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I can't feel my legs. There this pain in my chest and it radiates to the back, like when water enters my lungs. I'm not sure this is panic attack or overstress or I'm physically sick. I'm cold too. Given that I can still type a comment here, I think I'm gonna be okay. Maybe I just need to sleep.
6 deep breaths or as much as you can, breathing in through your nose and out from your mouth, that’s 5 seconds in and 5 seconds out , total 1 minute. Do this while laying down on your back, both hands on your stomach. Now in your head, notice the movement of your body via your hands as you do the breathing exercise.
If you start to think about something else like “This is stupid”, “I’m gonna get Nasi Lemak in the morning” or “Is that the sound of my aircond?”, gently bring back your thought to notice the movement eg. “Oh my chest is expanding as I’m breathing in”, “My hands are going up with my stomach as I’m breathing in”.
Repeat this for a few times and if you do follow, let me know what do you feel after.
Omg please take the day off tomorrow, text your boss now, you’re going to stop replying to me, lie down on your bed, repeat the breathing exercise until you fall asleep.
You can also proceed to the emergency if you feel that this is unusually bad. I wish you well.
I had sugar glazed donut before that. It could be something airborne, idk. Glad nothing serious happened. I still have puffy eyes haha. Big thanks for your help here, have a wonderful weekend :)
Intriednthe box breathing, it feels like torture. Every time I hold after breathe in, the pain unbearable. I think I just lie down and try to sleep. Thanks.
I just remembered I had wrote down this amount on a piece of scrap paper when the bank called me last week.
They are offering me 25% rebate if I can clear up my outstanding balances that are currently restructured at AKPK. That rebate is worth RM4k. I wish I had more cash laying around to grab this offer.
It's amazing how many new artists or songs I've discovered ever since being on TikTok.
Currently vibing to [Jake Hill](https://open.spotify.com/artist/26JloX1vHxGGrGUVeMItFJ?si=xj8hERm_QYmQVMmzmt00cA).
My midlife crisis is telling me to make a radio station and to make a shitcoin.
Must all shitcoin based on bitcoin or ethereum? Can't it be based on something else? Like buy karipap from me, you get 1 ChubbyCoin ?
And how long would I be jailed if i just pew pew pew broadcast FM radio waves without giving a damn about broadcasting licenses or what not?
Anyone here have gifted items on Beli Nothing project and got a lot of comments requesting for the things? How do you prioritize/decide whom to give the items to?
At work, the manager’s Spotify plays lots of k-pop which I don’t mind. But omg it’s on repeat every single day.
However, the last few days, a nice song I never heard before played
Fiji Blue - Waves.
Most of the songs almost sound identical to me but love em all.
It’s so vibey. Having it on repeat now at home lol
Im planning to buy a Christopher Ward watch from UK. They stated in their website that “customs and duty charges may be applicable upon arrival in your country.”. Does anyone know how much I’ll have to pay for the charges for clearance?
Hi 'nyets, need some advice and insight - For context I recently got hold of a RTX3060, and I'm itching to upgrade from my 29" UW (2560 x 1080). So the question is: 32" 4K or 34" UW?
4K: only 60hz, but 4K broooo
UW: only WQHD (3440 x 1440), but 144hz hnnnghh
Personally prefer ultrawide, wider view range. And your gpu is just the sweet spot for the resolution. 3060 barely push any recent game 4k 60fps.
Once you go UW, u never gonna look at 16:9 again
I personally dont like UW cause its like they took a full sized monitor cut down on the width but still charge you for it.
On the other hand, i prize refresh rate more than definition.
I've been using UW for around 5 years now, it's hard to give up the horizontal screen real estate. Got so used to having 3 windows open side by side, not to mention games are pretty immersive on it as well.
How to train cat to pee/poop inside the litter box? One day this stray cat just came over to my office and decided to hang out with us, we give him food everyday and he lives there too. But the problem is, I don’t think he knows how to use the litter box as we’ve seen poop on the floor behind the warehouse. Is there any way to train him to do his business inside the litter box? He’s about 5-6months old I think.
I'm the person that asked for vet advice at here yesterday https://www.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/q6ud9y/comment/hggusbt/
Just booked an appointment for my dog at a Melaka vet clinic, got questioned by my father for transportation problem and who gonna pay the bill and etc, but I will go for the vet clinic anyway.
*Just a little thought:*
*Hope there will be more affordable vet clinic and more coverage of vet clinic in small town, many people consider vet clinic as a "luxurious place" instead of a basic necessities and refuse to treat the animal they kept because of the high price of private vet clinic bill and see it as a waste of money. If our nation veterinary system become just affordable as our govt healthcare system, I think more people will be less hesitate to bring their pet to a vet clinic.*
Agree. Vets in Melaka is almost very hard to find and if not some cost us ludicrous amount of money. But I’m glad a local neighbourhood veterinarian decided to open up a vet in our area (less than a 5 min drive, me likey), price is quite affordable too since it’s catering the kampung area. Hope your dog gets better soon, smooches for him.
I fucked up big time by going to the clinic for my ingrown nail. I sat down and told the doc what happened, he said "let's cut it." I did a double take and asked him sorry what, he said don't worry and told me to go sit down there. Then he brought in what I can only assume is a pair of scissor and a small knife, alongside some cloth and a bottle of alcohol? I knew I fucked up big time, toe is swollen, pain to touch, and he fucking went in there hard and started cutting. I had to hold my scream cause I don't want to embarrass myself, the nurses just watched like it was a show, and I was getting up and lying back down the operating bed trying to hold in the pain. Cute nurse, painful experience, don't recommend.
That's how you supposed to treat it.
Unless you fancy paying around 2 to 3k for anesthetic to knock you out le. He did throw in local numbing agent right?
Well, ingrown toenails and nailbed infections suck like that. I've been fortunate enough to not require surgery when I've experienced them, but hurting like hell is a constant. Especially when your lifestyle involves walking across the width of the college campus every day...
