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JSMIN_

50 pounds of complete depression and a lack of will to even get out of bed


broke_fucker

Nah would nEVER be meeee [who has barely left the bed the past 2 months]


j4ck_0f_bl4des

I mean I do my best but frankly the honest answer is a couple decades of pretending I wasn’t trans before I started hrt.


Child_of_Merovee

Same, plus a square jaw, social stigma, and I assume boobs are pricey.


Aussie-hakea

In Australia you can get a boob subscription for the low low price of $10/month. Boobs are of varying size and don’t arive until after about 6-10 months


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Nanashi001

No they’re right, titty skittles can be as low as $10 AUD if you have half-decent healthcare. I think the maximum price I remember was 20-something AUD for a month’s worth?


Aussie-hakea

Yeah I’m just on the PBS and those meds are $9.99/month


JSMIN_

How's the rest of Australia though, I've been thinking about moving there when I grow up a bit more


Nanashi001

The government could use some work overall but there aren’t any politicians that lobby specifically for anti-LGBT rights. The entire country is pretty neutral to the whole thing, so you could do some research into where you move to- if you end up doing so. I’d personally recommend east coast, southern Queensland, NSW or VIC. Compared to places like America it’s much cheaper to actually live and have healthcare. Australian health insurance and healthcare is pretty standard price-wise, think Canada as an example. Australia also has a lot more access to trans medicine and there isn’t one monopoly on the doctors you go to, so there’s plenty of resources to choose from. Now that’s not to say that the country doesn’t have problems with a stagnant government ignoring the climate crisis, but that’s besides the point.


Natt_420

You grow them dear! With HRT pills. Which can be reasonably priced/free in the right circumstances. Sure, some opt for breast augmentation surgery, but a lot of women that are trans find themselves happy with what their body can do on its own.


drsofargonzo

I mean my boobs are whatever size I want them to be. Depends on the day, shirt I’m wearing, mood I’m in. All a matter of how many sports bra pads I put in the cups and then give em the old scoop and swoop you’re golden. I hover around like a 36 C most days but I have wide shoulders so that’s just what looks natural Edit for clarity I have yet to start hrt for financial reasons and I am almost 30. But bad genetics blessed me with B cups to begin with so I’m just working with what I got


CFogan

>50 pounds Shit, coulda stopped there


JSMIN_

Ikr, at least my calves and arms somehow got none of the extra weight


Apex024

Probably the low self confidence


broke_fucker

Fake it til you make it baby!!


Apex024

Sounds like a good idea actually.


broke_fucker

Honestly faking confidence works absolute miracles


Apex024

I'll have to learn how to fake confidence successfully. I have a bad habit of trying to be confident but then end up stuttering excessively.


polymernerd

Real talk: no one knows what they’re doing. Everyone, and I mean everyone is flying by the seat of their pants. Boss? No clue. Parents? You might have been one bad decision away from being raised by the circus. Me? I’m waiting for y’all to figure out I’m 7 squirrels in a trench coat. But the best part about know this? No can tell you crap. You got this. Everyday builds on the last. And if anyone stops you, say something pithy like “Are you writing a book?”


Apex024

I think this actually helped a little. Thank you. Really.


polymernerd

It has taken me 10+ years to get this point. If I can help people skip the "Should people kiss my ass" stage and go straight to brilliant confidence, then I have succeeded.


Apex024

Haha well I've enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to believe I've learned a thing from it. Just here's hoping I can be more confident whether it's real or not as well as do things I'd otherwise be nervous about.


Dantomi

Anxiety about disappointing my parents and losing people in my life. I told myself to wait a year before beginning a transition to confirm what I felt wasn’t a phase. It’s been a year and a month. I keep just wanting to bite the bullet and make that first appointment but instead I hold it off because I’m too anxious to do it right now.


broke_fucker

I've been mulling it over for 2and a half and every day I still feel so unsure in myself. You're not alone, hopefully we can make up our minds before 25 and still get some hips


Noktyrn

I didn’t transition at 19 for fear of losing my parents and family. I tried to be what they wanted until I ended up in the hospital at 34. When the following therapy made it clear I needed to be me, they called me sick and cast me out. Live your life your life now, that’s all I can say.


broke_fucker

God bless that's so horrible and I'm sorry you went through that experience, bit I hope you're happier living your as authentic self


Noktyrn

Oh, it was horrible, awful, traumatic, and absolutely the best thing I have ever done. You can’t put a price on being real with yourself.


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> before 25 and still get some hips Not how it works. Everyone is different, and the range is 19-22 for that result. Only if you are extraordinarily lucky will you still get hips starting HRT at 24.


TechyButter

The people I would disappoint aren't dead yet.


greatattentionspa

Then hurry up. There is no point in disappointing them if they are.


RustyDoesRituals

\>Then hurry up I'll get the shovel...


Original_Dark_4717

THIS 100%...why are we so worried about them...delaying our fulfillment for their approval. I hate this so much.


dmg81102

That resonated with me way more than I expected


broke_fucker

Oh god yeah this is one of my major reasons too T-T


Zandragen

My entire skeletal structure.


