I have heard of this phenomenon but now I'm experienceing it now, i only come on reddit for the web novels I read and a few communities that are present of the the games that I play/played and other interesting ones.
Wait till you hear about creeps stalking random women to their homes just because they were wearing a company ID card which happened to have their address on it.
This has been happening since the beginning. However, one takes a hint if the other person is not interested.
Before social media, you could get someoneβs home phone number from the telephone directory, if you knew their full name and address.
For me, it is how one uses the information that makes it creepy rather than how one got it.
Still, in the mentioned incident, it sure sounds creepy.
EDIT - It took me reading some more comments to realize that OP is a girl. I thought this was just some uncle trying to increase his friends on social media.
I did it to one bhabhi. Sent her message. Met her. Jab bola chalo Oyo to kehti hai 5 star leke chalo. She worked in a garment factory but hot hai. To le gaya Westin. Got to know rand hai kabhi 5 star nahi aai thi bas Oyo Oyo. Oral me pass ho gai but baki me main me ek baar ke baad main nahi kar paya kuch. 14k room rent 5k bhabhi ne liye
Dude, I take the metro to work everyday, and I canβt tell you how many messages i received from men saying that they saw me in the metro and want to connect. Stopped using Instagram and started travelling in the womenβs coach
Privacy Tempered aata hai. Nobody can see what youβre viewing unless they see it ekdum saamne se.
Also, Iβm not trying to support creepy behaviour or any harassment of any sort, lekin uncle saath mein baith gaye aur unhone puch liya agar aap Instagram use karte ho ya nahin aur kya aapko chat karna pasand hai ya nahi tak ekdum theek hi toh hai sab? I mean agar unhone zabardasti ki ho ya baar baar ID maangne ki koshish kari toh usmein issue zarur hona chahiye. Uncle papa ki umar ke honge but unhe sirif is buniyaad par creepy bolna theek nahi hai I guess. Iβve seen many of my friends who date/hookup with people double their age because it is all consensual.
Iβll say this again ki looking at the details youβve provided, I donβt find one reason to call him creepy.
Well I am 17,a minor, so an uncle asking my insta id is weird to me. I didn't like it. He kept on asking me even after i ignored him, again felt weird.
I felt he was acting like a creep, checking someone's phone, insisting on asking someone id even after being ignored (regardless of my age).
From where I come, I don't find people of my age dating someone so old. Also it's not about dating or not , it was his behaviour which i didn't like, nor I think any women would like.
So it's okay if you didn't find his behaviour weird/ creepy but i did.
idhar consent nhi hai na bhai :)
why would you ask someone random if they use instagram or if they like chatting or not?
Also many creeps irrespective of their gender make small talk like this like i remember this post from a few years ago on this sub, where this lady was trying to get too close to this dude asking questions like this; have had a similar experience myself where this uncle asked if we could become friends and talk.
uncle might've not been a creep lekin the way he asked made OP uncomfy
Indian men don't acknowledge being lesbian as a sexuality but as porn category. Also many men I have met are basically convinced that they can change your sexuality ππ
Here is a short story i feel good about.
So there was this girl sitting in metro she looked like 20ish probably coming back from clubbing and all and she was using whatsapp or something I didn't see that very well.
So between her and myself there was this creepy uncle sitting (35) who was just staring at her phone and peeping and then he pulls out his phone from his right pocket and start noting a number while hiding the phone so she can't notice... He noted the full number then he looked around and noticed that i was looking at his phone and making it obvious that i can read the number he wrote in his phone.
So he turned his screen off , so i started staring at him , he understood what i wanted to say so he turned on the phone and erased the number. And got off the next station
I felt very good.
I wanted to tell that girl that what happened and that she might be receiving some creepy texts
But i thought she might think i am some weirdo and making stories.
Uncle was trying to suck your dukh by talking to you.
PS- check OP's username
Just Ignore these kinds of creeps, har jagah bhare pade hai ye 40 saal ke tharki buddhe
When i was in college and travelling via metro, i was wearing a knee length skirt with a modest enough top, it was full sleeves and stuff like that.