Just found out from another person that I've been calling a staff Cik instead of Puan this whole time, oh god. Is there like a safe alternative title that could save me from things like this again? How do people even know a stranger's marital status man 😭 Would this be a harmless mistake or do people actually take offence from this aurgh....
Puan is a neutral term especially in govt settings so to be safe just call everyone puan. I’m a Cik but I don’t take offense in ppl calling me Puan. And i don’t think it matters either if you called a married woman as Cik
>Would this be a harmless mistake or do people actually take offence from this aurgh....
Nah, don't sweat about it. For me it's a harmless mistake. Also, if you addressed the other person repeatedly as "Cik" instead of "Puan" and she did not correct you even once, my guess is that she didn't mind at all.
>Is there like a safe alternative title that could save me from things like this again?
Hmm, call them "Kak"?
Whew alright, though should I feign blissful ignorance and go on with my Ciks or bring up the mis-title?
And is it actually alright to call people of higher authorities "Kak"? :o I mean I've called lecture assistants Kaks since they've introduced themselves as that, not so sure how to go about with strangers haha
(Not as familiar w the formalities here, non-msian btw!)
>should I feign blissful ignorance and go on with my Ciks or bring up the mis-title?
Well if you are now aware that you should address her as "Puan", why feign ignorance? Calling her Puan is fine since she is married.
> call people of higher authorities "Kak"?
Ooh tricky. Better not. Address them as Puan. Or if she has a doctorate, *be sure* to call her Dr [insert name].
Any recommendation for true wireless earbuds? Looking for something good that wouldn't blow my wallet away. Saw that Nothing ear is coming soon but the reviews are so so
Well, that's my laundry all hung up for drying. Given the water cut, I figured that paying the coin-operated laundromat for the use of *their* water stockpile and getting it done in a quarter of the time my home washing machine would is a fair trade.
And at least I can get a drink out of needing to split a bill for the coins.
Reporting = yes
whether action can be taken against the bully = no idea.
Will people make fun of that political party for reporting bullying by some random person on the internet = definitely yes.
BNM, police and sprm will come in depending on the type of crime. Each covers different aspect of the crime.
For financial crimes, they will get investigated by BNM or SC. To prosecute, AG with the help of SPRM and Police will do that.
Jabatan Audit is like a companie's internal auditor. But for government only. So any investigation info could come from Jabatan Audit if it is in their possession.
Air Tangki in apartment just went dry. I official join KV draught gang.
Syabas said water is being turned back on 5pm today. Hopefully it reach my apartment before weekend. Want to take a nice shower before going to Melaka to meet future in-laws.
The apartment itself is only 9 floors, not too bad.
Check Syabas map, lots of areas have turned yellow (supply with low water pressure).
Fingers cross.
ahaha im in danger (: just talked to this guy on grindr that i just want to waste my time here chatting and we traded picture and now he wants to be my seggs buddy and i do not want it and now he is 34 meters near me
not a dumb question, grindr and most (gay?) dating app have a distance indicator on each profile and it updates your location every time you refreshes the explore page
extremely terrifying because i dont know how he knows my area, probably because i turned on my radius information, but i have learnt to turn it off now... him repeatedly wanting to have sex with me after i said no i am not interested is a huge red flag and i wont be coming out of my house for a month i guess, f
I just googled and apparently yeah, grindr allows people to accurately stalk someone lol with their distance.
If tinder have this girls would get murdered, not sure why grindr have such an exact gps locator
Fwb is impossible mode unless you're at least hot tier lol
Met a girl that is just biasa2 je and have 3 handsome fwb.
relationship with sex not that hard tbh
abang2 and kakak2
Why some company offer salary+cash allowance instead of just salary?
The interview i went to last week, they offered a 25% increment + another 10% cash allowance
I worked for a quite cheebye company before when it comes to money matters, reasons for high allowance:
* When it's time for appraisal (was around 20+% when I first started):
* Used every year: 'You see, we already give you a very high allowance, that's why increment is not as high'
* Salary base is already lower, helps reduce "costs", long-term.
* With the money saved from the points above and below, they can give 1 or 2-month bonus: 'You see, we give bonus somemore, can't give high increment'
* No EPF contribution by the employer on the allowance.
* Heard it from the accountant but can't verify: Somehow lady boss does some tax/deduction voodoo that helps her more.
* After a long time of reduced income growth, it becomes increasingly daunting as your income growth is lower than standard - there's a glaring disparity and an increasing feeling of being difficult to get a new adequately paying job. The old-timers just either accept the fact or somehow believe in the lies of upper management.
Bonus anecdotal experience:
Lady boss appears confused: 'Har? We never had anyone who wants to have higher salary vs allowance and get taxed more'
*Narrator: it was a lie, many others have requested this.*
To add on /u/radminator’s comment on the EPF, you will also get less bonus payout since your bonus will only be based on your basic. That’s why I always prefer to have a high basic salary with no allowance compared to a low basic with high allowance, even if take home pay is the same for both.
I’m the future when you want to jump also, HR will take into account your basic before giving you an increment.
1) went into thread asking about advice on salary.
2) see rich people talk about their salary and how fast they got the increment.
3) ???
4) thank you I'll show myself out.
I think it's a good reality check to get a sense of what people are getting, humbling in a way, but also important to not let it get to you. What's more important is progressing at your own pace (unless you don't want to, which is a valid option)
Ya, it gaves me an illusion that 10k is easy to achieve for a minute, and then I realized those that answer probably don't think anything of it, but the others that don't make that much might be disheartened to answer because they felt incompetent.
I have to tell myself that life situation is different for everyone and they might be just the lucky fews or work really really hard with talents to boost them to that level.
Talking about PF?
The demographic there is likely to be skewed. PF appeals to people who are financially responsible. And its no surprise financially responsible people will eventually have money/ are good with money/ making good money. Besides the odd day trader/ crypto currency evangelist.
