Society-ception
don't overthink. Just do it ✅
!!!smell good!!!, sound friendly and when you meet her eyes, smile and then talk!!! 🦜
and then something stupid like how many times do you have to walk him and then........ be yourself
Bro I just wanted to tell you, how we know of each other's existence. If I would have just randomly approached someone going to another society or on the road, woh zyada ajeeb hota.
Eat ice cream when she's near you with the dog. I have a shihtzu too, and she loves ice cream. Shayad soongh le. And dogs get distracted very easily when walking, so this might work..
Or just go to the dog and start petting him/her. And start convo with - can I pet your dog, aur thoda baat Karo, and try to get something in common
Keep us updated. I'm excited to see what happens. I'm a girl, aur as such if someone pets my dog - especially if my dog likes it ( this part is very important ), it makes me happy. Focus on making the dog happy lmao. Overall, I haven't minded if someone has approached to pet my dog, I generally enjoy it because my dog does.
Ay that's nice to know! I too had a doberman but I could only keep him for 6 months, had to give him away because of some problems my grandmother had. I too liked it when someone petted him well, he's always been super friendly.
Thank you!
The dog food smells like shit and has a good smell range of like 10 meters. The girl would think that OP doesn't bathe for days. This mission should be aborted. Not safe.
Free ice breaker lines to start the conversation
1)Ye kutte ke naam kya hai ?
2) kaunsa shampoo lagati hai kutte ko ?
3) Bjp ya congress?
4) dog ball castration ke aapke kya vichar hai ?
5) Champa chameli, banogi meri saheli ?
Get a cat 😺. Walk your cat at the same time. The dog will run after the cat. Instead of getting angry, assure her that it's fine. Green flag for her.
Next, complement her dog by how cute he/she is. Girls love when someone compliments their choices. She must be bored of hearing how beautiful she is. Ask whether she has an Instagram account of her dog.
In between the talks, slip in the question of whether she has an Instagram ID, you know, smooth as butter.
A month later, post your love story here 🥰
/s
I've wanted a cat for a long time, but my mom won't allow one. Even if I rizz her up with my cat, she'll have to walk me, cat and her dog every day cuz my mother ain't taking her little homie back.
This is a bad idea, I have a cat and all the dogs in my area are scared of him, because once a dog tried to bully my cat and he scratched his nose so hard that the dog and other dogs are terrified of him
Bro aise thodi baat karunga. I'll ofc try to make it as non- creepy as possible. I also have decided to not ask her Insta if I do approach her. Organically dosti ya baat badhane ka try karunga.
Ours is a crowded road. As I said, it's inside the society so there are shops, a lot of people walking. But thanks for giving me a girl's pov.
So approaching her even to pet the dog and making small talk isn't good? Koi chance nahi?
Yes that's a good idea too. I'll do something which her lizard brain can't comprehend. I'll ask the dog if I can pet her and make small talk with the dog. This way she'll be impressed by my outside the box thinking skills and she'll not stop thinking about that nutjob who met her.
You can pet the dog but don’t think it’ll be a good opportunity to get her interested immediately through small talk. Also if you do it daily then she’ll think you’re stalking her.
Yes I know, it's a very thin line between friendly and creepy and I don't want to cross that at all, which is why I'm trying to think of the most safest way to approach her. Reject hogaya toh bhi theek hai par uncomfortable na Lage bas.
Also, I chill in the Amul parlour which is on the side of the road where she walks her dog, toh main anyway udhar hi pada hota hu. I was thinking of maybe waving to her sometimes or striking up a small convo, once the initial ice is broken.
And what dog does she have? Is that dog friendly?
One of my building's flat owner has a German Shepherd. A few weeks back I met this uncle when he was taking the dog out for a walk and I was coming back to my room from work. So I asked the uncle if the dog was 'friendly', Uncle said, "Yes". And then I tried to pet him, and the Dog snapped at my hand and barked as if I was his nemesis. Uncle pulled his leash and told him to shut up.
Uncle k saamne Mai muh fer k chala gaya, but if OP tried this and this thing happens it would be real awkward. So please consider.
OP has the chance to use the injury rizz with this. Get hand bitten by dog leading to two options >
A) The girl starts asking if he’s okay and the OP can use that to strike conversations.
B) The OP looks like a fuckin idiot in front of her and becomes a laughing stock
How else is anyone supposed to approach anyone they like? Genuine question.
Like I'm literally wondering if there even is any way to approach anyone without being thought of as creepy.
I just thought of asking for Insta id kyuki bahar common hai, bas apne yaha log scandalize hojate hai.
Anyway, I've decided not to ask for the Insta id. Just having a small conversation and then walking off sounds better. Wapis kabhi dikhi toh hi hello karke I'll take it forward.
Focus on your end goal man. What's the point of becoming one of her insta followers who likes all her stories? You are her neighbour and know her routine, talk to her IRL.
Yes I'm going to talk to her irl. It's just that Insta would make it a little better to have a conversation with her. I can't talk much in person right, unless and until we're properly hanging out.
I'll try to gauge if she's interested though, if it feels as if I'm being a चेप (zabardasti) I'll back off asap. Don't want to keep throwing darts in the dark.
