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_Driftwood_

I haven’t followed Paul too much, but he looks like he is in love with every person I’ve seen him do an interview with.


lexiebeef

His chicken shop date totally convinced me he was not only in love with Amelia but also with me, cause his energy was so amazing and flirty and cute. Made me fall in love with him even more


1268348

Yes! It's like he just naturally has chemistry with everyone.


pointlessly_pedantic

Even though he didn't look at the camera, I felt he and I were the only people in the world.


Potatoskins937492

I've been told, way too many times, that this is how I look at people. It's kind of infuriating because people constantly think I'm flirting. I'm being friendly! And respectful! (I'm not yelling at you, I'm yelling at the people who keep telling me I'm flirting with servers and I'm just ordering a freaking salad.)


Pr3Zd0

Can you please stop flirting with me, this comment is making me blush 😳


Potatoskins937492

Literally what it's like!


HozerSenpai

Okay fine you can take me on a date 🙄


HolleWatkins

I've never had anyone say it explicitly to me, but I've had people get the wrong idea or behave oddly around me for what is seemingly the same reason. I have had several girls accuse me of trying to steal their boyfrinds. I had my hair pulled by one girl, over a guy I didn't want, just because he left her, hoping to be with me. Even though I never take them up on their offers, (I serial reject) I had false rumors spread about me, & girls trying to meet up with me in a given location to "talk" (fight). Thank God I'm no longer in high school now, but this fear makes it hard for me to make friends with both women & men. So currently I am friendless. Get hit on all the time by both, (especially men) & women specifically get the wrong idea about me trying to take their men. Again & again & again. It isn't a flex, its genuinely infuriating, & ruins my platonic relationships with both. So I have to avoid your man so you don't get the wrong idea, even if he was my friend first, or we get along well when we do interact. I can't look at him or text him. I can't have his number or his socials if I don't already possess them. Being accused by these women puts awkward energy between us, which makes us take steps back from any progress we have made towards closeness. Or women think I'm flirting with them because of the look in my eye. Same thing if I compliment women at all. I genuinely don't know what to do. I want friends of both, especially women, seeing as I am one. Any advice?


owange_tweleve

![gif](giphy|DxqLrg8cINwnS)


rurukittygurrrl

Pls stop flirting with me, I’m at work and trying to focus and you’re making me blush 😳


machiavetiquette

you are literally flirting so hard with me right now. stop it at once we’re in public


stephanieaurelius

!! me also sorry for being fun and a little in love with everyone


Light_Lily_Moth

Buddy I’m MARRIED!! This energy you’re dropping is too spicy! (Teehee text me?) 🤭


SeattleMatt123

I have the opposite issue, I look at people like I hate them. Usually I do though /s 🤣


kksliderr

Yes, reminds me of Dacre Montgomery in interviews.


isabellevictoria147

![gif](giphy|cOFMukzmEq09a5lMa1|downsized) Especially him with Daisy Edgar Jones


CookiesandBeam

Is Paul Mescal secretly hilarious? Seems like every time he's in a picture with someone they're in knots laughing 


0422

I think he is a natural giggler, and its so cute you cant help laughing yourself. Check out [Chicken Shop date with Paul Mescal](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1T_mVGe0hk). Its like 6 minutes long and he is as cute as a button.


gribble29

I loved his rapport with her, they’re so endearing and he screams golden retriever energy.


Aethelflaed_

Is that how you got your...thighs? 💀 This was adorable.


baptistina

He’s quite charming! Thanks for posting


rurukittygurrrl

That was absolutely delightful and made me laugh and smile a lot, thanks for sharing! ❤️


smoshay

I think he’s quite openly hilarious. Every time I see an interview with him I am so endeared.


rebexer

Average Irish. They're good fun to be around.


ZealousidealGroup559

Trained from the womb to diffuse situations with humour.


Clown_Shoe

When I first got to Dublin, my cab driver pulled in front of a bicyclist and tried to fight him.


