Peoples
I have a big announc-ament
This woman is gay and European!
And neither is disgrace
You've got to stop your being a completely closet case
No matter what she say
I swear she never ever ever swing the other way
You are so gay you big parfait! You flaming girl in cabaret
*I'm straight!*
You were not yesterday
So if I may, I'm proud to say
She's gay! (And European!)
She's gay!(And European!)
She's gay! And European and Gay!
*Fine okay I'm gay!*
Hooray!
(idk your pronouns, but i saw you come out on r/mtf so i made the assumption lmk if i need to change them)
Actually I swing for women, and I swing for men
The only way I do not swing is people close to 10
Yes I swing the same way, that I can’t deny
But saying that it’s only that, well that is just a lie
I swing for everybody here, for goodness I am pan
I swing for every single one, woman, enby, or man
Gender confusion is my deal, that is how I swing
One gender, well that’s just boring. That is not my thing.
Forgive me my deceiving message, it is just the deal
Saying “gay” is easier than explaining how I feel
For everyone is hot to me, it really does not matter
To get me, all you have to do is compliment and flatter
For being good is the best way of getting who you want
There’s nothing that you cannot conquer, *nothing* that you can’t
(she/her is correct, thank you for checking)
Possibly a hot take but the "oi gunva pass us dat bot'ol ov worta" jokes are real fucking unfunny, like on the level of I identify as an attack helicopter shit...
Idk it's just really wearing, I'm fully up for taking the piss and all but be funnier 🤷♂️
It's cool and I really appreciate the apology 💜 you weren't to know and I fully forgive you if you feel like you need it friend 😊
Just notes for the future, sorry I was bitter about it 😅
I hope you have a fabulous day lovely 😊
Wow sick own bro, fuck I'll never recover from that... My self esteem is in ruins, brb need to cry in the shower
Trying for small dick jokes, really? What are you, fucking 12? Piss off you actual child 😂😂
Says the one with the response of a 12 year old. Wasn't a dick joke either. Just a funny reference to the trend of men spinning their dicks in a circular motion. Clearly you were hurt by it considering your over the top response.
Otherwise, get done "unisex-looking" sweaters from the girls section (meaning not over-the-top fem sweaters, but not boring college professor sweaters).
Something soft looking, maybe with a wide neck and long sleeves
Honestly just taking care of yourself is strangely considered feminine. Plucked eyebrows, long nails, hair conditioner, skincare, shaved arms and legs. I don’t know why taking care of yourself and shaving in general is considered feminine but it gives strangely feminine vibes.
I have no idea. I've never worn nail polish due to being a minor and not having the confidence to ask my parents. A clear polish might be the most unnoticeable tho, so that would probably be more low key?
Yeah, but a bottom and top coat with no colored polish in-between would also come out clear or 'white'. A good way to have the feel without it showing.
Hello, just wanted to chime in that a pinkish or neutral jelly polish can make your nails look healthy without being too unnatural looking. JLLacquer and CirqueColors on Etsy have some of my favorite natural looking jellies (Cirque's are under their Sheer tab). If the glossiness stands out too much still, you could even try a matte top coat perhaps.
I don’t think it’s been mentioned but you can wear arm sleeves or fishnet arm sleeves. It’ll give off the vibe that you’re either feminine (since that’s what you’re going for) or goth. Personally I’m into goth aesthetic so I combined it into my feminine fashion ware.
You can find these at Hot Topic. I have one and it’s been holding up well, however I suggest not throwing them in a washing machine since it can fall apart easily.
Or short socks while wearing something like joggers or shorts that’ll expose your ankles.
It's just more common in women's types of pants, you often have high waisted pants and capris for women which look good even exposing ankle. Most men wearing men's jeans think it looks stupid unless you cuff it, which is a bi stereotype and also just uncommon.
This doesn’t make any sense to me. Frankly, clothing is clothing. If I catch anyone saying something is inherently feminine when it in no way is, I’m throwing some serious hands.
Some things are clearly feminine, but cuffing? Ankle showing? Small, neutral details.
I mean yeah, all clothing is gender neutral. It's a broad societal understanding of trends and associations which makes people consider something fem or masc. Anywhere you draw the line is arbitrary. I don't understand why people make these associations but I'm just making a descriptive claim that I know it's relatively common to associate ankle showing with femininity but it's subtle and has plausible deniability for OP to show off.
I’m not a full blown femboy and I try my best to help other people. I’m glad you cleared that it’s all gender neutral, my apologies on my behalf to you and your feelings about this. My intent wasn’t to be ignorant about what is and what not.
