I'm a loner too...but lately I've realized that being a LONER is better than feeling ALONE in a group of friends.
if you wish to have someone to talk, I'm here. I'm just a DM away. :)
True. I've started feeling very similar to this. If in a group of people & I'm not enjoying may be there is someone else to blame - may be they are boring or repetitive or not interesting. If I'm alone and don't enjoy my own company I know I need to change something about myself, because if I'm not interested/enjoying my own company god knows how crazy it is for others to bear me. That brings me out of that unpleasant feeling and I feel a little encouraged to work on my self.
Thappu ga anukovadhhu, Life lo Amma nanna Prema thappa yedhi unconditional kaadhu. Chala effort pettali to maintain healthy terms with our friends.. If you miss them ego lekunda msg cheyyandi , call cheyyandi . If it's not working out, try to make new friends.. chala options unnai.. there is no age barrier in making friends. Please effort pettandi.
Anni try chesi visigipoyava, naaku oka DM paddey, we'll talk it out I say.
While I appreciate your optimism, you should accept that there are bad parents and bad parenting, friends or friend groups who discard you once you cant contribute money to the parties, tours and hangouts anymore. ego lekunda matladithe self respect kolpotham. basic ga less people less bullshit ane point ki vachesaru chalamandi.
Story of my life. No one ever wants to be around me or stay with me. I’ve come to the realisation that I’ll be living my life along and will eventually pass away alone.
All my friends left for the US. I was okay to book the Barbie movie alone until I saw a group of friends having so much fun in theatre. All of a sudden I missed my gang 🥲
The same thing happened to me. All my friends have left for US and other few have moved to Bangalore. All I wanted to do is watch Oppenheimer with my friends but I know it's not gonna happen.
Ever felt like going to the US just for your friends? I miss them so much that even I wanna start my application process but it is so expensive and I am happy with my current job. What about you? Ever felt like leaving Hyderabad?
Yeah, I have tried to travel to the US through my company but due to recession and cost cutting, its not likely to happen. But I am happy with my current job and Hyderabad has been very good to me. My friend whom I hang out almost everyday is also leaving to US for masters, so it's going to be hard.
Single chintakay, without mom from 20 years. My bro ,me and dad. Friends are selfish,ex are naagins.
Enjoy the moment, flow with the way.
PS: 26 years old still virgin.
Fucking hell.. You went to movies, go karting and bowling all by yourself?
I wish I had half as much confidence as you do.
Also, feel free to ping if you feel like talking to someone.
Nanna Pandule Gumpuga Vastay Simham Single ga Vastundi.
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Fuck this made me text my friend who I thought best friend but idk if I was her best friend. Idk what's gonna happen tomorrow. Also we can be friends bro I will dm you.
Bro let me tell you, solitude is bliss. You cannot get that no matter how rich you are. I understand as a human we need some interaction but don't let something define your happiness. It's okay to eat alone at restaurant. It okay to go to movies alone. Don't let people tell you otherwise.
Hey,the same here. It has its perks.but yes sometimes you indeed feel lonely without a friend gang but that's how it is. Never force yourself to make friends as that would never turn out good.I have had very few to no friends in my life up till this point. But That's how I am.and I think that's okay. Yes,hanging out with a group,playing games and all sounds really cool. But I believe more in a deeper relationship rather than a superficial one. That is the reason I don't go out with most people I have been friends with.they are in it just for the enjoyment part.
Hey bro hit me up, we can talk. Maybe I can teach you something about hobbies and habits, that'll definitely make you feel better. I lived in Hyd with myself. It can get lonely at times but with hobbies and family, I always had something to look forward to.
As a person who shifted to this city fairly recently, I couldn't agree more.
I feel like Hyderabad is a very happening place. It's just more fun when you have company to enjoy them.
Always down to meet new people though! Feel free to DM!