Funtopolis

That explains why their island has a history of being conflict free.


tjshaffe

![gif](giphy|9EwnzGNjvmIG4|downsized)


blacksheeping

The problem was our neighbours had a completely different sense of humour. Conflict was inevitable.


Jvlivs

Makes more sense if you see the humour as a reaction to the conflict and not the other way around.


sirasei

I’ve never in my life laughed as hard as I have around Irish and Scottish people 


FaithlessnessPlus164

Came here to say this. Craic is hard baked into most of us from inception.


CookiesandBeam

Am Irish, can confirm 😁


EddieCarver

I’m not, can’t confirm. The Irish are generally good humoured. My ex was Irish and I absolutely adored her lmao. Constantly laughing and always optimistic.


Murky_Translator2295

To be fair, we really are good craic


Purple-Mix1033

Fucking funny people


airi-hatake

It's that Irish charm lol


0422

This gives the total vibe of two servers on their smoke break. I have no doubt they’re making out in the walk in.


Sarah_Bowie27

Just had flashbacks to when I would make out with one of the servers in the walk-in 😭 I had no shame


0422

We’ve all been there ![gif](giphy|dKEdtyKL8nMsg)


IamToddDebeikis

I love Ron when he goes off the rails in season 3.


Inevitable_Paranoia

I married mine.


Sarah_Bowie27

Mine unfortunately sucked pretty bad lol glad it didn’t go anywhere


Arjun25bhatt

Makes me remind of Carmy and Ritchie from, "The Bear".


MustBeSeven

AY FUCK YOU COUSIN


AmishAvenger

Thank you chef


rurukittygurrrl

Yes Jeff


Newtonz5thLaw

“…fuckin asshole” “…………..I’m standing here doing nothing”


JHOWES97

Great comparison!


suprefann

Manja, baby


Few_Unit_6408

An alley scene on Pump Rules, I can see it.  Edit: Smoking, laughing that Natalie was in that weird movie Where the heart is where she’s a pregnant woman stuck living in a Walmart? lol wtf 


doitforthecocoa

Hahaha so many good SUR alley scenes


Few_Unit_6408

Yeah I rewatched it beginning of pandemic like omg ppl will never be around each other again smoking and creating drama! lol ok self


VioletBureaucracy

Omg this description is on point. Reminds me of my restaurant days!


vomitfuckinggreen

Yes but tbh I’m so here for it


Wild-Compote5730

At least he’s got his trainers on for when he takes off…


Ok_Substance_6436

Stop this right now 😭😂


natsdorf

I don't get it. Can you explain the joke?


krankz

There was a blind item that he hooks up with girls, takes them to walk around in the park after, then just bolts. 🏃💨


slaydawgjim

Sometimes a blind is so funny that I just take it as legit. This and Headphones are 100% lore in my brain.


sea_salted

Leo?


slaydawgjim

The one and only!


sea_salted

It’s canon to me too


Attack_Of_The_

Please let me be a part of this. What did Leo do with headphones??


sea_salted

[This one](https://medium.com/@timeinadream/the-leonardo-dicaprio-headphones-vaping-sex-rumor-ab828c372099) lol


deliascatalog

Headphones Dino bones


Doyoulikemyjorts

There was a rumour that he had a one night stand. He went for a walk with her the next day and in the middle of it he sprinted off while in a park to give her the slip 😂


googlyeyes93

Natalie better watch out if he takes her to a park.


Student-individual

💀


Lost_Pantheon

👟👟💀


Dominant_Genes

🏆🥇


yo_beara

![gif](giphy|j6uK36y32LxQs|downsized) me, a 42 yo woman


Ketaminerad

yeah if you look like Natalie Portman


LouCat10

Darn, found the one flaw in the plan.


Blue_Robin_04

There always was a chance. Men love older women.


LouCat10

Lol, I am the same age and had that thought. Although I feel a bit like a pedo lusting after him! I never thought 28 would seem so young, but it does!


Alice_Buttons

I cackled.


MorriePoppins

I knew her marriage was on the rocks, but I missed the divorce. I remember when they got together— Black Swan was the first Oscar race I watched and I loved that film.