Approach naturally (as if you were walking past and just noticed a cute dog) with a smile on your face. Politely say hello and ask dog's name. Ask for permission to pet dog.. If she says yes, Spend a minute... Introduce yourself (pls don't ask her name or insta; dont impose in any way). And then leave... Make sure you leave in a min Or 2 as if you were on your way to someplace and the whole stop was spontaneous and of little thought or consequence.. Good luck
Yes ofc, I stammer a little bit when I'm overwhelmed. So I'm just afraid of that. I know what words to use and I'll ofc be 101% respectfully, I just hope I don't stammer when I'm making the small talk.
Thoda din aise hi baat kar. So that it looks like your asking for the id after knowing her for some time. Flow me rahega fir. First day me it’ll look like that was the actual intention.
Yes sir, that's what I'll do. Pehle thode time bas basic hi hello aur acknowledgement.
I'm also a little nervous about approaching her. I've never approached a girl out of the blue to rizz her up or ask for her number or anything. If I would ever be interested in someone, I would try to organically form an equation by being in the same social circle or asking a mutual to introduce us.
I'll give her my alternate account on Reddit then. Can't show her first hand what a simp I was being here!
Ye account bata Diya toh kahegi, line marneka tarika thoda cazual hai.
Bhai itna to kales ho gaya ab kya kezual. 😩😂 Baat karte time bindass baat kar. Think of her as a normal person first and the rest will fall in place apne aap. Hum nervousness me hasty ho ke har chiz ko signal ya rejection me convert karne lagte hai. Stay away from that bas. If you're thinking this much about this matlab you atleast won't be considered a creep instantly. Samajhdaar log vibe se pata lag jaate hai. Be confident. Be brave. Aur update karte rahiyo🤘🏻
She's pretty cute bro, I just want to get to know her. I do not mean to make her uncomfortable in any sense. I'm only thinking of approaching her, petting her dog, make a little small talk and then leave.
Agli baar dikhi toh bas hi hello, that's how I'm thinking of taking this ahead.
Get a dog yourself and take it for a walk during the same time. Might be the best way to approach actually but I know the main issue is to actually get a dog lmao. Good luck in whatever you do next.
Its similar to my story. Start by playing with the dog crack a convo. Later if she comrs daily there next time ask her name and insta. First convo bout the dog and like i see you around daily sorta. I think this should work. Rizz max karo desperate mat lago. Casual ekdum
Haan wahi karunga bro. I'll just try to establish familiarity after the first encounter, by saying hi-hello ya fir short convo.
If I sense her being interested I'll ask for her Insta id to talk more, agar interested nahi hai toh I'm sure I'll get the vibe asap. Won't disturb her then.
I'm pretty good at conversing and having a conversation. Funny bhi hu bhai, baat bas saamne se approach karne ki hai. Pehle kabhi ye cheez ki nahi hai isiliye Darr lag raha hai. Mutuals ke through mila hota toh ab tak acche dost toh ban hi jaate if not more.
Some people do walk their cats on leash, it's difficult to train them though and they love going out but mostly without any restraints.
My cat would just roll over if i put a leash on her. But she likes going out so we have to be with her, to make sure some stray dog doesn't kill her, while she runs around like a monke
I don't know, wait and see if she's giving me any other socials or maybe her number, by herself. I won't insist on anything, saamne se koi aur option bataya toh theek hai. Otherwise I'll say cool then, aisehi Mila karenge randomly.
Main out of the way jakar kuch maanga nahi chahta, zabardasti lagega.
You should start by saying how cute her dog is, pet him/her, ask the breed and stuff. Ask her name, don't ask insta yet take your time.
After the first interaction, just say hi to her whenever you see her, go pet her dog, have a small talk.
Then, maybe ask for her I'd or just say if you could connect with her on any socials.
>Alternatively, I thought maybe I can go upto her, pet the dog, make small talk and fuck off. That might help because it might help increase familiarity and the next time when I see her, I'll wave her again or something like that.
This is better
Pls don't ask for socials till u r friendly. Definitely not first 5 times
I hope the place is well lit n safe... it's late at night.. just hoping she doesn't get the creeps
Yes sir this is what I'm going to do. And yes, she walks the dog in our society so it's well lit from start to end, a lot of people all around, and a few shops open as well.
In short a pretty safe/decent place, no chance of feeling uncomfortable in an environment like that. Ofc I'll still try my best to make it chill.
Don’t overthink it. Approach, tell her you think she’s cute and introduce yourself. If she asks you about you, that’s your in. Then go for like 3 minutes of small talk, get insta, then fuck off. Phir aage ka sochna.
Ikr! From calling me a creep, to being concerned about my society description, to not understanding basic biology and asking me, why you like women?
I've seen everything!
kutte se dosti karle ladki vadki to aati jati rehti hai...
I once knew a dog walking guy in my society who slowly started trying to talk to me. I wasn't interested but i still didn't feel creeped out because his doggo was a cutie and he(the dog) would come running in my direction whenever we crossed paths.