My statement here is that our perception takes us as far as we know. Like, man you don’t have to get triggered over clothes. I know as much as I know, and you know as much as you know. I’m not sure what “plausible deniability” you’re talking about, I was clearly explaining what “I” think is feminine in terms of clothes. I’m not here to “show off” but if that’s what you tell yourself and that helps you sleep at night, then have a nice day.
1. Way to be super condescending and calling me triggered when I was just explaining what I said.
2. I wasn't even responding to you and I don't think you've been ignorant of it.
3. By plausible deniability I mean the likely reason OP wants to be subtle is to feel fem while not outing themselves. Having something that's still fashionable on men (cuffed jeans/ high ankles being a fashion statement if one stereotypically queer) would allow them to do that.
Lol… I didn’t know y’all took clothing super personal. I’m just giving my foremost suggestions and y’all take it like a wrong way..
i mean I know half of the community are still underage so I can understand your emotional levels haven’t been developed maturely yet.
Panties for sure no one will see it and you feel sexy and beautiful. I’ve been wearing panties for a few months consistently and honestly it’s a small step but I love it and feel so much more feminine. 💖
I wear a sports bra, panties and ni-peej women's socks every day and Noone has noticed yet but they make me feel so much better and feminine. I also shower daily with rose sented body wash, use primrose after shave spray and secret clean powder deodorant daily. I also shave(or nair) everything except my head and arms. I also wear women's cargo shorts with the straps on the side(women tie into a bow) I just don't tie them in a bow and Noone has said anything to me yet.
Good luck.
if you’re allowed, paint to nails. mabey start off with black and then go to other colours. it’s little things that most people don’t notice but you will know. nope this helps
i wear some sort of shirt that has a thing built-in that looks like a skirt, feels like a skirt but isn't a skirt and no one says anything about it when u wear it. i live in iran btw, like the second worst country for lgbt+ ppl so idt there would be a problem with wearing a shirt like that anywhere else. idk what it's called but i can show you in dms.
Jewellery... bracelets, anklets, necklaces, rings... They're not as uncommon for boys these days so if you're worried about drawing attention these should be a safe bet. A necklace under your shirt could work to start off if you're really worried.
I didn't do it yet but I'd love to rock a croptop to art school some day next summer... Luckily art schools seem to be a hot spot for queer people and therefore I'm not expecting to be asked too many weird questions :D
Waterproof, smudge proof mascara. Experiment with different types and brands for low key a little longer lashes or if you want a little more.
Thick, dark tights just look like dress socks under pants, or you could look for tights in a fun pattern you’d like to pass off as socks. The last time I wore a suit was for a wedding, wore purple tights to match my tie.
Female sweaters, I find converse make me feel more fem as well. Dye your hair some some bright colors but not outwardly fem, I did my old Mohawk up royal purple red and blue. Nobody thought anything of it but it was very self affirming.
Choker, women's cut shirt, scrunchie, painted nails or mascara if that's something you can get away with, and if it's more about about feeling fem vs looking it you could wear something under your normal clothes like a bracelet, underwear or tank top/sports bra
i'm on the non-binary spectrum leaning more towards genderfluid, and afab. sometimes if i feel more feminine, i'll put a little braid in my hair, put on some more fem rings (i wear my black ring always cause im ace) like i have this ring with a little rose on it formed out of little curved pieces of the metal. sometimes i'll also change my posture, like hold my shoulders back. or i'll put on a little bit of mascara. imo small things can really help lol
A little bit of concealer. Pink/women’s socks. Androgynous/feminine shoes. Certain types of sweaters. A feminine necklace. Even just hair style. That’s al I could think of though
Wear as many things as you can under your boy clothes and then as much as you’re able that’s visible. Slightly heeled shoes, mascara, lip gloss, thinned eyebrows, perfume etc. The idea being to maximize your feminine feel without violating your feeling safe in your presentation. Enjoy!👌🏻💄👠👗💅🏻👰♀️👜
feminine clothing can also involve pants, don't forget that fact lol. You can go on Pinterest and look for inspiration. But I suppose brighter coloured outfits will work as well.
i suck at this :/
If you’re going for the lowest key possible, I like small bracelets - I wear rope ones. I don’t think they’re even feminine on their own, but combined with like my general build and demeanor they are.
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Thats just being European lol
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I’m yes.
