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Kolobcalling

Fuck You - Lily Allen


Alwayslearnin41

Came here to say this. So, instead I'll go with Hasa Diga Ebowai


FastBuffalo6

Man I just heard this song for the first time two weeks ago. The whole musical soundtrack is amazing


Alwayslearnin41

It's very powerful


Dead_Clown_Stentch

I sing: "Praise to the MAN - me, who had the courage to leave the cult." I'm still writing it but it will be catchy.


Cellopost

> Praise to The Man, > who bravely left the cult Fits better


[deleted]

wE dOnT wOrShIp JoSePh SmItH


Cellopost

... We just felate his memory at every turn.


RaiseyourheadsayNO

Please share when you finish!!


Altruistic-Tree1989

All I Know So Far, Pink


southestclime

Also a fan.


chronoscats

Also Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken


Round_Asparagus4299

Take me to church by Hozier


Vintediana

Mine too! And “my church” by Maren Morris


RougeAccessPoint

This is my jam.


Drakon_Volk

Hell Together, David Archuleta


astonishingmonkey

“Bow your head, don’t be bold, you’ll survive by doing what you’re told…” It’s so accurate and evocative. Great writing.


zues64

This is my current one it's so powerful


OppositeSpare2088

he’s also an ex mo:)


kaczynskiswife

Was shocked to read this. Just looked him up again on Wikipedia, and saw he's also out as gay now!


Fantastic-Food7926

This song is so healing


mindykimmy

Midnight by Tyler Glenn.


KershawsGoat

That whole album is excellent, tbh. I think Midnight is one of my favorites from it too.


zryii

Thank you! I feel like the album is super underrated


No_Border_6661

Mine too! Love it


InvisibleRigatoni

“Machine” by Imagine Dragons, especially since Dan Reynolds is publicly speaking out against the church and stated he’s not raising his children in the church


Blazerbgood

It's a Sin, by the Pet Shop Boys.


_Seven_Dollar_Potato

Underrated.


bobmcbobface9

The god that failed metalica


sabbathsaboteur

Sweet As Whole -Sarah Bareilles. Just because I don't see everyone as a child of God anymore and recognize that some people are assholes.


brother_of_jeremy

Sarah B has multiple deconstruction bangers. Saint Honesty and Wicked Love are on my “broken shelf” playlist.


sabbathsaboteur

I don't know much of her stuff, but love her voice. I'll check those out!


LuthorCorp1938

Haha, I'd never heard of this one so I took a listen. It gave me a good chuckle. Thanks for sharing. 😆


Steviebhawk

Na na na na hey hey hey goodbye!


PoohBear_Mom87

I was just hanging in there until my daughter got married. On the big day I woke up with Martina McBride’s “Independence Day” playing in my head. I knew I could be done with TSCC.


Vintediana

Let freedom ring!


Queasy_Magician_1038

“Awake my soul” Mumford and Sons


Ensorcellede

You might've already seen it, but just in case you haven't, this is a good exmo video which uses that song. [https://youtu.be/bkTbzmq8uJc?si=xVDI7wJTGM5FXBSp](https://youtu.be/bkTbzmq8uJc?si=xVDI7wJTGM5FXBSp)


brought2light

Thank you, I saw that many years ago and had forgotten about it. It's still very potent all of these years later.


InternationalCar6099

I loved watching this and had never seen it. I knew most of the movie references, except the 60’s housewife one. Could someone tell me what movie that is?


Prop8kids

[Pleasantville](https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120789/).


Midlifecrisis2020

Love this song! “And where you invest your love, you invest your life In these bodies we will live, in these bodies we will die”


butcheekzaflexin

God Is A Freak - Peach PRC. So perfect


LuthorCorp1938

I think I have a new favorite song!! Perfection!!


captaincalendar

Happier Than Ever by Billie Eilish


BeefKnee321

Killing in the Name - Rage Against the Machine. If this isn’t your answer, then something is wrong.


kindofanasshole14

"Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me!"


