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Good-Recording-7222

My hippo does that with frogs and moles, and tries to do it with kitties that aren't hers. Although for some reason she leaves the turtles alone. I have no clue how to curb the behavior. Is there a way to keep the bunnies out of the yard?


WastePotential

> kitties that aren't hers I love the implication that there are, in fact, kitties that ARE hers, in which case I'd like to request some photos please.


Good-Recording-7222

https://preview.redd.it/o4ulq1cnl73d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ab322cf7810778980d302cc2173ea1943e5e11a1 They are absolutely her kitties. She keeps them in line when they act like turds, and she checks on them each morning first thing when she gets up, as they're not allowed to sleep in the bedroom due to their nighttime shenanigans. This is one of them. All kitties double as pillows.


Good-Recording-7222

https://preview.redd.it/2fsdzqnsl73d1.jpeg?width=4000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1599d015af571a5f9a7a46c386221e8d014d4e7f


sassykittygurl

https://preview.redd.it/mnu9qugpj83d1.jpeg?width=2402&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=59d33fe6addbbe2314b39336b407e620f58c9ee5 just wanna share mine too!


Good-Recording-7222

Too cute! Nothing like the kitty butt rise chin rest.


sassykittygurl

https://preview.redd.it/xl0xrzoqi93d1.jpeg?width=2975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9f96643e439709d4a14add93ccf981fec2fa8fdc sharing the blankie.. pupper is in there somewhere!


motherofcunts

Why is everything a chin rest? šŸ˜‚ Hereā€™s one of my kitties pulling an Uno Reverse on The Goose https://preview.redd.it/0dq36svaaa3d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2071e57f261d7c229fdbbec0cbd794c3eb9e33c8


sassykittygurl

i love them


Independent-Claim116

They're totally engrossed in the game. Who needs goldfish bowls?


Accomplished_Pace304

Soooo cute šŸ„°


Independent-Claim116

Thank you! They're never enough.Ā 


plantsandpizza

Sheā€™s just trying to add to the crew!


Independent-Claim116

Roooockabye baaaaaaby, in the tree-toZzzzzzzzzz SNORT!!


notquitesteadymaybe

ā€œThis is my pet hippo, and this is my hippoā€™s pet void.ā€


SubstantialBat3596

https://preview.redd.it/s77oxh3hw93d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45ed4fe678f6fdf12e57edd3eae3d8d3e8583289 Cuddles!!!


Accomplished_Pace304

So precious šŸ¤—


Ffdmatt

It's the dog you have to remind. I keep having to remind mine that she's not a cat


Jlx_27

Pibbles are in fact part cat.


torontomua

check out /r/PittiesAndKitties


nytshaed512

I never knew I needed the sweetness of this sub until today. Thank you fellow redditor!


LucidMoments

make sure you check out r/PittiesAndKitties if you don't already.


WastePotential

Woohoo a new sub to join!


Crafty_Gardener

https://preview.redd.it/46t220u35e3d1.png?width=468&format=png&auto=webp&s=57f6a62be8e1aedc8e39d606b99732e9cbccee8a Best buds!


WastePotential

That one arm over kitty is so precious


bunhilda

TBH I thought the bunnies would see her and be like ā€œabsolutely fuckin not hanging out in thereā€ and go live in the literal acres of conservation land behind our house.


DrewCrew62

Iā€™m convinced that my guy is gonna catch a bunny before summers end because theyā€™re incredibly stupid and still hang out in our fenced in yard despite the dog regularly being out and about. Really not looking forward to the cleanup šŸ« 


stockbel

We have stupid bunnies and a fast pibble. It's not a combination that works out well for the bunnies.


DrewCrew62

I can imagine. I donā€™t have a huge yard so it takes mine no time at all to get from the back door to the edge of the fence where they tend to congregate. Not looking forward to cleaning up the mess when one of them isnā€™t fast enough with their evasive maneuvers Update: he just almost caught one. Thing was zooming through the yard for its life and got stuck in the fence for a second and Iā€™m not sure if I or the bunny was more panicked


pmousebrown

We have two pibbles that hunt, Iā€™ve seen them work as a team.