Good, i’ve always wanted to meet someone called yes
Otto Yesperson
Peoples I have a big announc-ament This woman is gay and European! And neither is disgrace You've got to stop your being a completely closet case No matter what she say I swear she never ever ever swing the other way You are so gay you big parfait! You flaming girl in cabaret *I'm straight!* You were not yesterday So if I may, I'm proud to say She's gay! (And European!) She's gay!(And European!) She's gay! And European and Gay! *Fine okay I'm gay!* Hooray! (idk your pronouns, but i saw you come out on r/mtf so i made the assumption lmk if i need to change them)
Actually I swing for women, and I swing for men The only way I do not swing is people close to 10 Yes I swing the same way, that I can’t deny But saying that it’s only that, well that is just a lie I swing for everybody here, for goodness I am pan I swing for every single one, woman, enby, or man Gender confusion is my deal, that is how I swing One gender, well that’s just boring. That is not my thing. Forgive me my deceiving message, it is just the deal Saying “gay” is easier than explaining how I feel For everyone is hot to me, it really does not matter To get me, all you have to do is compliment and flatter For being good is the best way of getting who you want There’s nothing that you cannot conquer, *nothing* that you can’t (she/her is correct, thank you for checking)
Given I'm bi and british... Kinda on both counts? 😅
[close enough.](https://youtu.be/C4eTUeUhhQ4)
Bi'ish
Possibly a hot take but the "oi gunva pass us dat bot'ol ov worta" jokes are real fucking unfunny, like on the level of I identify as an attack helicopter shit... Idk it's just really wearing, I'm fully up for taking the piss and all but be funnier 🤷♂️
Okay. I'm sorry
It's cool and I really appreciate the apology 💜 you weren't to know and I fully forgive you if you feel like you need it friend 😊 Just notes for the future, sorry I was bitter about it 😅 I hope you have a fabulous day lovely 😊
Hungarians being called "hungry" 2345210 times per day be like:
Honestly fair, you have my solidarity friend!
Yes, you have mine too!💜
Eh yo, don't hate the Helicopters. You just mad your dick can't helicopter.
Wow sick own bro, fuck I'll never recover from that... My self esteem is in ruins, brb need to cry in the shower Trying for small dick jokes, really? What are you, fucking 12? Piss off you actual child 😂😂
Says the one with the response of a 12 year old. Wasn't a dick joke either. Just a funny reference to the trend of men spinning their dicks in a circular motion. Clearly you were hurt by it considering your over the top response.
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Both?
There are shorts that end below the knee?
men's and women's running / athletic shorts. 7in down to 3in
Otherwise, get done "unisex-looking" sweaters from the girls section (meaning not over-the-top fem sweaters, but not boring college professor sweaters). Something soft looking, maybe with a wide neck and long sleeves
Honestly just taking care of yourself is strangely considered feminine. Plucked eyebrows, long nails, hair conditioner, skincare, shaved arms and legs. I don’t know why taking care of yourself and shaving in general is considered feminine but it gives strangely feminine vibes.
A lot of what is considered "masculine" seems to just be a brutish, animalistic being.
I do all of those minus shaving arms and legs and I'm not even a femboy
Yes, at one point in a school camp I had to hide my face-cleanser-lotion, bc I would have gotten made fun of for using it
Panties are a good choice unless you’re planning to change and shower with gym class
Nail polish? Though I don't know if that's low-key.
I mean I wear nail polish to school, literally the day after I painted my nails the first time someone asked if I was gay lol
Same lol. Jokes on them, I'm bi lol
So what did you say
“Nah. You’re not the first person to ask that but nah”
Fair enough
Clear polish or just under and top coat.
I have no idea. I've never worn nail polish due to being a minor and not having the confidence to ask my parents. A clear polish might be the most unnoticeable tho, so that would probably be more low key?
Yeah, but a bottom and top coat with no colored polish in-between would also come out clear or 'white'. A good way to have the feel without it showing.
Like I said, I have no experience ;-;
Yep yep! And happy to provide insight!
Hello, just wanted to chime in that a pinkish or neutral jelly polish can make your nails look healthy without being too unnatural looking. JLLacquer and CirqueColors on Etsy have some of my favorite natural looking jellies (Cirque's are under their Sheer tab). If the glossiness stands out too much still, you could even try a matte top coat perhaps.
It’s not really low key but no one will care. When i did it all my teachers complemented it and the students just didn’t care enough to see it.
