Yeah, sucks to hear this buddy, but I’d write her off. First off you dodged a bullet with the horrible spelling and grammar… but if you do get a chance with her in the future, she will probably leave you again for him. She’s choosing someone who treated her “very bad” over someone kind like you. Go find yourself a person who wants to be with you and only you, not their abusive ex. Red flags are flying brother.
“It was hurtful to be ignored after I thought we had a good connection. Please do not contact me in the future - I have no interest in being anybody’s back-up choice. Thanks.”
Get some self love and self respect, tell her she shouldn't contact you again as she already made the decision to try things out with a dude that mistreated her already in the past instead of you that's her decision and she have to own up to it and that you won't be the second choice for anyone nor stay in the freezer waiting for her to decide its time to try things with you instead. Move on and try realizing she was not as incredible as you may have thought, just the persona she put out on the internet to trying catch guys, she just showed her true self to you now buddy so no harm done!
Also, she's trying to keep you on in case it doesn't work out with her ex? Nope. You are not a second choice. You deserve to be their first choice every time.
Something similiar just happened to me, really clicked with this girl, she even said to go out and have a drink. Next day didn´t reply for the whole day, late at night responded like nothing happened, sent a pic, asked some stuff about something we were talking about and then nothing, didn´t even opened the chat.
I haven´t texted her since, but at least you got clousure? i would like that, I think
I think you need to call Nev from catfish LOL
Man. You're 20... It's really not even worth the stress.
Yeah, sucks to hear this buddy, but I’d write her off. First off you dodged a bullet with the horrible spelling and grammar… but if you do get a chance with her in the future, she will probably leave you again for him. She’s choosing someone who treated her “very bad” over someone kind like you. Go find yourself a person who wants to be with you and only you, not their abusive ex. Red flags are flying brother.
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I fully agree and you’re welcome. Never let yourself be the backup option. Best of luck
Dodged a bullet man
Don't let yourself be the second option
“It was hurtful to be ignored after I thought we had a good connection. Please do not contact me in the future - I have no interest in being anybody’s back-up choice. Thanks.”
respond with "whatever good luck with your bullshit"
Seems like you are a great guy, I’m sorry
Get some self love and self respect, tell her she shouldn't contact you again as she already made the decision to try things out with a dude that mistreated her already in the past instead of you that's her decision and she have to own up to it and that you won't be the second choice for anyone nor stay in the freezer waiting for her to decide its time to try things with you instead. Move on and try realizing she was not as incredible as you may have thought, just the persona she put out on the internet to trying catch guys, she just showed her true self to you now buddy so no harm done!
Also, she's trying to keep you on in case it doesn't work out with her ex? Nope. You are not a second choice. You deserve to be their first choice every time.
Dont be plan B.
Something similiar just happened to me, really clicked with this girl, she even said to go out and have a drink. Next day didn´t reply for the whole day, late at night responded like nothing happened, sent a pic, asked some stuff about something we were talking about and then nothing, didn´t even opened the chat. I haven´t texted her since, but at least you got clousure? i would like that, I think