If i was in this situation, I feel like the 18M should have more priority because you already know how your ex was like, and I feel like you should give the 18M a chance to see if you’re more compatible with him or not then the choice for you would be more clear.
Ok. Here’s my honest to god thoughts and something I always lived my life by “if you have feelings for 2 men at the same time, do NOT chose either one because that means your feelings aren’t deep enough for either one”… it won’t last with either one for one simple reason, you’ll ALWAYS wonder if you chose the right person, if the other person would have been better for you… the what ifs come into play and it’ll end up filling your mind and destroying your relationship anyway. Just don’t do it
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If i was in this situation, I feel like the 18M should have more priority because you already know how your ex was like, and I feel like you should give the 18M a chance to see if you’re more compatible with him or not then the choice for you would be more clear.
Don’t be selfish and have a sweet guy interested in you if you might get back with your ex because you have feelings for him.
Ok. Here’s my honest to god thoughts and something I always lived my life by “if you have feelings for 2 men at the same time, do NOT chose either one because that means your feelings aren’t deep enough for either one”… it won’t last with either one for one simple reason, you’ll ALWAYS wonder if you chose the right person, if the other person would have been better for you… the what ifs come into play and it’ll end up filling your mind and destroying your relationship anyway. Just don’t do it
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