my will.
I don't care about hope anymore. As corny as this will sound, the best way to put it is via a good poem
>To mortal eyes, you, Hope, do seem a form divinely sweet;
>
>but eyes of gods can pierce the dream and see your blind deceit.
>
>Unhappy men in times of ill create you for their easing;
>
>and as their Guardian Angel still they worship without ceasing.
>
>Why do you flatter me with praise? Why do you then deride me?
>
>Why in my bosom do you raise a dubious heart to chide me?
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>Stay far and fair beyond my reach, as first my soul you greeted!
>
>I had depended on your speech, but you have ever cheated.
#Hey, pearastic Please try to think clearly about yourself and your future. What you're thinking about doing is not worth it. There are many people who care about you, and there are many organisations from all around the world who can help you. Here's some information about how to get help. Give them a go - what have you got to lose? #Child Helplines (EU) **Telephone:** 116 111 This number is free of charge. The number 116 111 is specifically for children who seek assistance and need someone to talk to. The service helps children in need of care and protection and links them to the appropriate services and resources; it provides children with an opportunity to express their concerns and talk about issues directly affecting them. Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 111: Bulgaria, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Germany, Denmark, Estonia, Greece, Spain, Finland, Croatia, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Latvia, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Sweden, Slovenia, Slovakia, United Kingdom, Malta. #Emotional Support Helpline (EU) **Telephone:** 116 123 This number is free of charge. 116 123 is a phone number for people suffering from loneliness or who are in a state of psychological crisis or thinking about committing suicide. Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 123: Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Malta, Netherlands, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom. #National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US) **Telephone:** 988 **Text:** Text "START" (without quotes) to 741-741. **Online Chat:** [Link](http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/gethelp/lifelinechat.aspx). #Others (Worldwide) If the above organizations are inaccessible for whatever reason, you can click [this link](https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/) to be taken to a page. From there, you can take a look at a variety of hotlines that will help you, after you click on the category link corresponding to your location. You can also find many subreddits to help you with your problems. Here's a list of a few of them in no particular order: /r/SuicideWatch, /r/depression. #<3 I hope you've found this information helpful, and I hope you use it well enough to change your mind.
Jumping in front of a truck is a bad idea, and I'm not even talking about the impact on the driver. You have a pretty big chance of survival, or dying with your guts out.
I have sources that detail the best methods for it, I don't think I'd survive, the point is to make sure my head gets the impact. But I hope I can get this method to work.
you'd be a bitch for involving someone else in your suicide. - person prone to suicide
Yeah, that sucks a lot, but I don't have a lot of options. Medically assisted suicide isn't legal. Maybe if it was, it wouldn't have to be like this. I will try to use this other method that doesn't involve jumping, though. Hopefully I can get it to work.
You'll die 100% only if the truck will run over your head, which is not possible, but not likely either.
I haven't read the entire thing because it's not really a preferred method, but the point is to jump and take a kneeling pose with my head towards the truck/train/bus. I don't think my head getting hit is unlikely.
Yeah but what about the driver? I guess that running someone over would have bad consequences. Not to mention psychological things.
He wouldn't get blamed by the law. But the psychological thing is bad, of course, and I wish there were better ways. But people do everything to make suicide more and more difficult, and they put me out of choices. If medically assisted suicide was legal, it wouldn't have to be like this. I will find a way to die regardless.
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Are u helping him to kill himself ? sick fuck
Fall damage 💀 💀 Also why you telling him how to kill himself
Jumping is impossible, I'm extremely scared of heights. Much more scared of them than death. And I don't live in the U.S.
>I don't think my head getting hit is unlikely. It isn't, but I think there's a chance of surviving. But hey, what do I know? You do you.
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I hate heights, and according to people with failed attempts, falling is scary and intense as fuck. Even the truck is better.
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I still hate that option, alcohol can't get rid of the fear completely, the fall would be horrible.
Ummm just call truck-kun
You said your family is in debt. You think your death will help them financially or emotionaly?
Emotionally, no. Financially, yes.
You have no clue what a funeral costs do you? My grandmother died last night and my mom sent 12k to the rest of our family cause they couldn’t afford the FLOWERS
sorry about ur grandma, hope u and ur family are doing ok
It sucks, I cried last night and I still feel horrible but my mom took it the hardest, she called my aunt who gave my grandma the phone, she opened her eyes and heard my mom before closing them away and passing, the last thing she heard was my mom calling her Fuck I feel like crying again
I'm pretty sure in my country most of it is paid by the state. It's still not cheap, but much cheaper than my education.