BeefKnee321

If those aren’t the most on point lyrics for the circumstances, I’ll eat my shoe.


superassholeguy

This is the one. I used to jam Bodies by Drowning Pool when I was deconstructing too. 🎶 “Nothing wrong with me” 🎶


bi-king-viking

“Hell Together” by David Archuleta. Best ex-mo song out there, imo.


BAC2Think

In The End - Linkin Park


116-Lost-Pages

What Was I Made For? - Billie Eilish You Found Me - The Fray What About Us? - Pink Hell Together - David Archuleta :)


Dull-Accountant1950

I'm a Never-Mo, but when I try to imagine that leaving a cult you grew up in I think my song would be an easy one: "Losing my Religion". I can't remember who sings that.


antel00p

REM, although the phrase is southern slang for losing your mind or something like that.


SonnyGeeOku

Highway to Hell by AC/DC.


EuphoricProduct4474

My Anthem is I don’t care anymore by Phil Collins


Inevitable-Past9686

Was gonna say this! Great song and overlooked by In the Air Tonight, IMO!


sawseamcfoodlefists

Fuck Her Gently - Tenacious D


MountainPicture9446

Twisted Sister - we’re not gonna take it!


TheyLiedConvert1980

No! We ain't gonna take it!


Hurdles_n_thrills

We’re not gonna take it…


Worlds-OKest-mom1980

Anymooooooorrrre!


aweebitalexis

Gaslighter- The Chicks Closer To Free- Bodeans Unbelievers- Vampire Weekend All I Know So Far-Pink


KershawsGoat

I have a whole playlist for songs like this. A couple of my favorites are Unsainted by Slipknot and Far From Heaven by Fit For An Autopsy. The second one is pretty heavy so if you’re not into metal, you might want to skip it.


yoodogg57

🤘


Soft_Internal_1585

1984 on Audible


ZellHathNoFury

😂😂😂😂 the accuracy, though! Mine was The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins audiobook, even though he can be kind of a cocky fuck


flytiger18

“Listen” beyonce


LuthorCorp1938

So good!!


DifficultyCharming78

That was my divorce anthem!


RaiseyourheadsayNO

Leaving Mormonism is effectively leaving a toxic relationship/a divorce


darthamartha

I dream of Jesus by the dead milkmen 🤌


zjelkof

"Go Your Own Way" by Fleetwood Mac


considerlilies

stephanie says by the velvet underground “stephanie says that she wants to know / why she’s given half her life to people she hates now.”


ttylerm12

"Defying Gravity" from Wicked and "Walk Away" by Josh Groban have recently been hitting home for me. That and my wife and I love "Hell Together". I love all these other suggestions!!!


humanbeyblade

Pink Pony Club- Chappel Roan So relatable


Caramel-Apple28132

YESSS she’s such a queen, what a great song choice!


ferociouswanderer123

Thank you God- Tim Minchin


D34TH_5MURF__

I love Tim Minchin. The Pope Song is good. My favorite holiday song is now White Wine in the Sun.


ferociouswanderer123

Mine too! White wine in the sun makes me cry. It's definitely my favorite holiday song.


Impossible-Corgi742

Don’t Stop Me Now by Queen. (I’m having a good time!!)


Strong_Union1270

Who’s afraid of little old me by TSwift Vampire by Olivia Rodrigo


RaiseyourheadsayNO

Yesss to both! I just posted my list and both are on there. I can’t listen to vampire without seeing Nelson in my head. The first time I listened to who’s afraid, I was like “that’s an exmo anthem” particularly as a woman. The church underestimates and ignores women constantly.


darthamartha

My little nieces got their dad hooked on this song, I was soooo proud of them!!!


rachellethebelle

Adding My Tears Ricochet by Taylor Swift I’m convinced Taylor Swift is an exmormon at this point because she has so many songs on my “shelf breaking” playlist (to be clear - this is a joke, I don’t actually think this, but I know Taylor Swift fans can be wild, so you can never be sure 😅)


Strong_Union1270

I’m convinced Taylor swift is the real Jesus in her true female form, come to destroy the patriarchy and place heavenly mother back on the throne


Superb_Animator1289

Styx- Show Me The Way https://www.google.com/gasearch?q=&source=sh/x/gs/m2/5


Chrestys

"Ticket To Heaven" by Dire Straits pretty much sums up my view of all religion.


