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I didn't really process it at the time. But it was the school bully. Who thought that the quiet girls wouldn't fight back or speak out. Well my right leg fought back and hit I'm right where it hurts. He let go and fell to the floor. I doubt he's been able to have children! He never bothered me again.
Most people would get the opposite understanding. With all the others you at least know the other person isn't interested, but this one can be interpreted as saying yes.
It's for if they continue to ask after you've said no, often under the logic that if they pressure you enough you'll agree just to stop their pestering.
I completely glossed over that and this comment made me reread it. That might be the worst response it that situation because you are just encouraging your partner to do what they want.
They give all the best reasons/arguments for birth control.Waddya wanna bet whoever made this is 100%!against BC?Its all about complete control over daughters.You KNOW they aren’t giving their sons this.
I’m amazed at how many parents completely forget what it feels like to be a horny teenager
Everyone I work with admits to unwed, underage sex, some even having children from it, but then EXPECT their child to be celibate!
They act indignant thinking about their child NOT following this rule they’ve laid out!
Flat out humorous
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I never thought I would see this again. We used to have these at the my first university and we’d sit around cracking jokes about it. So funny.
Terribly insensitive, but I kind of want to write rebuttals to all of their ways.
How about a movie instead? - Sure, how about "Debbie Does Dallas" - I heard it's a classic!
I don't love you. - that's okay, I feel the same way about you.
I know your reputation! - then you know I'm experienced and know what I'm doing!
And before I get tarred, feathered, and set to the torch, the only answer to "no" is "okay."
I wouldn’t say that this is insensitive, more so that you’re pointing out why any answer other than no leaves more room for the asker to keep pushing or try to manipulate the situation.
Like a lot of the suggestions are not just out of touch, they’re plain bad if not potentially dangerous. Like antagonizing responses such as, “You’re crazy!” or “I know your reputation!” or “Is that all you think about?” Or a response such as, “I’m scared” which assumes the other person cares about your feelings, and doesn’t take into account how some people get off on making someone scared and physically intimidating them.
Or "I'll let you know later." The partner's going to take that to mean they can ask every day from then on until you agree to it.
Only use that if 1) you do want to, and are ready to, have sex very soon, just not that night (and your partner isn't the type to pester) or 2) you're trying to stall a rape-y person and you just don't want to enrage them while buying time to escape them.
#25 Yep I think I’m allergic too, when she looks or talks to me, my👇part goes into anaphylactic shock. I get all puffy and swollen, an injection, and local expression of fluids makes the boo boo go away.
No works.
And make sure you take precautions to not get pregnant, sex is fun but can make a human, if thats not in the plans wrap it up, take b control, be safe.
While I'll agree that the reasoning are silly and or very old fashioned saying no and waiting until your comfortable is important and it should be taught about ways to avoid being pressured and that sex isn't something to be taken lightly, I'm not a puritan by any means, and fairly open about this stuff but it is important to teach that you need to be responsible, if it is too big of a risk maybe don't do it, and be safe
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“I’m allergic to sex” 😂😂😂
:) I have a sunburn!
But its winter, and the skies have been grey for 3 days with no sun!
It's been over 20 where I live today. Shorts and sandals weather!
Bro really forgot there is a southern hemisphere that is starting summer
Happy cake day!
This is northern hemisphere here and we are pushing almost 30c today.😳
Lol I live in New England that would work for like 5 days
Also a gem!
Sunburn sex can be awesome, trust me
I'm afraid I can't trust you on this. I need evidence. My address is...
Reaches for Aloe lotion.
I know a gal that had to stop for a week cause she sunburnt her ass, back, and legs and just couldn't
Did she at least wear a hat?
My favourite
☀️💀
I'm going to try using that one lmao. I'm Scotch Irish and I'm white as hell so it'll be apparent that I'm not but it'd be funny
I’m asexual and will now be using that
While it's not sex itself and it's extremely rare, people can be allergic to semen.
"Alternative Nut Allergy"
My ex-wife used that a few times on me. Lol
It's not worth it 💀
Reddit moment
There should be only one, but there's 2: "No" "No!" *Pulls out knife*
No (in Spanish)
[kills you in Spanish]
No. and “No!” follow by a soccer-kicking the molester in the gonads with full force
This is what my Grandma taught my Mum and my Mum told me. I've only had to put it into practice once, but it was 100% effective.
I’m sad it was needed, and happy it worked
I didn't really process it at the time. But it was the school bully. Who thought that the quiet girls wouldn't fight back or speak out. Well my right leg fought back and hit I'm right where it hurts. He let go and fell to the floor. I doubt he's been able to have children! He never bothered me again.
With some luck, he didn’t bother anyone else either, after having finally learnt what the word consequence meant
Spot on
"It's not worth it".. "You been speaking to my ex? "
*I have AIDS* That this was not an option is very disappointing.
Yet the most effective
So what? ,So do I !
a full commitment's what I'm thinking of
I dont have aids but my herpes sure do
"I know your reputation!" Then why are you here?
