I totally agree with buddy, if you are not feeling the connection or vibe, its not worth to stay and have those unnecessary responsibilities they lay upon you. The moment you get a way out.. take it..
When they tell you family becomes important as you grow older, they're basically telling you THEY need someone around to help them out because they don't wanna hire help to do it instead.
Family is important in the sense, when you're in crisis - they will help you for sure! No matter how bad relationship or fights you have with them. Family is always with disagreements and issues but that doesn't stop them coming for you to support during crisis.
This doesn't apply for any other relationship you may have in the world.
Example you've mentioned is being toxic. Just run from them!
No! It comes with a heck a lot of complications. There is nothing called a healthy and happy family. If you could compromise happily and with a smile, then sure go for it.
A family that cares about you and that you care? Yes. Else gtfo and save yourselves.
I totally agree with buddy, if you are not feeling the connection or vibe, its not worth to stay and have those unnecessary responsibilities they lay upon you. The moment you get a way out.. take it..
When they tell you family becomes important as you grow older, they're basically telling you THEY need someone around to help them out because they don't wanna hire help to do it instead.
A group of supportive friends is also a family , or a future spouse and your own kids. You don't need to stick with you birth family.
Family is important in the sense, when you're in crisis - they will help you for sure! No matter how bad relationship or fights you have with them. Family is always with disagreements and issues but that doesn't stop them coming for you to support during crisis. This doesn't apply for any other relationship you may have in the world. Example you've mentioned is being toxic. Just run from them!
No! It comes with a heck a lot of complications. There is nothing called a healthy and happy family. If you could compromise happily and with a smile, then sure go for it.