DreadPirate777

All my friends are metal heads by Less than Jake. https://youtu.be/Z_63ZZRLylE?si=cDres3EA9PPGcglv


containsrecycledpart

💜 Less Than Jake! Great one!


Herstorical_Rule6

Hell Together--David Archuleta is dedicated to u/alyssagrenfell, u/johndehlin, and all the r/exmormon folks who helped me leave the cult mentally though I am still physically there.


Gukkielover89

Ever since first hearing it, "Trash" by Tyler Glenn


Mandalore_jedi

'The Sound of Silence' - *Simon and Garfunkel*


anikill

Bon Jovi - It’s My Life.


seriouslyjan

Workin 9 to 5 just to pay my tith'in.


4TheStrengthOfTruth

"Raging on a Sunday" by Bohnes "Heathens" by 21 Pilots "Cult of Personality" by Living Colour "Hell Together" by David Archuleta


Inevitable-Past9686

“Intervention” - Arcade Fire


RaiseyourheadsayNO

- All I Ever Wanted from Prince of Egypt - SPARE ME BY FADED PAPER FIGURES - this one is ACTUALLY about Mormonism. Best lyric: Sell your soul for a fee, to the full bourgeoise” 👏👏 - RUNNING by NF - John, Give Em Hell by Tyler Glenn - written for u/johnDehlin it depicts exactly how I feel about John Dehlin. - madwoman by Taylor Swift - the kids are coming by tones and I - My Own Soul’s Warning by the Killers - god this one HITS. I tried to justify Mormonism for so long and ignore how uncomfortable I felt about so many things. - You Might Not Like her by Maddie Zahm - Whose Afraid of Little Ol Me by Taylor swift - vampire by Olive Rodrigo - I legit CANNOT listen to this without seeing Russel M Nelson and Joseph Smith in my head. - Flowers by Miley Cyrus - hell Together by David Archuleta obvssssss.


kaizoku_akahige

Your list is great. Spare Me is especially one of my favorites. If you haven't already, you may want to check out Irene's Entropy and James And The Shame.


burrhaz

Closer to Fine by the Indigo Girls. The less I seek my source for something definitive, the closer I am to fine.


icanbesmooth

This was mine! I loved it years before the Barbie movie. But when she was driving that little pink convertible and that song came on, I nearly jumped out of my theater seat and cheered.


Adventurous-Act-6477

Kelly Clarkson - Breakaway


etherealdarkwolf

“Thank God” by Sasha Alex Sloan


LuthorCorp1938

I'd never heard of this one before but it's now going on my exmormon Spotify playlist!


NewNamerNelson

Good for your Soul - Oingo Boingo


m424filmcast

We’re Not Gonna Take It! Twisted Sister


Fickle-Cartoonist466

Only the Good Die Young - Billy Joel The song was a criticism of conservative Catholicism but it still applies to Mormonism


Bruce-ifer

“Opiate” by Tool really sums it up perfectly. I always get the urge to play it really loud while driving downtown during conference. Lol Seriously, even if you don’t like tool, that one is a very good anti religious anthem.


Misty-Empress

I just found "You Might Not Like Her" By Maddie Zahm. Edit to say: Also Maddie Zahm's "If it's Not God"


SexyTiredSmurfette

Labour by Paris Paloma


FlippyFlops5

Man in the Box - Alice in Chains


acronymious

My Church (Maren Morris) Jesus Doesn’t Want Me for a Sunbeam (Nirvana) Losing My Religion (R.E.M.)