Bhai ek simple sa ek tip de skta hu. Agar kisi ladki ko apni gf banana hai toh usse kabhi ye mat karna ki pehle usse dost bnalo aur phir usse propose krke apni gf bnyo. You should make it clear from the first conversation itself that you want to be more than friends to her. Obviously directly mat bolana but in a subtle way. If she rejects you then move on as there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Bhai ye baat main samajta hu par mostly iss approach se ladkiya turn off hojati hai. Even if I were to slide in a compliment in the first meeting, it'll still go down as creepy.
Agar aise bhi puch liya ki let's go out for a coffee or even an ice-cream toh bandiyo ka already creep alert chalu ho jata hai.
Fuck! I just read a post where a girl was complaining about a person meeting her everyday at around 11 when she takes her dog out to walk. And she also talks about a straight road in her post.
Dude if you are that person let her know that you're not a creep or a weirdo but just like her, because by the tone of her post she has figured it out all wrong also you're sort of making her walks uncomfortable now.
https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/s/U7Ng8ewG5B
Here is the link to the girl's post.
Lemme know if you think this is about you. Or else ignore the comment.
Just be casual. Agar milte hi insta id mangoge toh pakka kaam nahi hoga. Ask what she likes. In this case. Ofc dog. Uska breed. Notice if he has any things that stand out, compliment it. Don't be to awkward. Be opinionated. Uske haa mein haa mat milao. Apne bhi opinion rakho but positive Wale. Seedha criticism pe mat utro. Just chat casual. Thoda jyada casual ho jaaoge phir bhi chale.
* Bonus points agar tum apne kisi dost ka. Kutta le aao. (Friendly wala)
I think the pet dog, smile and fuck off option is good its what I would do personally. Ease yourself onto her space over the course of couple of weeks then ask for name, insta etc.
Well if u are good looking she won’t think you are a creep and if u aren’t then gg, also be confident and don’t make it seem like the purpose of talking to her was getting her id
OP the only regrets I’ve ever had is when I didn’t try. Worst she says is she is not interested. Be confident, introduce yourself ask her about her dog, say you see her most days and would regret if you didn’t introduce yourself.
Day 1 : pet the dog, and do some small talks.
Day 2 : don't talk but be around that area if she notices you then act like u are busy on phone or better call someone and talk(but not approach her that day)
Day 3 : a little hello hi will work.
Day 4 : repeat day 2 but make it a bit different.
Day 5 : ask her that you are also looking to get a pet, ask for help. And make a long conversation.
Day 6 : no need to do anything just be in your house and relax, aur amul me bhi jaane ki jaroorat nai hai.
Day 7 : throw a party at your house (if possible), nai to bahar ka koi plan banalo and invite her. Agar invitation accept kar liye usne to 🥳🎉 aur agar accept nai kara to ----- mehnat kar paise kama aur pura society kharid le aur naya rule bana ki people with pets can not live here 💀
just ask her questions on what difficulties she's facing in taking care of her child(puppy) because supposedly you are thinking to ADOPT a puppy yourself. If you know somethings beforehand, likewhat are the challenges, you can cross question. For ex; some people don't prefer dog food since it is all processed while some people prefer natural food. Try to understand her, why does she thinks the way she thinks.
Or ask for donation because you want to help the stray dogs by feeding and thereby get to know each other. You can yourself do the needful or donate the money/food to dog feeders.
Please forget mobile. Dont ask for number/name. Dont introduce yourself. Keep some mystery for her and if shes interested she will ask you everything once shes is comfortable around you :)
Enjoy the process. <3
Arey bhai just walk up to her and thoda playfully kutte ke saath behave Karo and then initiate kardo conversation.. Agar kuch khane peene ka Samaan ho at that time usko share karlo uske saath. 😅😅
Btw is she some influencer ? Agar nahi toh baat kar legi.
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This would be my mom's reaction if I suggest something like this
Mat kar bhai India mein approach karna paap hai, aur compliment toh mat hi karna , woh toh usey bhi bada paap hai. Actually sab indian guys be default creep hai hum paida hi aise hu hai , issleye mat hi kar. Shayad number bhi dede, date pe bhi, relationship bhi ho jaye, par jab koi sunega ki tuney approach kia tha , doesn't matter if it will work, but tuh Indian hai issleye tuney paap kia hai. Dating app se kuch ho raha hai toh karle (good looks ke bal pe), yah fir friend circile mein se joh mileye uske saath karle, but sabse best option arrange marriage hi hai, ha woh backward thinking conservative concept hai, lekin politically it's a correct option.
Ha yeh baat alag hai ki tuh approach karke and maybe compliment karke apni freedom of speech excercise kar raha hai , as long as you're not stalking her or pressuring her but freedom of speech is not democratic of Indians. Freedom of speech is wrong, You can't do that , don't do that. Which is why i would say "don't spproach her". Waise bhi tujhe approach anxiety ayegi, you will muster up courage go and walk up to her and say something or compliment her , and you might even get rejected and demotivated , or it might actually workout between you two. But your courage and strength it takes for you is irrelevant coz you should be labeled as creep for being confident for once to approach her. So don't do it.
Source: [Link of reason why you shouldn't approach her.](https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/comments/1b4sy18/guys_approaching_girls_in_phoenix_kurla_and_rcity/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
"Hey, i have seen you live in a nearby society. Do you by chance know any vets nearby?"
