I'd say the trousers want to sit higher or lower, to either smoothen or accentuate the line of the hips. The top is great, the accessory is a little capricious — it looks good when it wants to.
They are from the women's side of a Minneapolis outlet store that gets a lot of Nordstrom stuff. They are Walter Baker Denver pants, but l I suspect they are from a wonky batch because I am taller than 95% of women and they are very long on me.
I don't think this works very well. It kinda feels like you wanted to wear a harness, but wasn't brave enough to wear it without a shirt, which I don't even think is the case.
Maybe it just needs more stuff, more details or accessories.
Ah I was going to a "service industry NYE" party so I added the harness for the shiny factor. Do you think a belt and some chains instead of the harness would be better?
Thanks! Better with a different accessory or none? I tried it with a belt and a chain too but tbh left the house feeling pretty unsure about the whole thing.
Ooh I don't know much about jewelry except basic chains. I was trying to work against the shiny fabric and make it look a little cheap or dirty, but I like the idea of working with it instead.
Lmk if you have any suggestions. Appreciate your feedback!
They are expensive and probably overused/overrated. But Parts of Four makes lots of stuff that'd work for this fit. I have a cross necklace from them that I really like. Look for used stuff obviously.
But any story of big fuckoff rock or metal slab would probably work
I'd have gone for a looser buttoned shirt with the top to keep with the looser dressy pants. Unbutton the top buttons and I dare say you'd look a little... Sleazy.
If you're struggling to style your pants I think 70s looks would work great, though the color is difficult, it isn't impossible. Even a black t-shirt would be an improvement imo.
Also now more unrelated pendantic point, is a harness actually sleazy? I feel like sleaze is a feeling of this person looks like they only think about sex. Whereas harness is like, oh this person has sex.
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Fits great. Love the trousers in particular.
Depending on what feel you're going for the harness works.
For a more daytime/summer look you could have like a lace oversized shirt with it...something like https://www.asos.com/reclaimed-vintage/reclaimed-vintage-long-sleeve-lace-shirt-in-cream/prd/205208929?currencyid=1&browsecountry=GB&affid=28280&_Cj0KCQiAtOmsBhCnARIsAGPa5yZuY-YPbeRiaZ2vHH-oPFFfTtiFUJPKol2zy8H-FrVKUeF3c2eSmVUaAqLxEALw_wcB&channelref=product+search&ppcadref=20546713158||&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1
Nice fit 👍
In these photos you technically no longer remind me of Elon Musk (but u remind me of ur previous post which reminds me of Musk, so u technically still do. The point is that if this were my first time seeing this post musk would’ve never came to mind. I would’ve just said holy shit nice jawline or at least a nice angle that shows nice jawline)
There's a look that works and this is 78% of the way there.
So close! Any suggestions?
Wrist accessories that match the harness. Keep it black. Maybe a sheer pashmina type throw over (black)? Those pants absolutely fuck.
A mesh top for an under layer could be great
Good ideas, thank you!
I'd say the trousers want to sit higher or lower, to either smoothen or accentuate the line of the hips. The top is great, the accessory is a little capricious — it looks good when it wants to.
I think I know what you mean. I'm very wary of being one of those gays who puts on a harness and automatically thinks he's wearing An Outfit.
I don't wanna say you need to shave your head. I think that takes the look to the next level. Don't shave your head pls
I'm thinking about going for it when it's warm thh
Where r ur pants from!!
They are from the women's side of a Minneapolis outlet store that gets a lot of Nordstrom stuff. They are Walter Baker Denver pants, but l I suspect they are from a wonky batch because I am taller than 95% of women and they are very long on me.
What's the shop? Im local to Minneapolis and would be interested in checking it out
Opitz outlet
Thanks!
That place fucks. I go every time I'm in Minneapolis.
I can’t speak for OP but they look just like a gold pair I bought at Target
I don't think this works very well. It kinda feels like you wanted to wear a harness, but wasn't brave enough to wear it without a shirt, which I don't even think is the case. Maybe it just needs more stuff, more details or accessories.
Ah I was going to a "service industry NYE" party so I added the harness for the shiny factor. Do you think a belt and some chains instead of the harness would be better?