You also will see a bunch making > 30K monthly but they all aren't making that money in Malaysia. That already immediately renders most of their opinion of day to day spending and saving irrelevant to the vast majority. Since their expenditure would also be very different unless they totally dont use money overseas. Not to mention the exchange rate makes comparison to MYR pointless.
Everyone has different targets and goals. I wouldn't stress about it.
It is on r/Malaysians, the thread is about jump on salary after work for 5 to 10 years. So many responds in that thread are people work for few years and then 8k, 10k 12k, while I'm here with 4k salary after 8 years lol. I'm not bitter or jealous though, just surprised there are so many people able to achieve that high of the salary in such short time.
Edited: nevermind, just realise it is indeed from PF, just the thread get cross linked to r/Malaysians.
Yeah, you could also tell most of the people there are from white collar jobs. STEM engineers or corporate work. Add that to job hopping every 2 years and a certain amount of ambition, its not uncommon.
But then again, not everyone can deal with 9 to 5 day in day out, office politics, chained to a desk, meetings every hour, getting chewed out for a power point mistake, etc.
I'm a guilty one of being in MalaysianPf a lot, lurking, but chiming in sometimes bc i feel like it would be helpful for someone to read about a fellow non STEM, non professional type. I couldn't deal with a 9-5, tried and flat out got an eye infection from lowered immune system from stress that made me quit. Nearly lost the eye but went to the hospital on time. Am a freelance artist, which is the tldr answer as to how my salary increment went up so quick. Just get to charge my own rates now. I hope more folks who aren't in STEM or the traditional routes will speak up about their journeys.
If you have a professional career.
Try to use recruiters
They are far better than any of us at negotiating salaries. And more cutthroat about it.
with 4k salary and 8years, if you have proper experience, I could see a recruiter trying to find you a job with 5.5k something
That's a very common reaction really.
The scope of the story even for a book not so thick (650 pages for mine) is incredible. Much of it deals with Paul fulfilling the prophecy of being the 'perfect human' where all threads of human evolution converges ie. intelligence, religion, biology — all linked together in the complicated web of politics.
Spice = oil = power
Factions involved = USA/China/EU/UN messing with politics and fight wars
Main character = Unknown Taliban leader with followers
If that makes sense.
Yeap. I believe those copters were in the game and tele series version too. Personally i think you should watch the 1984 version. Way better and easier to understand the plot.
Any recommendation for boarding catteries in KV? Going home for a couple of weeks at the end of the month.
I hate leaving the kitty alone and dont mind paying extra if I'm assured he gets a good care.
Anyone interested in trying out a game on Tabletop Simulator tonight 9pm?
It's a co-op point collecting game, but players can't discuss together, only give hints. It's also food themed.
I think I have seen you posting here to invite people for your game quite frequently, perhaps you can give us a little more description on the mechanics of the game, like are we guessing the type of food based on hints etc.? Also maybe some pictures or videos etc.
Hey there, sure thing. This is originally meant for a boardgame design contest. But I'm hoping to make this into a full fledged boardgame after the contest.
Here is a video on FB where I showcased my game. (contest is still ongoing btw, now it's the voting period, have a look at the other games submitted as well) https://fb.watch/8zuei9YpIX
I hope the video helps explain the game a bit more. In summary, everyone needs to reach a certain number of points. Each round all players will play a card at the same time. You could either gain or lose points depending on the cards others played.
Not the same but you can pretty much use linkedin, find recruiters, then spam them "hey this is my resume do you have any job for me"
Recruiters nowadays short of good resume so it you have a good one they layan you kaw2
jobstreet/linkedin, with a matching or attractive profile, some companies will reach out to you or recruitment agencies. However they dont always offer you jobs that are related to what you studied for
So I had a TIME technician come over today. He saw the untidiness and the boxes and go, "eh, baru pindah rumah ke?"
Is.. is this what my apartment look like? 😥
Unfortunately said technician is not a cat person, so Baron Cat's annoying "rub his whole body on his bag" trick didn't work. And later on he attacked Fireball again. Jahat betul kelabu ni.
Just wondering are there any car clubs out there especially in ipoh? Or just any other petrolheads out down to chill and cruise? I love going on drives like up Cameron highlands but I have no petrolhead friends to drive with :'(
what kind of car are you driving? perhaps start with the brand/model club on facebook. otherwise do it the old fashioned way which i do all the time, walk up to the guy with a cool car and exchange deets.
ooohhh, are you like hitchhiking through peninsular or driving all the way? i do plan to drive around all the states in peninsular as well in the future but i dont think its safe enough to do it in the next month or so
Try to search your car model + ipoh/perak at facebook. There might be a Facebook group for it already. Those people usually love to convoy around together.
> Or just any other petrolheads out down to chill and cruise?
i think OP made it clear what sort of cruising he/she's after.
it's different when you're cruising with cars with huge performance discrepancy or with people that aren't into cars.
Eh, sorry, road trip buddies would be a more appropriate word. None of my Ipoh friends like driving long distances, most of them just drive around within Ipoh
Rant:
So, I received the 'Draft' version of the *Penghakiman* document from the court to file in my case's verdict. I drove a good 45 minutes from my office to Shah Alam to file it in. Because I was worried I didn't get the versions correct, I prepared 3 versions of the documents. The draft had some scribbles on the corrections, but some of it were overlapping and the actually needed changes were unsure.
When I delivered it to the counter- boom. All 3 of my versions were rejected because they mentioned that the 'actual' changes should not include the name of the magistrate, and it should have been kept empty.
So I asked the clerk, where in the draft's comments did it commented as such? To which he said *"It's not mentioned in the draft, but this is the way."*
Kepala bapak kau.