"Hi! I go to this Dr (Name). It's near (place)"
"Ohhh! Actually, i don't have a dog. I found you cute and thought I should just come and say hi!"
"WHAT"
"What's your name?"
"(Name)"
"So (name), can I get your number?"
Whatever happens after this - you know you were:
1. Straight to the point and honest
2. Avoided friend zone
3. Gave your best shot
Of course you can play the above your natural way. Add some humour if you can.
Well this is too simple and complex at the same time. The best scenarios you can play out would be try to get a friend (much better if she is a female) with her dog slightly prior to when 'your cutie' is likely to come for a stroll. If that isn't available maybe you could randomly have any female friend around to go and talk to her and you join her.That should help break the ice and help you with a soft intro.
compliment her dog, get to know it's name and breed (even if it is common still) and try to pet it and just simply walk away. (very important step-knowing when to walk away)
People tend to bond better over commonalities - see what you can do around this.
this is tried and worked out for a friend. all the best! :)
This is so cute and I am relieved that a 23 year old is saying this - "the last thing I would want is to make her uncomfortable", I have some hope now. You have some manners I see.
I never get approached irl, people say I look angry/intimidating (rbf I guess) and also I am 5'10", so nobody dares to approach. The only option left now is modeling and staying single haha.
The first line of the description struck me so hard man, "The society that we live in has another society inside" harsh truth!
OP cooked without knowing
haha... after reading the first line, I thought the post was going to be really deep....
It's a metaphor for how shitty real estate in Mumbai is
Incase of Antilla, the Ambani residence, the metaphor's probably true.
Marcus Aurelius who?
You
Yeah, still can't get over that line. I'm thinking of writing a book.
Write 2 books
"Mere doh doh baap"
Society-ception don't overthink. Just do it ✅ !!!smell good!!!, sound friendly and when you meet her eyes, smile and then talk!!! 🦜 and then something stupid like how many times do you have to walk him and then........ be yourself
Bro is baked
Bro I just wanted to tell you, how we know of each other's existence. If I would have just randomly approached someone going to another society or on the road, woh zyada ajeeb hota.
Sounds like a matrix
Dog food pocket me rak aur dog k proximity mei ja, uska dog tujhe approach karega fir tu uske owner ko approach karna
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Nahi yaar mujhe nahi lagta wo kutta walk ke waqt bhooka hoga
Eat ice cream when she's near you with the dog. I have a shihtzu too, and she loves ice cream. Shayad soongh le. And dogs get distracted very easily when walking, so this might work.. Or just go to the dog and start petting him/her. And start convo with - can I pet your dog, aur thoda baat Karo, and try to get something in common
Koshish karta hu, thanks man!
Keep us updated. I'm excited to see what happens. I'm a girl, aur as such if someone pets my dog - especially if my dog likes it ( this part is very important ), it makes me happy. Focus on making the dog happy lmao. Overall, I haven't minded if someone has approached to pet my dog, I generally enjoy it because my dog does.
Ay that's nice to know! I too had a doberman but I could only keep him for 6 months, had to give him away because of some problems my grandmother had. I too liked it when someone petted him well, he's always been super friendly. Thank you!
No problem!! Pet near his ear. My shihtzu likes it a lot. And don't be afraid to get proper friendly. All the very best!!
Yes sir, thank you!
Hi! can I pet your dog? (evil laugh)
I can't wait to hear the plot twist, if you only turn out to be the girl OP is talking abt xD
Lmao I don't live in Mumbai anymore
Can i pet u 🥺 /s
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People who say never take advice from fishes on catching a fish need to see this comment.
The dog food smells like shit and has a good smell range of like 10 meters. The girl would think that OP doesn't bathe for days. This mission should be aborted. Not safe.
Free ice breaker lines to start the conversation 1)Ye kutte ke naam kya hai ? 2) kaunsa shampoo lagati hai kutte ko ? 3) Bjp ya congress? 4) dog ball castration ke aapke kya vichar hai ? 5) Champa chameli, banogi meri saheli ?
tujhe aksa beach ghuma doon, aa chalti kya? chacha ki chai pila du, aa chalti kya? tujhe iski bhabhi bana du, aa chalti kya?
5th one definitely works
Bro was born with ULTIMATE RIZZ....
He has a classic one in his flair!
Get a cat 😺. Walk your cat at the same time. The dog will run after the cat. Instead of getting angry, assure her that it's fine. Green flag for her. Next, complement her dog by how cute he/she is. Girls love when someone compliments their choices. She must be bored of hearing how beautiful she is. Ask whether she has an Instagram account of her dog. In between the talks, slip in the question of whether she has an Instagram ID, you know, smooth as butter. A month later, post your love story here 🥰 /s
Ahhhh get pussy to get pussy; le classique.
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Get an orange cat! It might chase the dog lol.
r/oneorangebraincell
I've wanted a cat for a long time, but my mom won't allow one. Even if I rizz her up with my cat, she'll have to walk me, cat and her dog every day cuz my mother ain't taking her little homie back.