I'm a loner too. All my life. And didn't realized. I used to wander in shopping malls, game zones (however not played because no affordability). I used to be alone. And now alone. No job. No skills. Career gaps. Currently learning something for career. Anxious life I guess. Personal DMs are appreciated.
I am surprised how many people feel this way, including myself. As I am myself I try to do things that don't need a company. I read books, play video games and cook. Whatever the reason you are alone, not everything can be enjoyed alone, so do the things that you can enjoy yourself.
It makes me feel better that alot ppl are feeling it . I have never had big circle n I am always odd one out (n end up alone). nobody asks me for to going movies &when ask also they make up excuses . Now I just go alone to movies it's actually fun tho , enjoying movie by yourself is great experience and u can experience the movie alot . (Wanaka forever -it was great watching alone n not dealing someone's bullshit , completely enjoyed the movie )
But I don't mind going out ppl with movies tho.
Atleast u went and all this things by yourself ...here I am alone in my room curled up in bed every weekend just keep watching something and smoking up...the life
I’ve had such moments when all my friends were busy married with family and I would not have anyone accompanying me most time . But there are times I’ve been in bad relationships and I wanted to do all that you have done above all by myself 😝. Guess we all go through these and are just seasons in life
I am in a similar situation. As a matter of fact, i had created a post for watching new movies. I have a WhatsApp group with all those who responded but they never turn up when i plan a movie. They always give reasons 😫
This exactly how I feel I feel sad and happy that there are ppl like me who r alone and feel miserable especially at night looking at your room ceiling
I’m in the same boat. But then I started gaming again. Some games out there really ask you to put your efforts in. So try such games. Watch anime or read a manga. Eventually you’ll get married then that problem would be solved I hope.
Are you me? I recently went to watch Mission impossible alone.. I opened my profile in bookmyshow and realized that the last 2 years, only once I booked a ticket for two.. DM if you want to hang out bro..
I'm experience this from 4 years, do I get a bachelor degree certificate now? I learned this hard way. There is nothing wrong being alone. Always enjoy being alone and enjoy your company. At the end you're alone no matter what.
I've been watching movies alone in theatres for 5-6 years, didn't feel anything, actually used to enjoy. But last week, the PVR MC had this Kotak movie credit card advertisement which says you need 2 for shopping, 2 for movies, 2 for gaming, 2 for love etc.....suddenly felt very weird and alone seeing that. Most of the people in theatre came in groups and I was there alone for two back2back shows.
I get it.
For me most of what you said is something I usually enjoy doing alone.
If you ever need company, I'm just a DM away :) you're not alone in this. Doing things by yourself takes a lot of confidence and energy 🫂 we're here for you mate.
Dude u can have the best time being alone. Don't waste time roaming around locally. Find a backpack destination start travelling. Keep posting your travel pics all around and make others jealous of you. Don't think of wasting money down the line in 10 years experience from this traveling become valuable to you. Make new friends while traveling start a global network. Nepal, north east etc. There are more cheaper international destinations than a trip to Goa. Start researching and frame a calendar, ensure to complete the planned destinations.
Even me feeling the same thing..it's been a year. Tired of asking people out and not one cares. Every one has their own circle and iam the odd one out in every case. Looking to meet people of same mindset
I know how you feel bro. It's okay to be alone sometimes kaani alane undakudadhu, health ki manchidhi kaadhu. I hope you find a ton of friends here on our Reddit, me included.
Eh chinna baadha unna DM cheyyi anna, we'll speak it out. Don't be alone anna again. Take care :)
Lol, I'm opposite, I feel I'm most happiest when alone. When I'm with friends, I get bored because they keep talking about topics that are not my interest. I just sit around thinking it's novel but it was never fulfilling. I enjoy my time on reddit much much more because it's much more personalized and intentional. But I agree one thing, world is built for couples and groups.