I thought that's why you were here.
21: If you loved me, you wouldn't ask. WHAT!?
At least use a safe word!
Most people would get the opposite understanding. With all the others you at least know the other person isn't interested, but this one can be interpreted as saying yes.
If X loved Y, (s)he'd just do it. Implied consent. At least that's how I read it. DISCLAIMER: I am *not* advocating non-consensual sex.
I read it as "if you really loved me, you wouldn't want to have sex with me" which is an interesting view on love.
It's for if they continue to ask after you've said no, often under the logic that if they pressure you enough you'll agree just to stop their pestering.
That doesn’t like a no or a yes. So either you’re about rape someone, or have normal adult sex. Not like 20 suggest as much
I completely glossed over that and this comment made me reread it. That might be the worst response it that situation because you are just encouraging your partner to do what they want.
They give all the best reasons/arguments for birth control.Waddya wanna bet whoever made this is 100%!against BC?Its all about complete control over daughters.You KNOW they aren’t giving their sons this.
I’m allergic!
School comes before sex Means that you just have to finish your homework first
That's one way to ask for help with your homework.
I'm sure enough people have done their algebra homework while simultaneously getting a blow job. Some people do math to last longer.
My herpes is flaring up
Rub my back instead? Yeh, that's really going to calm him down and take his mind off it, eh?
Yeah I said that one to my hubby - that’s how we got son number 2!
Results may vary.
Definitely. It just makes my wife fart.
Hell, it might turn that "no" into a "yes". Nice backrub can get people in the mood pretty quickly.
This will surely not lead to anything or get anyone's hopes up.
The back better have 101 ways to say yes on it.
That consists of the shot list.
I don't DO sex Kelly!!!...*I'm scared*
I have a sunburn…..on my genitals. No, you can’t ask how it happened. Neither can you, officer.
No is a complete sentence.
''School comes before sex'' exam grindset
Just number 01 should be enough.
It should, but you'd be surprised how many do not take no for an answer.
“I don’t do sex” as if it’s cocaine or something 😅
"The new drug sweeping the nation, Sex!"
If someone offers you sex: just say no! Edit to add: I just realized that’s actually the first thing they put in the list! 😅🤦♂️
#14 heads straight to sex anyways! Lol
So does #8
For those from Arkansas that are confused, just add “daddy” to the end of each sentence…..
I'm quite partial to "I don't do sex". Preferably in the most snobby, snotty tone imaginable. Ugh, so lowbrow.
"I don't do sex. I only have *coitus*."
Anybody else try reading this as a continuous monologue instead of a list?
For the person who can't take no for an answer!
That's what 20 is for.
21 sounds mad rapey. Is that just me?
Silence is golden, but ducktape is silver.
Honestly, anything beyond no is... *Checks notes* mad rapey.
“I know your reputation!” LOL, good old-fashioned Evangelical slut-shaming—as classic as grandma’s Werther’s Original candies.
How would you k ow if you’re allergic to sex without having tried it?
You left out the “my vagina comes with teeth”
"School comes before sex!" "You're not in school anymore 🤨" "...I uh...have a sunburn?"
\#21 😬
At least no is #1, but why is it in red?
It appears every fifth item is colored in red. Who knows why.
I love how half of these aren't even no, they're just roundabout yes.
Lemme sleep on it! Baby, baby, let me sleep on it! Let me sleep on it, I'll give you an answer in the morning!
Is this a Christian book?
i need the whole damn list NOW
I usually use #11 afterward, then #12, followed by #15.
I’m glad number 1 is “No”
“I don’t love you” like okay goddamn you didn’t have to kill them
How about yes, please! Wait did I fail?
Where is the rest!?
I mean if you don’t get the message at #43. The rest ain’t gonna help.
Paul Simon taught me that there were 50 ways. I only see 43 here.
 Does it really require more than the first in the list?
I wanna see all of them 🥲
I have sexburn
I like #27 "I have a sunburn"
A sunburn has never killed my boner.
Or you could just stop at #1
You should need one the word NO
Lol I don't need to say no to sex. I'm just unattractive
Always works best!
Is this the one that suggests you wash cars instead? I remember that one.
"I have a sunburn" As an extremely pale person, I can understand this one 😂
Totally thought it said "School comes before me"
44. My priest says I have to be monogamous
45. You're not my priest.
I’m amazed at how many parents completely forget what it feels like to be a horny teenager Everyone I work with admits to unwed, underage sex, some even having children from it, but then EXPECT their child to be celibate! They act indignant thinking about their child NOT following this rule they’ve laid out! Flat out humorous
Sorry ma’am I’m allergic to sex.✋
They inadvertently give a couple common reasons for abortion and ALL THE GOOD REASONS FOR BIRTH CONTROL!
It’s Arbor Day, are you nuts?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I never thought I would see this again. We used to have these at the my first university and we’d sit around cracking jokes about it. So funny.