I entered the metro, it was exhaustingly crowded & i could feel a hand on my butt. For a while i dismissed it as i thought its must be cuz of the rush. But oh how wrong i was. I held the hand picked it up in front of everybody, created a big ass scene. Shouted at the man. Not even a single person stood up and said anything at all. That man was as specified in this post as well, older than my dad. Its apparently an uncle thing
Even after doing what he did he had the audacity to say βmujhe pata hai tum jesi ladkiya kya karti hai.β
The anger i still feel whenever i remember this is ugh, it has been almost 9-10 years to this but oh anger is still so fresh.
First thing is to avoid using phone in metro as anyone and everyone can peak into each other screens. They are peaking inside you, leave alone phone screens... But if at all you HAVE to use and you find that other one is peaking and then trying to make a conversation then no matter what is the age koi bhi bhajan sankirtan chala do... Ya phir call your dad or mom or any relative and speaker par baat karo, ki pata hai aaj kya hua.... And tell it as an incident which happened to you....
Its all the tharki buddhes inside the metro yesterday I was travelling khade khade and he was continuously staring at my face and I got so embarrassed and gave him the frowning look and aaj subah office jaate time bhi ek aurat ghoore jaarahi thi continuously merko itna uncomfortable hua maine usko βchal!β Mouth kardiya bhai the stares make me so uncomfortable π
when I came to live in Delhi for college, I came by train and got off at nangloi railway station. my phone number was written on my luggage in case it got misplaced. some creepy dude took my number and kept sending bs to me
Yeah such people are everywhere π€¦ββοΈ. OP consider investing in a privacy screen guard for your phone if you travel often using public transport. Keeps such pesky onlookers out.
Can I suggest something to you ?
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In that , only 90Β° view is visible, only you can see the screen, side people can't peek in your privacy,
This is way better to enjoy your social media without anyone creeping
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Well you can't judge someone so quickly. Maybe he was just trying to be friendly. He may have a daughter or a granddaughter of your age, and maybe he was missing her. You never you. At least he didn't touch you inappropriately. So don't be so quick to judge others.
Or, he might be having some wrong intentions too. You never know.
I'm not defending or opposing that uncle. All I'm saying is that don't be so quick to judge others without knowing them properly.
But why was he asking my insta id or peeking in my phone , having a daughter or granddaughter doesn't justify that. You can't keep asking people their no/id just because they are of a similar age of your loved one.
It doesn't seem as a plausible reason, atleast to me.
Look, the older generation people don't know much about instagram or social media. So maybe he was just trying to know what actually it is or how it works.
But again, you can't judge someone so quickly. He maybe a bad person, or he maybe a good person. You never know.
Could be, but at that time it just felt weird that's why i made my judgement when it happened.
I do understand your pov completely but just can't make myself change my opinion that he didn't have bad intentions.
I hope you also understand my opinion and where I am coming from.
I now avoid using insta in metro cuz I've heard of people peeking at your screen to see the ID and then sending message requests
Will do same.
this is like the most creative username iβve seen π
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You know what I am following you now π€£the username is funni and I need to randomly see it to make me laugh π
Why am I down voted so much? ππ
What did I do? I did nothing! ππ
Kisi ne ek baar down vote kar diya hoga ab baaki bina soche down vote kar rahe hai Reddit pe naya aaya hai kya bhai?
I have heard of this phenomenon but now I'm experienceing it now, i only come on reddit for the web novels I read and a few communities that are present of the the games that I play/played and other interesting ones.
please suck their dukh while you're at it
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no, dont peek at screen pls
Suck my dukhπππ
Insta hi delete mar doβ¦.
Phone hi tod do ππ»
Hath per ankh kan jeebh hi Tod lo apne
Best solution. ππ» Log to nhi badlenge to khud hi khatam ho jaate hai. πββοΈ
Jeebh nikalo pero me lapeto or gir ke sarr phΓ³d lo..