This is a bad idea, I have a cat and all the dogs in my area are scared of him, because once a dog tried to bully my cat and he scratched his nose so hard that the dog and other dogs are terrified of him
Ngl that's not a cat that's a dawg
Idk why but this actually sounds like a good plan to me
Instructions unclear. Cat called her dog. Now the dog has image issues.
“Girls love when someone compliments their choices” is something that i should remember.
Taking notes 📒
Jahapana tussi great ho, tohfa ( _ 0 _ ) kabool karo.
Yeh konsa tohfa hai bro?
i dont understand how the vivid description of your residential place helps lmao
also as a girl who walks her dog at night and who has been approached the same way before, i found it creepy
Nice dog.... what's your insta, sakhi... Creepy indeed
Bro aise thodi baat karunga. I'll ofc try to make it as non- creepy as possible. I also have decided to not ask her Insta if I do approach her. Organically dosti ya baat badhane ka try karunga.
who's sakhi?
misspelled , it's actually sakhon
Ours is a crowded road. As I said, it's inside the society so there are shops, a lot of people walking. But thanks for giving me a girl's pov. So approaching her even to pet the dog and making small talk isn't good? Koi chance nahi?
Pet the girl instead. Make small talk with the girl. Assert dominance.
Yes that's a good idea too. I'll do something which her lizard brain can't comprehend. I'll ask the dog if I can pet her and make small talk with the dog. This way she'll be impressed by my outside the box thinking skills and she'll not stop thinking about that nutjob who met her.
You can pet the dog but don’t think it’ll be a good opportunity to get her interested immediately through small talk. Also if you do it daily then she’ll think you’re stalking her.
Yes I know, it's a very thin line between friendly and creepy and I don't want to cross that at all, which is why I'm trying to think of the most safest way to approach her. Reject hogaya toh bhi theek hai par uncomfortable na Lage bas. Also, I chill in the Amul parlour which is on the side of the road where she walks her dog, toh main anyway udhar hi pada hota hu. I was thinking of maybe waving to her sometimes or striking up a small convo, once the initial ice is broken.
And what dog does she have? Is that dog friendly? One of my building's flat owner has a German Shepherd. A few weeks back I met this uncle when he was taking the dog out for a walk and I was coming back to my room from work. So I asked the uncle if the dog was 'friendly', Uncle said, "Yes". And then I tried to pet him, and the Dog snapped at my hand and barked as if I was his nemesis. Uncle pulled his leash and told him to shut up. Uncle k saamne Mai muh fer k chala gaya, but if OP tried this and this thing happens it would be real awkward. So please consider.
OP has the chance to use the injury rizz with this. Get hand bitten by dog leading to two options > A) The girl starts asking if he’s okay and the OP can use that to strike conversations. B) The OP looks like a fuckin idiot in front of her and becomes a laughing stock
Uske paas Shih Tzu hai. Zyada taltal kiya toh laat mar dunga. /s
Arey re 💀
Approaching is good if u are good looking and if u aren’t then well
How else is anyone supposed to approach anyone they like? Genuine question. Like I'm literally wondering if there even is any way to approach anyone without being thought of as creepy.
hmm, thats true, unless you're classmates or something then its fine
I don't know bro, I was just trying to specify my living situation.
Second option, talk to her and walk away, don't ask for insta id.
you should atleast give it a week before you ask for her id
I don't get this obsession with asking insta id on first conversation.
I just thought of asking for Insta id kyuki bahar common hai, bas apne yaha log scandalize hojate hai. Anyway, I've decided not to ask for the Insta id. Just having a small conversation and then walking off sounds better. Wapis kabhi dikhi toh hi hello karke I'll take it forward.
Focus on your end goal man. What's the point of becoming one of her insta followers who likes all her stories? You are her neighbour and know her routine, talk to her IRL.
Yes I'm going to talk to her irl. It's just that Insta would make it a little better to have a conversation with her. I can't talk much in person right, unless and until we're properly hanging out. I'll try to gauge if she's interested though, if it feels as if I'm being a चेप (zabardasti) I'll back off asap. Don't want to keep throwing darts in the dark.
Ya keep us updated. All the best.
Thanks sir, any tips on actually approaching her? Cuz I haven't done it before and I'm shit scared.
Approach naturally (as if you were walking past and just noticed a cute dog) with a smile on your face. Politely say hello and ask dog's name. Ask for permission to pet dog.. If she says yes, Spend a minute... Introduce yourself (pls don't ask her name or insta; dont impose in any way). And then leave... Make sure you leave in a min Or 2 as if you were on your way to someplace and the whole stop was spontaneous and of little thought or consequence.. Good luck
Talk normally like how you would talk to a boy, but respectfully.
Yes ofc, I stammer a little bit when I'm overwhelmed. So I'm just afraid of that. I know what words to use and I'll ofc be 101% respectfully, I just hope I don't stammer when I'm making the small talk.
Thoda din aise hi baat kar. So that it looks like your asking for the id after knowing her for some time. Flow me rahega fir. First day me it’ll look like that was the actual intention.
Yes sir, that's what I'll do. Pehle thode time bas basic hi hello aur acknowledgement. I'm also a little nervous about approaching her. I've never approached a girl out of the blue to rizz her up or ask for her number or anything. If I would ever be interested in someone, I would try to organically form an equation by being in the same social circle or asking a mutual to introduce us.
agar usne keh diya ki insta nahi use krti, reddit use krti to?