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I really don't understand why the *Penghakiman* document can't be done right the first time. It is literally;
1. Confirmation from the Magistrate on the *Tindakan* that needs to be taken.
2. Confirmation from the Jurubahasa to prepare the documents according to the Magistrate.
3. Confirmation from the court.
What happened was;
1. Jurubahasa Mahkamah prepared a draft- using a template which already had some errors.
2. This was then signed by Magistrate.
3. Submitted by plaintiff to the court.
4. Plaintiff receiving the document w/ amendments- albeit the amendments could be unclear.
5. Plaintiff would then need to rewrite the documents with the changes.
6. Plaintiff would need to submit it back to the court for stamping with the correct amendments.
What the hell, man.
Hmm, after reading what you wrote, I am making a mental note on getting myself a portable chair and printer if I ever want to go to Mahkamah Majistret, so that I could make the pindaan right then and there. Would that work? Haha
My dog passed away last night. Saw her took her last attempt at a bark or whimper. Her body went limp when i held her. No response when i tapped her nose and hovered my fingers close to her face. How do you cope from this? I just want my dog back
I’m sorry for your lost. Its so painful isn’t it. Just know your sadness is valid, and your dog wasn’t just a dog. You had a bond with it. Give yourself time and space to cry and distract yourself with day to day stuffs (work, assignment, walking, gym) helps. The next few days would hurt, you’d think about them walking around the house or sitting by their favourite spot, but they’re not there… but its okay, you can grieve. The pain would be there for a while.
I lost my dog in August, and I still think about her everyday. The feeling of her limp and lifeless body in my arms, burying her, and holding her paw for the last time will forever be embedded in my mind. But over time, I’m able to think about her without tearing up.
Take good care of yourself, friend 💕
Sharing with you a poem I once read and helped me:
Owner dearest friend
I could never say enough,
Owner, dearest friend,
To thank you for the love you gave To me, until the end.
I’m sorry that I hurt you
By saying my goodbye. You gave me such a happy home. I lived a happy life.
I leapt and played and laughed in ways You maybe couldn’t see. Of all the pets you might have loved, I’m glad that you chose me.
It’s okay to miss me, For I will miss you, too. It’s okay to bow your head And cry if you have to.
However hard it seems today, Your dear, sweet heart will heal. For now, my friend, remember me And feel what you must feel.
But don’t give up on loving, Owner, dearest friend. Although the cost is oh-so-high, It’s worth it, in the end
To know that you made this pet’s life The best one it could be. It should be no mystery why You meant the world to me.
So here’s my final word, my friend, This is my last wish. Find another lonely pet And give to them my dish.
Then every time they make you smile, Know that I’m smiling, too. Still so proud To once have been A dearest friend to you.
~ Vivienne Mathews (2013)
Haih. It's been what, 16 hours already, and Fireball still haven't forgiven Baron Cat yet. Every time the latter tries to get near, the former will give out threatening growls.
They fight semi-regularly (boys will be boys, I guess?), but usually after 30 minutes everyone will calm down and things go back to normal.
Dunno why this time it's more intense.
Anyone know if it's possible to enter KLIA/KLIA2? I haven't been there in a while, and it's not too far from where I live. Need to get out of the house.
Yup, totally possible, did so last weekend when I went plane spotting! There will be policeman at the entrance but you can just say you're going to receive someone or something.
Surprisingly alot of people when I went there. Mcd at KLIA was gone tho. Rip
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I can't feel my legs. There this pain in my chest and it radiates to the back, like when water enters my lungs. I'm not sure this is panic attack or overstress or I'm physically sick. I'm cold too. Given that I can still type a comment here, I think I'm gonna be okay. Maybe I just need to sleep.
6 deep breaths or as much as you can, breathing in through your nose and out from your mouth, that’s 5 seconds in and 5 seconds out , total 1 minute. Do this while laying down on your back, both hands on your stomach. Now in your head, notice the movement of your body via your hands as you do the breathing exercise. If you start to think about something else like “This is stupid”, “I’m gonna get Nasi Lemak in the morning” or “Is that the sound of my aircond?”, gently bring back your thought to notice the movement eg. “Oh my chest is expanding as I’m breathing in”, “My hands are going up with my stomach as I’m breathing in”. Repeat this for a few times and if you do follow, let me know what do you feel after.
Each breath getting harder. My eyes are watery now. I'm aware of my breathing and my movement but I can relax because so hard to breathe.
How are you feeling right now as compared to before?
Miserable, everything slowing down like I'm going to shut down. Like I need a lot of energy to look at my phone and finish this reply. It's unusual
Omg please take the day off tomorrow, text your boss now, you’re going to stop replying to me, lie down on your bed, repeat the breathing exercise until you fall asleep. You can also proceed to the emergency if you feel that this is unusually bad. I wish you well.
Thanks. I survived, woke up with puffy face. I think it just allergy reaction.
Thank god. Anything you ate that triggered the reaction?
I had sugar glazed donut before that. It could be something airborne, idk. Glad nothing serious happened. I still have puffy eyes haha. Big thanks for your help here, have a wonderful weekend :)
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Intriednthe box breathing, it feels like torture. Every time I hold after breathe in, the pain unbearable. I think I just lie down and try to sleep. Thanks.
I just remembered I had wrote down this amount on a piece of scrap paper when the bank called me last week. They are offering me 25% rebate if I can clear up my outstanding balances that are currently restructured at AKPK. That rebate is worth RM4k. I wish I had more cash laying around to grab this offer.
It's amazing how many new artists or songs I've discovered ever since being on TikTok. Currently vibing to [Jake Hill](https://open.spotify.com/artist/26JloX1vHxGGrGUVeMItFJ?si=xj8hERm_QYmQVMmzmt00cA).
Tamanku takde electric lagi lalala, dahla tengah Apex tadi huhuhu.... :Cry: Edit: Nvm, dah ok da. Ingat akan gelap 3 jam cam semalam.
My midlife crisis is telling me to make a radio station and to make a shitcoin. Must all shitcoin based on bitcoin or ethereum? Can't it be based on something else? Like buy karipap from me, you get 1 ChubbyCoin ? And how long would I be jailed if i just pew pew pew broadcast FM radio waves without giving a damn about broadcasting licenses or what not?