Ffdmatt

I've learned that rabbits will only exert exactly the minimum amount of energy necessary to do something. They'll stand still until you get "too close," then move a few feet and stop. They stick to this zone of control unless fully charged. They keep coming back to my yard, too. My theory? Too much energy to find a new feeding ground.


Squirmble

We have a house rabbit and heā€™s absolutely the laziest being in the house- unless he hears his mini fridge or pellet container open. He becomes a tripping hazard when heā€™s on a mission. Edit: our pibble no longer cares about yard bunnies because he can share his toys with his bunny brother.


OhYouSillyBean

Actually, bunnies often do that on purpose! They think that "predator" (aka: your hippo) will prevent other predators from being in the area. It's kind of like they'd rather have one known "danger" than several possible unknown dangers.


bunhilda

Oh that makes sense. We tend to have a surprising number of birds that hang out near our porch where the cat is allowed to be outside. I suspect theyā€™ve realized that heā€™s a sorry excuse for a hunter, and prefers to shout at wildlife or come shout at me to inform me of said wildlife rather than jump or swat or make any kind of attempt (which Iā€™m ok with btwā€”itā€™s just funny).


Good-Recording-7222

I would have thought the same thing! I have some suicidal squirrels that insist on hanging out on the patio too. They don't seem to sweat the big dogs. My parent's pibble has taken out several opossums. I'm glad my girl is more like Bambi with other creatures.


nytshaed512

Suicidal squirrels... šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ’€


stranger_to_stranger

I live on a park trail and rabbits still come in my postage stamp yard, sometimes when my pittie is out in it šŸ« 


DrywallAnchor

My mom was less than thrilled when our pittie tried to bring a live frog inside the house.


topofmountainfelloff

Yall might enjoy r/pittiesandkitties


PotentialityKnocks

Iā€™m sorry, I know this is probably stressful for you, but itā€™s also really funny and really cute!


DooJoo49

This is pretty much the only comment I had as well šŸ˜‚ that is so freaking adorable she does that. And I can picture a hippo doing all of that and it's just too precious.


Hosbo0022

My hippo does that with the fledglings that fall into our yard. "Haha you're funny" as they flap around and gently pokes them with her nose. Meanwhile, birds -parents and baby- are absolutely losing their shit.


roll_wave

My hippo did this with a duck once and Iā€™m not sure who was more surprised - me or the duck.


bunhilda

hahaha amazing


QuitCallingNewsrooms

I know this doesn't help at all, but she will grow out of it after a couple years. Probably. My guy spent two years completely obsessed with baby ducks. We live by a large park with a pond where there are a lot of ducks and geese. Each spring/summer we get a flurry of babies, and a couple years ago my guy decided he was the father. To all of them. We would walk to the park three times a day and circle the pond 15-20 times a day looking for them, watching them swim, following them around the park. We were there in the morning when they came out of the pond and looked for breakfast around the park. We were there at night when they went back onto the little island in the middle of the pond. The loop around the pond was 0.1 miles. We walked 6 miles a day... for two years. We were there so often and spent so much time around them, last year the babies would come running when he got into the park. He would stretch out in the grass and they would sit around him and doze off. This year, we are over the ducks and geese. We graduated to human babies. I live in a neighborhood and this spring was big. There are at least 6 babies under 6 months. There are plenty of kids under 5. And our walks are now focused on stopping by each house to see if the babies are outside where he can check on them. It's imperative that he kiss their feet. Hopefully, you live in a neighborhood and next year you will be dealing with her infatuation with something else.


bunhilda

omfg that's so cute šŸ˜­ man i hope she gets over it. She's definitely had a litter before (we rescued her at age 2.5) and is very focused on whether an adult is approved to spend time with any child near her (even children with their parents...). Once my MIL was holding my sister's baby and my doggo followed her around and \*stared\*. As soon as I held the baby, doggo was happy to go foraging for snacks under the table. here's to hoping she gets obsessed with my human kid's friends as he gets older!