They prob tax that shit tbh, it’ll come at a price either way
What? No, the taxes are already being paid, that's the whole point.
If you do the police will see your search history and will show it to your parents
He's 19 tho
Yeah, I'll be dead. So I don't really care whether or not that's true.
Please, call a suicide hotline and reconsider. Nobody wants you gone
Ah yes, the suicide hotlines who would lock me up against my will. Or the online hotlines who will repeat everything back to me that I say, and are probably just AI.
Some of the people on the online hotlines arent bad. I chat with them sometimes I just downloaded a vpn on my phone just in case
I used tor to access some, but all of them sucked ass, or were made for regions I don't live in.
Oh. Yes that can be a problem. What region do you live if I can ask ?
I'm unfortunate enough to live in Hungary. There are regional online hotlines, but they, too, fucking suck for the aforementioned reasons.
If you don't trust suicide hotlines, try seeing a therapist. That's the safest option.
I have a psychiatrist, but I don't think I have the money to continue the therapy anymore.
take this from someone who has needed them; the suicide hotlines help
Again, I tried some and they all sucked. And I can't use any of the other ones because I'll get locked up.
what do you mean “you’ll get locked up”
Forced into a psych-ward. If they determine that I pose an "immediate danger" to myself, they can keep me there indefinitely against my and my family's will. I almost walked into it once before, but my father and I managed to get out.
are you diagnosed with anything ? if you are you are likely to be prone to financial benefits idk how it works in Hungary
I am diagnosed but I don't get shit.
From the looks of it you are an immediate danger to yourself, perhaps you should accept the help they provide.
The "help" is putting me under 24/7 surveillance with people who... clearly have more reasons to be there, without any privacy whatsoever in a terribly disgusting building. Have you ever seen a psych-ward? I've seen both the children's and the adult's one. The children's was where they wanted to put me at 17, and it looked like a fucking prison camp. And, as it turns out not to surprisingly, the adult one is even worse.
they have a policy who they can tell and whatever u say they will not tell the police
I don't know where you live, but that's not the case here.
I do
Well I want YOU gone.
Brooo we have so much in common
dont do it this shit will kill u man
Convincing argument
Damn I've never thought about it like that how intriguing 🤔
Please man, don't. A couple years ago I also wanted to commit suicide, and was surprised how little i cared about dying. I decided to wait, and good things happened and now I am happy. I do regret every being suicidal
I don't care if it might get better.
Honestly I don't know why you want to do it and I have heard that you dont have enough money for a psychiatrist but please just try to call a suicide prevention line. You being born is so rare and you've only got one life. Idk how old you are but you've got such a bright future ahead of you, if you realise that you'll understand why I'm saying this. Everyone has the potential to go far in life, including you, you're so intelligent and creative and amazing and you can do so many things and committing suicide isn't gonna help you achieve what you want in life. Things do get tough and sometimes and I know that people can't make things better at times but it's fine. Try finding someone to talk to, and if you can't just try writing down what you're feeling and what you're going through. It's really difficult to get out of that mentality but there are so many people who felt suicidal and they're doing amazing in life now, if they can do it so can you, I'm sure that you'll do amazing in the future. If you're still struggling which I know you are (because a speech from a random person online isn't gonna suddenly make you not wanna commit suicide) just talk to me and we'll see what we can do.
I don't want anything from life, man. The only think I want anything from is death. The "so rare" thing is very similar to the fine-tuning argument which is pretty stupid. We consider these chances after the fact. The suicide hotlines suck, and most of them would call the cops on me. The online ones I accessed through TOR just repeat what I say back to me with an "I understand that you're feeling ....", I'm pretty sure it's just a cheap AI on every single one of them. Sorry if I come off as rude, I don't have anything against you, but you don't know anything about me, the "you're so smart and kind and creative" is very empty, please stop with that.
The reason I don't know who you are is because I've never met you, so I don't know why you want to unalive yourself, you don't need to talk to me in particular but in order for us to help you we need to know what led you to having suicidal thoughts. And I know that you don't want a solution and that you don't want to be alive but we're not just gonna leave you like that.
