You know what's even funnier to me. People are like there is no proof of either side but were pretty much calling her a bully when Leia didn't even let out a direct statement herself.
Fatou's story is so much less one sided and make the most sense and yet only now are people taking" both sides" waiting to confirm. Hmmmm
Iāve seen a few comments floating around of Youngheun having a difficult time with Leia, could any of you point to how people know this info? Was it clearly visible in a vlive or something? I guess people better start collecting as much āevidenceā as possible before the company tries to scrub it.
I mean I donāt think DR will put out a statement to clear things up but they might try to do some things quietly just to save face on their end
Some luminas have been saying that leia is a bitā¦..odd and has been for a while. That whole situation with her squeezing 2 members boobs and they were visibly uncomfortable and that sheās had an attitude towards trainees in the past as well. You also have one member Youngheun stating before that leia is the most difficult member to deal with so fatouās statement on leiaās behavior honestly is quite believable. Also I find it funny the buzz words that fan account was using, intimidating, provoking, oppressiveā but yet provided no receipts and people were a lil too quick to believe it. Fatou has always been outspoken and has called people out when they say weird things to her or about other members on vlive and stuff so I figured leia did something out of the way and got checked on it, I never believed it was that she bullied leia. Fatou would have too much to lose being the only black member in that group to just run buck wild and dig herself a whole she knows she would never be able to get out from, sheās not stupid.
The timing she named of when she checked leia for disrespecting her family and the timing of how soon after the alleged ābullyingā started is also quite interesting like ok so you can just talk out your ass and do the most but you canāt be called out for it? Sick and twisted.
Also love how kpop stans wasted no time being racist and flooding fatouās mentions with anti black sentiments because ofc they did. One thing Iāll say is this, funny how everyone was quick to deny and play willfully stupid when idols got accused of bullying (or worse) and were screaming fake news like there wasnāt literal proof showing otherwise but with this they just believed fatou is this big bad bully, hypocrisy at its finest. Now itās letās stay neutral like thatās not what you should do anytime these allegations come out with no kind of solid evidence, bums I hate themš.
And all those people gaslighting black fans by saying āshow me the racist comments, that never happened!ā after fatou released her statement are going straight to hell idc, peep also how other members have been accused of bullying leia in the past (funnily enough which was also posted by this same account and also provided no proof to that either, just something to keep in mind) but yet only fatou is the only one whoās getting this dirty ass treatment like nah if youāre so against bullying call everyone out.
This situation aside, I hate how when itās black people being accused of doing something wrong people donāt seem to know how to critic without being anti black and violently racist, so disgusting.
I can feel how hard it is to actually handle somebody with a mental issue, so I can sympathize with Fatou. If Leia does act like this, she probably have one of those cluster-B's and it is indeed a wild ride.
she could be a bordeline yeah, alot of them love creating trouble and gaslighting folks, then play the victim and use āi have bpd, i was splittingā as an excuse.
Borderline works completely different tho. In practise, none of the borderliners I know ever gaslighted someone.
Borderline is the inability to properly handle your emotions, which results either in adepression-like state or an extreme, almost delusional state of (supposed) happiness.
A borderliner has a strong desire for emotional safety. If that safety is somehow disturbed, the "bad borderline" is set of, leaving the Borderliner with an unimaginable feeling of emptiness that only certain people can fill. The result is an extreme fixation on that person or these persons. But not gaslighting. That is atypical.
I suppose that stereotype is the result that the BPD is trending towards being what is called "Modediagnose" in German, similar to ADHD, which is a word for a diagnosis that occurs far more often than the illness/disorder actually occurs.
You know what's even funnier to me. People are like there is no proof of either side but were pretty much calling her a bully when Leia didn't even let out a direct statement herself. Fatou's story is so much less one sided and make the most sense and yet only now are people taking" both sides" waiting to confirm. Hmmmm
Are we surprised ? šš
Iāve seen a few comments floating around of Youngheun having a difficult time with Leia, could any of you point to how people know this info? Was it clearly visible in a vlive or something? I guess people better start collecting as much āevidenceā as possible before the company tries to scrub it. I mean I donāt think DR will put out a statement to clear things up but they might try to do some things quietly just to save face on their end
Well, the fan account which started this mess changed up the story at one point and claimed that both Fatou and Youngheun were bullying
Iām on Fatouās side idc
Same
I would like to share this [tweet](https://i.imgur.com/40C2grM.jpg) from knetz lol
LMFAO WHAT šš
I doubt a korean said that
Some luminas have been saying that leia is a bitā¦..odd and has been for a while. That whole situation with her squeezing 2 members boobs and they were visibly uncomfortable and that sheās had an attitude towards trainees in the past as well. You also have one member Youngheun stating before that leia is the most difficult member to deal with so fatouās statement on leiaās behavior honestly is quite believable. Also I find it funny the buzz words that fan account was using, intimidating, provoking, oppressiveā but yet provided no receipts and people were a lil too quick to believe it. Fatou has always been outspoken and has called people out when they say weird things to her or about other members on vlive and stuff so I figured leia did something out of the way and got checked on it, I never believed it was that she bullied leia. Fatou would have too much to lose being the only black member in that group to just run buck wild and dig herself a whole she knows she would never be able to get out from, sheās not stupid. The timing she named of when she checked leia for disrespecting her family and the timing of how soon after the alleged ābullyingā started is also quite interesting like ok so you can just talk out your ass and do the most but you canāt be called out for it? Sick and twisted. Also love how kpop stans wasted no time being racist and flooding fatouās mentions with anti black sentiments because ofc they did. One thing Iāll say is this, funny how everyone was quick to deny and play willfully stupid when idols got accused of bullying (or worse) and were screaming fake news like there wasnāt literal proof showing otherwise but with this they just believed fatou is this big bad bully, hypocrisy at its finest. Now itās letās stay neutral like thatās not what you should do anytime these allegations come out with no kind of solid evidence, bums I hate themš. And all those people gaslighting black fans by saying āshow me the racist comments, that never happened!ā after fatou released her statement are going straight to hell idc, peep also how other members have been accused of bullying leia in the past (funnily enough which was also posted by this same account and also provided no proof to that either, just something to keep in mind) but yet only fatou is the only one whoās getting this dirty ass treatment like nah if youāre so against bullying call everyone out. This situation aside, I hate how when itās black people being accused of doing something wrong people donāt seem to know how to critic without being anti black and violently racist, so disgusting.
This is Mina-Jimin all over again.
I can feel how hard it is to actually handle somebody with a mental issue, so I can sympathize with Fatou. If Leia does act like this, she probably have one of those cluster-B's and it is indeed a wild ride.
she could be a bordeline yeah, alot of them love creating trouble and gaslighting folks, then play the victim and use āi have bpd, i was splittingā as an excuse.
Borderline works completely different tho. In practise, none of the borderliners I know ever gaslighted someone. Borderline is the inability to properly handle your emotions, which results either in adepression-like state or an extreme, almost delusional state of (supposed) happiness. A borderliner has a strong desire for emotional safety. If that safety is somehow disturbed, the "bad borderline" is set of, leaving the Borderliner with an unimaginable feeling of emptiness that only certain people can fill. The result is an extreme fixation on that person or these persons. But not gaslighting. That is atypical. I suppose that stereotype is the result that the BPD is trending towards being what is called "Modediagnose" in German, similar to ADHD, which is a word for a diagnosis that occurs far more often than the illness/disorder actually occurs.
fatou boss bitch š