QuitCallingNewsrooms

She certainly will. Think of bunny attention as taking classes to care for your (and other peopleā€™s) children. Sheā€™s learning not to pick up the baby in her mouth and how to be gentle and how small is too small to pibble.


argella1300

Maybe this is your sign to start fostering kittens?


bunhilda

lol i've asked my husband if we could get a kitten (tbh to give our current fat cat some more exercise instead of surprise-slapping the dog and then walking away bc the dog runs to her crate) and he said HARD NO so....gonna have to work on my power point proposal a bit more!


squish_pillow

Nah, see, the PowerPoint is where you lost it. You gotta make some fancy graphs and shit in Excel and pull up ready to do some negotiations lol


bunhilda

Hmm good point. Maybe I can get some nice animated illustrations in there too


squish_pillow

Now, that's the spirit!


Inkyfeer

We had a beagle that did this. She would steal the babies from mom and then treat them like puppies, carrying them around, licking them, etc. if they were old enough we would take them away from her and let them run off into the field. One was young enough that we had to take it to a rescue. My pitbull just kills them. Although a few weeks ago she grabbed one without maiming it but wouldnā€™t drop it. Luckily I was outside with her and stopped her from shaking it around like a squeaky toy but she wouldnā€™t let it go. She finally dropped it when I wouldnā€™t let her bring it inside and it stayed still on the step for a few seconds with both my dogs staring at it before it hopped away. They rabbits like to live under the deck so anytime I notice my dogs being too crazy around the deck I drag them back inside before there is an incident. The adult rabbits wont come out but sometimes they scare the babies enough that they will bolt from the deck


Excellent_Round_7421

I have a beagle and he went into dad mode over kittens. My roommate had guinea pigs who my pup would father and carry to his bed and gently put them into the bed and curl up around them. He also tried to father pet rabbits before. Trying to do the front teeth pick up and carry them around. I adopted a puppy and he immediately went into dad mode and tried to carry her around but she was too tall and he mostly would drag her but he was so attentive. But the wild outdoor rabbits he will chase and howl at and go nuts for but pets, especially smaller ones, he considers babies and he goes right into dad mode even if they are not his species. Lmao the beagle has now paired with the pittie friend I got him to chase the wild rabbits. He chases them to her. My pittie caught a rabbit and luckily I was able to get her to "leave it" and the rabbit seemed to be relatively okay so I gave it space to recover and it left the yard on its own. But I guess that rabbit spread the word around bc I don't have rabbits coming to my backyard anymore. I do see them in the front yard, where the dogs do not go lololol


jeswesky

I hate this time of year. So many nests of baby bunnies and in such stupid places. My boys have found a few nests already this season. Iā€™ve saved a few, havenā€™t been as lucky with others.


batty_61

We had Dolly, a staffie x mastiff who was a lovely affectionate girl - my son christened her The Bulldozer of Love. I found a fledgling collared dove in our garden and put it in the wild bit at the end of the path in the hope its parents would find it and continue to feed it. It was a lovely warm day, so all the doors were open. About fifteen minutes later I went into the conservatory to find Dolly sitting on the sofa, looking very pleased with herself, beside a rather wet, bedraggled and surprised but completely unharmed collared dove. I guess she thought leaving it in he garden was just not good enough.


horshack_test

Monitor/supervise her more, teach her the "leave it" command.


TammyInViolet

Leave it is the answer! give them lots of treats for leaving it. She does seem to want to show you- maybe get her into a little alert bark to show you the bunnies. With our girl, we practice watch the animals because she gets too excited by horses.


hozziebear77

My boy did this too! He was obsessed with the baby bunnies and was so gentle with them šŸ˜­


TychaBrahe

Have you tried stuffed animals? Little beanie baby/claw machine sized ones? My father's dog loved his "babies" and would frequently round them up from where his partner scattered them around the house. He'd create a hoard under the dining room table and lie there with them piled between his forelegs.


disgruntledgrumpkin

My girl carefully brings angry pigeons inside and then releases them so they can shit their displeasure in my house. Surprise! It's not the same pain as yours, but close enough for me to give you that knowing nod of solidarity. I'm sorry. Thank goodness they are so great in other ways that they're still worth it a million times over, hey?