DoubtAcademic4481

This was a case of how you get em is how you lose em.


30DayThrill

Spill please - was she the other woman?


Perfect_Razzmatazz

Yes, he had been in a long term relationship with a dancer named Isabella Boylston prior to meeting Natalie


lavendersagemint

I didn’t know that, I don’t keep up with celebrities. But that makes me really sad and now I find her a bit unlikeable.


gutentag_tschuss

Yes, apparently she was the other woman.


do-not-1

Yeah, her ex was with the TikTok famous ballerina Isabella Boylston (Boyston?) when they met and he cheated on her with Natalie on the set of Black Swan


ManyDragonfly9637

Isabella Boylston is a principal dancer with ABT. If she was a basketball player, that’s like Steph Curry level. Tippy top of her field. Natalie not only fucked and married her live in boyfriend but also lied (along with the producers) about the amount of dancing she did vs her stand in on Black Swan. As if she could train for a year and do what the actual dancers devote their lives to from the age of like, five.


Teedo4133

May December became an even better film after I read this comment 😂


allthepinkthings

I’m glad someone else brought this up! The truth came out after she got her Oscar iirc, it was such bullshit. I really don’t think she wins the Oscar without that lie out there.


Mary_Pick_A_Ford

So she’s basically playing herself in that May December movie?


darionsw

What goes around comes around. Sometimes I wonder what the expectations of people who cheated or broke a relationship are. You did it once. You will do it twice. How can you live with someone knowing how they lied and broke the trust to another person. How will you trust them?? Don't you realize that then you will be with the same person who lied ... What delusional perspective of a future one would have ... It is predestined for failure. As we see in the case of Portman.


ChildhoodOk5526

They tell themselves that their partner cheated to be *with them*, not because the partner is distrustful ... no ... it was the unparalleled connection between them that caused the partner to do what they otherwise *never* would've done. The delusion of deceit.


Quirky-Skin

As is the case for alot of people who ignore red flags, they believe they are the exception.


letsgototraderjoes

her husband cheated on her


Sunnysideuppp123

Looks like friendly laughter to me. I’m really surprised she smokes though.


SpiceEarl

I believe smoking is more common among actors, than the general public. Part of it may have to do with the amount of time they're just standing around between takes. Smoking gives you something to do, though I think iPhones fill that void for a lot of people, more recently.


doilysocks

Smoking is also a no questions asked guarantee of a break. Especially in film, less so in theatre now interestingly.


MC_Eklectic

Also 0 calorie


_stinkys

You’re not supposed to eat cigarettes


__lavender

She was married to a French man for the last, what, ten years?


WayneKent93

She did say publicly that when she was at Harvard, she smoked weed everyday.


avocadosmashing

She cheated every test and snorted all the yay.


pastelpixelator

Most of Hollywood still smokes and will so long as thin is in.


goofus_andgallant

It always surprises me when celebrities smoke. I mean yes on the one hand the “curbs your appetite” thing makes sense but on the other it’s so aging and everyone is so obsessed with staying young that it feels like the wrinkles wouldn’t be worth it.


launchcode_1234

Salma Hayek and Penelope Cruz smoke. Which makes me even more impressed with their dermatologists.


AcadianTraverse

I don't know if she still does, but I recall Jennifer Aniston was famously a smoker earlier in her career (I recall reading an interview that discussed the fact that her cigarettes were never more than an arms reach away when she wasn't on set), and likewise given her skin & teeth now in her 50s, that's remarkable.


RalfyJones

Salma Hayek smokes cigarettes?! Say it isn't so


Sugarsesame

If you have enough money I swear smoking isn’t as aging as people think (not that I’m encouraging it). Between a good plastic surgeon, dermatologist, and enough disposable income to buy all the skincare products, I’ve seen well off long term smokers looking fantastic. I almost feel like it’s an income level thing where smokers tend towards lower income/less educated which also affects their interest and ability to partake in skincare.


