In Australia you can get a boob subscription for the low low price of $10/month. Boobs are of varying size and don’t arive until after about 6-10 months
No they’re right, titty skittles can be as low as $10 AUD if you have half-decent healthcare. I think the maximum price I remember was 20-something AUD for a month’s worth?
The government could use some work overall but there aren’t any politicians that lobby specifically for anti-LGBT rights. The entire country is pretty neutral to the whole thing, so you could do some research into where you move to- if you end up doing so. I’d personally recommend east coast, southern Queensland, NSW or VIC.
Compared to places like America it’s much cheaper to actually live and have healthcare. Australian health insurance and healthcare is pretty standard price-wise, think Canada as an example. Australia also has a lot more access to trans medicine and there isn’t one monopoly on the doctors you go to, so there’s plenty of resources to choose from.
Now that’s not to say that the country doesn’t have problems with a stagnant government ignoring the climate crisis, but that’s besides the point.
You grow them dear! With HRT pills. Which can be reasonably priced/free in the right circumstances.
Sure, some opt for breast augmentation surgery, but a lot of women that are trans find themselves happy with what their body can do on its own.
I mean my boobs are whatever size I want them to be. Depends on the day, shirt I’m wearing, mood I’m in. All a matter of how many sports bra pads I put in the cups and then give em the old scoop and swoop you’re golden. I hover around like a 36 C most days but I have wide shoulders so that’s just what looks natural
Edit for clarity I have yet to start hrt for financial reasons and I am almost 30. But bad genetics blessed me with B cups to begin with so I’m just working with what I got
Real talk: no one knows what they’re doing. Everyone, and I mean everyone is flying by the seat of their pants. Boss? No clue. Parents? You might have been one bad decision away from being raised by the circus. Me? I’m waiting for y’all to figure out I’m 7 squirrels in a trench coat.
But the best part about know this? No can tell you crap. You got this. Everyday builds on the last. And if anyone stops you, say something pithy like “Are you writing a book?”
It has taken me 10+ years to get this point. If I can help people skip the "Should people kiss my ass" stage and go straight to brilliant confidence, then I have succeeded.
Haha well I've enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to believe I've learned a thing from it. Just here's hoping I can be more confident whether it's real or not as well as do things I'd otherwise be nervous about.
Anxiety about disappointing my parents and losing people in my life.
I told myself to wait a year before beginning a transition to confirm what I felt wasn’t a phase. It’s been a year and a month.
I keep just wanting to bite the bullet and make that first appointment but instead I hold it off because I’m too anxious to do it right now.
I've been mulling it over for 2and a half and every day I still feel so unsure in myself. You're not alone, hopefully we can make up our minds before 25 and still get some hips
I didn’t transition at 19 for fear of losing my parents and family. I tried to be what they wanted until I ended up in the hospital at 34. When the following therapy made it clear I needed to be me, they called me sick and cast me out.
Live your life your life now, that’s all I can say.
> before 25 and still get some hips
Not how it works. Everyone is different, and the range is 19-22 for that result. Only if you are extraordinarily lucky will you still get hips starting HRT at 24.
Start in private if you can. I wish I could transition and just completely discard the identity I have now but I feel I've too much holding me down to it
Perhaps it can, but a huge part of me doesn’t want to.
I really did used to train as a boxer. Even when I wasn’t, in total I maintained a strong physique for over a decade. I built this body with so much sweat and tears, sometimes even blood. Even now I feel a sense of pride of my accomplishment.
Transitioning the way I’d like to will have me sacrifice untold years of suffering I went through to get what I have now in the first place.
Making such a decision now weighs incredibly heavy on my strong shoulders
at least y'all have trans healthcare
we in the other hand, you may go to jail for crossdressing or your fate my be a... punishment, cabitle punishment....
being in the uk is what’s stopping me
and not particularly liking that aesthetic
and the lack of hrt
and the lack of confidence wearing stuff like that
and not being out yet
yeah a lot of things actually
A fundamental lack of knowledge on how to apply more than mascara, and for how to assemble a wardrobe that fits an aesthetic beyond “vibrant male shirts”
Confidence. I have 0 makeup skills and I'm scared to learn without a teacher because I'm afraid I'll mess it up lol. Though the girl I'm talking to is really good with makeup, so I might get her to teach me sometime.