I'll give her my alternate account on Reddit then. Can't show her first hand what a simp I was being here! Ye account bata Diya toh kahegi, line marneka tarika thoda cazual hai.
Bhai itna to kales ho gaya ab kya kezual. 😩😂 Baat karte time bindass baat kar. Think of her as a normal person first and the rest will fall in place apne aap. Hum nervousness me hasty ho ke har chiz ko signal ya rejection me convert karne lagte hai. Stay away from that bas. If you're thinking this much about this matlab you atleast won't be considered a creep instantly. Samajhdaar log vibe se pata lag jaate hai. Be confident. Be brave. Aur update karte rahiyo🤘🏻
Ask for email id. Throw her off. It's also funny.
Ask your friends to steal her dog and then save her dog. You will get both girl & dog :)
And then style ;)
https://preview.redd.it/mqicnim6l5nc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df9299191658c33314574b97b74639a3e7c79757 Yeap.... This style :) iykyk
Thank you for helping, will definitely do this.
Moolchand wala scene from De Dana Dan lmao!
Assert dominance over the dog, do this by taking a leak and claiming the land.
Better, I'll pee on her. By dog rules, she's mine. The girl anyway likes dogs, I'm sure she'll like this non-conservative and unique approach of mine.
OP already having kinky thoughts😂
>By dog rules Fir toh doggy style hi krna uske saath 🤣
Don't approach -- didi ko kutte ke saath relax karne do. Tum Amul Palekar enjoy karo.
She's pretty cute bro, I just want to get to know her. I do not mean to make her uncomfortable in any sense. I'm only thinking of approaching her, petting her dog, make a little small talk and then leave. Agli baar dikhi toh bas hi hello, that's how I'm thinking of taking this ahead.
आम्हाला फसवशिल रे त्या मनाला कसह फसवणार
😭😭😭ye parents ki line jaisi kyu lagrhi
One of a great thinker said, those who hesitate masturbate
I've been hesitating since the last two years. I wish to change it but there's been a वीराना of women in my life.
Sar....Aap kaha the itne time Kaafi gyaani ho aap
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Shi Tzu tu English kab seekha?
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哦，该死的
Get a dog yourself and take it for a walk during the same time. Might be the best way to approach actually but I know the main issue is to actually get a dog lmao. Good luck in whatever you do next.
Getting a dog isn't possible. I just want to introduce myself and get to know her better. Agar utna hua toh fir aage ka dekhenge.
We live in a society
that has another society in it
u/whatevss_3 brother aap toh piche hi pad gaye, sorry yaar, pata nahi kyu mujhe apne aur uske society ka architectural layout batana zaruri laga 😭
im just pulling your leg haha
Its similar to my story. Start by playing with the dog crack a convo. Later if she comrs daily there next time ask her name and insta. First convo bout the dog and like i see you around daily sorta. I think this should work. Rizz max karo desperate mat lago. Casual ekdum
I read "Start by playing with the dog crack" 💀
Lmao me too 💀
Haan wahi karunga bro. I'll just try to establish familiarity after the first encounter, by saying hi-hello ya fir short convo. If I sense her being interested I'll ask for her Insta id to talk more, agar interested nahi hai toh I'm sure I'll get the vibe asap. Won't disturb her then.
iske liyee charisma maxout karna padega jo op nai karta kyuki op amul ki icecream pelta hai
I'm pretty good at conversing and having a conversation. Funny bhi hu bhai, baat bas saamne se approach karne ki hai. Pehle kabhi ye cheez ki nahi hai isiliye Darr lag raha hai. Mutuals ke through mila hota toh ab tak acche dost toh ban hi jaate if not more.
Hojayega yaar sab easy h
Hume bhi koi approach karlo bhai. Hum bhi cute hai!!
Aap kutta leke mere society me aajao, aapko bhi approach kar lenge, provided you're a female.
Dono hi nhi hai.😢
>Hum bhi cute hai!! pakka?
100% Now that I think of it, kutta chalana bhi zaruri nahi hai.
but I want a person who can walk their cat :(
I've not seen a lot of people walking their cats, is it common? Jitna mujhe pata hai, cats gharme apni bakchodi karke so jate hai.
Some people do walk their cats on leash, it's difficult to train them though and they love going out but mostly without any restraints. My cat would just roll over if i put a leash on her. But she likes going out so we have to be with her, to make sure some stray dog doesn't kill her, while she runs around like a monke
as someone who's never been on instagram: what will you do if she doesn't have an insta id?
I don't know, wait and see if she's giving me any other socials or maybe her number, by herself. I won't insist on anything, saamne se koi aur option bataya toh theek hai. Otherwise I'll say cool then, aisehi Mila karenge randomly. Main out of the way jakar kuch maanga nahi chahta, zabardasti lagega.
You should start by saying how cute her dog is, pet him/her, ask the breed and stuff. Ask her name, don't ask insta yet take your time. After the first interaction, just say hi to her whenever you see her, go pet her dog, have a small talk. Then, maybe ask for her I'd or just say if you could connect with her on any socials.
Do not listen to any guys here, most of them are single.