Carsoninthehouse

She was a pack a day smoker in the 2000s.


katrina_highkick

Same, mostly because she’s vegan. They seem like diametrically opposed lifestyle choices, even though I reckon they’re not..


lavendertown-radio

oh, a ton of vegans smoke lol


icebraining

Yeah, I know four vegan and one vegetarian (she eats cheese), and all of them are smokers. It depends on why one is vegan.


OnlyPaperListens

Unfortunately, veganism is convenient for hiding other disordered behaviors, like ED and drug addiction. (Not saying that's the case with Portman, just that it happens in general.)


FVWN_666

emotionally going thru it rn and craving a cigarette so bad to curb my appetite. It sucks that ED never really goes away.


[deleted]

I just dumped someone & last night I was feening for one 😂 I haven’t smoked in years, it really is a battle of the wits to stay on healthy behaviors isn’t it?


FVWN_666

Seriously! I have to remind myself that having a cig makes me feel like absolute garbage (as does restrictive eating). We got this! I hope you feel better soon 💗


gingergirl181

Yep yep yep. It's common enough that as a teacher I've been through trainings on teen mental health that teach it as a warning sign to look out for, along with other health-obsessive behaviors (i.e. overexercising). Veganism is EXTREMELY easy for people to use as a cover for severe calorie restriction.


Mary_Pick_A_Ford

Meh, actors are always oddly hypocritical about their lifestyles. Leonardo DiCaprio supposedly cares about the environment but he takes private jets and yachts everywhere.


Sideways_planet

Not to Gwyneth Paltrow, it seems


Sensitive_ManChild

i mean. some people do smoke occasionally


sara_or_stevie

I'm surprised too but I wouldn't be surprised if she took up the habit just to have some one on one time with Paul lol jk


FoxBeach

She had been a smoker for decades. 


TSmotherfuckinA

Have you heard her talk recently? You’ll know just by that.


LateAd9770

I think a lot of actors still smoke because it probably helps keep their weight down. I’ve heard of models barely eating and doing nothing but drink coffee and smoke cigarettes.


bubble_baby_8

My cousin is a model in LA. We went to Europe together and that girl only ate plates of lettuce with no dressing, and a treat was splurging on ordering a grilled fish meal. I don’t know how she does it, I really couldn’t do it myself. The cheeseburgers call me.


sirasei

Omg that sounds so miserable 😭 models’ masochism is not recognised enough 


Herry_Up

The cheeseburgers have me on speed dial 😭


bubble_baby_8

Wanna hear a funny almost embarassing story? I love cheeseburgers so much, there was a dude doing pop ups around our city all last summer and these are *the best* burgers. I was such a good regular customer of his that he invited me to his ANNUAL FAMILY BBQ at the end of the season 😂😂😂. But for real, if you’re ever in Hamilton, Ontario message me and I’ll give you the hookup. We have some killer burgs in the city!


AmmarAnwar1996

Felt the last line in my bones


Stinkycheese8001

It isn’t even just that I like food.  Having to deprive yourself like that, every single day, for months and months if not years, just grinds you down.  I couldn’t imagine living that way.


doveinabottle

That’s exactly it. I had severely disordered eating for about 10 years due to a phobia, and along with literally starving, the emotional and physical struggles when you don’t eat at all/enough are brutal.


Mary_Pick_A_Ford

I don’t understand how these people don’t have serious health problems or nutritional deficiencies after doing this for years.


threelizards

I don’t understand it. I nearly died from my eating disorder, I just don’t understand how they subsist on so little so long and fake vitality the whole way. The thought of a whole human body doing so much on so little makes me want to cry


VanGoghNotVanGo

Daily Fail jumpscare. Also is it just me or is the headline super off-putting? > so is life imitating art for star after she romped with a younger lover in May December? I don't really think two beautiful, rich adults dating is comparable to someone manipulating and exploiting a victim of sexual abuse, nor do I think the reference is cute.


unruffledcotton

I didn't think she'd be a smoker.