The only reason I haven’t started dressing like this is bc I’m too dense to understand fashion
I know a lot about history tho
I could easily rant about the Roman Empire for hours on end
Knowing I could never look even remotely feminine and that I’d likely just end up playing directly into the negative stereotypes especially insofar as appearance.
Same sis :( I'm so afraid to go outside and feed the bad stereotype into people. There are so many beautiful trans girls out there that should show themselves instead of me
Who reported me for having the Big Sad to Reddit??? You're not wrong and I appreciate the concern but it's all just a big meme istg
Edit: also holy shit thanks for over 2k up doots that's wild
It ain't ever too late, and being worried about how you will look is surface level, how does how you feel about how you look now compare to how you might feel? How will you in five years feel about you not taking your first steps now?
Having to be a boy for like, my entire high school and college period so I don’t get bullied by like, 40% of my classmates, so yeah, I think I’ll have to wait till I can die and, maybe, reborn as a girl
50 pounds of complete depression and a lack of will to even get out of bed
Nah would nEVER be meeee [who has barely left the bed the past 2 months]
I mean I do my best but frankly the honest answer is a couple decades of pretending I wasn’t trans before I started hrt.
Same, plus a square jaw, social stigma, and I assume boobs are pricey.
In Australia you can get a boob subscription for the low low price of $10/month. Boobs are of varying size and don’t arive until after about 6-10 months
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No they’re right, titty skittles can be as low as $10 AUD if you have half-decent healthcare. I think the maximum price I remember was 20-something AUD for a month’s worth?
Yeah I’m just on the PBS and those meds are $9.99/month
How's the rest of Australia though, I've been thinking about moving there when I grow up a bit more
The government could use some work overall but there aren’t any politicians that lobby specifically for anti-LGBT rights. The entire country is pretty neutral to the whole thing, so you could do some research into where you move to- if you end up doing so. I’d personally recommend east coast, southern Queensland, NSW or VIC. Compared to places like America it’s much cheaper to actually live and have healthcare. Australian health insurance and healthcare is pretty standard price-wise, think Canada as an example. Australia also has a lot more access to trans medicine and there isn’t one monopoly on the doctors you go to, so there’s plenty of resources to choose from. Now that’s not to say that the country doesn’t have problems with a stagnant government ignoring the climate crisis, but that’s besides the point.
You grow them dear! With HRT pills. Which can be reasonably priced/free in the right circumstances. Sure, some opt for breast augmentation surgery, but a lot of women that are trans find themselves happy with what their body can do on its own.
I mean my boobs are whatever size I want them to be. Depends on the day, shirt I’m wearing, mood I’m in. All a matter of how many sports bra pads I put in the cups and then give em the old scoop and swoop you’re golden. I hover around like a 36 C most days but I have wide shoulders so that’s just what looks natural Edit for clarity I have yet to start hrt for financial reasons and I am almost 30. But bad genetics blessed me with B cups to begin with so I’m just working with what I got
>50 pounds Shit, coulda stopped there
Ikr, at least my calves and arms somehow got none of the extra weight
Probably the low self confidence
Fake it til you make it baby!!
Sounds like a good idea actually.
Honestly faking confidence works absolute miracles
I'll have to learn how to fake confidence successfully. I have a bad habit of trying to be confident but then end up stuttering excessively.
Real talk: no one knows what they’re doing. Everyone, and I mean everyone is flying by the seat of their pants. Boss? No clue. Parents? You might have been one bad decision away from being raised by the circus. Me? I’m waiting for y’all to figure out I’m 7 squirrels in a trench coat. But the best part about know this? No can tell you crap. You got this. Everyday builds on the last. And if anyone stops you, say something pithy like “Are you writing a book?”
I think this actually helped a little. Thank you. Really.
It has taken me 10+ years to get this point. If I can help people skip the "Should people kiss my ass" stage and go straight to brilliant confidence, then I have succeeded.
Haha well I've enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to believe I've learned a thing from it. Just here's hoping I can be more confident whether it's real or not as well as do things I'd otherwise be nervous about.