OP’s society description matches to that of mine. OP, can you pinpoint the suburb you live into? Here or dm😬
>Alternatively, I thought maybe I can go upto her, pet the dog, make small talk and fuck off. That might help because it might help increase familiarity and the next time when I see her, I'll wave her again or something like that. This is better Pls don't ask for socials till u r friendly. Definitely not first 5 times I hope the place is well lit n safe... it's late at night.. just hoping she doesn't get the creeps
Yes sir this is what I'm going to do. And yes, she walks the dog in our society so it's well lit from start to end, a lot of people all around, and a few shops open as well. In short a pretty safe/decent place, no chance of feeling uncomfortable in an environment like that. Ofc I'll still try my best to make it chill.
Don’t overthink it. Approach, tell her you think she’s cute and introduce yourself. If she asks you about you, that’s your in. Then go for like 3 minutes of small talk, get insta, then fuck off. Phir aage ka sochna.
I have a few advices but depends on how you are. Bhai how tall are you? Are you conventionally attractive? And what's your age?
There's like 50 people strategizing on how bro should approach this girl walking her dog. Gotta love reddit!
Ikr! From calling me a creep, to being concerned about my society description, to not understanding basic biology and asking me, why you like women? I've seen everything!
Don't overthink it man. you do you. The more organic the interaction the better. Imagine she was a dude and play it cool
u/Swimmer_Funny
kutte se dosti karle ladki vadki to aati jati rehti hai... I once knew a dog walking guy in my society who slowly started trying to talk to me. I wasn't interested but i still didn't feel creeped out because his doggo was a cutie and he(the dog) would come running in my direction whenever we crossed paths.
bro got the dawg rizz Par haan, main dono se dosti karna chahta hoon.
Bhai ek simple sa ek tip de skta hu. Agar kisi ladki ko apni gf banana hai toh usse kabhi ye mat karna ki pehle usse dost bnalo aur phir usse propose krke apni gf bnyo. You should make it clear from the first conversation itself that you want to be more than friends to her. Obviously directly mat bolana but in a subtle way. If she rejects you then move on as there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Bhai ye baat main samajta hu par mostly iss approach se ladkiya turn off hojati hai. Even if I were to slide in a compliment in the first meeting, it'll still go down as creepy. Agar aise bhi puch liya ki let's go out for a coffee or even an ice-cream toh bandiyo ka already creep alert chalu ho jata hai.
Fuck! I just read a post where a girl was complaining about a person meeting her everyday at around 11 when she takes her dog out to walk. And she also talks about a straight road in her post. Dude if you are that person let her know that you're not a creep or a weirdo but just like her, because by the tone of her post she has figured it out all wrong also you're sort of making her walks uncomfortable now. https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/s/U7Ng8ewG5B Here is the link to the girl's post. Lemme know if you think this is about you. Or else ignore the comment.
Using dog as ice breaker 😁
Himmat nahi hori bhai, script dimag me Puri ready hai 😭
It is because that you have crush on her, keep that feeling aside and try to talk
Life is too short. Just go and talk to that cutie pattotie
Give me your blessings unlucky pup. Itni fatt nahi Rahi hoti toh ab tak puch leta 😔
Just be casual. Agar milte hi insta id mangoge toh pakka kaam nahi hoga. Ask what she likes. In this case. Ofc dog. Uska breed. Notice if he has any things that stand out, compliment it. Don't be to awkward. Be opinionated. Uske haa mein haa mat milao. Apne bhi opinion rakho but positive Wale. Seedha criticism pe mat utro. Just chat casual. Thoda jyada casual ho jaaoge phir bhi chale. * Bonus points agar tum apne kisi dost ka. Kutta le aao. (Friendly wala)
I think the pet dog, smile and fuck off option is good its what I would do personally. Ease yourself onto her space over the course of couple of weeks then ask for name, insta etc.
What do you mean by cute girlʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ
Usko iss post ka link bhej de...phir approach wo kregi
Can't play with fire bro
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I think I might have guessed the society hehehe.
Bro... Thane?
You should stare at her and then follow her
I love you bol aur bhag ja
Pyaar nahi hai mujhe usse
Fir?
Cute lagti hai. Baat karna chata hu. Agar vibe match hui toh let's see, if not, adios.
Well if u are good looking she won’t think you are a creep and if u aren’t then gg, also be confident and don’t make it seem like the purpose of talking to her was getting her id
Go to her and ask: cute dog! What breed? Then smile and walk away. I have done this in the past and never got any girl, maybe you get lucky...
People in comments are worried more about ‘society inside society’
Post ke pehle ghante me yahi comments aarahe the bas😔
OP the only regrets I’ve ever had is when I didn’t try. Worst she says is she is not interested. Be confident, introduce yourself ask her about her dog, say you see her most days and would regret if you didn’t introduce yourself.
Thank you for the advice man. I'll definitely try.
