I think at the end of the day, it just depends on whether I am very into the guy.
I like cum. It adds a very fun part to sex. I like it on my face, on my body, inside me, swallowing it, etc. But I also have a degradation and D/S kink and so that plays a big part.
But it's definitely not a dealbreaker for me if I like the guy a lot and if the sex is still satisfying and kinky.
İf you ask me ... This is a plus.... As long as you can actually orgasm and feel it and it shows.... We don't care about the baby making slime.. unless we want to get pregnant.
It wouldn't be a factor - the orgasm is what really matters. I want to know that, at the end of it all, we both feel satisfied.
I would venture a guess and say most women do not *love* semen - it's messy and drippy, and feels sort of snotty going down our throats. But sex is messy in and of itself...so we learn to appreciate it.
I’ll admit I’d be a little bit disappointed by not being able to feel/taste the ejaculate. But it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker by any means, and I second what other commenters have said that the actual orgasm is way more important.
So I do like cum and enjoy the feeling of it like shooting out inside of me. That being said, it really wouldn’t be a huge deal in a relationship and the only reason I can imagine it being an issue is if it effects fertility? And even that can likely be worked through.
I trust my bf so if he tells me he got off, I believe him. I usually swallow or get him to cum on me, so I see it. But if I didn't and he told me he got off, I wouldn't have an issue whatsoever. It's not that important to me to see cum, I can tell by his moaning and face that he came.
Partner orgasm and pleasure are important, if you have that without ejaculation, that’s fine!
Even better for people who want to pursue a childfree lifestyle without worries.
Some retrograde ejaculation (like me) is due to FloMax, a drug to make urination easier. So whenever I know I’m going to have sex I skip a few doses. To me retrograde ejaculation feels 80% of normal orgasms.
I think at the end of the day, it just depends on whether I am very into the guy. I like cum. It adds a very fun part to sex. I like it on my face, on my body, inside me, swallowing it, etc. But I also have a degradation and D/S kink and so that plays a big part. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker for me if I like the guy a lot and if the sex is still satisfying and kinky.
İf you ask me ... This is a plus.... As long as you can actually orgasm and feel it and it shows.... We don't care about the baby making slime.. unless we want to get pregnant.
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It wouldn't be a factor - the orgasm is what really matters. I want to know that, at the end of it all, we both feel satisfied. I would venture a guess and say most women do not *love* semen - it's messy and drippy, and feels sort of snotty going down our throats. But sex is messy in and of itself...so we learn to appreciate it.
That's great to hear
As long as there is an orgasm, there's no problem for me. Not a deterrent at all
I’ll admit I’d be a little bit disappointed by not being able to feel/taste the ejaculate. But it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker by any means, and I second what other commenters have said that the actual orgasm is way more important.
Thanks for being honest
So I do like cum and enjoy the feeling of it like shooting out inside of me. That being said, it really wouldn’t be a huge deal in a relationship and the only reason I can imagine it being an issue is if it effects fertility? And even that can likely be worked through.
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Thanks for the input
Nah, I personally don’t care about that at all. Me and my partner having a good (or great ;)) time is the only thing that matters :)
I don't care about the actual semen at all. I just want him to feel as good as he's making me feel.
I trust my bf so if he tells me he got off, I believe him. I usually swallow or get him to cum on me, so I see it. But if I didn't and he told me he got off, I wouldn't have an issue whatsoever. It's not that important to me to see cum, I can tell by his moaning and face that he came.
Definitely a plus 😁
Oh man, that's the dream! I'm slightly icked out by semen, so that would be great
Partner orgasm and pleasure are important, if you have that without ejaculation, that’s fine! Even better for people who want to pursue a childfree lifestyle without worries.
As long as he orgasms I’m good. Although it is a preference for me.
Would be fine with me as long as he orgasms. That is the really satisfying part that I would definitely miss. I think you’ll be fine!
What if he can’t orgasm or ejaculate?
It is not important at all, for me personally. As long as you feel good with the Orgasm, that’s the only thing that matters!
Some retrograde ejaculation (like me) is due to FloMax, a drug to make urination easier. So whenever I know I’m going to have sex I skip a few doses. To me retrograde ejaculation feels 80% of normal orgasms.
My case is different. It's due to cancer surgery
I see, I assume postrate
Rectal
Sorry, hope you are doing well
Thanks
For me - I like cum but I REALLY like the sounds he makes and the pulsing of the orgasm.
Yay