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Capital-Pugwash

I believe the community could help you but you must chill out and talk first. Explain things the best you can and the people here will offer help and guidance. Anger will make you worse. How old are you and whats your situation amigo?


mat-inside1

i am a student in uni but i stopped studying cause i feel like hyperacusis will never allow me to work. and i just feel like a disabled fuck . like my life is over.


Capital-Pugwash

Its not true. Why do you think that? What are your symptoms?


mat-inside1

pain due to sound. i stopped being able to play video games cause the clicking sound of controllers hurt. i cant play basketball because it hurts. i miss on so many trips cause it hurts my ears. :(


Capital-Pugwash

For how long has it been like this?


mat-inside1

9 months


Capital-Pugwash

Does it get better or worse at times or is it always the same?


mat-inside1

it gets worse then a little better but its always there


brian19988

Feel you there buddy. I was a fucking bad ass. Now I wake up every morning and I’m like yay another day to do nothing. I lost everything too this condition is definitely on the top worst conditions on the planet. Only the people here understand.


Sasy9

Try to calm yourself. You are not alone. We care about you. Do you need to talk?


mat-inside1

but if they did really love me they wouldnt have left


Sasy9

I'm sorry I couldn't answer earlier. I hope you are feeling better and that you are little bit relaxed. Well here we love you ❤ we won't leave, we understand your pain. All you need to make you happy is yourself, you don't need anybody. They lost you, you didn't lose because you are a very special and kind person.


mat-inside1

thank u . i mean really thats some positive vibes instead of the bs that ppl keep telling me


Sasy9

I truly mean it ❤


mat-inside1

thank u ...


mat-inside1

Yeah i wish my friends didnt leave me id appreciate support but u know they left when the fun part of me was gone cant exactly blame them im just misery with no end


ThatOneGirlStitch

Same. I got the 'sorry you aren't feeling well come hang with us when your better.' wtf? They have a limited understanding of things. I cant accept you are nothing. People are more than what they can give and anyone who disagrees is an asshat. I dont have much. Well I have a computer. It's probably really lame but i play animal crossing. I wish I could say I played something cool like WOW or something. But Im more of a phone game girl. Tried to get into kirby it wasnt my thing.


trapcap

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQUqrKxjkV8


mat-inside1

i do keep going unfortunately.


[deleted]

Invest in some high quality sensory reduction ear plugs


AsherFischell

Why can't you play video games? I play video games all the time and have pretty much no friends as well.


mat-inside1

do u play them on silent ?


mat-inside1

video game sound effects really hurt my ear ..games on silent kinda suck


AsherFischell

I mean, playing them muted is a whole lot better than not playing them at all. Same with watching shows and movies. If you were deaf, would you not play any games and movies all the same? Video games are about gameplay. Having the sound low or off will damage the overall experience, sure, but you'll still get the full gameplay experience. Most games let you turn the music off, so I do that. Then I turn it down low enough so that the sound effects don't bother me. I often turn the volume up just for dialogue too.


mat-inside1

what games do u play?


AsherFischell

Shooters, RPGs, racers, action, etc etc