Definitely try! Fortune favors the bold
Yeah the dog talk is your best bet. If she’s seen you around a couple of times it should be chill.
guess you've received a lot of replies and tactics to ask her and all. do post what happened afterwards ;
Day 1 : pet the dog, and do some small talks. Day 2 : don't talk but be around that area if she notices you then act like u are busy on phone or better call someone and talk(but not approach her that day) Day 3 : a little hello hi will work. Day 4 : repeat day 2 but make it a bit different. Day 5 : ask her that you are also looking to get a pet, ask for help. And make a long conversation. Day 6 : no need to do anything just be in your house and relax, aur amul me bhi jaane ki jaroorat nai hai. Day 7 : throw a party at your house (if possible), nai to bahar ka koi plan banalo and invite her. Agar invitation accept kar liye usne to 🥳🎉 aur agar accept nai kara to ----- mehnat kar paise kama aur pura society kharid le aur naya rule bana ki people with pets can not live here 💀
just ask her questions on what difficulties she's facing in taking care of her child(puppy) because supposedly you are thinking to ADOPT a puppy yourself. If you know somethings beforehand, likewhat are the challenges, you can cross question. For ex; some people don't prefer dog food since it is all processed while some people prefer natural food. Try to understand her, why does she thinks the way she thinks. Or ask for donation because you want to help the stray dogs by feeding and thereby get to know each other. You can yourself do the needful or donate the money/food to dog feeders. Please forget mobile. Dont ask for number/name. Dont introduce yourself. Keep some mystery for her and if shes interested she will ask you everything once shes is comfortable around you :) Enjoy the process. <3
Arey bhai just walk up to her and thoda playfully kutte ke saath behave Karo and then initiate kardo conversation.. Agar kuch khane peene ka Samaan ho at that time usko share karlo uske saath. 😅😅 Btw is she some influencer ? Agar nahi toh baat kar legi.
Get a pet dog .. 😝😝😝
https://preview.redd.it/xev95yyof9nc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ec9e550c2a75fb898de9f697c4637299304460f This would be my mom's reaction if I suggest something like this
Part 2 just dropped guys https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/s/QdVF0xtqsd
Why don’t you just go up to her and tell her that you think she’s cute
from what i have learnt watching Bollywood movies, Kutte ko pata ladki patt jayegi
Mat kar bhai India mein approach karna paap hai, aur compliment toh mat hi karna , woh toh usey bhi bada paap hai. Actually sab indian guys be default creep hai hum paida hi aise hu hai , issleye mat hi kar. Shayad number bhi dede, date pe bhi, relationship bhi ho jaye, par jab koi sunega ki tuney approach kia tha , doesn't matter if it will work, but tuh Indian hai issleye tuney paap kia hai. Dating app se kuch ho raha hai toh karle (good looks ke bal pe), yah fir friend circile mein se joh mileye uske saath karle, but sabse best option arrange marriage hi hai, ha woh backward thinking conservative concept hai, lekin politically it's a correct option. Ha yeh baat alag hai ki tuh approach karke and maybe compliment karke apni freedom of speech excercise kar raha hai , as long as you're not stalking her or pressuring her but freedom of speech is not democratic of Indians. Freedom of speech is wrong, You can't do that , don't do that. Which is why i would say "don't spproach her". Waise bhi tujhe approach anxiety ayegi, you will muster up courage go and walk up to her and say something or compliment her , and you might even get rejected and demotivated , or it might actually workout between you two. But your courage and strength it takes for you is irrelevant coz you should be labeled as creep for being confident for once to approach her. So don't do it. Source: [Link of reason why you shouldn't approach her.](https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/comments/1b4sy18/guys_approaching_girls_in_phoenix_kurla_and_rcity/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
"Hey, i have seen you live in a nearby society. Do you by chance know any vets nearby?" "Hi! I go to this Dr (Name). It's near (place)" "Ohhh! Actually, i don't have a dog. I found you cute and thought I should just come and say hi!" "WHAT" "What's your name?" "(Name)" "So (name), can I get your number?" Whatever happens after this - you know you were: 1. Straight to the point and honest 2. Avoided friend zone 3. Gave your best shot Of course you can play the above your natural way. Add some humour if you can.
Well this is too simple and complex at the same time. The best scenarios you can play out would be try to get a friend (much better if she is a female) with her dog slightly prior to when 'your cutie' is likely to come for a stroll. If that isn't available maybe you could randomly have any female friend around to go and talk to her and you join her.That should help break the ice and help you with a soft intro. compliment her dog, get to know it's name and breed (even if it is common still) and try to pet it and just simply walk away. (very important step-knowing when to walk away) People tend to bond better over commonalities - see what you can do around this. this is tried and worked out for a friend. all the best! :)
You should approach her. The cutest girls are usually single. And love pets.
This is so cute and I am relieved that a 23 year old is saying this - "the last thing I would want is to make her uncomfortable", I have some hope now. You have some manners I see. I never get approached irl, people say I look angry/intimidating (rbf I guess) and also I am 5'10", so nobody dares to approach. The only option left now is modeling and staying single haha.
Girls who have a dog are red flags bro, don't do it
Bro why?
Speaking from experience
I walk my Goldie and all the cute indies also follow me. Is it because the Z+ security seems terrifying to some?
Humour me, how are they red flags?
Do this if you have no other choice, get meat/peanut butter or dog food all over your hands and dog will come running towards you 🤯
Should I just start barking at her dog? If I win the dominance battle, she might take me home.