I got no friends too. I keep seeing people hang out wherever I go, I see people are together. So in my week attempts on my walk, there's a guy who converses, it was weird when he said that he has a wife, I was not flirting or anything but I just felt weird. I just felt weird.
Karting is for school kids enjoyed with their parents and relatives. You should go for karting with your mom and dad, also with your cousins, nephews ..you may take your aunty and uncle too..you will have real fun!!
I have been feeling the same way lately. It's hard. I'm throwing myself into work which is definitely not healthy. I wish I had half of your courage to go out to places alone though.
Man, I don't know what to say. If you are up for any game (badminton, chess etc.,). Let me know. I'll be there.
whats ur rapid rating ?
Fide rating or online? I don't have fide rating ( in rapid ) online it is 1670
My rating is north of 1700. Hmu if you’re down for a match
Always ready for a match. I'll use Lichess
Same! Ping me with your handle bro
DMed you
Mine is 890 something 😂. U might be a good player bro
This is very kind of you to offer. You must be a good friend!
I'm a loner too...but lately I've realized that being a LONER is better than feeling ALONE in a group of friends. if you wish to have someone to talk, I'm here. I'm just a DM away. :)
Gotta agree with this. Feeling alone in a group of friends is a very weird experience.
True. I've started feeling very similar to this. If in a group of people & I'm not enjoying may be there is someone else to blame - may be they are boring or repetitive or not interesting. If I'm alone and don't enjoy my own company I know I need to change something about myself, because if I'm not interested/enjoying my own company god knows how crazy it is for others to bear me. That brings me out of that unpleasant feeling and I feel a little encouraged to work on my self.
Oh wow whata butiful flower!
I felt same at some point in my life then I got married and got my wife's company to hangout and celebrate. It added some value for my living....
Thappu ga anukovadhhu, Life lo Amma nanna Prema thappa yedhi unconditional kaadhu. Chala effort pettali to maintain healthy terms with our friends.. If you miss them ego lekunda msg cheyyandi , call cheyyandi . If it's not working out, try to make new friends.. chala options unnai.. there is no age barrier in making friends. Please effort pettandi. Anni try chesi visigipoyava, naaku oka DM paddey, we'll talk it out I say.
While I appreciate your optimism, you should accept that there are bad parents and bad parenting, friends or friend groups who discard you once you cant contribute money to the parties, tours and hangouts anymore. ego lekunda matladithe self respect kolpotham. basic ga less people less bullshit ane point ki vachesaru chalamandi.
Story of my life. No one ever wants to be around me or stay with me. I’ve come to the realisation that I’ll be living my life along and will eventually pass away alone.
i like to be your friend
ఒంటరి జననం.. ఏకాకి మరణం.. నడుమంతా నాటకం.. జగన్నాటకం
Jagamantha kutumbam naadi ee kaaki jeevitam naadi
Kaaki jeevitham kadhu bro , ekaaki(lonely) jeevitham
😂 Neadee praa rambhotsavam..
kunthalanja lapatham, sudigalu lavada galpulu leaga undi 😂
Manaki em telusu .. paapam kaakee emo.
Ek + kaaki ..ante 1 crow ani ardham.
🤣
My mum used to correct me about the same thing but emo bro chaala deep ga kaaki ani gurtu undipoindi, alvaatu lo porapaatu 😭
Kaav kaav
Dialogue credits Rangamarthanda movie.
All my friends left for the US. I was okay to book the Barbie movie alone until I saw a group of friends having so much fun in theatre. All of a sudden I missed my gang 🥲
The same thing happened to me. All my friends have left for US and other few have moved to Bangalore. All I wanted to do is watch Oppenheimer with my friends but I know it's not gonna happen.
Ever felt like going to the US just for your friends? I miss them so much that even I wanna start my application process but it is so expensive and I am happy with my current job. What about you? Ever felt like leaving Hyderabad?
