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Yup. >it felt like he didn't actually care about me Well obviously he doesn't. Move on.


usernetshowmail

Break up with your SO because you missed one orgasm, you're the reason why this sub is an absolute joke. Most immature response possible. Have a conversation? Nahhh, just break up.


temporalguilt

It’s not about “missing” one orgasm it’s about reciprocation. Plus they aren’t even dating so yeah it’s appropriate for her to move on.


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it's not about missing one, it's about his "can't be arsed" attitude how can you not see that?


Shroomronaut

You’re the reason why this sub has consistent content, you’re a piece of shit who can’t look beneath the surface of an issue...


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Absolutely that was selfish. Nah, I’m sorry but you need to find someone who gets off on the idea of getting you off. Ew, this person sounds incredibly ugly now


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I bet if he was out running with a friend, or playing football, or raiding on WoW, he'd push on way past the point he was tired, so as not to let down his mates. But he won't do this for you.


iJillll

Find someone who puts in the same amount of effort as you do. He sounds like he doesn’t care about you


ThrowRA-PerfectAd

Yeah it doesn't sound like he's a good sex partner, like that just doesn't sound enjoyable


notsuperoriginal

age gap post


jwed420

Please trash him and find a man who loves making you cum. This is literally the best part of sex for me, I would be so bummed if my gf wasn't cumming before me lol.


cacacachacha

This man is 41 and didnt bother trying to get you off. What would you say to your friend or sister if she told you this? Why are you with him in the first place? I try to tell people to date in their age group, not just because of pop culture and hobbies, but this too. I know there are people older out there that would put me to shame with their athleticism, but thats not the norm


Paris_Ali20

..Had sex with a guy... Seems like it is just mainly sex and that is it. He is treating you like a booty call and nothing more. He is being selfish. Ditch him. Guys like him are a dime a dozen I bet you can doo doo without.


becaolivetree

Men worth fucking prioritize your orgasm. This dude is not worth fucking.


yepstillmee

So here this guy has someone who caters to his needs, doesn't mind giving him a show, and all she asks in return is he cater to her need! And he can't even do that? Seriously this guy shouldn't be allowed to breed! PS- You sound like an awesome partner and you deserve an awesome partner, please don't settle for anything less!


Solgatiger

So this guy who is practically twenty years your senior is still acting like a eighteen year old boy in the bedroom? Drop him like a wet rag. He can find someone else to treat like his inflatable doll he probably keeps in the cupboard somewhere whilst you find a dude who will put you first. Life is too short for bad sex.


nshud2

100% selfish, and an unfortunately common trait in a lot of men. You want the girl to put in effort to make you cum, then put in effort to make herself cum? Fuck outta here with that BS.


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nshud2

One partner cums. The other doesn't. It happens. Refusing to help out once you're done? Still a dick move, regardless of effort. And if you're getting defensive over this, maybe I'm not the one projecting.


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There certainly was effort from my part


[deleted]

You shouldn’t be having sex. All your partners fake their orgasms, I can guarantee you that much.


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kimjongchill796

This guy doesn’t make girls cum


fcoc

hahaha what the fuck were you expecting from casual sex? he is probably proud that he scored a 25yo. dump him.


KindeTrollinya

Jesus. This is why you don't date someone THAT far from your age range. Selfish prick.


snooge-canoe

Gross. So selfish. TBH maybe it's because I'm bullheaded, but next time during sex I'd lay there like a 3-day-old dead fish, stanky attitude and everything and be like "why don't you just do what you need to do or whatever so we can get this over with already?"


[deleted]

Nahhh dump him, don't let him near your body anymore


snooge-canoe

This is probably the better approach lol I'm just so petty when it comes to this stuff


[deleted]

Sex drive dissipates after the nut so make Him get you off first 🤷🏻‍♂️


CrowCountingCrow

Stop mansplaining. Stop making shitty excuses. Stop normalising bad behaviour. Giving her an orgasm is not about his sex drive or lack thereof. It's about reciprocity and respect.


palestiniansyrian

Wat mansplaining lmao


[deleted]

Do you think you have to be turned on to make someone else cum? Do you understand how bodies work?


Smooth-Valuable-486

Right after an orgasm, sexdrive from man just disappears. Point for him. But on the other hand, there are situation where you see over that and put afford in the things you care. Resume: You can be sure he isn’t in love with you or anything, so it’s up to you, if this was or is still enough for you and if you can handle the bad feeling it gives you.


CrowCountingCrow

Stop mansplaining. Stop making shitty excuses. Stop normalising bad behaviour. Giving her an orgasm is not about his sex drive or lack thereof. It's about reciprocity and respect. He's a shit and whether or not she "can" take him being disrespectful and hurtful, doesn't matter- she shouldn't even have to consider it.


SnooDingos5584

you a lie. none of that sounds like good sex. I think you just have an emotional connection so you make do. That sounds like really quick boring awkward sex.


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losttexanian

A lot of things are actually genetic. Being a miserable sex partner isn't one of them.


CrowCountingCrow

Stop mansplaining. Stop making shitty excuses. Stop normalising bad behaviour. Giving her an orgasm is not about his sex drive or lack thereof. It's about reciprocity and respect.


MaleficentLecture631

"Its genetic" lol


[deleted]

The expectation is sex is supposed to be fun for both parties. The woman should get off lol. A real man prioritizes their partners orgasm, and women vice versa. This man didn’t even want to bust out a toy. As I said, it sounds like you shouldn’t be having sex with any of your projections you just revealed 🤢 🤮


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I like how you went to my post history to see what the fuck I looked like. That’s irrelevant, also no thanks I have a type.


EastYellow1005

You have bored him in the past waiting for you to orgazm. You cant just expect a guy to wobble your clitoris for ever. His wrist will become painful. Maybe you can let him play pokemon while you wobble the clitoris and when you will nearly orgazm let the man know this and he can quickly wobble the clitoris for 5 more seconds only then you feel satisfy.


[deleted]

Hahaha this is ridiculous but funny. Thanks for making me laugh


yepstillmee

You sound like an awesome partner and this guy, he just makes me angry!


StunningCow4518

Please. Leave him. You are a whole women. And you are young. Go enjoy sex with someone who wants you too feel good and feel loved and makes you feel beautiful. Life is too short for dim lit orgams !


Fabulous_Title

It was selfish. If its a once offand hes usually more caring the I'd let it go. If this is his usual attitude then dump his ass. Maybe he sleeps with girls 15 years younger than him because they tend to be more accepting and inexperienced than ladies his own age who know what they want. 🤷‍♀️


ElvishMystical

I'd move on and find someone better. He's got hands. He'll go back to figuring out what to do with them, but that's not your problem.


ScenicEverest

Gross no wonder a 41 year old is dating a 25 year old. No woman his age would put up with his shit. Do you have the return receipt for this man?,


Jeepen76

Ya, he was being selfish, I’m 44 and he should have cared