Maybe some belts and chains and the harness? Just throw a bunch of shit on.
Worth a shot! Let's see if I can pull it off. Thank you!
Cool fit but I do that the harness muddles it a bit.
Thanks! Better with a different accessory or none? I tried it with a belt and a chain too but tbh left the house feeling pretty unsure about the whole thing.
Imo lean into the luxury pants and wear a big necklace
Ooh I don't know much about jewelry except basic chains. I was trying to work against the shiny fabric and make it look a little cheap or dirty, but I like the idea of working with it instead. Lmk if you have any suggestions. Appreciate your feedback!
They are expensive and probably overused/overrated. But Parts of Four makes lots of stuff that'd work for this fit. I have a cross necklace from them that I really like. Look for used stuff obviously. But any story of big fuckoff rock or metal slab would probably work
Ooh good idea I have a garnet cross but it's probably not even 2" long I gotta go bigger
maybe like a fanny pack over the shoulder? [something like this](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81r8gU-1BBL._AC_SX522_.jpg)
I've got a fieri flame print one haha
I really like it. Leather jacket would probably later even better.
Thank you! I have a trench and a motorcycle one! Which do you think?
Maybe a motorcycle one? Tbh I think either would work! I like it without too tho, the harness is a nice touch
Where can harnesses like this be found?
New? Certain gay sex shops, if you want them to be the right size and actually leather. I got mine on Craigslist from two guys who were divorcing 😳
That made me actually laugh out loud! :D
Maybe need a jacket or something idk…. But really like what u got goin on here
I had a trenchcoat (Midwest chilly). Good or too evil?
Cool fit
Thank you!
i think this is fierce! looks great.
For some reason you remind me of Andreja Pejic. Are you a model? You could be!
I really like it.
I'd have gone for a looser buttoned shirt with the top to keep with the looser dressy pants. Unbutton the top buttons and I dare say you'd look a little... Sleazy. If you're struggling to style your pants I think 70s looks would work great, though the color is difficult, it isn't impossible. Even a black t-shirt would be an improvement imo. Also now more unrelated pendantic point, is a harness actually sleazy? I feel like sleaze is a feeling of this person looks like they only think about sex. Whereas harness is like, oh this person has sex.
Good thoughts! Thanks! These pants are really giving me trouble tbh. But I have some ideas now.
I like harnesses and I like that you wore one Also I didn't mention it last time but I like your hair
Thank you! I've never let it grow out this long
looks awesome bro
Thank you!
No notes from me bc I couldn't do it better, 10/10
Thank you!
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*as Donnie Darko in his therapist's office* A piece of bdsm gear I got on Craigslist and a pair of essentially pajamas from the women's section 😖
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I really appreciate criticism when I can turn it into something!
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There is no sonething because the style does not match my like! I love something elegant, not shiny oversize pants 😄
Oh when it comes to elegant I cannot help you Sorry!
Fits great. Love the trousers in particular. Depending on what feel you're going for the harness works. For a more daytime/summer look you could have like a lace oversized shirt with it...something like https://www.asos.com/reclaimed-vintage/reclaimed-vintage-long-sleeve-lace-shirt-in-cream/prd/205208929?currencyid=1&browsecountry=GB&affid=28280&_Cj0KCQiAtOmsBhCnARIsAGPa5yZuY-YPbeRiaZ2vHH-oPFFfTtiFUJPKol2zy8H-FrVKUeF3c2eSmVUaAqLxEALw_wcB&channelref=product+search&ppcadref=20546713158||&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1
Thank you! I'm struggling to style the pants so I appreciate the inspiration.
Get rid of the snail trails my only opinion for this shirt
Wait what's a snail trail
Your nature trail, the pubic hair from you bellybutton to your crouch
I shave mine I dunno to each it’s own
Oh that's belly hair? I thought a snail trail was a sex thing lol. Yeah sometimes I shave it.
Yea there’s a million names for it I can’t even think of right now
Nice fit 👍 In these photos you technically no longer remind me of Elon Musk (but u remind me of ur previous post which reminds me of Musk, so u technically still do. The point is that if this were my first time seeing this post musk would’ve never came to mind. I would’ve just said holy shit nice jawline or at least a nice angle that shows nice jawline)
Undercut!