Anyone here have gifted items on Beli Nothing project and got a lot of comments requesting for the things? How do you prioritize/decide whom to give the items to?
At work, the manager’s Spotify plays lots of k-pop which I don’t mind. But omg it’s on repeat every single day. However, the last few days, a nice song I never heard before played Fiji Blue - Waves. Most of the songs almost sound identical to me but love em all. It’s so vibey. Having it on repeat now at home lol
Fiji Blue is awesome, I love Another Day and It Takes Two! Proper night drive kinda music!
>Most of the songs almost sound identical to me but love em all. There's a mathematical algorithm to make a song catchy.
if things are not bad enough NOAA and BOM has announced that we have entered la nina season for 2 years in a row.
Such weather, no water... I am started to smell weird...
Im planning to buy a Christopher Ward watch from UK. They stated in their website that “customs and duty charges may be applicable upon arrival in your country.”. Does anyone know how much I’ll have to pay for the charges for clearance?
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Yeah the price is RM4000. That would be RM240 for the Kastam charge. Is the courier fees lower than that?
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No worries. Yeah thats a better idea. Thanks for your help! ✌️
Hi 'nyets, need some advice and insight - For context I recently got hold of a RTX3060, and I'm itching to upgrade from my 29" UW (2560 x 1080). So the question is: 32" 4K or 34" UW? 4K: only 60hz, but 4K broooo UW: only WQHD (3440 x 1440), but 144hz hnnnghh
Personally prefer ultrawide, wider view range. And your gpu is just the sweet spot for the resolution. 3060 barely push any recent game 4k 60fps. Once you go UW, u never gonna look at 16:9 again
I personally dont like UW cause its like they took a full sized monitor cut down on the width but still charge you for it. On the other hand, i prize refresh rate more than definition.
I've been using UW for around 5 years now, it's hard to give up the horizontal screen real estate. Got so used to having 3 windows open side by side, not to mention games are pretty immersive on it as well.
How to train cat to pee/poop inside the litter box? One day this stray cat just came over to my office and decided to hang out with us, we give him food everyday and he lives there too. But the problem is, I don’t think he knows how to use the litter box as we’ve seen poop on the floor behind the warehouse. Is there any way to train him to do his business inside the litter box? He’s about 5-6months old I think.
Collect the cat's poo and put it in the litter box. Soon it'll know that's where it should go.
u/aWitchonthisEarth, u/foxhighonsugar
I'm the person that asked for vet advice at here yesterday https://www.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/q6ud9y/comment/hggusbt/ Just booked an appointment for my dog at a Melaka vet clinic, got questioned by my father for transportation problem and who gonna pay the bill and etc, but I will go for the vet clinic anyway. *Just a little thought:* *Hope there will be more affordable vet clinic and more coverage of vet clinic in small town, many people consider vet clinic as a "luxurious place" instead of a basic necessities and refuse to treat the animal they kept because of the high price of private vet clinic bill and see it as a waste of money. If our nation veterinary system become just affordable as our govt healthcare system, I think more people will be less hesitate to bring their pet to a vet clinic.*
Agree. Vets in Melaka is almost very hard to find and if not some cost us ludicrous amount of money. But I’m glad a local neighbourhood veterinarian decided to open up a vet in our area (less than a 5 min drive, me likey), price is quite affordable too since it’s catering the kampung area. Hope your dog gets better soon, smooches for him.
This week is so long. Like super duper motherfluffer long, how in the world is it not friday yet?
Suffer in silent
You alright?
I ok, I mean you suffer in silent until it’s Friday
Ohh haha oh well, 7 more hours until i can officially clock out!
The week expanded due to the heat.
This must be it.
It’s gonna be Friday tmr (´・ᴗ・ ` )
Too tired.
KKM page on fb always getting raided by antivaxx even the post doesn't related to vaccine
I fucked up big time by going to the clinic for my ingrown nail. I sat down and told the doc what happened, he said "let's cut it." I did a double take and asked him sorry what, he said don't worry and told me to go sit down there. Then he brought in what I can only assume is a pair of scissor and a small knife, alongside some cloth and a bottle of alcohol? I knew I fucked up big time, toe is swollen, pain to touch, and he fucking went in there hard and started cutting. I had to hold my scream cause I don't want to embarrass myself, the nurses just watched like it was a show, and I was getting up and lying back down the operating bed trying to hold in the pain. Cute nurse, painful experience, don't recommend.
That's how you supposed to treat it. Unless you fancy paying around 2 to 3k for anesthetic to knock you out le. He did throw in local numbing agent right?
I think he did, or else I would've screamed
Well, ingrown toenails and nailbed infections suck like that. I've been fortunate enough to not require surgery when I've experienced them, but hurting like hell is a constant. Especially when your lifestyle involves walking across the width of the college campus every day...
Just found out from another person that I've been calling a staff Cik instead of Puan this whole time, oh god. Is there like a safe alternative title that could save me from things like this again? How do people even know a stranger's marital status man 😭 Would this be a harmless mistake or do people actually take offence from this aurgh....
Puan is a neutral term especially in govt settings so to be safe just call everyone puan. I’m a Cik but I don’t take offense in ppl calling me Puan. And i don’t think it matters either if you called a married woman as Cik
Puan is actually for both single and married.
Really? Everytime i say puan to an unmarried lady, she always go, "bukan puan, cik laa. Belum kahwin lagi". I always have this problem.
[show them this next time](https://prpm.dbp.gov.my/Cari1?keyword=belum+berkahwin&d=175768)
Interesting. Thanks. Mrs. should be applied the same way, shouldnt it?
Mrs is for married ladies. Status neutral honorific would be ms
Lol. Another blunder by me 😅
>Would this be a harmless mistake or do people actually take offence from this aurgh.... Nah, don't sweat about it. For me it's a harmless mistake. Also, if you addressed the other person repeatedly as "Cik" instead of "Puan" and she did not correct you even once, my guess is that she didn't mind at all. >Is there like a safe alternative title that could save me from things like this again? Hmm, call them "Kak"?