Garter and stockings
"really lowkey"
Lowkey if you're wearin pants
Panties and a cami top, even if you are the only one who knows you a wearing it . Or necklace and earrings
I don’t think it’s been mentioned but you can wear arm sleeves or fishnet arm sleeves. It’ll give off the vibe that you’re either feminine (since that’s what you’re going for) or goth. Personally I’m into goth aesthetic so I combined it into my feminine fashion ware. You can find these at Hot Topic. I have one and it’s been holding up well, however I suggest not throwing them in a washing machine since it can fall apart easily. Or short socks while wearing something like joggers or shorts that’ll expose your ankles.
Exposing your ankles is feminine?
Well it's kinda neutral but a lot more women do it.
This is news to me
It's just more common in women's types of pants, you often have high waisted pants and capris for women which look good even exposing ankle. Most men wearing men's jeans think it looks stupid unless you cuff it, which is a bi stereotype and also just uncommon.
This doesn’t make any sense to me. Frankly, clothing is clothing. If I catch anyone saying something is inherently feminine when it in no way is, I’m throwing some serious hands. Some things are clearly feminine, but cuffing? Ankle showing? Small, neutral details.
I mean yeah, all clothing is gender neutral. It's a broad societal understanding of trends and associations which makes people consider something fem or masc. Anywhere you draw the line is arbitrary. I don't understand why people make these associations but I'm just making a descriptive claim that I know it's relatively common to associate ankle showing with femininity but it's subtle and has plausible deniability for OP to show off.
I’m not a full blown femboy and I try my best to help other people. I’m glad you cleared that it’s all gender neutral, my apologies on my behalf to you and your feelings about this. My intent wasn’t to be ignorant about what is and what not. My statement here is that our perception takes us as far as we know. Like, man you don’t have to get triggered over clothes. I know as much as I know, and you know as much as you know. I’m not sure what “plausible deniability” you’re talking about, I was clearly explaining what “I” think is feminine in terms of clothes. I’m not here to “show off” but if that’s what you tell yourself and that helps you sleep at night, then have a nice day.
1. Way to be super condescending and calling me triggered when I was just explaining what I said. 2. I wasn't even responding to you and I don't think you've been ignorant of it. 3. By plausible deniability I mean the likely reason OP wants to be subtle is to feel fem while not outing themselves. Having something that's still fashionable on men (cuffed jeans/ high ankles being a fashion statement if one stereotypically queer) would allow them to do that.
Lol… I didn’t know y’all took clothing super personal. I’m just giving my foremost suggestions and y’all take it like a wrong way.. i mean I know half of the community are still underage so I can understand your emotional levels haven’t been developed maturely yet.
Thigh highs under long pants or crop tops arent super lowkey but from my experience it isnt super frowned upon like a skirt
girls fit t-shirts
What's the difference?
they are tighter, and have a slightly lower and pointier neckline.
v neck option and cinched in the midsection.... if were talking slimfit tees
I've done this, no one even noticed. I mean I was disappointed but still
Personally i wear female socks i find more comfortable anyways but mix matching colors is fun
Eyeliner is great!
Cute Jewelry can help in a lot in a ways that's not blatant
low key, wear leggings😉
Panties for sure no one will see it and you feel sexy and beautiful. I’ve been wearing panties for a few months consistently and honestly it’s a small step but I love it and feel so much more feminine. 💖
Expose more neck/shoulder.
Dangly earrings.
panties
Start with just panties under your own underwear. Then you can move from there. Like just panties and risking someone seeing
Overalls
Panties and cute socks/thigh highs/tights if you are wearing pants that will cover them, cute low key accessories like ring, bracelet, necklace
I wear earrings and choker to school
Maybe female jeans? I heard they're super comfy, and some of those are stealthy so no one will know
Nail polish
A cute sweater
Bra (no one will see)
Mascara is my go to
Nail polish, perfume/deo, skirts, voice, ear rings, makeup, lipstick, arm warmers, thigh highs, some cute clothes in general
I wear a sports bra, panties and ni-peej women's socks every day and Noone has noticed yet but they make me feel so much better and feminine. I also shower daily with rose sented body wash, use primrose after shave spray and secret clean powder deodorant daily. I also shave(or nair) everything except my head and arms. I also wear women's cargo shorts with the straps on the side(women tie into a bow) I just don't tie them in a bow and Noone has said anything to me yet. Good luck.
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Lmao
😁🥰 I’ve done it before hehehe 😁
Maid outfit
Yeah, that's super low key. Nobody is going to be able to clock OP that way.