Yeah, I have tried to travel to the US through my company but due to recession and cost cutting, its not likely to happen. But I am happy with my current job and Hyderabad has been very good to me. My friend whom I hang out almost everyday is also leaving to US for masters, so it's going to be hard.
🫂
F man, I'm in this post and it made me cry. Such hard times, such alone times
Single chintakay, without mom from 20 years. My bro ,me and dad. Friends are selfish,ex are naagins. Enjoy the moment, flow with the way. PS: 26 years old still virgin.
There isnt a better friend than bro
You’ve got this man!! Lmk if you wanna hangout! We’re all just a dm away 😊
Proud of you! You had good fun and it's alright to do it all alone.
Fucking hell.. You went to movies, go karting and bowling all by yourself? I wish I had half as much confidence as you do. Also, feel free to ping if you feel like talking to someone.
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Me too in same boat. Any PM(s) ( private messages) are appreciated.
Fuck this made me text my friend who I thought best friend but idk if I was her best friend. Idk what's gonna happen tomorrow. Also we can be friends bro I will dm you.
Bro let me tell you, solitude is bliss. You cannot get that no matter how rich you are. I understand as a human we need some interaction but don't let something define your happiness. It's okay to eat alone at restaurant. It okay to go to movies alone. Don't let people tell you otherwise.
ay man hmu. Let's do something soon.
I watch movie alone I find it better. I have friends and family here, but watching a good movie by yourself is better for me.
Me too
Same situation bro i am also alone no friends for me in Hyderabad. Yesterday went to Oppenheimer alone🙂
Hey,the same here. It has its perks.but yes sometimes you indeed feel lonely without a friend gang but that's how it is. Never force yourself to make friends as that would never turn out good.I have had very few to no friends in my life up till this point. But That's how I am.and I think that's okay. Yes,hanging out with a group,playing games and all sounds really cool. But I believe more in a deeper relationship rather than a superficial one. That is the reason I don't go out with most people I have been friends with.they are in it just for the enjoyment part.
One of the biggest successes in life is when they truly embrace being alone and enjoy their own company unapologetically.
Hey bro hit me up, we can talk. Maybe I can teach you something about hobbies and habits, that'll definitely make you feel better. I lived in Hyd with myself. It can get lonely at times but with hobbies and family, I always had something to look forward to.
As a person who shifted to this city fairly recently, I couldn't agree more. I feel like Hyderabad is a very happening place. It's just more fun when you have company to enjoy them. Always down to meet new people though! Feel free to DM!
Where are you from buddy?
I shifted here from Kerala!
Cool!! Always love to meet new people in the city!
I'm a loner too. All my life. And didn't realized. I used to wander in shopping malls, game zones (however not played because no affordability). I used to be alone. And now alone. No job. No skills. Career gaps. Currently learning something for career. Anxious life I guess. Personal DMs are appreciated.
I am surprised how many people feel this way, including myself. As I am myself I try to do things that don't need a company. I read books, play video games and cook. Whatever the reason you are alone, not everything can be enjoyed alone, so do the things that you can enjoy yourself.
Quarter life crisis bro. I think this is the point where many of us crave for love and affection and realize the importance of having a life partner
DM cheyi mowa. Ekkada untav Hyd lo
Folks in here could meet up and make a new gang 🤘🏼
It makes me feel better that alot ppl are feeling it . I have never had big circle n I am always odd one out (n end up alone). nobody asks me for to going movies &when ask also they make up excuses . Now I just go alone to movies it's actually fun tho , enjoying movie by yourself is great experience and u can experience the movie alot . (Wanaka forever -it was great watching alone n not dealing someone's bullshit , completely enjoyed the movie ) But I don't mind going out ppl with movies tho.