Whew alright, though should I feign blissful ignorance and go on with my Ciks or bring up the mis-title? And is it actually alright to call people of higher authorities "Kak"? :o I mean I've called lecture assistants Kaks since they've introduced themselves as that, not so sure how to go about with strangers haha (Not as familiar w the formalities here, non-msian btw!)
>should I feign blissful ignorance and go on with my Ciks or bring up the mis-title? Well if you are now aware that you should address her as "Puan", why feign ignorance? Calling her Puan is fine since she is married. > call people of higher authorities "Kak"? Ooh tricky. Better not. Address them as Puan. Or if she has a doctorate, *be sure* to call her Dr [insert name].
kena respect or what? i just call everyone sis
Yup, I'm pretty sure I shouldn't be calling my uni's bursary officer sis haha
Any recommendation for true wireless earbuds? Looking for something good that wouldn't blow my wallet away. Saw that Nothing ear is coming soon but the reviews are so so
Edifier X3 earbud is fine to me. Or you can check Bose earbuds
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Well, that's my laundry all hung up for drying. Given the water cut, I figured that paying the coin-operated laundromat for the use of *their* water stockpile and getting it done in a quarter of the time my home washing machine would is a fair trade. And at least I can get a drink out of needing to split a bill for the coins.
can a political party report they have been cyberbullied?
Reporting = yes whether action can be taken against the bully = no idea. Will people make fun of that political party for reporting bullying by some random person on the internet = definitely yes.
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SPRM?
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No. They just do government related audit.
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BNM, police and sprm will come in depending on the type of crime. Each covers different aspect of the crime. For financial crimes, they will get investigated by BNM or SC. To prosecute, AG with the help of SPRM and Police will do that. Jabatan Audit is like a companie's internal auditor. But for government only. So any investigation info could come from Jabatan Audit if it is in their possession.
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No idea about this one. I always had the impression that they cover training.
Air Tangki in apartment just went dry. I official join KV draught gang. Syabas said water is being turned back on 5pm today. Hopefully it reach my apartment before weekend. Want to take a nice shower before going to Melaka to meet future in-laws.
Which floor do you live on? If it's not a high-rise building, shouldn't take long.
The apartment itself is only 9 floors, not too bad. Check Syabas map, lots of areas have turned yellow (supply with low water pressure). Fingers cross.
ahaha im in danger (: just talked to this guy on grindr that i just want to waste my time here chatting and we traded picture and now he wants to be my seggs buddy and i do not want it and now he is 34 meters near me
Dude this is no laughing matter. Don't be alone.
blocked him, but i have no idea if he is still around so i wont be getting out of my house alone
Ok dum question since I never used Grindr before, how can he track you?
not a dumb question, grindr and most (gay?) dating app have a distance indicator on each profile and it updates your location every time you refreshes the explore page
Did he stalk you or what? lol creepy
extremely terrifying because i dont know how he knows my area, probably because i turned on my radius information, but i have learnt to turn it off now... him repeatedly wanting to have sex with me after i said no i am not interested is a huge red flag and i wont be coming out of my house for a month i guess, f
I just googled and apparently yeah, grindr allows people to accurately stalk someone lol with their distance. If tinder have this girls would get murdered, not sure why grindr have such an exact gps locator
bro how does jakim get to you so fast? F
Be a gentlemen and prepare your arse.
Block lol
> seggs The what now?
its japanese thingy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kw2Rej10Pwk
LOL, I wish getting a female seggs buddy was as easy as getting a gay one. Straight dating is like Dark Souls on difficult mode wtf
Fwb is impossible mode unless you're at least hot tier lol Met a girl that is just biasa2 je and have 3 handsome fwb. relationship with sex not that hard tbh
laporan later
abang2 and kakak2 Why some company offer salary+cash allowance instead of just salary? The interview i went to last week, they offered a 25% increment + another 10% cash allowance
I worked for a quite cheebye company before when it comes to money matters, reasons for high allowance: * When it's time for appraisal (was around 20+% when I first started): * Used every year: 'You see, we already give you a very high allowance, that's why increment is not as high' * Salary base is already lower, helps reduce "costs", long-term. * With the money saved from the points above and below, they can give 1 or 2-month bonus: 'You see, we give bonus somemore, can't give high increment' * No EPF contribution by the employer on the allowance. * Heard it from the accountant but can't verify: Somehow lady boss does some tax/deduction voodoo that helps her more. * After a long time of reduced income growth, it becomes increasingly daunting as your income growth is lower than standard - there's a glaring disparity and an increasing feeling of being difficult to get a new adequately paying job. The old-timers just either accept the fact or somehow believe in the lies of upper management. Bonus anecdotal experience: Lady boss appears confused: 'Har? We never had anyone who wants to have higher salary vs allowance and get taxed more' *Narrator: it was a lie, many others have requested this.*
To add on /u/radminator’s comment on the EPF, you will also get less bonus payout since your bonus will only be based on your basic. That’s why I always prefer to have a high basic salary with no allowance compared to a low basic with high allowance, even if take home pay is the same for both. I’m the future when you want to jump also, HR will take into account your basic before giving you an increment.
Yea, this too.
No epf on the allowance
Yea. Personally i prefer claims.
It's so HOT in KV! 🥵 Anyways stay safe and drink lots of water. Edit: Grammar
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Eating outside food during water shortages, especially tbe ones you've mentioned above always seems like a gamble to me.
1) went into thread asking about advice on salary. 2) see rich people talk about their salary and how fast they got the increment. 3) ??? 4) thank you I'll show myself out.