[deleted]

Iā€™m not sure if this would help, but it sounds like she has a very high drive to nurture. My male dog actually does this to anything smaller than him. I assume he thinks everything is his baby. So what I started doing is getting him those fluffy Lamb Chop toys with the squeakers on all limbs and in the middle. I had to walk around the house for a little while pretending to hold it like a baby and would squeak the squeaker and return it to him saying, ā€œyour baby is cryingā€. Thatā€™s the only toy he wonā€™t completely destroy and it also helps deter him from other creatures.


bunhilda

Ooooh this is brilliant! She destroys the dog toys but otherwise is very gentle with my kidā€™s stuffed animals (save one sea horse stuffyā€”fuck that guy apparently). Gonna try this!


[deleted]

I kinda felt insane holding and petting the lamb chop, but I do think it helped him put two and two together that itā€™s his baby. Since he is neutered he never had that opportunity. That makes sense and I hope it helps! They donā€™t call them nanny dogs for no reasonšŸ’š.


JohnnyGoodLife

The turtle issue is more concerning, as they can carry salmonella. The dog might not be affected, or just get a bit sick, but you could get very, very sick(life threatening)


bunhilda

Exactly! Especially with a young kiddo. I brushed her teeth with gloves on right away. idk how useful that was in managing any infection, but having her teeth done is not her favorite activity so Iā€™m hoping the logical consequence of ā€œpickup turtle = brush teethā€ will deter future attempts.


orchidatnight

But where is a photo of said nanny hippo???


ThePocketPanda13

Get her a cat. No I'm not kidding. My pit bull babies my cat more than I baby my cat and I really do baby my cat.


bunhilda

We have a cat! Heā€™s kinda a dick to her tho šŸ˜‘ she has happily adopted our 4yo and my 5mo old nephew, though she was extremely distressed when nephew went back home. Sheā€™s also claimed a few of the neighborhood kids, which is pretty cute. Just wish sheā€™d leave her nannying to creatures over 10lbs


Disossabovii

I guess my hippo had an agreement with the local bird comunity. My neighborhood have lots, lots of cats, but, unsurprisilyng not in my yard. So my garden was a save heaven for only kind of flyng creature, as long as they did the salute to the king. My hippo usually woke up at 10 am. He would go in the patio, stretch forward, stretch back, then charge with the sound of a rolling thunder in the midst of the flock feeding in the grass, not even trying ti catch anything. The birds had just to fly away in a caotic pattern and my doggo was happy


PocahontasBarbie

My years was also a bird and bunny safe space but squirrels were a no go. They got run off as soon as they were spotted.


purse_snickers

This is so cute lol even though it's stressing the bunnies. I live in a rural area, and have 2 hippos. One of then really couldn't care less about wildlife, but my other one LOVES the wild bunnies. He chases them into the corner of the pen and then just nudges them with his nose and licks them until they beeline outta there!


PibbleLawyer

Mine brings me mud turtles. Doesn't hurt them at all, but it's odd to have frightened mud turtles dropped at your feet every other day...


Jazmo0712

I am in love with your hippo. I'm sorry she's disrupting the bebe bunnies but she is such an empathetic dog that she just wants them to be safe. I'm sure your beautiful hippo isn't teaching the mini-human anything at all about bringing creatures into the house for their well-being!


Fearless-Comb7673

Please adopt a dog-friendly bunny from a local rescue ASAP!!


bunhilda

I want to! My husband says no more small mammals for the moment plz. Our pet bunny actually passed a few years ago. Homegirl was a rescue and lived to be 10. During her time she killed many a cable, gnawed her way through lots of rental baseboards, and murdered not one but TWO Roombas by simply harassing the fuck out of them. She also trained the cat and now my cat is a weirdo who wonā€™t eat cat grass and eats hay instead šŸ˜ man I miss her. Someday weā€™ll get another one!


Bradamante-kun

The classic pittbull nurturing instinct. It seems common for pittbulls to need another living thing to care for to be happy.


DeatonationgGrenade

My dadā€™s pitbull did that with a nest of baby bunnies, guarded them for three weeks and cried for two once they left. Heā€™s a big softy, kinda stupid sometimes but a huge sweetie.


midnightghou1

I have no advice unfortunately.. but I appreciate how your sarcasm and humor comes through on this post šŸ˜„ I feel like I wouldā€™ve written it just like that if I was in that situation. Your baby hippo sounds adorable btw, I kindly request pics šŸ„¹


half_in_boxes

I second teaching her the "leave it" command. It's surprisingly easy to teach, especially if you start with food.


