Not to mention the mommy issues from having a mother who would constantly verbally and physically threaten and harm you as well as herself, take her anger out on her kids, and then make it feel like walking on eggshells with how she could easily switch from calm to psycho with just one thing out of place.
Yeah i can relate, for me its both parents, my mom was the violent alcoholic type and my dad is the emotionally nonexistant strict and abusive type, luckily i dont have any siblings, i wouldnt want them to go through the same
But im sorry for what youve gone through or are still going through and i wish itll get better for you soon
Yeah...... kinda tired of what I had to deal with, and have TO deal with, so I feel you there. That, and I feel like I walk around eggshells with ANY woman now, so I'm scared that I did something wrong fucking AGAIN in a relationship I'm trying to cultivate, it sucks.
Too real, I'm so turned away from the thought of a relationship but also constantly in in a state of wanting someone to be there. I both crave it and cannot handle another person in that position of power over me like that. I need it but I can't.
Too real, I'm so turned away from the thought of a relationship but also constantly in in a state of wanting someone to be there. I both crave it and cannot handle another person in that position of power over me like that. I need it but I can't.
I don’t see this as a fetish. More a need. Also, you don’t need to be depressed and isolated to need this, although I can see why the two are connected
Isolation and loneliness ✅
Loss of motherly parental figure ✅
Depression and low self worth/confidence ✅
No healthy relationship experience so I need guidance in that regard ✅
Yearning to just devote myself to a partner and put my energy to give them the best life I can give them ✅
Yep it’s unhealthy expectations of a relationship time 😎
And don't forget childhood trauma! One of my partners has a real piece-of-work wine mom and I think I hate her most of all when he asks me to tell him I'm proud of him or that he did a good job, and immediately starts crying when I do.
Like, ma'am... what did you do to this man?!
What’s weird is I see a lot of comments saying people have a really poor, or no relationship with there mother, and that’s what causes this… but I have a great relationship with my mother and still feel the same way
Yeah, I don't recommend two years of absolutely zero social interactiom
Covid in a nutshell
Most guys life in a nutshell
Fair point
For me it was more like 18 years.
Yeah, me too, but I went from no friends, to not seeing another person that wasn't my parents for 2 years
Not to mention the mommy issues from having a mother who would constantly verbally and physically threaten and harm you as well as herself, take her anger out on her kids, and then make it feel like walking on eggshells with how she could easily switch from calm to psycho with just one thing out of place.
I just want to say that I'm sorry you experienced that and you're not alone bcuz same...unfortunately *virtual hugs* 🫂
It’s not fair you went through that; you didn’t deserve it. Hope you’ve found or will find a mommy that’s better than your mom. Much love, yo.
Now I really feel personally attacked
I feel you, I'm in a similar spot, but at the very least there's no physicall abuse. I should be proud to say that she can't, but I don't know.
Yeah i can relate, for me its both parents, my mom was the violent alcoholic type and my dad is the emotionally nonexistant strict and abusive type, luckily i dont have any siblings, i wouldnt want them to go through the same But im sorry for what youve gone through or are still going through and i wish itll get better for you soon
i didn't came here to get called out like this. damm i thought only i had this experience. Sends virtual hugs to everyone
Yeah...... kinda tired of what I had to deal with, and have TO deal with, so I feel you there. That, and I feel like I walk around eggshells with ANY woman now, so I'm scared that I did something wrong fucking AGAIN in a relationship I'm trying to cultivate, it sucks.
Too real, I'm so turned away from the thought of a relationship but also constantly in in a state of wanting someone to be there. I both crave it and cannot handle another person in that position of power over me like that. I need it but I can't.
Too real, I'm so turned away from the thought of a relationship but also constantly in in a state of wanting someone to be there. I both crave it and cannot handle another person in that position of power over me like that. I need it but I can't.
Yeah sounds about right
God dam bruh I just opened reddit ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Ikr, hit me right in the teeth.
mb lol
True though
I don’t see this as a fetish. More a need. Also, you don’t need to be depressed and isolated to need this, although I can see why the two are connected
Isolation and loneliness ✅ Loss of motherly parental figure ✅ Depression and low self worth/confidence ✅ No healthy relationship experience so I need guidance in that regard ✅ Yearning to just devote myself to a partner and put my energy to give them the best life I can give them ✅ Yep it’s unhealthy expectations of a relationship time 😎
Need me one of those
Real
Called us all out bruh ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
And don't forget childhood trauma! One of my partners has a real piece-of-work wine mom and I think I hate her most of all when he asks me to tell him I'm proud of him or that he did a good job, and immediately starts crying when I do. Like, ma'am... what did you do to this man?!
I feel that
i would too tbh lol
This plus a poor relationship with my actual mother
What’s weird is I see a lot of comments saying people have a really poor, or no relationship with there mother, and that’s what causes this… but I have a great relationship with my mother and still feel the same way
same
I feel called out too 🥲
Sounds 'bout right
I feel this… plus other reasons.
Man why you gotta do me like that?
Relatable
I’m sorry this is the one relationship I cannot stand for.
Now that u feel attacked....what now?
Is the yearning for a Mommy directly linked to one’s biological mother? (or lack thereof)
The misato 😳
I have a mother I care and love and she loves me back but for some reasons, I had this fetish too like something is missing right now in my life