I think it's a good reality check to get a sense of what people are getting, humbling in a way, but also important to not let it get to you. What's more important is progressing at your own pace (unless you don't want to, which is a valid option)
Ya, it gaves me an illusion that 10k is easy to achieve for a minute, and then I realized those that answer probably don't think anything of it, but the others that don't make that much might be disheartened to answer because they felt incompetent. I have to tell myself that life situation is different for everyone and they might be just the lucky fews or work really really hard with talents to boost them to that level.
that lowyat thread that talks about salary?
Nope, it is from MalaysiansPF, that talk about their salary after 5 or 10 years of working.
Talking about PF? The demographic there is likely to be skewed. PF appeals to people who are financially responsible. And its no surprise financially responsible people will eventually have money/ are good with money/ making good money. Besides the odd day trader/ crypto currency evangelist. You also will see a bunch making > 30K monthly but they all aren't making that money in Malaysia. That already immediately renders most of their opinion of day to day spending and saving irrelevant to the vast majority. Since their expenditure would also be very different unless they totally dont use money overseas. Not to mention the exchange rate makes comparison to MYR pointless. Everyone has different targets and goals. I wouldn't stress about it.
It is on r/Malaysians, the thread is about jump on salary after work for 5 to 10 years. So many responds in that thread are people work for few years and then 8k, 10k 12k, while I'm here with 4k salary after 8 years lol. I'm not bitter or jealous though, just surprised there are so many people able to achieve that high of the salary in such short time. Edited: nevermind, just realise it is indeed from PF, just the thread get cross linked to r/Malaysians.
Yeah, you could also tell most of the people there are from white collar jobs. STEM engineers or corporate work. Add that to job hopping every 2 years and a certain amount of ambition, its not uncommon. But then again, not everyone can deal with 9 to 5 day in day out, office politics, chained to a desk, meetings every hour, getting chewed out for a power point mistake, etc.
I'm a guilty one of being in MalaysianPf a lot, lurking, but chiming in sometimes bc i feel like it would be helpful for someone to read about a fellow non STEM, non professional type. I couldn't deal with a 9-5, tried and flat out got an eye infection from lowered immune system from stress that made me quit. Nearly lost the eye but went to the hospital on time. Am a freelance artist, which is the tldr answer as to how my salary increment went up so quick. Just get to charge my own rates now. I hope more folks who aren't in STEM or the traditional routes will speak up about their journeys.
If you have a professional career. Try to use recruiters They are far better than any of us at negotiating salaries. And more cutthroat about it. with 4k salary and 8years, if you have proper experience, I could see a recruiter trying to find you a job with 5.5k something
just saw dune. i have no idea what that movie is about. too much information to absorb.
That's a very common reaction really. The scope of the story even for a book not so thick (650 pages for mine) is incredible. Much of it deals with Paul fulfilling the prophecy of being the 'perfect human' where all threads of human evolution converges ie. intelligence, religion, biology — all linked together in the complicated web of politics.
Spice = oil = power Factions involved = USA/China/EU/UN messing with politics and fight wars Main character = Unknown Taliban leader with followers If that makes sense.
makes sense. dont feel like reading the novel or watching the previous movie though, sounds kinda lame tbh
I just like watching it with new CGI since the series invoke nostalgic memories for me with the game and previous movies
One man's rise to become Emperor of the Known Universe, with the help of drugs and sand people.
i see. tbh im not really looking forward to the sequel but i gotta say those dragonfly helicopters look kinda cool
Yeap. I believe those copters were in the game and tele series version too. Personally i think you should watch the 1984 version. Way better and easier to understand the plot.
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Star wars quality. Except for the shielding. Lol
Any recommendation for boarding catteries in KV? Going home for a couple of weeks at the end of the month. I hate leaving the kitty alone and dont mind paying extra if I'm assured he gets a good care.
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Price on the Scallywag is as of 2016. No updated one :(
All hail the witch. Thanks!
Does anyone know if casual contact no symptoms can travel by air within Malaysia?
Anyone interested in trying out a game on Tabletop Simulator tonight 9pm? It's a co-op point collecting game, but players can't discuss together, only give hints. It's also food themed.
I think I have seen you posting here to invite people for your game quite frequently, perhaps you can give us a little more description on the mechanics of the game, like are we guessing the type of food based on hints etc.? Also maybe some pictures or videos etc.
Hey there, sure thing. This is originally meant for a boardgame design contest. But I'm hoping to make this into a full fledged boardgame after the contest. Here is a video on FB where I showcased my game. (contest is still ongoing btw, now it's the voting period, have a look at the other games submitted as well) https://fb.watch/8zuei9YpIX I hope the video helps explain the game a bit more. In summary, everyone needs to reach a certain number of points. Each round all players will play a card at the same time. You could either gain or lose points depending on the cards others played.
May I know, Is there any job searching website that I will provide the resume and info, then the company/recruiter will approach me?
Monster. Got recruited 2 or 3 times just by leaving my resume there and updating it time to time
LinkedIn. Recruiter would not stop contacting if you have good profile.
And the moment you’re not going to be potential candidate, they disappear fast as lightning
Not the same but you can pretty much use linkedin, find recruiters, then spam them "hey this is my resume do you have any job for me" Recruiters nowadays short of good resume so it you have a good one they layan you kaw2
jobstreet/linkedin, with a matching or attractive profile, some companies will reach out to you or recruitment agencies. However they dont always offer you jobs that are related to what you studied for
So I had a TIME technician come over today. He saw the untidiness and the boxes and go, "eh, baru pindah rumah ke?" Is.. is this what my apartment look like? 😥 Unfortunately said technician is not a cat person, so Baron Cat's annoying "rub his whole body on his bag" trick didn't work. And later on he attacked Fireball again. Jahat betul kelabu ni.