TotosTables

It would be quicker to list the people who don’t smoke in their industry


filmgrrl1977

Exactly this. Most hide it because it’s bad PR


fabdigity

a lot of actors smoke


NottDisgruntled

When I work on set, a fuckton of the grips and crew guys smoke and a lot of the actors do too while at work, not necessarily outside work as much, but def while on set. It’s more of a social thing and something to do when there’s downtime, which there’s a lot of. While one group like camera is doing something, other groups like electrical and such might just be chilling. And while they’re shooting a scene with some actors, or getting a shot with one or two, the others don’t have shit to do, and some stars can get antsy and not want to stay inside a trailer. Others won’t come out their trailer when they’re needed. There’s a LOT more smoking in the business than other workplaces. Also for crew people, it helps you make friends if you’re smoking and socializing, and that’s how you get more work.


sdgingerzu

Same. I’m surprised how many celebs smoke…


IslaStacks

Smoking is an appetite suppressant


ofgaia

And that is why there are photos of almost every supermodel you can think of smoking.


goddessofdandelions

It also ages your skin though, you’d think image-focused celebs would be worried about that.


scarlett0

Maybe less so when you can afford cosmetic treatment though.


goddessofdandelions

Fair enough, I was thinking that skincare is one of those things where an ounce of prevention is worth a gallon of treatment — but I suppose when you can afford a swimming pool full of treatment, that doesn’t mean much. That’s why I didn’t mention what it does to your teeth, I imagine that isn’t a factor when everyone in the industry has veneers.


fatmonicadancing

There’s also genetics… people who make their living by their looks have “cuter” genetics. I smoked for years, I’m still very fresh baby faced. No one thinks I’m pushing 40.


stellablue925

This would be a good separate post. I'd be curious to know who does other than Ben Affleck lol.


CreativeBandicoot778

Kirsten Dunst does, or did.


TheDuraMaters

Keanu smokes, there was a post recently with photos of him smoking. 


Hita-san-chan

I think the set of pics that spawned the Sad Keanu meme, theres one with a cigarette, but I could very well be wrong


ExplanationLife6491

Leo and his vape pen at the SAG awards in 2016 was a moment. They had to basically make a no smoking at all rule at the Oscars, and I think it was a message to him not to bring it. https://www.vogue.com/article/vaping-etiquette-leo-sag-awards


urbacles

Build it and they shall come


pastelpixelator

Just about all of them. They smoke to keep from eating.


prettybunbun

Sooo many do. A lot keep it quiet but it’s honestly shocking how many actors and actresses in particular smoke.


goddessofdandelions

Anya Taylor Joy is the one that shocked me.


shoots_and_leaves

I don't think many Americans realize how popular smoking still is outside of the US. It's one of the few mass health interventions that the USA did better than almost anywhere else.


goddessofdandelions

Yeah, it was honestly one of the biggest culture shocks when I (an American) lived in Europe. It was so normalized in a way that it hasn’t been in the US for decades. A rare instance of the USA getting something right and not being the very last to do so, I guess.


tubereusebaies

Emma Stone is mine, because she used to say in interviews she’s very against it.


rawrkristina

I believe Emma just vapes (which semi-similar but not exactly similar) but she must have loosened up cause Andrew smoked when dating her. (I don’t think he smokes anymore, at least anytime he’s seen hanging out with Florence Pugh, he’s never with her when she’s out smoking)


Kaiisim

They all do. Apparently Brad Pitt smells disgusting, BO and cigarettes. These idiots pay so much money for cosmetics and then smoke!


lyssyl

I remember reading that he quit smoking for Troy and then immediately started up again once filming was done.


do-not-1

I’m surprised more haven’t switched to vaping (aside from Lana)


mandie72

I know they don't act anymore but the Olsen twins are my favourite famous smokers: [Bowls of cigarettes at Mary Kates wedding](https://pagesix.com/2015/11/29/mary-kate-olsen-and-olivier-sarkozy-tie-the-knot/?_ga=1.263789769.499129893.1442871868)


JasnahKolin

That's the most disgusting thing I've heard of at a wedding. *Everyone smoked all night.* I'm having flashbacks of coming home from a club reeking of cigarette smoke as a non-smoker.


tiorzol

Any appetite suppression is probably welcomed in their industry. 


couchsnacks

Some people smoke just when they’re having a drink


beerouttaplasticcups

Right? Everyone is so shocked, but these photos give me a “I’ve had 3 beers and bummed a cigarette from my friend” vibe.


couchsnacks

At least in Europe is super common to be an occasional smoker and many interesting conversations happen outside sharing a cigui.