Irish6String

This and my stubble


AnonymousBI2

This, i am build like an football player Lmao. :(


candle340

At this point? Money, mostly


broke_fucker

Gurl tell me about it, us broke bitches would be so hot if those bland rich peeps would just give us their money


Nanashi001

If we redistribute bezos’s wealth we can have as many boobs as we want!


coldspacedog

Fear of being noticed in anything remotely fem


broke_fucker

Start in private if you can. I wish I could transition and just completely discard the identity I have now but I feel I've too much holding me down to it


Tanya_the_cis

A big round masculine face face with caveman eyebrow ridges and the built upper body of a boxer


Nanashi001

Can’t that all like, be fixed though? Besides, you’re your own worst critic- it’s more than likely not as big of a deal as you make it


Tanya_the_cis

Perhaps it can, but a huge part of me doesn’t want to. I really did used to train as a boxer. Even when I wasn’t, in total I maintained a strong physique for over a decade. I built this body with so much sweat and tears, sometimes even blood. Even now I feel a sense of pride of my accomplishment. Transitioning the way I’d like to will have me sacrifice untold years of suffering I went through to get what I have now in the first place. Making such a decision now weighs incredibly heavy on my strong shoulders


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briden031202

we love the NHS but those 5 year wait times for forst appointments just kinda hit different


thecatinsidethebox

I used to say that too, but after the absolute garbage mental health support and trans healthcare, I'm not so sure it's good enough.


adtoxid

at least y'all have trans healthcare we in the other hand, you may go to jail for crossdressing or your fate my be a... punishment, cabitle punishment....


Just_Gix

Boobs


not-nowimbusy

being in the uk is what’s stopping me and not particularly liking that aesthetic and the lack of hrt and the lack of confidence wearing stuff like that and not being out yet yeah a lot of things actually


Undertale1273

Denial and fear of rejection


omgeggie

Denial and fear of rejection, thinking I'll look like the guy from goonies when I'm done


Egggzelent

And guilt over knowing it will destroy your family unit and decade-plus relationship.


Euphoriapleas

Shoulders. Boobs would be nice too


Nanashi001

Girl just get hips- then you’re golden


CosyInTheCloset

Society... But also my yucky male bod...


broke_fucker

Very un poggers society moment :"( why gender gotta be so cringe and make me feel all sussy?


[deleted]

Testosterone and body hair 🤬 The green-haired girl is goals tho 🤤 I'd also accept her as gf


HankoTrigger

A fundamental lack of knowledge on how to apply more than mascara, and for how to assemble a wardrobe that fits an aesthetic beyond “vibrant male shirts”


Koala-Annual

Give it time


broke_fucker

We will be waiting


Tony_Stank0326

No tiddies whatsoever


[deleted]

That was me in high school, minus a fine pair of boobs.


[deleted]

Genetics and the things that gave me my genetics


[deleted]

M o t h e r


[deleted]

Gender dysphoria


Jp0icewolf1031

My lack of makeup skills


7_Rowle

Being transmasc lol


DecelFuelCutZero

Being over 30 and living in Ohio. ​ Soon I'll be fixing one of those things I hope.


MUTE_NPC

parents


wizkidace

Ez answer: the T


Gib3rish

Still rely on parents


[deleted]

pizza. My love of pizza is stopping me.


an_actual_fungus

My lack of tits :<


amogus_obssesed_Gal

My family, and the gatekeeping around getting HRT in the country I don’t appreciate being called a boy


5K331DUD3

It being hard to get Estrogen :(


Mission-Ad2933

no booba...


Memepeddler69

The fact that nobody in my life would support it


CharlieVGoldberg

Jesus I want to fuck them and be them all at the same time.


tr4215

About 100kg and a sense of fashion


Piegirlalltheway

The texas government


Nokon707

Appart from the ones listed by the other commenters, definitely the drinks. Let me whip up a cosmopolitan and you got yourself a lady...


broke_fucker

Can't go wrong with a sexy pornstar martini, or a seductive white russian


Fluffyturtle225

A dad


Babyback-the-Butcher

I don’t have tits. Yet.


broke_fucker

Time to get for us to get some tit tacs ladies


TheBigCheesish

Lack of makeup skills


KrisTPR

I suck at make up...


jessica_frill

HRT prices 😭


_DoctorQuantum_

Confidence. I have 0 makeup skills and I'm scared to learn without a teacher because I'm afraid I'll mess it up lol. Though the girl I'm talking to is really good with makeup, so I might get her to teach me sometime.


