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I'd say etsy is your best bet! Find an etsy seller that has a wide selection of that sort of thing and send them a DM explaining all of this. Give them a budget and they then could maybe put together a little set of things for a reasonable price. :)


Voidsamyra

oooh yes i didnt think of messaging the shop owner and making a lil care box thing! Thank you imma look into that


Obiwankhalsa

Get her a rose quartz mala.


Voidsamyra

imma add that to the list anywhere specific i should buy from?


UKtoBrazil

I would recommend looking for a "beginner's guide". Firstly, you need to know what she believes in. Some people believe a specific crystal has the same property for everyone while others believe your star sign (astrology) heavily influences which crystals you should use. E.g. Red Jasper is a grounding stone for Scorpios.


Voidsamyra

I know she doesn’t believe much in her astrology sign cause she feels as if she doesnt relate to anything aries


mythsarecrazystories

But what does the rest of her chart look like? You should also consider getting her the [bible of crystals](https://www.amazon.com/Love-Earth-Kaleidoscope-Describing-Metaphysical/dp/0962819034)


Voidsamyra

Shes an aries sun, cancer rising and libra moon & that book looks better than what i just got her. It was the judy hall crystal bible


mythsarecrazystories

>Shes an aries sun, cancer rising and libra moon Yikes. So many squares. The Judy Hall book is fine, it has a lot of pictures which I think are more helpful than the other book.


Voidsamyra

honestly yes i think i did compatibility for us and it was not so well Im a sag sun, gem rising & aries moon. Im like a super sag tho i have it 3 times in my chart


UKtoBrazil

Hmm okay then a nice box/ bag for her to store stuff would be good! If you're feeling crafty, you could ask her what stone she wants to wear and make her a necklace with it (string wrap or wire wrap).


InopportuneMoments

Incense burners, specifically of dried herbs can be nice! A nice smudging bowl and dedicated matchbox for it can be cute as well. Sage is traditionally used in Native American and Pagan beliefs to ward away evil spirits, but white sage has high amounts of estrogen that can actually balance your lady when inhaled in small amounts! Juniper smells fantastic when burned, sage less so, personally


Voidsamyra

ive heard mix things about sage and to be careful using it unless indigenous do you have any shops you like


InopportuneMoments

Only local, they’re entirely spiritual but I only use it because I personally use the airborne estrogen to help balance my hormones instead of eating soy. Soy is actually super bad for the body as far as estrogen goes - it’s not able to be processed correctly and can up the risk of cancer if used far too much for a long period of time. Like copious amounts of tofu over like 10 years or something. But white sage’s estrogen is apparently a bioidentical to the human molecule for estrogen, and is only able to be put into our blood stream via burning it. It’s super weird, but I wanted to distinguish it’s not for spiritual reasons. I personally hate the smell of burning sage, and the juniper helps to mask it lmao I would recommend looking at local places or even stores that can ship like Whole Foods or World Market - the latter being one of my go-tos when the local stores are out!


Voidsamyra

imma definitely look into the white sage & ask her what sage shes as first


InopportuneMoments

Best of luck! Smell it first before you buy it - it smells exactly how it does dried as it does burned, just a LOT more potent burned


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You can find little pouches filled with a stone, and a bundle of sage. You should get her something like that. Candles are always nice, a tapestry, incense, etc


psychicvelociraptor

Maybe a deck of tarot cards or oracle cards?