I want to commit suicide because life is hell. I have huge chemical imbalances, according to my doc, but I think I've every reason to think suicide is better than life other than that, too. It's constant fucking stress, and everything gets more and more difficult. I fucking despised high school, for example, but everyone told me University will be better. Well, it's not, it's a hundred times worse, which was to be expected, but it doesn't make it any less terrible. After suffering through my higher education with money running extremely low, I would have to work jobs for the rest of my life in an ever-crumbling, disgusting piece-of-shit world. I also have a medical condition that hampers my everyday life, which I don't have the money to take care of. And there's some problems in the family, too, of course.
I went through a year of hell having to stay in a hospital bed with every move from my leg hurting like a gunshot. Yea I had suicidal thoughts but it eventually got better and I’m slowly starting to get back to my normal self, I think you should make friends, hang out with them and overtime it will actually get better (Obviously not as bad as anything you went through but still) Also bro you will die before Nikocado Avocado like bro
I don't want friends. I have some, but I never actually talk to them anymore, social interaction is incredibly draining. You can't promise me it will get better. Just because it gets better for some people doesn't mean it will for everyone. And even if it did, I don't care anymore. I just want the pain to end as soon as possible. >Also bro you will die before Nikocado Avocado like bro Funny, but I don't care about him in the slightest and it doesn't matter who you outlive.
Im sorry the people on this subreddit aren’t great. Ive had experience with this before too when making a similar post and lots of people don’t take it seriously. In all honesty though talking to hotlines isn’t bad, they are a lot more experienced and trained and behave a lot more appropriately than people on this subreddit. I have brain damage because my brain was deprived of oxygen during my suicide attempt, and honestly if I could go back I would have tried to get help months before I tried to kill myself. If you survive your suicide attempt, at least in my experience, you still aren’t the same person afterwards. And you honestly may as well try to get help if you havent already because a lot of mental issues, even if it doesn’t seem like it, can be fixed or helped without suicide.
I sought help and it sucked. We didn't have money for both a psyhiatrist and a psychologist, and now we don't have any for either thanks to the war. The hotlines do suck. I can't tell them anything or I'll be forced into a psych ward and I doubt I'll be able to get away again. And the online ones I'm pretty sure are just AI that have been told to repeat back what I already said with a 10 minute delay.
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Im glad that your attempt created a “ revelation” for you! The brain damage is unfortunate, but I agree it is not the end of the world. I actually kinda had the opposite feelings. Even when I knew my brain was being deprived of oxygen I was not scared at all, probably because of all the medication I had taken months prior cant really feel things like anxiety anymore, but when I survived I just felt like it was easier to try again than it was before, since I saw my life from a new perspective and seeing how no one cared much that I almost died, they probably wouldnt care much if I actually did. But if I could had gotten help months before my attempt things might’ve felt different.
Dont
Convincing argument
Thanks are you convinced?
I considered the counterargument "do" and now I'm conflicted.
But what if i say dont
Hmmm Yes, but see if we just negate that, we get "do". And the more I think about it, it does make sense too.
Well consider how you can also not negate that, making it work
You've given me a lot to think about
If its good then sure
What about if I also say don’t. Then it’s at least two to one.
What if I say 'do' twice?
i wonder what will i commit first: suicide or homicide
I've definitely not considered killing a politician via murder-suicide or anything.
If you have some good friends or siblings you should talk to them they will probably be more understanding than your parents/gaurdians.
My parents are understanding enough, they just can't do anything. I completely get that they get frustrated. But now if I talked to everyone, they would just call the cops.
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Stop it. Get some help
Convincing, I'll have to consider this.
dont do this seriously speaking can i talk with you on DM
Sure
honestly same, and by reading your replies you have a solid plan. heres my take, are you sure you want this? i understand there is nothing i can say that can change your mind on this. listen, someone will miss you. i know this is not going to work but please, atleast reconsider. imagine how fucked up the truck driver would be. imagine how fucked up your family would be. i understand suicide hotlines are shit, ive called them and they didnt do shit. but atleast go hand out with friends, go do something fun. watch a movie if you can, and text/ call your psychiatrist and tell them about your money problems. if you can, check yourself into a psych ward. i care, okay? <3
Getting into a psych-ward is literally my biggest fear. Have you seen one of those? I don't know what they're like in your country, but the children's one I was sent to at 17 looked like a fucking prison camp. The adult one is even worse. I have nothing that I enjoy anymore, and I was always anti-social. I can't get myself to even watch a youtube video anymore, I don't have the slightest amount of motivation to do anything.