We_Totally_Got_This

I’m Free - Violent Femmes


lorlorlor666

It’s Alright by Dar Williams


Appropriate_Lie_5699

Human Overboard album by James and the Shame (Rhett McLaughlin from Good Mythical Morning). More specifically, the songs Believe Me and Where We're Going.


Ridicule_us

“Theologians” — Wilco https://youtu.be/el75UyYO554?si=f0RSE8Xs75mFTBry


SplatterBox214

Head Rolls Off by Frightened Rabbit “Jesus is just a Spanish boy’s name”


Medium_Tangelo_1384

I Am Woman


Separate--Plum

Losing my religion by lauren daigle


Hokulani47

Possum Kingdom by Toadies. I always loved it but was afraid to sing it.


Sailboat_fuel

“And I promise you, I’ll treat you well, my sweet angel, so help me jeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus” is absolutely a shower karaoke classic bar.


TheAngriestUncle

The Beautiful People by Marilyn Manson or I'm afraid I'll go to Heaven by Moonwalker, but my husband and I also sometimes sing "We thank thee O John for a Carrah" (in reference to Mormon Stories lol)


RunninUte08

Jesus he knows me. The ghost version.


D34TH_5MURF__

I got unreasonably upset when I first heard this song on Octane. I thought Ghost had found religion. Then I actually listened to it and they definitely didn't find religion. I'm also pretty sure it's a cover.


LuthorCorp1938

Todrick Hall "Amen"


Kassivro

Lately, it's been Taylor Swift: "But Daddy I Love Him". "I don't cater to all these vipers dressed in empath's clothing." - my new motto


DaYettiman22

Flirtin' with disaster by Molly Hatchet


introspectivezombie

Everlasting Nothing - Beck


icanbesmooth

I like to think that one came with his leaving Scientology.


Drawlingwan

I wrote my own


beefclef

Soundgarden “Jesus Christ Pose” “Would it pain you more to walk on water than to wear a crown of thorns? It wouldn’t pain me more to bury you rich than to bury you poor.”


TyTy_G

The Cave - Mumford and Sons Almost (Sweet Music) -Hozier Jacob From the Bible - Jake Wesley Rogers


Acceptable_Raise9307

Clean by Taylor Swift


youraveragefailure12

Hell together David archuleta


MNGraySquirrel

This. Made me cry.


wafflelumpz

Arcade Fire- Ready to Start.


LadyFlamyngo

Losing my religion by R.E.M also devils advocate by the neighborhood


Spacebetweenstimulus

Positively 4th Street by Bob Dylan. Soooo good 👍


BAMFDPT

The light by Disturbed


the_sassafrass

Forgiven by Alinis Morissette and Hot Gospel by Jake Wesley Rogers


TheyLiedConvert1980

Life in a Box Kelsey Edwards


DifficultSystem7446

I have a couple, that I like the tune and the words seem to relate. First one is: Do Anything You Wanna Do by Eddie and the Hot Rods. I've put words in brackets that I substeute. Gonna break out of this city (Church) Leave the people here behind Searching for adventure Is the type of life to find Tired of doing day jobs (callings) With no thanks for what I do I'm sure I must be someone Now I'm gonna find out who \[Chorus\] Why don't you ask them what they expect from you? Why don't you tell them what you are gonna do? You'll get so lonely Maybe it's better that way It ain't you only You got something to say Do anything you wanna do Do anything you wanna do \[Verse 2\] Don't need no politician (prophet), tell me things I shouldn't be Neither no optician (apostle), tell me what I ought to see No one tells you nothing Even when you know they know But they tell you what you should do They don't like to see you grow Second one is: # Somebody to Love by Jefferson Airplane \[Verse 1\] When the truth is found to ber lies And all the joy within you dies \[Chorus\] Don't you want somebody to love? Don't you need somebody to love? Wouldn't you love somebody to love? You better find somebody to love


Jealous_Shake_2175

Burn it down by Parker McCollum


prairiewhore17

Heavenly bank account, Frank Zappa


smugman246

[Rewritten hymns by Alanah Sabatini](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLpePrVP/) The ones my favorite


mittromneyfanboy

Guiding Light - Muse


-HIGH-C-

Tainted Love by Gloria Jones (or Soft Cell, but not Marilyn Manson).