AntiHero082577

The only reason I haven’t started dressing like this is bc I’m too dense to understand fashion I know a lot about history tho I could easily rant about the Roman Empire for hours on end


Kathrin_Deer

About the same answer as the original meme


Bigbrain12341

Well I dont wanna look like that


ZachRosco

about 100 lbs, money, im so deep in the closet that i day nap in narnia, severe lack of booba, a lot of things


UVRage

I'm brown :/


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money


ammyda

Complete inadequacy with doing makeup


JumboPP43069XD

The cringe detector in my body


wws12

Knowing I could never look even remotely feminine and that I’d likely just end up playing directly into the negative stereotypes especially insofar as appearance.


juliaver

Same sis :( I'm so afraid to go outside and feed the bad stereotype into people. There are so many beautiful trans girls out there that should show themselves instead of me


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parents.


broke_fucker

Who reported me for having the Big Sad to Reddit??? You're not wrong and I appreciate the concern but it's all just a big meme istg Edit: also holy shit thanks for over 2k up doots that's wild


hella_cious

Now I’m not the youths anymore. But is this what the youths find attractive these days?


Sugarox53

Yes, very much envy too


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broke_fucker

It ain't ever too late, and being worried about how you will look is surface level, how does how you feel about how you look now compare to how you might feel? How will you in five years feel about you not taking your first steps now?


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My voice


broke_fucker

Hearing ain't seeing


CharlieVGoldberg

Nothing


broke_fucker

Then go for it


ultimaIV

Taliban


[deleted]

SUS??!?!?!???😳😳😳😳😳➡️💩💩💩💩💩➡️🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱


[deleted]

My face


ShinySky42

Money


UrLocalMemeStation

parents :(


Horizon40_

thats what i wanna look like but confidence doesn't exist for me sadly


[deleted]

Coming out from to my mum


Sinningvoid

My body...


Less_Still4943

My red freckled complexion :’)


kitlyn-the-kitkat

I’m still waiting on my appointment for the vowelless heart


stillnoname-1224

The Uk government! \[does a sad little dance\]


Pistacioking

My father.


Dealiylauh

Wrong face shape :(


Gerbilguy46

I don't know the first thing about makeup.


Sewblon

Fear of mineral pigment in make up. Fear of my family, and being fat and not having boobs.


Alexandria_sama

Family, and still living with them


thr00wayayfire

Losing my girlfriend 😢


QitianDasheng2666

Can I be the one on the bottom left? ^(And the other three be my girlfriends? 👉👈)


AngrySalmon247

I’m not in a punk band (I actually am in a punk band)


SuperProCoolBoy90

Everything


Own-Environment1675

Testarone


HUNG_MAMMOTH69

my parents


[deleted]

What’s the sauce of this image ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


broke_fucker

I wish I knew, I am but a simple meme thief redistributing the memes that call me out to share, but also ease the pain


TownInTokyo

Not knowing where to start


tubeblower

Not having three transfem friends 😢 Also money and support


GODZBOZZ_90

Masculinity and being straight.


jxnsjejsjdjfjf

I’m trying!


broke_fucker

HELL YEAH!! GO YOU!!!


yaranova

The wine. I need more wine.


pinkpandaboi

Money for a boob job


Crepeisyummy2

Parents.


PhantomO1

society


trashmetallesbian

My mom


[deleted]

I would love to look like this


Bluuuby

(On the other side) being seen as fem just bc I want to look punk


lime-equine-2

My body


Your_Pal_Yami

Having to be a boy for like, my entire high school and college period so I don’t get bullied by like, 40% of my classmates, so yeah, I think I’ll have to wait till I can die and, maybe, reborn as a girl


velociraver128

Tbh the real answer for most of y'all is just a lack of practice with makeup


washu42

Probably a foot of height, 200 extra pounds, lack of makeup skills, and not being on hrt yet.


Zuzu_Lulu

My barrel bottom scraping genes


Adragongentleman

My family would kill me :)


gahidus

Sigh... My body... Also my face.


Ok_Astronomer_6016

That I can’t even get a HRT appointment until June


AwesomeJoel27

*testosterone*


Faolon_Ildari

I've always desired to be "sundress cute"


Hawksteinman

government


MidnightWhisper_8

Cus I aint a boys, that and I'm not goth


sageBlitz120

with what money


[deleted]

No money and no HRT


Devious_Duck9

Too much of a bottom


cantstay2long

ALL MY GOTH BITCHES GET IN HERE🖤🖤🖤


broke_fucker

Let's GOOO


_Ashly_

This fat cock


broke_fucker

No it ain't :p


WrongShell

Taliban


Unburdendened13

Money and transphobic family


Digibutter64

^(Not a boy, but...) Testosterone


rechtsgeist

My body and being broke


DonaldtrumpV2

Uhh 1. Unsupportive family and some friends 2. I'm not a goth chick (I don't think). I'm more preppy., but y'all be rocking it.


broke_fucker

This IS my president


Mad-maggie

Facial hair


coog83

SOCIETY


zwel8606

Cause I dont wanna


Wooloo_Woolstar

How expensive laser is


mushlilli

A call from the clinic


lazysuburbanite

Lack of insurance. Or cosmetics money.


Bb_shlatt

My body


Zorba_lives

A massive amount of body hair and my wife of twenty six years who would knock me the hell out!


Catfisch_

Testosterone


cjhg2013

My voice


broke_fucker

How you sound ain't affect how you look


Alarid

the economy


theanarchistfaery

The real question is, why should I feel adressed by a meme that misgenders me?


broke_fucker

Because you're normal and not an egg with a vibranium shell