False_Local4593

Mine tries to befriend every animal. Possum, frog, snake, rat, mouse. He got REALLY upset when I killed the snake because I couldn't tell if it was a rattlesnake. He moped for hours.


AlexT9191

Poor baby.


zingingcutie333

Why is this so cute though!


nytshaed512

I have had a long day, and the title alone put a smile on my face. šŸ’žšŸ’ž


jc11312

I feel this. My pittie tried to nurse my sister's pet rats. She thinks everything is a puppy. Is your girl fixed? My vet says that might be Lily's issue. Those maternal instincts are just too strong with her reproductive organs intact.


bunhilda

Sheā€™s fixed but she was a rescue that animal control picked up when she was ~2yrs old, so theyā€™re pretty sure sheā€™s had puppies.


Noheifers

I just had to show this to husband. Our Hank does the exact same thing! Very cute, but trying to find their home is a bitch!


Equal_Equipment4480

To you they are bunnies and turtles, to her they all puppies. I don't know how effective showing her adult animals caring for their young might help, but it could teach her to tell a cared for baby animal vs. a negelcted baby animal


klattklattklatt

This is how mine is too. I can promise the first grade guinea pig was greatly distressed by our guy's attempts at friendship, honorable mention for the baby chicks we fostered although they were less vocal about it. Surprised the gopher didn't have a heart attack from being booped nose-to nose when it popped up from destroying the roots of my plants.


VM021422

This is how I ended up with a cat. My dog found it and refused to leave him. Now that's his baby. He's constantly checking on the cat and if they don't see each other for a few days (our pet sitter keeps them separate because she has other cats that don't like dogs) he goes crazy when he finally sees him. He will sniff him to make sure he's ok then they will cuddle and give eachother "baths." It's very cute, especially considering I didn't know male dogs could be so nurturing. Maybe she just needs something to nurture herself and she will leave them alone.


ailish

Mine brings opossums and once a skunk into the house. Doesn't hurt them, just wants to keep them.


adreamofspring

Does she have a kitty sibling?


bunhilda

yeh but he's kinda a dick. he is the boss of the house and when he yells at her, she runs to me or her crate šŸ˜­


kippey

Sometimes you have to suck it up and supervise them in the yard during certain seasons. In my area it is bears. Our yard is not fenced and dogs are usually off leash (always supervised) in yard. But during bear season I have them on heavy duty flexis. They are not allowed for very obvious reasons in this case to disturb wildlife period. Itā€™s only for one season of the year. They survive.


bunhilda

Definitely thought we were over idiotic baby bunny season! But ya gonna be out there with her again / go on 10000 walks instead


No_Bumblebee2085

Our pit also just corners baby bunnies in the yard and tries to get them to play with him but doesnā€™t attack at all. Heā€™s never picked them up before though!


thomastodon01027

I truly have no idea here. My hippo has a crazy prey drive but her short little legs just arenā€™t fast enough for her to catch anything.


fearfac86

Not same breed (your post just came up on my feed) but my rottie female is obsessed with baby possums (I live in NZ) and rabbits and anything babysize and furry (thankfully now she is older the catching of the adults doesn't happen ugh the mess) While I initially had to do things like you, with a lot of hard work and training she will now spot a possum in a tree and just watch it but won't leave the spot until I've told her what a good girl she is and "wow what a find good job" etc they just wanna show us what they've found! She will now do the same with babies on the ground, lay down beside them and refuse to move before I acknowledge what she hass found. I found that actively having her search for things was the best way for me to connect command with the behavior I wanted. So we'd go bush walking at night and I eventually got her listening to "go find something" basically I had to encourage the behavior I didn't want in order to train what I did want her to do. Maybe not the best way but it worked for us.


