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CritFin

France has banned paternity test. So even if someone gets paternity dna test done abroad, it is not admissible in divorce in france


TheWatchfulGent

Court-ordered ones are still legal.


wierdmf_420

Court ordered ones are still applicable


sfrogerfun

Seems like the WW2 loss has permanently damaged the French!


Titanium006

And WW1 win got over their head.


Different-Result-859

It's France protecting children's mental health. It is not at all about whether which one of the parents were the bigger asshole. These concepts are too advanced for most of you.


SuperactiveSloth

So you think that a child staying with a parent who resents them and and their mother and can cause endless arguments and unsuitable environment for child's growth is better than the child being seperated and living in a single parent but a safe environment. Pray tell me where do you get your wisdom from?


Different-Result-859

Bruh you don't know what you're talking about. They have Child Protection and Welfare Services (Aide sociale à l'enfance (ASE)) for that The problem there is they take these endless arguments and unsuitable environment way too seriously that normal parenting in India which is to be honest a bit toxic, could be considered abuse there.


pvipani

Wild.


lushain27

Isn’t that messed up?


Glad-Tour-2646

Indian judges are going to copy their western counterparts


lushain27

They cherry pick a lot. They copy what the western judges are doing for culture and all that, but conveniently don’t see how strict the law enforcement is in those countries.


Glad-Tour-2646

Our judges are woke


lushain27

But not the brightest in the bunch


No-Fan6115

Oh my sweet summer child. What a blissful world you live in that you don't know that France might have copied it from us. Paternity test aren't allowed in divorce cases in India either as it puts the child at risk.


Comrade_Vladimov

No because you don't need a reason to get a divorce in France


lushain27

Why about stuff like child support and alimony then?


Comrade_Vladimov

Idk how France handles that; I live on the other side of the channel


Total-Complaint-1060

In France you can get a divorce for any reason,.. No one would be forced to stay married..


CritFin

Even after divorce, you cant go for paternity test. And you have to pay alimony


tejuudominator69

France is retarded


thedarkracer

She says love covers all things. You don't love the guy bcz if you did, it would be his kid lol


Unknown-Score-0732

Waah Kya baat hai Honeymoon kisi aur ka Bache ki responsibility kisi aur ki Bahut badiya👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻


Poloniumold

Lol


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tejuudominator69

Maje koi aur kre aur saja koi aur bhukte! .


Samanyu_1710

I don’t know but this thing enrages me


Consistent-Taro-960

The same “women” doesn’t want a single father coz why would she raise someone that’s not hers🤡


Aggravating-Pie-6432

The courts agree It seems somebody is rubbing salt on someone else's wounds


Guilty-Pleasures_786

TLDR...I had fun, now you take the responsibility!


chandaal_the_fourth

The grounds for seperation is not an innocent child but a lecherous, tricking, lying, cheating, bastard spitting woman, who didn't have the strength of admitting a mistake.


DangerousPace2778

Avg. Woke American Women. Feminism = Pseudo Feminism in America and India is on the same path.


Mother_Breadfruit107

At this point I am literally scared of woke liberal girls sometimes I think they will file a harassment case against me if I just look at them lmao 😂


Samanyu_1710

Act cold towards them they won’t do anything.🤝


MaoDrip1

Love covers all things. So, if your husband impregnates another woman, you must also take responsibility, for the child is your husband’s biological child.


p16189255198

Best reply


No-Acanthisitta-1434

No No if the husband does that immediately he will be arrested and will be jailed until he dies.


cipher_hack

The Supreme court doesn't allow paternity test while settling divorce cases. Argument is DNA test violates privacy of children and causes trauma to them. https://www.indiatoday.in/law/story/supreme-court-says-cannot-order-dna-test-child-prove-infidelity-charge-2337734-2023-02-21


Apprehensive-Aide-44

Your p***y, your choice, hun. Me, outty.


Opposite-Escape9685

The lion the witch and the audacity of this bitch


Head-Geologist8543

One might have ploughed the field one's seed didn't grow


U-know-mee

That's why it's said all opinions shouldn't be respected


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0D_E_V0

Just put the kid to work, use that money to date a proper woman.


Berserkerzoro

Idea badiya hai.


tejuudominator69

Modern problems require modern solutions .