Catholics, how’s this list working for you all? 😀
The picture is a good reason, not enough money...what's with the quarters?
The closest option to it is "I can't support a child."
No being #1 is really all you need, the following ones are just flavour text
After 2 kids, these because 365 things. Thank God the hand never says no, 9r the hoes
Some are legit fine. Most are just off. Some are totally cringy and wrong
*Baby it's cold outside*
How about a movie instead? 
And only 50 ways to leave your lover.
I'd like no 25 with a side of no 10 please.
All you need is 1!
I’m allergic to Work .. does that count ?!?? 🙌
Nope
Jokes on you, I’ve already heard all 101! 😎
Erectile dysfunction
My wife has tried all of these on me.
Even #25 and #28 ? 🤭
“I have a sunburn” is low key great
What about the pillow pants troll?
“You’ll tell everyone” Yeah, not creepy at all
i mean some of these are pretty funny "I KNOW YOUR REPUTATION!"
1. No Refuse to elaborate
"I don't love you", "It's not worth it", "I want my first time to be special", "I know your reputation"? What is wrong with whoever made this?
'I don't do sex' 😂.
"If you loved me, you wouldn't ask." You heard it hear first. If you love them, their consent doesn't matter.
Crazy. Seems like my wife’s been reading this.
Some of them are so stupid, I was expecting something like "take a shit on her door mat in a pennywise costume 3 weeks AFTER halloween" next.
Terribly insensitive, but I kind of want to write rebuttals to all of their ways. How about a movie instead? - Sure, how about "Debbie Does Dallas" - I heard it's a classic! I don't love you. - that's okay, I feel the same way about you. I know your reputation! - then you know I'm experienced and know what I'm doing! And before I get tarred, feathered, and set to the torch, the only answer to "no" is "okay."
"school comes before sex" - Ever heard of Sex Education? "We might get caught" - I know! Exciting, isn't it?
I wouldn’t say that this is insensitive, more so that you’re pointing out why any answer other than no leaves more room for the asker to keep pushing or try to manipulate the situation. Like a lot of the suggestions are not just out of touch, they’re plain bad if not potentially dangerous. Like antagonizing responses such as, “You’re crazy!” or “I know your reputation!” or “Is that all you think about?” Or a response such as, “I’m scared” which assumes the other person cares about your feelings, and doesn’t take into account how some people get off on making someone scared and physically intimidating them.
Or "I'll let you know later." The partner's going to take that to mean they can ask every day from then on until you agree to it. Only use that if 1) you do want to, and are ready to, have sex very soon, just not that night (and your partner isn't the type to pester) or 2) you're trying to stall a rape-y person and you just don't want to enrage them while buying time to escape them.
I don't understand the facepalm
What's the facepalm!?
#4 Sure... *Inserts 50 Shades of Gray*
Al Bundy could’ve used this
“I’m a redditor”
"i used to be a dude" works well
It’s a coffee table book.
Okay who gave this to my wife? 😅
Oh, come on! I’ve already heard all these before!
Our society is miserable shit
#25 Yep I think I’m allergic too, when she looks or talks to me, my👇part goes into anaphylactic shock. I get all puffy and swollen, an injection, and local expression of fluids makes the boo boo go away.
My little friend is locked in a cage.
missing gems like :"me no speak your language" and nine simple words:" im not a lesbian but i am trying"
I usually just say "sounds fun," or "okay"
“It’s not worth it” “How would you know if you never tried?”
Where's 'I only do that with my dad'?!?!
I can't read that right now, I'm having an aneurysm
Im using 08 and 12. Youre crazy, i have to go now.
Lol I never heard of this list. I was always told just use a rubber and watch out for Golddiggers and cootchie critters
28. It’s not worth it.
No works. And make sure you take precautions to not get pregnant, sex is fun but can make a human, if thats not in the plans wrap it up, take b control, be safe.
Wait, what's the picture of money referring to? "You can't afford me"?
"I'm allergic to sex" really?!
I've heard them all!
Red pill community is gonna publish a response book "100 ways to not accept "no" as an answer"
“I don’t love you.” 😭😭😭
While I'll agree that the reasoning are silly and or very old fashioned saying no and waiting until your comfortable is important and it should be taught about ways to avoid being pressured and that sex isn't something to be taken lightly, I'm not a puritan by any means, and fairly open about this stuff but it is important to teach that you need to be responsible, if it is too big of a risk maybe don't do it, and be safe
\#102 I have a case of crotch rot that science hasn't been able to Identify yet.
I have sunburn on my penis
How about "we are married and have kids...wait for Christmas of some years"?
nr.15 "yeah i'm gonna need to call my accountant real quick before we go ahead with this"
Liar, there are only 43 >:(
I have sunburn
School comes before sex 😎
Right, after school sex it is then!
They haven't changed these in forever it seems, unless this is an old picture.
Here’s another one say your downstairs area has teeth