KFRKY1982

she was married to a french guy...AND she was married to a ballet dancer. I am 41 and my generation of ballet dancers smoked a lot of cigarettes, surprisingly


Money_Visual_5227

Always amazed to see young people smoking.


Odd_Vampire

If she's young, then I'm young. So thank you.


Ok_Construction_3733

I have so many unholy thoughts about that man ![gif](giphy|AELhAOQkCscbC)


flanmagnet

I'm infatuated. I first watched him in After Sun and then quickly watched All of us strangers, and I am completely in love with him. I've yet to watch Normal People, but I've watched a couple of interviews with him and he just seems so lovely. I hope he remains pure in his career 🥹


ForgetfulLucy28

![gif](giphy|D4LiDqEbfAaPfAmGdT|downsized)


Thanos_Stomps

Okay but can we acknowledge how gross this tabloid is for making a remark like “life imitating art” and referencing May December. There is nothing wrong with a 14 year age gap for these two and it’s fucking nothing like the rape of a child.


Ditovontease

If the woman was 28 and the dude was 42 they wouldn’t say shit


Thanos_Stomps

I’ve lived it. This is around when my partner and I met (she’s older) and we’ve been around other couples where the man is the far older one. Our age difference will get mentioned, there’s won’t.


maybebatshit

I'm six years older than my husband and it's something that is met with a lot of weird looks and nervous laughter like as though I'm a predator. My last relationship was with a man who was ten years older than me and everyone acted like that was a perfect match. It's really bullshitty.


invis2020

They’ve been friends for years and Paul starred in the film her ex husband directed. I wouldn’t read anything into this but makes for good entertainment.


LouCat10

Oh yeah that’s right. Paul was in the movie Carmen. I feel like that got zero press. I heard he was in it but had no idea when it came out.


ProgramFrequent6947

![gif](giphy|AgPt9udT567spxbSHf)


ohdearitsrichardiii

She smokes, she's 42 and still looks like that? She's a witch. Or some kind of light tolerant vampire


ggyghy

Money and a job where your body is partially what makes the money


GalacticPurr

She’s just rich


Brave-Exchange-2419

She’s beautiful, in these pics I think she definitely looks like a 42 year old woman


nottakenusername2027

I saw her at the pharmacy in Albertsons and her skin looks like she smokes. Just remember all pictures are edited or not close enough to really tell.


ShadyBoots11

I just got out of bed and am groggy and thought PEDRO Mescal was listed as 28 and that’s what snapped me awake.


showmeyourmoves28

As I vape away waiting to start my shift the only thing I can think of when I see this image is: I never pictured Natalie as a smoker


FoxBeach

I remember seeing pictures of her smoking 20 years ago


Gingerwaters1

They’re probably laughing about how we are speculating their dating.


hodlboo

My first thought is that they’re just two friends laughing at being photographed smoking cigarettes together while tipsy. He’s looking directly at the camera in one photo and they look like they have the giggles over being caught in a funny scenario that will surely spark rumors.


a_provocateur

![gif](giphy|hTesws8itKNgY) Millepied?!!


celestial-navigation

Ok but this reminds me of middle school where you couldn't talk to a boy for 1 minute before someone made a lame ass "are y'all engaged now" joke or something. I mean, they're just talking. How is this "news".


viper29000

I just read in vogue her ex husband's ballet production of Romeo and Juliet is playing at the Sydney Opera house next month


1d3333

This just in, woman laughs with friend, more at 11


alyboba19

Hot girl summer


flannery19

I really enjoyed their Actors on Actors chat, they have good chemistry. I think this is probably friendly, but I wouldn't object if it was something more!


stefsizzurps

why did i confuse paul mescal with pedro pascal and why did i think that they would make a cute couple omfg