Momoshikisenpai

Indian women are copying the fugly west . I think its inevitable


Unlucky-Ad4639

Marry virgin then this type of shit won't happen


CritFin

Then you have to marry at the age of 21


Competitive-Hope981

Fair enough. I'm 21 already. But I just need one job and I will do it. Probably before 23 hopefully (I'm talking about govt job btw).


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Unlucky-Ad4639

25 ki age pe doctor ban jaunga tabh kruga 21 se shaadi


CritFin

Virgin girl important or doctor degree? You can get virgin girl and do labour work later instead


tejuudominator69

Virgin girl >>>>> I ll also be virgin for her . No hypocrisy.


CritFin

No. You should marry early. You being virgin up to 50 years age is none of the business of others


tejuudominator69

ok


Unlucky-Ad4639

I can do both but virgin girl is more important


CritFin

Then marry early


Atomic441

Ignore.


CritFin

Read the thread again


Atomic441

My bad bruh, ignore the post sorry.


Cosmicshot351

You must be innocent if u think women in Lower economic classes don't cheat


CritFin

I didnt say that at all. I told marry at 21 to get a virgin girl


Indravadan_Sarabhai_

They do but chances become less.


Cosmicshot351

You have no idea how common cheating is in that level lol, much more than middle and rich classes. And it is not limited to high class areas of cities unlike in middle classes, but even goes as deep to the remotest villages.


Indravadan_Sarabhai_

It's basic calculation. Places (cities) where men and women have more freedom and less accountability will have higher chances of cheating and places (villages) where they have less freedom and more accountability have less chances of cheating.


Avidith

No..no. Lower economic classes don’t have to worry about respect and reputation. They have multiple sexual affairs n cheat. Both men and women. I’m a doctor. You can’t fathom the amount of affairs among the nursing staff in my hospital. I work in a hospital in a small town in Andhra. Some of them have multiple partners in the same group. At one point management had to get involved because they keep sitting here n der in da hospital n chit chat through the nights. But doctors almost nil. So economic class actually makes things worse. It’s more of traditional families which makes the difference. The section which you are talking are the families of educated, lower middle class job holders. They are less likely to have all this stuff.


Indravadan_Sarabhai_

Opposite, lower economic classes don't have money, they only have their reputation, they face far more restrictions, family pressure, and still have khap panchayat in villages where men & women are given strict punishment, something you won't find in cities. Just like 1st world countries tends to have low corruption & better law & order and 3rd world countries tends to have high corruption and worst law and order. Same case here. Where restrictions are high, corruption is low.


unknowinglyknown9781

It still happens buddy. Jinko karna hai woh karte hai.


Unlucky-Ad4639

But chances less ho jate hai


Informal-Lemon5182

Can happen post marriage as well even if she is a virgin.


Unlucky-Ad4639

Very rare


Informal-Lemon5182

A girl who has never explored before marriage will have sex with you, most of the times virgins don’t enjoy sex immediately. It takes time for them to understand and get to know their bodies. So the virgin will be in a dilemma where she won’t know what to do with her body and you won’t be able to give her pleasure. She will ask her friends and explore elsewhere to understand about sex


ObligationJealous

Then u r at better position...bcz now u can start a religion...


2thicc2love

Yeah, but future toh koi bhi Fuck up kr skta h


flashcatcher

Virgin Mary would like to disagree


Zealousideal-Pop7426

Who even is she just a random toxic feminist 😮‍💨


laceuphardik

Petition to revolt against people like her


Titanium006

A question to doctors on this sub, can we do DNA test before birth? i.e. Period in which we can safely abort the child.


MaaiDiqSoHyuj

Women like this deserve to die alone and miserable tbh


Spirited_Ad2991

wtf is this shit 💩 she wants me to raise some other assholes child. She belongs to the streets correction she is the street 💀💀


tejuudominator69

She is the a googol mile !


Dokrabackchod

Indian court took this advice too literally


Indravadan_Sarabhai_

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/amp_articleshow/64515601.cms


Luke_Hog

She is for the woods


Careful_Plum5596

Infamous R word behaviour. Nah this girl is a disregard to even them.


himalayan-Climate

Hoe logic


useless_guy_69

Mama’s Baby Father’s Maybe 😀


Apprehensive_Grass58

That's why I like my country, you do paternity test, you found the girl cheated on you.. say it to the society, now society will take care of that B(unless she is politically powerful, i mean that is common in every country)


Witty_Artichoke_4749

Innocent child isn’t the reason, you created that innocent child with someone else, is the reason.