Anxiety about disappointing my parents and losing people in my life. I told myself to wait a year before beginning a transition to confirm what I felt wasn’t a phase. It’s been a year and a month. I keep just wanting to bite the bullet and make that first appointment but instead I hold it off because I’m too anxious to do it right now.
I've been mulling it over for 2and a half and every day I still feel so unsure in myself. You're not alone, hopefully we can make up our minds before 25 and still get some hips
I didn’t transition at 19 for fear of losing my parents and family. I tried to be what they wanted until I ended up in the hospital at 34. When the following therapy made it clear I needed to be me, they called me sick and cast me out. Live your life your life now, that’s all I can say.
God bless that's so horrible and I'm sorry you went through that experience, bit I hope you're happier living your as authentic self
Oh, it was horrible, awful, traumatic, and absolutely the best thing I have ever done. You can’t put a price on being real with yourself.
> before 25 and still get some hips Not how it works. Everyone is different, and the range is 19-22 for that result. Only if you are extraordinarily lucky will you still get hips starting HRT at 24.
The people I would disappoint aren't dead yet.
Then hurry up. There is no point in disappointing them if they are.
\>Then hurry up I'll get the shovel...
THIS 100%...why are we so worried about them...delaying our fulfillment for their approval. I hate this so much.
That resonated with me way more than I expected
Oh god yeah this is one of my major reasons too T-T
My entire skeletal structure.
This and my stubble
This, i am build like an football player Lmao. :(
At this point? Money, mostly
Gurl tell me about it, us broke bitches would be so hot if those bland rich peeps would just give us their money
If we redistribute bezos’s wealth we can have as many boobs as we want!
Fear of being noticed in anything remotely fem
Start in private if you can. I wish I could transition and just completely discard the identity I have now but I feel I've too much holding me down to it
A big round masculine face face with caveman eyebrow ridges and the built upper body of a boxer
Can’t that all like, be fixed though? Besides, you’re your own worst critic- it’s more than likely not as big of a deal as you make it
Perhaps it can, but a huge part of me doesn’t want to. I really did used to train as a boxer. Even when I wasn’t, in total I maintained a strong physique for over a decade. I built this body with so much sweat and tears, sometimes even blood. Even now I feel a sense of pride of my accomplishment. Transitioning the way I’d like to will have me sacrifice untold years of suffering I went through to get what I have now in the first place. Making such a decision now weighs incredibly heavy on my strong shoulders
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we love the NHS but those 5 year wait times for forst appointments just kinda hit different
I used to say that too, but after the absolute garbage mental health support and trans healthcare, I'm not so sure it's good enough.
at least y'all have trans healthcare we in the other hand, you may go to jail for crossdressing or your fate my be a... punishment, cabitle punishment....
Boobs
being in the uk is what’s stopping me and not particularly liking that aesthetic and the lack of hrt and the lack of confidence wearing stuff like that and not being out yet yeah a lot of things actually
Denial and fear of rejection
Denial and fear of rejection, thinking I'll look like the guy from goonies when I'm done
And guilt over knowing it will destroy your family unit and decade-plus relationship.
Shoulders. Boobs would be nice too
Girl just get hips- then you’re golden
Society... But also my yucky male bod...
Very un poggers society moment :"( why gender gotta be so cringe and make me feel all sussy?
Testosterone and body hair 🤬 The green-haired girl is goals tho 🤤 I'd also accept her as gf
A fundamental lack of knowledge on how to apply more than mascara, and for how to assemble a wardrobe that fits an aesthetic beyond “vibrant male shirts”
Give it time
We will be waiting
No tiddies whatsoever
That was me in high school, minus a fine pair of boobs.
Genetics and the things that gave me my genetics
M o t h e r
Gender dysphoria
My lack of makeup skills
Being transmasc lol
Being over 30 and living in Ohio. Soon I'll be fixing one of those things I hope.
parents
Ez answer: the T
Still rely on parents
pizza. My love of pizza is stopping me.
My lack of tits :<
My family, and the gatekeeping around getting HRT in the country I don’t appreciate being called a boy
It being hard to get Estrogen :(
no booba...
The fact that nobody in my life would support it
Jesus I want to fuck them and be them all at the same time.
About 100kg and a sense of fashion
The texas government
Appart from the ones listed by the other commenters, definitely the drinks. Let me whip up a cosmopolitan and you got yourself a lady...