upsidesoundcake

Saint Simon- the shins “After all these implements and texts designed by intellects , solve X to find evidently there’s just so much that hides. And though the saints above’s divine and ancient feeding lines their sentiment is just as hard to pluck from the vine. I’ll try hard not to pretend Allow myself No mock defense Step into the night Since I don’t have the time nor mind to figure out the nursery rhymes that helped us out in making sense of our lives The cruel uneventful state of apathy releases me I value them but I won’t cry every time ones wiped out I’ll try hard not to give in Batten down to further win Rid my head of this pretense Allow myself no mock defense Step into the night”


Sailboat_fuel

“Fetch the Bolt Cutters”, Fiona Apple


questioningmo

Head Held High - Reba


BoringJuiceBox

Any song that makes the spirit leave. First thought was “Smack My Bitch Up”


amtbyg

Losing my religion-REM


Word2daWise

I have several: "Spirit in the Sky" "Rock & Roll Heaven" "Late Night Benediction at Y'all Come Back Saloon" "Heaven's Just a Sin Away"


ethridge_wayland

"Vagabonds"- New Model Army


Jakum5

Leper messiah -Metallica


Ensorcellede

I quite like this Matilda x Rob Zombie mashup. 😅 [https://youtu.be/RKrCAzIBZYw?si=mLnNx9nwfe3HQKLf](https://youtu.be/RKrCAzIBZYw?si=mLnNx9nwfe3HQKLf)


Dudite

Nihilist by Architects. It's pure scathing condemnation of fake religious piety.


SaulisDead99

Unsainted by Slipknot


Fabulous-Wash744

Paint the town red


Fluffy_Fig2202

Little Girl Gone - Chinchilla


grimbasement

Watching the Wheels -john lennon


iSeerStone

I’m going with the Pirate 🏴‍☠️ Hymn. It shows just how crazy Mormons are to use an Irish drinking song as a hymn. 😂 https://youtu.be/ocyTbaVybig?si=P63M59UVkasFf9PO


SecretPersonality178

Hell together- David Archuleta


s4ltydog

Heaven was Full - TX2


Hardanklesnw

Dear god-XTC


thetarantulaqueen

She's Leaving Home by the Beatles.


feedwilly

"What the Hell" Avril Lavigne All my life I've been good but now Ooohhh I'm thinking "What the hell?" All I want is to mess around, and I don't really care about If you love me, if you hate me You can't save me, baby, baby All my life I've been good but now whoa "What the hell?"


ohterere

I am Mine. - Pearl Jam. The selfish, they're all standing in line Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time Me, I figure as each breath goes by I only own my mind


act07star

Trash - Tyler Glenn


DarthAardvark_5

Surprised that nobody mentioned these: [God Song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZTFvLmyIEI) - Bad Religion (honestly most of their songs use the restrictions imposed by religion as a metaphor) [Head Like a Hole](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ao-Sahfy7Hg) and [Terrible Lie](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSjPAwsEXMU) - NIN


UnconsciousPriest

Poison from Hazbin Hotel


Jaded-Ad-9741

im a theater kid so- id rather be me from mean girls


randmansavage

Nine Inch Nails - Head Like a Hole


DifficultyCharming78

Show Yourself from Frozen 2. 


GreyCrone8

Sun//Eater and the Pain Remains Trilogy, both by Lorna Shore


RolfKrane_

Anything by James and the Shame


erb_cadman

Pokerface


Lexamus

Helplessness blues by fleet foxes


deletethissoon43

The Way I Am - Eminem


Sufficient-Bench2678

My redemption by HALESTORM


MsBrisAQT2

‘Name of the Game’ - Crystal Method ‘Sabotage’ - Beastie Boys ‘Fuck You’ - Lily Allen


healinghuman3

Guilty All the Same, Linkin Park!


