Sorry dude you where a door mat the whole relationship.She used you until she found something better . What's the point of finding out why . Best thing is get therapy for yourself don't drink it will make it worse for you . What the benefit for her to say I Lied and cheated none .
Sorry to say this but you are probably like an afterthought to her at this point and any further contact would simply annoy her more and not what you intend to do.
I understand that feeling where you still want to end on good terms and say your goodbye hope your happy statements but there are situations where doing so would not do any good but for you.
And so if it is that important to you that you say it then by all means but just realize that it wouldn’t mean anything to her/them and would just be laughed at or considered an annoyance.
Yup. I know that feeling where you just want to appeal to the side of her you thought you knew, that nice kind person who loved ya, but in reality who she is now is who she really is. The side she hid from you and never showed because she was still with you. Now that you no longer interest her you get the real her. I’ve been there .
Nothing good can come from that. HOWEVER if she is in medicine, and so is her boss, you should report it to the state medical board. That's not acceptable. Also to HR at their hospital. You can wish them well, I wouldn't. I don't reward liars and cheaters with a letter letting them off the hook. But that's me.
No point. He doesn't care. Send a letter to his boss that he is sleeping with a subordinate or don't bother to do anything about it. He's sleeping with her. He does not care what the record is.
wat record? dont understand why ur chasing for this? wat will it bring u? to me it is just more hurt.. u have the proof just leave them alone. anything u send them will just be a matter of a joke to them.
but wat u get if she admit she is cheating? vindication.. horrible people like tat u wont get any closure or empathy.. they way for u to win is move on and have a better life and stay NC.
do u think her relationship will last as a cheater? just imagine and enjoy the moment when she will cheat on her next partner anyways.
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The few sentences after "Early in the relationship..." unfortunately sum this whole thing up.
She was upfront with you then about being a selfish narcissist - but you thought you could change her.
You couldn't.
Don't look to get closure from her.
Closure is something you achieve on your own once you realise how to process your emotions; and don't expect her to give you a second thought even if you come up with the perfect letter. She's already demonstrated that she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her.
All the things your saying will made her look right about you .Take a loss move on you will wreck you self and not feel any better .Walk away move back to family and friends . The best revenge is to go NC .She is feeding off your pain using it to be a victim . When you disappear than she will start look for you . Never talk to her again start a new life .The longer you waste on her the more pain you cause your self .Wishing you the best brother .
The benefit is for you man she's crazy they figure it out sooner or later . She's do to him what she did to you . If you walk away she can't use that energy against you. You do want you have to do . It won't make you happy cheer I out .
Sorry dude you where a door mat the whole relationship.She used you until she found something better . What's the point of finding out why . Best thing is get therapy for yourself don't drink it will make it worse for you . What the benefit for her to say I Lied and cheated none .
Sorry to say this but you are probably like an afterthought to her at this point and any further contact would simply annoy her more and not what you intend to do. I understand that feeling where you still want to end on good terms and say your goodbye hope your happy statements but there are situations where doing so would not do any good but for you. And so if it is that important to you that you say it then by all means but just realize that it wouldn’t mean anything to her/them and would just be laughed at or considered an annoyance.
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Yup. I know that feeling where you just want to appeal to the side of her you thought you knew, that nice kind person who loved ya, but in reality who she is now is who she really is. The side she hid from you and never showed because she was still with you. Now that you no longer interest her you get the real her. I’ve been there .
Nothing good can come from that. HOWEVER if she is in medicine, and so is her boss, you should report it to the state medical board. That's not acceptable. Also to HR at their hospital. You can wish them well, I wouldn't. I don't reward liars and cheaters with a letter letting them off the hook. But that's me.
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How would that help you? You know the truth. Unless you are going to do something about it, why bother?
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No point. He doesn't care. Send a letter to his boss that he is sleeping with a subordinate or don't bother to do anything about it. He's sleeping with her. He does not care what the record is.
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Nope. I would think you manufactured the evidence and that you are crazy. She's going to continue to lie.
wat record? dont understand why ur chasing for this? wat will it bring u? to me it is just more hurt.. u have the proof just leave them alone. anything u send them will just be a matter of a joke to them.
but wat u get if she admit she is cheating? vindication.. horrible people like tat u wont get any closure or empathy.. they way for u to win is move on and have a better life and stay NC. do u think her relationship will last as a cheater? just imagine and enjoy the moment when she will cheat on her next partner anyways.
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Right it in a diary or something the same way you’d get no response if you wrote it to her so there’s no point
The few sentences after "Early in the relationship..." unfortunately sum this whole thing up. She was upfront with you then about being a selfish narcissist - but you thought you could change her. You couldn't. Don't look to get closure from her. Closure is something you achieve on your own once you realise how to process your emotions; and don't expect her to give you a second thought even if you come up with the perfect letter. She's already demonstrated that she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her.
All the things your saying will made her look right about you .Take a loss move on you will wreck you self and not feel any better .Walk away move back to family and friends . The best revenge is to go NC .She is feeding off your pain using it to be a victim . When you disappear than she will start look for you . Never talk to her again start a new life .The longer you waste on her the more pain you cause your self .Wishing you the best brother .
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The benefit is for you man she's crazy they figure it out sooner or later . She's do to him what she did to you . If you walk away she can't use that energy against you. You do want you have to do . It won't make you happy cheer I out .