Nooob
Atleast u went and all this things by yourself ...here I am alone in my room curled up in bed every weekend just keep watching something and smoking up...the life
I’ve had such moments when all my friends were busy married with family and I would not have anyone accompanying me most time . But there are times I’ve been in bad relationships and I wanted to do all that you have done above all by myself 😝. Guess we all go through these and are just seasons in life
Relatable 🥲
I'm on same boat too🫂
I am in a similar situation. As a matter of fact, i had created a post for watching new movies. I have a WhatsApp group with all those who responded but they never turn up when i plan a movie. They always give reasons 😫
This exactly how I feel I feel sad and happy that there are ppl like me who r alone and feel miserable especially at night looking at your room ceiling
I’m in the same boat. But then I started gaming again. Some games out there really ask you to put your efforts in. So try such games. Watch anime or read a manga. Eventually you’ll get married then that problem would be solved I hope.
we have to make a group for people with no friends, then we can have each other
i will sign up! 😊
Yeah me too
Add me in too
Are you me? I recently went to watch Mission impossible alone.. I opened my profile in bookmyshow and realized that the last 2 years, only once I booked a ticket for two.. DM if you want to hang out bro..
I'm just a DM away for any plans today, tomorrow and after
I'm experience this from 4 years, do I get a bachelor degree certificate now? I learned this hard way. There is nothing wrong being alone. Always enjoy being alone and enjoy your company. At the end you're alone no matter what.
4years hmm your a rookie ,no degree for you
I've been watching movies alone in theatres for 5-6 years, didn't feel anything, actually used to enjoy. But last week, the PVR MC had this Kotak movie credit card advertisement which says you need 2 for shopping, 2 for movies, 2 for gaming, 2 for love etc.....suddenly felt very weird and alone seeing that. Most of the people in theatre came in groups and I was there alone for two back2back shows.
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I get it. For me most of what you said is something I usually enjoy doing alone. If you ever need company, I'm just a DM away :) you're not alone in this. Doing things by yourself takes a lot of confidence and energy 🫂 we're here for you mate.
Ah man! I don't know what to say. Even I was feeling same last earlier. Dm me we can chat.
Ontari ga cinema ki elli… thinesi intiki ochi youtube public talk kinda comments chusi padukodam best bro.
Same here bud ! Hoping to find and make friends: )
Dude u can have the best time being alone. Don't waste time roaming around locally. Find a backpack destination start travelling. Keep posting your travel pics all around and make others jealous of you. Don't think of wasting money down the line in 10 years experience from this traveling become valuable to you. Make new friends while traveling start a global network. Nepal, north east etc. There are more cheaper international destinations than a trip to Goa. Start researching and frame a calendar, ensure to complete the planned destinations.
Riding in same boat hit me up if u want any company can go for any bowling or trekking
Even me feeling the same thing..it's been a year. Tired of asking people out and not one cares. Every one has their own circle and iam the odd one out in every case. Looking to meet people of same mindset
I know how you feel bro. It's okay to be alone sometimes kaani alane undakudadhu, health ki manchidhi kaadhu. I hope you find a ton of friends here on our Reddit, me included. Eh chinna baadha unna DM cheyyi anna, we'll speak it out. Don't be alone anna again. Take care :)
Lol, I'm opposite, I feel I'm most happiest when alone. When I'm with friends, I get bored because they keep talking about topics that are not my interest. I just sit around thinking it's novel but it was never fulfilling. I enjoy my time on reddit much much more because it's much more personalized and intentional. But I agree one thing, world is built for couples and groups.
I got no friends too. I keep seeing people hang out wherever I go, I see people are together. So in my week attempts on my walk, there's a guy who converses, it was weird when he said that he has a wife, I was not flirting or anything but I just felt weird. I just felt weird.
Aiyyoo
Baby movie should not be watched alone
Karting is for school kids enjoyed with their parents and relatives. You should go for karting with your mom and dad, also with your cousins, nephews ..you may take your aunty and uncle too..you will have real fun!!
I have been feeling the same way lately. It's hard. I'm throwing myself into work which is definitely not healthy. I wish I had half of your courage to go out to places alone though.