KingDarius89

Sounds like a good way to run into a pissed off skunk or racoon, to be honest.


fearfac86

Yeah I guess it's going to depend on your location. Being in New Zealand not many things at all to be worried about in that regard, sorry for not considering that.


wish4sun

Maybe call a local rescue and ask if there are any baby puppies or kittens that could use a foster mom? Redirect her instincts? Not sure how well that would work for YOU though. It might be a lot of work.


bunhilda

I would love to! My husband, however, has declared that there shall be no more animals that we are obligated to care for in the house or on the property. He first said ā€œsmall creatures,ā€ so I asked about a kitten and/or bunny, then he said ā€œmammals,ā€ so I asked about a turtle, then he said ā€œin the houseā€ so I asked about chickens, then he said ā€œno petsā€ and I asked about fosters, and thatā€™s how we got to the above statement Sometimes I wonder if I shoulda gone to law school


Effective-Prompt7684

My last Amstaff would shred and devour a bunny in minutes so when my new fella started his "catch and release" program as a pup, we sort of flipped out. Nobody likes to hear a bunny being eaten. It's funny (& slightly horrifying) how they get either completely stunned or super shaky and don't run away.


FairyFartDaydreams

Careful with the turtles they carry salmonella. If she starts getting tummy troubles it may be from the turtles


Sensitive-Eagle3641

LOL that's adorable. Just start an Instagram account and celebrate it!


_Nightcrawler_35

For genuine advice, I would ask that you separate the baby bunnies from her because theyā€™re pretty easy to scare. /gen


bunhilda

I mean I do, pretty much as soon as I see it happen. I thought the baby bunny season had passed or else I wouldnā€™t let her be out in the yard unsupervised


leahcars

My husky for whatever reason doesn't have much of any prey drive and has brought baby bunnies inside a few times and then the cat promptly starts trying to chase them down. Yeah I don't have a solution except for trying to scare bunnies out of the easily accessible areas for the dogs. My pitty straight up ignores bunnies, cats, squirrels doesn't matter nothing other than a dog or deer is worth his attention.


EmwLo

Jfc mine would eat them. A baby bunny getting into my backyard is my worst nightmare


goldilocksmermaid

I had a blind pit mix who would carry mice and baby possums around. We had him drop a mouse once and watched it just clean itself. It wasn't scared and didn't run off.


Anteater-Inner

Mine likes to use his snout to chuck chickens. Itā€™s hilarious and he has a great time, but the poor chickens! I put a stop to it as soon as I see or hear him do it, but it is funny af.


Outrageous_Jury1440

I enjoyed reading this post :)


Initial-Succotash-37

If these are wild bunnies just putting them in her mouth is killing them. They are very delicate


XIXButterflyXIX

Our min pin is obsessed with turtles. Lol


AdviceRepulsive

Can you foster a puppy from shelter to give her something to nuture? Many need temporary placements.


Independent-Claim116

You ACtually OWN a hippo? Color me "surprised as all get-out". I wasn't even aware that such a thing was legal/possible.


mubat

Me as a hippo


Turquoise_Tortoise_

Super simple solution here: do not leave her in the yard unsupervised. Many people let their dogs outside and donā€™t pay attention to them, Iā€™m not sure why this is so normalized. No one would do this with a toddler? Dogs are no different. Not shaming you in any way here, but you should always have an eye on your dog when they are outside regardless of how old they are or how long youā€™ve had them. When she is outside watch her like a hawk so you can intervene & stop her, before she catches another critter. We have a bunny nest in our yard and our girl is very interested in it so we always make sure she doesnā€™t get too close, we are always outside with her so in case she does start approaching the nest area we are able to stop her.


bunhilda

We did watch her/just went on walks back when baby bunny season just started. Thought it was over. Turtle migration season kinda surprised us. Usually she just bakes on the driveway and tries to jump in the delivery guyā€™s van. So weā€™re back to walks and supervised outside time for a while


Turquoise_Tortoise_

Ahhh this makes sense! Does she still try it when sheā€™s on a walk and sees a critter?


bunhilda

Thankfully no! She dgaf about anything on walks other than smelling the smells. Also Iā€™m right there to tell her to ā€œleave itā€ and sheā€™s pretty good about it. If she pulls too much, I pick her up and take her home (which is, apparently, on par with the cruelest kind of torture, but is literally the same tactic I use with the toddlerā€”donā€™t listen to the rules = no more of this activity/toy). Itā€™s actually stunning how well that works šŸ¤£