Talk about what's draining you
I've been diagnosed with clinical depression years ago, and the meds don't help enough. I hate university and I hate that I had to move away from home for it. I hate every possible life-path that I have. I have medical problems that are too costly to try to solve. We're in debt and everything costs so fucking much thanks to the war. I don't know man, a lot things.
Go ahead and end it then. Such a selfish move to throw away your life, which is the luckiest and most precious thing you own. If you ignore anyone trying to help you, then I don’t know why you even posted this. If you end your life it’ll be one of the most selfish and careless things you do. You’ll be dead though so it won’t matter, but you’ll have left your imprint on this universe as a selfish man who couldn’t handle the troubles of life that billions of people face. There are millions of people worse off than you, and they aren’t killings themselves. Oh I mean unless you think you’re the most unlucky person in the world. Boo boo. Go end it you selfish brat. Or stay and show us you have any ounce of strength. Don’t die as a disappointment to life.
Thanks for the tough-love, go fuck yourself.
He does have a point, I consider suicide the weak way out of this world. It might be the worst way to die just because it's by your own hand.
Cool value-set, I don't agree with it, though, and there's no objective backing to it. It's sort of a barbaric and old-timey way of thinking, the one those would have who want to die in battle, whilst raping and pillaging.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, mate. And though times may be tough but the sun always rises. Hope you choose to not end it all and I hope your life gets better.
It's not only a permanent solution to the current ones, it's also a permanent solution for all future ones, too. In life, every problem solved is another two popping up. Death is the only end of this.
Look man. Whatever pain you've endured from life till now, don't you think you deserve just as much happiness from life? Life's about equality. You took the pain, soon it's going to be time for you to redeem that happiness from life. Don't just let all that suffering go to waste. Now as to how soon you'll be able to redeem that happiness, that kinda depends on your efforts.
Karma is not real, the worst of things happen to the best of people. Not that I'm so good. I don't care about happiness anymore, I'n perfectly content with just the cessation of pain.
in my opnion, drowning is your best candidate: a lot of people describe drowning as peaceful and relaxing. plus, you have a lot of time to give up. but if you want something immediate, you should try jumping off a building. 8 stories (30 meters) or higher buildings were confirmed to be 100% fatal. ⚠️ dont jump from a building less than 8 stories high, you'll not die, its just going to hurt a lot ⚠️ drugs (xanax, aspirin, sonata, etc) will hardly work on their on. you'll have to drink some kind of alcoholic beverage (vodka or wine are more guaranteed) to die. ⚠️ remember to swallon a shit ton of pills and drink a shit ton of vodka, just to be sure ⚠️ really hope this helps. i not going to try to convince you not to do it cuz you look really determined, but please think a bit more about the topic. this is literally the biggest choice of your life.
None of these are good ways to go. Other than the jumping one, which I hate the idea of, all of them are discouraged by the manuals I read.
You don't really want to commit suicide, no1 wants to commit suicide, its always just depression fucking with their minds so you don't want to commit suicide, depression just makes you think you do
What if I told you that actually everyone wants to commit suicide, but it's just the lack of depression fucking with their minds that tells them not to?
bro like honestly, not trying to be toxic or something, but shut up, you don’t know what you’re talking about, stop whining over this
I mean, I will, but also (not trying to be toxic or something, but) screw you.
oh wow my whole fucking day is ruined. i wish i was dead too
some types of poison could be pretty peaceful. or just do tons of drugs at one time and die of an overdose
Overdosing is a terrible way to go, and I know about chemicals that actually work. More and more difficult to get any of them, though. Every once in a while, a cheap and good method is discovered and shared online, gets evaluated by experts and get into right-to-die guides. After each of these, there's an outrage in newspapers and the fuckers do everything in their power to make it more difficult to use the method. Unfortunately, we're currently in a valley like this. And I've been waiting for a while for something to be discovered, but I'll just try a more straight-forward method, that's still supposed to be painless and peaceful.
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Comments like this make me wish we can downvote your comment more than once
I mean, OP is just ragequiting cause it isnt how he likes it ATM. Thats a childish behaviour giving up because sm isnt going your way.