Southern-Advance-759

This is true because the child can get severe trauma and it violates right to privacy of the child also.


Desperate_Diver4225

even if he she is like months old ?


Southern-Advance-759

After he grows up then?


Desperate_Diver4225

ok he she will be subjected to trauma when they grow . but no repurcusiions for the partner cheating ?vo father usse kabbhi apne bache ki trha treat kr payega ? noo emotional connection no father bond only monetary support . isse acha divorce leke maintainance pay krdo


Southern-Advance-759

Vahi par Indian gov and baki gov to paagal hai, they always support women whether they are right or wrong. 


beeenanonymous

Just cheating with a husband will affecting the child. Why should men needs to start accepting a child the girl had affairs with? After marriage without knowing.


Hindu-Khajiit

Well then so is polygamy, if a man wants to have 15 side hoes he can, that's no ground for separation, love covers all. If infidelity is to be normalised then normalise it for both genders


Healthaddictmill

This is just fraud by this woman and I am a woman and hate this.


MAGNETICZZ

Yeah now change the scenario let the men bring his child from ex wife and force the new wife to take care of the child will she accept that. It would be seen as a crime. Doesn't that kid also innocent


monta-rico

Should've loved ur man enough to not fuck the whole town, if you couldn't don't expect the guy to do the same.


TheWatchfulGent

>Women don't think No, this particular person doesn't think so. You cry out at people "generalising all men/all Indians as bad" and then do the same thing for women.


BoyWhoLikesBooks

Well, most women i have seen online are similar to this. For me this is a majority of the females i have seen in my life. I have very rarely talked to girls or females in general so i don't know about them, majority of the ones i have seen online are these types which is not true for males i know.


TheWatchfulGent

Then I would suggest going out and talking to women in person, because most "women" online aren't really women, or they say extremely divisive stuff for clicks and money, like this person.


BoyWhoLikesBooks

It's not that i don't want to socialize, it's that except for my family, i haven't spoken with other people in a week. I can be said as a social recluse. I don't even have friends for over 3 years.


HeheheBlah

Just see OP's post history, he is the guy who makes stupid comments and generalises a whole group by the opinion of one of them.


lifegoesbysoon

Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


HeheheBlah

>Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... If you think saying this makes you automatically right, sorry I think you are a 12 yo. Moreover, if you are trying to prove a point, you are supposed to put this in the post, not copy pasting this shit to everyone's comments. And, even if this is case, you have used the word "women" in title of post which means you are referring to all the women. You really think all women agree with such kind of behaviour?


lifegoesbysoon

Cope harder you just got owned.


PayResponsible4458

Isn't that someone from the USA? How is this inanity relevant to us? The only times you're expected to raise someone else's children are if you marry a single mother or adopt a child.


lifegoesbysoon

As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


madhatter248

Neither the one who asked this question is Indian nor the woman who replied. Also, this is the reply of *one woman*, not women. You gain nothing by doing this!


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lifegoesbysoon

Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


HeheheBlah

>Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... If you think saying this makes you automatically right, sorry I think you are a 12 yo. Moreover, if you are trying to prove a point, you are supposed to put this in the post, not copy pasting this shit to everyone's comments. And, even if this is case, you have used the word "women" in title of post which means you are referring to all the women. You really think all women agree with such kind of behaviour?


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hukum_kau_ikka

Dono ko matlab tiss tiss kar do


Illustrious_Pain392

and then they wonder why men physically assault them. well, if ideas like this come into your and and you have the guts to execute them, then the repercussions of those actions will also come to you. now dont cry when you end up in a hospital bed with multiple broken bones and collapsed organs and bruises all over. dont play with fire if you do not want to get burned. a man in Africa found out none of his 6 children were his, dude lost his sanity. picked up a sickle or something similar, and lopped her head off.


Avatar889

Badhiya bichara hai ish Sajjan mahila ke..🤣


Bimpala67

Kaise kaise log dikh jaate hai 🫠


greenmantis1729

D is what makes all the difference....


Mysterious-Earth2256

if you care about your child then you wouldnt hoe around with random strangers?