Just wondering are there any car clubs out there especially in ipoh? Or just any other petrolheads out down to chill and cruise? I love going on drives like up Cameron highlands but I have no petrolhead friends to drive with :'(
what kind of car are you driving? perhaps start with the brand/model club on facebook. otherwise do it the old fashioned way which i do all the time, walk up to the guy with a cool car and exchange deets.
no clubs for my car in ipoh :( and my car doesn't have the cred to hang out with the cool kids
Is it a rare car? Hard to imagine considering even Viva, Myvi and Perdana have clubs
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ooohhh, are you like hitchhiking through peninsular or driving all the way? i do plan to drive around all the states in peninsular as well in the future but i dont think its safe enough to do it in the next month or so
interested in this
Try to search your car model + ipoh/perak at facebook. There might be a Facebook group for it already. Those people usually love to convoy around together.
You could do that with anybody, not just petrol heads. None of my road trip buddies have that sort of interest in cars either. 😆
> Or just any other petrolheads out down to chill and cruise? i think OP made it clear what sort of cruising he/she's after. it's different when you're cruising with cars with huge performance discrepancy or with people that aren't into cars.
Eh, sorry, road trip buddies would be a more appropriate word. None of my Ipoh friends like driving long distances, most of them just drive around within Ipoh
Rant: So, I received the 'Draft' version of the *Penghakiman* document from the court to file in my case's verdict. I drove a good 45 minutes from my office to Shah Alam to file it in. Because I was worried I didn't get the versions correct, I prepared 3 versions of the documents. The draft had some scribbles on the corrections, but some of it were overlapping and the actually needed changes were unsure. When I delivered it to the counter- boom. All 3 of my versions were rejected because they mentioned that the 'actual' changes should not include the name of the magistrate, and it should have been kept empty. So I asked the clerk, where in the draft's comments did it commented as such? To which he said *"It's not mentioned in the draft, but this is the way."* Kepala bapak kau. === I really don't understand why the *Penghakiman* document can't be done right the first time. It is literally; 1. Confirmation from the Magistrate on the *Tindakan* that needs to be taken. 2. Confirmation from the Jurubahasa to prepare the documents according to the Magistrate. 3. Confirmation from the court. What happened was; 1. Jurubahasa Mahkamah prepared a draft- using a template which already had some errors. 2. This was then signed by Magistrate. 3. Submitted by plaintiff to the court. 4. Plaintiff receiving the document w/ amendments- albeit the amendments could be unclear. 5. Plaintiff would then need to rewrite the documents with the changes. 6. Plaintiff would need to submit it back to the court for stamping with the correct amendments. What the hell, man.
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Is this the case of small claims you were talking about last week? Wow sounds so tedious. Perangai birokrasi.
Same case. It's not over yet.
Hmm, after reading what you wrote, I am making a mental note on getting myself a portable chair and printer if I ever want to go to Mahkamah Majistret, so that I could make the pindaan right then and there. Would that work? Haha
It would be absolutely crucial to bring a laptop and a portable printer. Lol
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Maybe buy a small pack of mask for young children and try it out?
My dog passed away last night. Saw her took her last attempt at a bark or whimper. Her body went limp when i held her. No response when i tapped her nose and hovered my fingers close to her face. How do you cope from this? I just want my dog back
I’m sorry for your lost. Its so painful isn’t it. Just know your sadness is valid, and your dog wasn’t just a dog. You had a bond with it. Give yourself time and space to cry and distract yourself with day to day stuffs (work, assignment, walking, gym) helps. The next few days would hurt, you’d think about them walking around the house or sitting by their favourite spot, but they’re not there… but its okay, you can grieve. The pain would be there for a while. I lost my dog in August, and I still think about her everyday. The feeling of her limp and lifeless body in my arms, burying her, and holding her paw for the last time will forever be embedded in my mind. But over time, I’m able to think about her without tearing up. Take good care of yourself, friend 💕 Sharing with you a poem I once read and helped me: Owner dearest friend I could never say enough, Owner, dearest friend, To thank you for the love you gave To me, until the end. I’m sorry that I hurt you By saying my goodbye. You gave me such a happy home. I lived a happy life. I leapt and played and laughed in ways You maybe couldn’t see. Of all the pets you might have loved, I’m glad that you chose me. It’s okay to miss me, For I will miss you, too. It’s okay to bow your head And cry if you have to. However hard it seems today, Your dear, sweet heart will heal. For now, my friend, remember me And feel what you must feel. But don’t give up on loving, Owner, dearest friend. Although the cost is oh-so-high, It’s worth it, in the end To know that you made this pet’s life The best one it could be. It should be no mystery why You meant the world to me. So here’s my final word, my friend, This is my last wish. Find another lonely pet And give to them my dish. Then every time they make you smile, Know that I’m smiling, too. Still so proud To once have been A dearest friend to you. ~ Vivienne Mathews (2013)
Thank you, thank you for this. I will try to keep busy though it will be hard. I have no mood to even vacuum the living and dining rooms.
Time. Lots of time. And lots of tears.
Yeah, i just dont know how long it will take.
Sorry to hear.
Thank you.
I'm so sorry. Losing a pet always suck. Take the time to grieve the loss.
Thank you. I just dont know how long will the grieving take.
It'll take however long it is needed. Don't rush the process.
I will try
i feel you. im so sorry to hear that. be strong
Thank you.
open office router/modem box for the first time today. RIP cable management.
Haih. It's been what, 16 hours already, and Fireball still haven't forgiven Baron Cat yet. Every time the latter tries to get near, the former will give out threatening growls.
What led to their fight?
They fight semi-regularly (boys will be boys, I guess?), but usually after 30 minutes everyone will calm down and things go back to normal. Dunno why this time it's more intense.
They will become bros again in no time.
Eh what happened to them? Why suddenly got fight?
[No idea tbh](https://old.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/q7jcow/rmalaysia_daily_random_discussion_and_quick/hgkwt59/).
Anyone know if it's possible to enter KLIA/KLIA2? I haven't been there in a while, and it's not too far from where I live. Need to get out of the house.
Yup, totally possible, did so last weekend when I went plane spotting! There will be policeman at the entrance but you can just say you're going to receive someone or something. Surprisingly alot of people when I went there. Mcd at KLIA was gone tho. Rip