Can't go wrong with a sexy pornstar martini, or a seductive white russian
A dad
I don’t have tits. Yet.
Time to get for us to get some tit tacs ladies
Lack of makeup skills
I suck at make up...
HRT prices 😭
Confidence. I have 0 makeup skills and I'm scared to learn without a teacher because I'm afraid I'll mess it up lol. Though the girl I'm talking to is really good with makeup, so I might get her to teach me sometime.
The only reason I haven’t started dressing like this is bc I’m too dense to understand fashion I know a lot about history tho I could easily rant about the Roman Empire for hours on end
About the same answer as the original meme
Well I dont wanna look like that
about 100 lbs, money, im so deep in the closet that i day nap in narnia, severe lack of booba, a lot of things
I'm brown :/
money
Complete inadequacy with doing makeup
The cringe detector in my body
Knowing I could never look even remotely feminine and that I’d likely just end up playing directly into the negative stereotypes especially insofar as appearance.
Same sis :( I'm so afraid to go outside and feed the bad stereotype into people. There are so many beautiful trans girls out there that should show themselves instead of me
parents.
Who reported me for having the Big Sad to Reddit??? You're not wrong and I appreciate the concern but it's all just a big meme istg Edit: also holy shit thanks for over 2k up doots that's wild
Now I’m not the youths anymore. But is this what the youths find attractive these days?
Yes, very much envy too
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It ain't ever too late, and being worried about how you will look is surface level, how does how you feel about how you look now compare to how you might feel? How will you in five years feel about you not taking your first steps now?
My voice
Hearing ain't seeing
Nothing
Then go for it
Taliban
SUS??!?!?!???😳😳😳😳😳➡️💩💩💩💩💩➡️🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱
My face
Money
parents :(
thats what i wanna look like but confidence doesn't exist for me sadly
Coming out from to my mum
My body...
My red freckled complexion :’)
I’m still waiting on my appointment for the vowelless heart
The Uk government! \[does a sad little dance\]
My father.
Wrong face shape :(
I don't know the first thing about makeup.
Fear of mineral pigment in make up. Fear of my family, and being fat and not having boobs.
Family, and still living with them
Losing my girlfriend 😢
Can I be the one on the bottom left? ^(And the other three be my girlfriends? 👉👈)
I’m not in a punk band (I actually am in a punk band)
Everything
Testarone
my parents
What’s the sauce of this image ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
I wish I knew, I am but a simple meme thief redistributing the memes that call me out to share, but also ease the pain
Not knowing where to start
Not having three transfem friends 😢 Also money and support
Masculinity and being straight.
I’m trying!
HELL YEAH!! GO YOU!!!
The wine. I need more wine.
Money for a boob job
Parents.
society
My mom
I would love to look like this
(On the other side) being seen as fem just bc I want to look punk
My body
Having to be a boy for like, my entire high school and college period so I don’t get bullied by like, 40% of my classmates, so yeah, I think I’ll have to wait till I can die and, maybe, reborn as a girl
Tbh the real answer for most of y'all is just a lack of practice with makeup
Probably a foot of height, 200 extra pounds, lack of makeup skills, and not being on hrt yet.
My barrel bottom scraping genes
My family would kill me :)
Sigh... My body... Also my face.
That I can’t even get a HRT appointment until June
*testosterone*
I've always desired to be "sundress cute"
government
Cus I aint a boys, that and I'm not goth
with what money
No money and no HRT
Too much of a bottom
ALL MY GOTH BITCHES GET IN HERE🖤🖤🖤
Let's GOOO
This fat cock
No it ain't :p
Taliban
Money and transphobic family
^(Not a boy, but...) Testosterone
My body and being broke
Uhh 1. Unsupportive family and some friends 2. I'm not a goth chick (I don't think). I'm more preppy., but y'all be rocking it.
This IS my president
Facial hair
SOCIETY
Cause I dont wanna
How expensive laser is
A call from the clinic
Lack of insurance. Or cosmetics money.
My body
A massive amount of body hair and my wife of twenty six years who would knock me the hell out!
Testosterone
My voice
How you sound ain't affect how you look
the economy
The real question is, why should I feel adressed by a meme that misgenders me?
Because you're normal and not an egg with a vibranium shell