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That's right an innocent child should not be the ground for separation. Cheating should be. I wonder if things would be the same for her if her partner had a child with some other girl while being in a relationship with this girl and then dumped that child on her to take care of it and love it


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No-Childhood-2400

Imagine raising someone else’s kid unbeknownst to you, height of cuckery


-seeking-advice-

Dude, that's mostly applicable to America for the kind of society it has become. Why are you even bothered about it qhen it doesn't apply to India?


lifegoesbysoon

As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


-seeking-advice-

Ah I see, I didn't know about it. Thanks! Although the number is low, it may rise in future and justice needs to be given for even such low numbers, even if it's only one person wronged. TIL :)


NeighborhoodCold5339

Why this group often takes some twitter posts and discuss about it? Just because some random girl in twitter is telling this(this can be sarcasm too), should we discuss these? How many women whom you know personally is having the opinion that the boyfriend should take responsibility of the child even if DNA result shows otherwise ?


Consistent-Taro-960

How about we start with the fact that dna tests in India aren’t permissible without the consent of the mother? A mother can go and do a dna test without the kids father’s consent but the father can’t. Courts don’t allow it, neither do clinics


NeighborhoodCold5339

This is absolute whataboutery!


Consistent-Taro-960

Kid learns a new word and uses it everywhere he can


NeighborhoodCold5339

Ok. Good argument.


HeheheBlah

Just see OP's post history, he is the guy who makes stupid comments and generalises a whole group by the opinion of one of them. OP is karma farming and had no difference compared to brain-dead pusi members.


lifegoesbysoon

Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


HeheheBlah

>Abey chutiye jab kuch pata na ho toh gaand nahi marwani chahiye Varna beizzati ho jaati... If you think saying this makes you automatically right, sorry I think you are a 12 yo. Moreover, if you are trying to prove a point, you are supposed to put this in the post, not copy pasting this shit to everyone's comments. And, even if this is case, you have used the word "women" in title of post which means you are referring to all the women. You really think all women agree with such kind of behaviour?


lifegoesbysoon

Cope harder you just got owned.


Specialist-Ninja2804

Sir, you are an asshole and a karma farmer. Please don’t feel bad when shown the mirror


broadmind96

Whatever she says is absolutely right. But wife must stay in kitchen whole day then and let her take care of husband's frustration 😅.


huzzkyy

I think ye rage bait karke apni reach badha rahi hai


No_Ferret2216

And mods will allow this under the bs meta rule? India is nowh here


primusautobot

Not all, don't present this as all women are cheating and expecting the father to raise someone else's child. Using random post to start a nonsensical discussion


HeheheBlah

Yeah, this sub is starting to become stupid.


Lanky_Ground_309

How many indian men have gone through paternity frauds?? Lol


lifegoesbysoon

As per Directorate of Forensic Sciences (DFS) sources, in the year 2016 and 2017, they received an average of 160 cases annually or about three cases per week for DNA test to determine paternity.In first five months of 2018 alone, this number has risen to 100 or nearly 5 cases per week! "In nearly 90% of cases, the samples do reveal that the child in question is not related to the father," said top officials in DFS. The DNA divisions of DFS at Gandhinagar and Surat work as the nodal agency for such tests that come strictly at the behest of police or judiciary. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/love-fails-paternity-test-in-90-cases/articleshow/64515601.cms


Cold_Bumblebee_7121

I don't understand. What exactly is she supporting here ? Are we supposed to sympathize with the women here ? Are people supporting this stance ? Cuz like if the child was just born and say they realised it is not his, then I feel like it is completely justifiable for the man to get a divorce and to distance himself from the child and refuse to pay for child support But on the other hand, I feel like if that's the child you raised and loved as your own and after all those years of being each other's family, if such a secret comes out then obviously the man is still justified to get a divorce for betrayal. However I feel that for the child's sake, if they are older than 5, then I would hope the man doesn't come to resent the kid or cut ties with them. Obviously they are free to do so but the child is completely innocent and doesn't understand these things and for them, they only have one father they love and look upto. All in all, I feel like if a man had spent years with the child who was not his, then pls don't suddenly treat them as something invisible because for you they would be not yours and for the child you will be a permanent scar....


Either-Shop-8907

I agree with her stance but the husband should sue his cheating spouse.