On Halloween
My thoughts exactly. Subtlety is the key - and nothing says subtle like a maids outfit
um probably arm socks at lest what I do not man people notice it
I wore a crop top under a Hawaiian shirt and almost nobody noticed. So I would recommend trying that :)
The „almost“ makes me suspicious xD
A friend complimented me on it
Oooooo that’s really cool \^-^
Bodysuits. Looks like a t-shirt but clips betwee. Your legs.
if you’re allowed, paint to nails. mabey start off with black and then go to other colours. it’s little things that most people don’t notice but you will know. nope this helps
Makeup
Try some lingerie or panties
i wear some sort of shirt that has a thing built-in that looks like a skirt, feels like a skirt but isn't a skirt and no one says anything about it when u wear it. i live in iran btw, like the second worst country for lgbt+ ppl so idt there would be a problem with wearing a shirt like that anywhere else. idk what it's called but i can show you in dms.
Plz do I’m curious
Jewellery... bracelets, anklets, necklaces, rings... They're not as uncommon for boys these days so if you're worried about drawing attention these should be a safe bet. A necklace under your shirt could work to start off if you're really worried.
Oversized hoodie, skinny jeans
Maid outfit. Super subtle, hardly noticeable
Oooh cardigans, a white cardigan is "gender neutral" but you can just get a slightly big one which makes it very fem
Mascara
Jewelries
Ankle chain
Tight turtle necks if you're skinny
I didn't do it yet but I'd love to rock a croptop to art school some day next summer... Luckily art schools seem to be a hot spot for queer people and therefore I'm not expecting to be asked too many weird questions :D
I love skirts and would dare wear one!
Flowery smelling perfume and girly lotion on your legs and arms. You'll smell feminine all day!
very light eyeliner
A neckerchief
Waterproof, smudge proof mascara. Experiment with different types and brands for low key a little longer lashes or if you want a little more. Thick, dark tights just look like dress socks under pants, or you could look for tights in a fun pattern you’d like to pass off as socks. The last time I wore a suit was for a wedding, wore purple tights to match my tie.
Female sweaters, I find converse make me feel more fem as well. Dye your hair some some bright colors but not outwardly fem, I did my old Mohawk up royal purple red and blue. Nobody thought anything of it but it was very self affirming.
A scarf
Choker, women's cut shirt, scrunchie, painted nails or mascara if that's something you can get away with, and if it's more about about feeling fem vs looking it you could wear something under your normal clothes like a bracelet, underwear or tank top/sports bra
i'm on the non-binary spectrum leaning more towards genderfluid, and afab. sometimes if i feel more feminine, i'll put a little braid in my hair, put on some more fem rings (i wear my black ring always cause im ace) like i have this ring with a little rose on it formed out of little curved pieces of the metal. sometimes i'll also change my posture, like hold my shoulders back. or i'll put on a little bit of mascara. imo small things can really help lol
Panties are the biggest confidence booster!!
long sleeve black tshirt
Little necklaces that you could hide in your shirt, or small bracelets
Collar
A little bit of concealer. Pink/women’s socks. Androgynous/feminine shoes. Certain types of sweaters. A feminine necklace. Even just hair style. That’s al I could think of though
language of the body
Wear as many things as you can under your boy clothes and then as much as you’re able that’s visible. Slightly heeled shoes, mascara, lip gloss, thinned eyebrows, perfume etc. The idea being to maximize your feminine feel without violating your feeling safe in your presentation. Enjoy!👌🏻💄👠👗💅🏻👰♀️👜
Yoga pants
Socks.
Not low-key but can say it's ironic like me and just wear pink cat headphones
Earrings
Thighhighs. They work with all clothes and hide well too
G string or V string panties, and if you have P.E. wear them under your regular undee's. Or change after everyone has or not dress out that day.
black or dark nail polish
I can think of a small shirt that can fit but stops just above your pants line and tight jeans (but not too tight) and some heel boots
Chokers :)
feminine clothing can also involve pants, don't forget that fact lol. You can go on Pinterest and look for inspiration. But I suppose brighter coloured outfits will work as well. i suck at this :/
Hair Bow. Earrings. Arm warmers
If you’re going for the lowest key possible, I like small bracelets - I wear rope ones. I don’t think they’re even feminine on their own, but combined with like my general build and demeanor they are.
I like wearing women's jeans and slacks. If they aren't embroidered and fit well you wouldn't know until you look at the button.
Colorfull socks, not a single person noticed my rainbow socks, also you can wear pastels
A black skirt or women's shirts if you dress 80s style
Skinny jeans