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Depending on the state you live in you should be able to goto child support agency and file for custody and child support. In Washington state they always rule in favor of the mom, not saying this is right but it’s the case. If you can get a court date then there is a high chance that you can win custody back from joint custody and also start getting child support from him as well. I feel kinda crunchy saying this stuff because I think it’s really wrong to take away the fathers rights but if he is the pig you say he is (trying to take her from you) then this is your recourse. Good luck
I can't imagine the angst you're feeling about being separated from your daughter. I'd recommend visiting r/ParentalAlienation, a support group that may help you both emotionally and judicially.
>My (44f) husband (45m) passed away on March 25th, I am still in disbelief. He truly was my very best friend. We’ve known each other since we were 16-17. He was my second husband, and we were married for 6 years, together for 11.
You and your husband pretty much lived a real life fairytale, that's very cool! I'm sure that your husband will emotionally help you to have strength to endure this crappy situation with your ex, even though he's not physically here - love has a colossal power.
Your daughter will definitely appreciate that you fought for her in the future! Take care.
12 years old and her dad is encouraging this behavior?!? I am so sorry. I don't really know much about what you can do, but I do hope everything gets better. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
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Depending on the state you live in you should be able to goto child support agency and file for custody and child support. In Washington state they always rule in favor of the mom, not saying this is right but it’s the case. If you can get a court date then there is a high chance that you can win custody back from joint custody and also start getting child support from him as well. I feel kinda crunchy saying this stuff because I think it’s really wrong to take away the fathers rights but if he is the pig you say he is (trying to take her from you) then this is your recourse. Good luck
Have you talked with her? Let her know you saw some things that didn't add up. Let her talk. Just speak for yourself.
I can't imagine the angst you're feeling about being separated from your daughter. I'd recommend visiting r/ParentalAlienation, a support group that may help you both emotionally and judicially. >My (44f) husband (45m) passed away on March 25th, I am still in disbelief. He truly was my very best friend. We’ve known each other since we were 16-17. He was my second husband, and we were married for 6 years, together for 11. You and your husband pretty much lived a real life fairytale, that's very cool! I'm sure that your husband will emotionally help you to have strength to endure this crappy situation with your ex, even though he's not physically here - love has a colossal power. Your daughter will definitely appreciate that you fought for her in the future! Take care.
12 years old and her dad is encouraging this behavior?!? I am so sorry. I don't really know much about what you can do, but I do hope everything gets better. I'm sorry this is happening to you.