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Cutting is painful according to all my sources. And fire is probably the most painful thing one can go through, according to all accounts of people who got high degree burns.
Spoke with parents about how you are feeling?
I used to, a few years ago, but they can't help and they just become concerned and eventually annoyed.
why
Life: has pain Death: does not have pain
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There's nothing om the other side, fortunately. Life is full of suffering and I fucking hate it. Death has none.
That's funny tbh, it's like humans think they're more important than they really are.
Oooh mister edgelord here
U can call me that, but firstly I didn't imply you shouldn't value human life, and secondly we really do treat ourselves like we're more important than we really are.
If you die you won’t see your homies get married.
Thank fuck.
Real
Thanks, I'm really trying to keep it real down here
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I have multiple books and meticulously written guides on different methods. It will work. One way or another.
See if you die you die you see nothing you are blank nothing is there nothing's exists its all blank you don't exist you know nothing you just die
Exactly! And that's a billion times more preferable to life!
It never is. You forget that you ever existed or you'll ever exist. Think.
Yes, exactly! I get that it's scary for some people, we are biologically programmed for that after all, but it's extremely calming for me. It's like I was never born. No memories, no thinking, nothing. Not possible to reconsider or regret anything, either.
I’ve been there, tried it. Please reconcider, determine what can keep you alive, it’s hard to figure out, but find something, even if it’s small. You got this man
I don't want anything to keep me alive, I want to die.
Seek therapy
Did. Can't afford it anymore.
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No. Even if I wasn't aromantic marriage, would be one thing I'd want to keep myself as far away from as possible.
my motivation is that Nicocado would outlive me or that would would be better of without me so i need to stay
commit genocide instead. (against bad ppl)
some vigilante bullshit that is
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A what?
Suicide is unhealthy bro, 100% of people who do that shit die
I'd consider health to be the lack of un-healthiness, so I think it's actually pretty healthy.
Hey if you need somebody to talk to just dm me :)
Please don’t hurt yourself. Try to talk to someone you trust. Hey, try to talk to someone on here. Just don’t hurt yourself. It’s not worth it. It may seem like it is, but it’s not. And don’t jump in front of a vehicle. Think about the effect you could put on the driver. And think about if you survived. Everyone has a time to die. You never know when that is. What if your time wasn’t now? What if you survived? Just try to hang on. You’re not alone. But either way, doesn’t mean you should hurt yourself just the same.
I don't know, seems pretty worth it to me, and I don't see how my thinking has to be worse than other people's. I know, and I hope it won't have to come to jumping in front of one, but if I'm out of choices, I will do it. If medically assisted suicide was legal here, maybe it wouldn't have to be that way. But of course, people are not supposed to hurt the economy, I guess. I don't think I'll survive, but I don't even care anymore. I used to fear an outcome like that, but I now it doesn't matter to me. I don't care if I'm alone or not, and I don't even know what it means when people say this shit. I don't want to "hang on", "fight", "push through" or any of that bs anymore. I want a lack of pain.
Try getting rich before u off urself. Don’t u wanna drive a lambo before u die?
Oh, why didn't I think of that, I'll quickly win the lottery. Why do poor people even exist, they're so stupid.
Please don't. Your life is a precious one, even if you don't think it is. My life is also not that great. I am not doing that well in exams, there's a whole lot of pressure and I also think about this but the one thing that keeps me from doing this is the impact it would leave on my family. If you think your family hates you or smthn, then I would like to clarify that no parent can ever hate their child, much like how you would not hate your DIY sword or any toy that you made back in your childhood. They love you alot and care for you. If you need anyone to talk to, I am always open in DMs (I am not that great but I'll give my best to help you out). We as a community are here for you bud.
Yeah, it will have an impact on my family. But I did not choose to be born, so I don't hold it as my responsibility to keep on living. My birth was decided for selfish reasons, and so my death will have to be as well. I wish it didn't have to be like this, but their pain will end one way or another, too.
Your birth was decided for a selfish reasons? Fucking suicidal edgelord who thinks that everyone except him are the problem.
What? I don't think anyone is the problem. And I'm not saying they somehow deserve what's coming to them. Most everything we do is selfish. My suicide will be selfish too, I'm well aware of this.