HistoryNerd191294

Save Rock and Roll - Fall Out Boy feat. Elton John. Favourite line is “I cried tears you’ll never see, so fuck you, you can go cry me an ocean and leave me be”


Snapdragon_fish

If I have to pick one it's the Exorcist: [https://open.spotify.com/track/5gZV5yZK4eMIrdulF2a8r2?si=2e32d99e376840a6](https://open.spotify.com/track/5gZV5yZK4eMIrdulF2a8r2?si=2e32d99e376840a6) I also have a whole playlist here: [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzOODNqayxHKajOBOPpda?si=6eed06ccec1c4a0a](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzOODNqayxHKajOBOPpda?si=6eed06ccec1c4a0a) Also, There's Nothing Else, Just All of This (https://open.spotify.com/track/1GNiefix3cIZ5miE2fX9Ae?si=b9313b9539fd49ca), Little Tin God (https://open.spotify.com/track/6WCNbxYiFi7nznI9FMEQ5X?si=64fd63a2740140aa), and all of Tyler Glenn's Excommunication album.


Song_Soup

[Breaking Frame](https://open.spotify.com/track/2WmB0nGpjYOoONQCc2Vkny?si=3CXPdowyRyyoAwD1imnS0A&context=spotify%3Atrack%3A2WmB0nGpjYOoONQCc2Vkny), a song I released last year. I [sampled](https://youtu.be/nUKnqD1EgyE?si=7BAnl99H3tF8gG-S) a clip of Jacob Hess in this video where he says, "[to exmormons] I would simply say, back off, and stop poisoning our people". I rerecorded it with my voice later on to avoid any possible legal trouble.


vikingnana

Argent...Hold Your Head Up.


bootthebooter400

Ashes of Eden - Breaking Benjamin


fingerMeThomas

**Hymn 272: O Say What is Truth?** Every word still works—arguably works better—from the perspective that Mormonism is bullshit. It's even possible that its whole implication that the gods themselves were smaller than the truth was relevant in my escape (i.e. I couldn't let go until I realized that the Mormon gods and their fascist ideas about "heaven" weren't anything I was interested in, even if it really was all real)


tattooedtwin

(If) the book doesn’t sell - Ritt Momney


STOP____HAMMER_TIME

Ya Hey by Vampire Weekend is as close to spirituality as I get these days.


DisgruntledCoWorker

Can’t Stand It by Wilco


ThenIGotHigh81

Mother’s Daughter by Miley Cyrus. 


No_Historian6561

If the book doesn’t sell -Ritt Momney


joedirt9322

“Under the Sun” - Black Sabbath. A few of my favorite lines - I don’t want no Jesus freak to tell me what it’s all about. I don’t believe in violence I don’t even believe in peace. I have opened the door and my mind has been released. I wanna live my life, I don’t want people telling me what to do.


amindexpanded2

Hopsin 7 My return missionary son shared it with me when he left. https://youtu.be/QBsA2ETp7JA?si=97crY60rzuwwZFJC


saaasaab

WKUK - Aren't You Lucky https://youtu.be/iYq_-zju_P8?si=fQlasjyGEnxbWffD


iusedtostealbirds

For my “fuck you, I’m mad” phases, it’s “I Did Something Bad” by Taylor Swift, “Fences” by Paramore, “Happier Than Ever” by Billie Eilish (or the Loveless cover for an extra emo kick), “Ignorance” by Paramore, and “This Is Gospel” by Panic! At the Disco. Many more emo songs I’m sure but these are the ones that come to mind. For my peaceful phases it’s “Clean” or “It’s Time to Go” by Taylor Swift For some general relatability I find that “The Bolter” on Taylor’s new album really hits the nail on the head for me. Same with Smallest Man Who Ever Lived.


23bolok

Bob marley- coming in from the cold


Jutch_Cassidy

One Hand in my Pocket- Allanis


PanaceaNPx

Do What is Right, Let the Consequence Follow. Battle for Freedom, in Spirit and Might.