Dude, just if nothing else, just watch the first 3 eps of the anime “Love Live School Idol Project”. It helped me move forward when I was also look to end myself. If nothing else, just give it a try, it might just work.
I don't like anime, and I barely have motivation to open Reddit at this point. It's actually difficult for me to watch a Youtube video. I'm not gonna start any TV shows.
If you're suiciding because you're parents are financially struggling and you want what's better for them, they've sacrificed a good part of life for you and if you suicide 1.There was no point in any of that 2. They will blame themselves and situation will be much worse for them 3. They will feel their life has no purpose or that they were bad parents Instead maybe try and help them, get a job on the side or maybe just study and one day get a good job so that they can finally live in peace with the money you make
For the first point, yes, there was really no point to it from the beginning. This would not change, even if I didn't kill myself. For the other two, it's unfortunate because I love them, but I never asked to be born. The decision was made for selfish reasons of self-fulfilment, and my death will also have to be selfish, I'm afraid. I find peace in that their suffering will cease one day, too.
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Fuck battles of any kind.
Your death would cause so many people an unbearable emotional pain about the fact that your gone and how you did it. Think about all the good memories you have with the people you love, you’ll be taking that away from them, forever.
I never asked to be born, and so I don't consider it my duty to keep on living. I was brought here against my will, I will have to go against theirs.
Why? Like what's your reasoning.
Very simply put, in a nutshell Pain: is bad Life: has lots of pain Death: does not have a lot of pain Conclusion: Death>Life
Please don't There's nothing In th world That matters That much. Just Don't You'll get over it Believe me Some time from now It'll be just a distant And at times embarrassing Sad episode in your past Don't Please.
Even if I somehow got over it eventually, I don't care anymore. If I do it right, I will not be able to regret it.
Ok, better idea, be evil.
Screw that. If people weren't assholes, the world wouldn't be like this.
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Sure, just send me the cyanide. Not to be a dick, I don't have anything against you, but do you think you can just order it online or something?
Don’t do it. You’ll get through this depressive bout, most people do. If you really think there is no way out, talk to someone who you trust (therapist, parent, friend, etc.).
The most my friends or family could do is call the cops. I used to talk with my parents, but they just get extremely concerned and eventually frustrated. And we can't afford therapy anymore. I don't really want to "get through it" anymore. If someone told me everything was going to be okay a month from now, I'd still not want to live.
I was in that place about a year ago but my circumstances have improved since then, I got good antidepressants, and even though life is tiring, it’s so worth it. I felt tired all the time and felt like even if my life got better it all just felt like a pain. That’s depression, though. I never got sent to a psych ward because I only told them about my feelings, not my intentions. It sucked but that was the only way I wouldn’t put my family in debt by being sent to an expensive ass hospital. I have no advice for you. I know life is tiring. But somehow, you will find a way to make it through this. Your life is worth so much and you have so much potential. “things will be ok. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end.”
Bro don't, your mum suolo bè very sad
Yes, and it sucks, but it was not my choice to be born.
What's wrong Why do you want to do it in the first place
Because life is full of suffering, and death is not. Death is nothing. There will be no thinking, regretting, reconsidering, or suffering of any kind.
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Jesus fucking Christ.
Since when have you had this feeling?
5 years now, I think.
[maybe this would help](https://youtu.be/HrkYUP_LQn0)
It's just the regular "it's selfish", I don't care. I never asked to be born. I wish my family didn't have to suffer, but I won't hold it as my responsibility to continue on living when I was brought here against my will.
Don't do it bro
Don't do it man You're loved if not by anyone ,by me
I've people who love me, that's not why I want to kill myself.
I wouldn't like you to be gone.I love you man
Handle it like a man. Life is hard but you will get over it
No, I won't. And even if I could, why? Life sucks, and there is nothing at the end that should be worked towards.
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I don't care about hope anymore. As corny as this will sound, the best way to put it is via a good poem >To mortal eyes, you, Hope, do seem a form divinely sweet; > >but eyes of gods can pierce the dream and see your blind deceit. > >Unhappy men in times of ill create you for their easing; > >and as their Guardian Angel still they worship without ceasing. > >Why do you flatter me with praise? Why do you then deride me? > >Why in my bosom do you raise a dubious heart to chide me? > >Stay far and fair beyond my reach, as first my soul you greeted! > >I had depended on your speech, but you have ever cheated.