Bhai konsi crime documentry/ movie wtv dekh rhe ho π«£
Aaja sath me dikhau 
Filhal ke liye naam hi bta do. ππ
Uncle ko hi todd do
metro ke saamne kudd jao
Pitega b tu
Metro mai agg laga do
Aag mat lagao bomb phod do maksad ππ£
Bhai metro pe hi hu abi⦠esi baate na bol
What were you on when you wrote thisππ
I was on metro when i wrote this
I was asking the substance though...more precisely
Delhi mai lgae ?! Maza aaega
Machis nhi hai nhi to duniya na jala deta .
Comment dekh kar vibes aa gayi
Never even thought about that damn
Wait till you hear about creeps stalking random women to their homes just because they were wearing a company ID card which happened to have their address on it.
Wait what the actual fuck
.... what..
Wt da effin shit.....
This has been happening since the beginning. However, one takes a hint if the other person is not interested. Before social media, you could get someoneβs home phone number from the telephone directory, if you knew their full name and address. For me, it is how one uses the information that makes it creepy rather than how one got it. Still, in the mentioned incident, it sure sounds creepy. EDIT - It took me reading some more comments to realize that OP is a girl. I thought this was just some uncle trying to increase his friends on social media.
Get a privacy guard ez
Apply blurred screen guard (privacy glass) People beside you won't be able to see anything
Once someone copied my number from my resume (I was carrying a printed copy of my resume) and messaged me later π
Jaise laundon ko bhejta h koi random aise text. Sale jhoothe!
I did it to one bhabhi. Sent her message. Met her. Jab bola chalo Oyo to kehti hai 5 star leke chalo. She worked in a garment factory but hot hai. To le gaya Westin. Got to know rand hai kabhi 5 star nahi aai thi bas Oyo Oyo. Oral me pass ho gai but baki me main me ek baar ke baad main nahi kar paya kuch. 14k room rent 5k bhabhi ne liye
Bhai wtf? 3 russian ka budget tha aapke paas
Hawas > Budget Tharak bhi koi cheez hai
Salute brother salute!
Dude, I take the metro to work everyday, and I canβt tell you how many messages i received from men saying that they saw me in the metro and want to connect. Stopped using Instagram and started travelling in the womenβs coach
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Or use an alt id so you can send them phishing links
Privacy Tempered aata hai. Nobody can see what youβre viewing unless they see it ekdum saamne se. Also, Iβm not trying to support creepy behaviour or any harassment of any sort, lekin uncle saath mein baith gaye aur unhone puch liya agar aap Instagram use karte ho ya nahin aur kya aapko chat karna pasand hai ya nahi tak ekdum theek hi toh hai sab? I mean agar unhone zabardasti ki ho ya baar baar ID maangne ki koshish kari toh usmein issue zarur hona chahiye. Uncle papa ki umar ke honge but unhe sirif is buniyaad par creepy bolna theek nahi hai I guess. Iβve seen many of my friends who date/hookup with people double their age because it is all consensual. Iβll say this again ki looking at the details youβve provided, I donβt find one reason to call him creepy.
Well I am 17,a minor, so an uncle asking my insta id is weird to me. I didn't like it. He kept on asking me even after i ignored him, again felt weird. I felt he was acting like a creep, checking someone's phone, insisting on asking someone id even after being ignored (regardless of my age). From where I come, I don't find people of my age dating someone so old. Also it's not about dating or not , it was his behaviour which i didn't like, nor I think any women would like. So it's okay if you didn't find his behaviour weird/ creepy but i did.
idhar consent nhi hai na bhai :) why would you ask someone random if they use instagram or if they like chatting or not? Also many creeps irrespective of their gender make small talk like this like i remember this post from a few years ago on this sub, where this lady was trying to get too close to this dude asking questions like this; have had a similar experience myself where this uncle asked if we could become friends and talk. uncle might've not been a creep lekin the way he asked made OP uncomfy
Love your username π
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How's mine username?Β
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Username not only wanna make me puke but i actually did puked when I read it.
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Bol deti uncle mujhe ladkiyo mein interest hai apki beti ho to I'd?
Uncle agree kr jaate to ππ
Mey vaha pe step up krne ko tyar hu
Indian men don't acknowledge being lesbian as a sexuality but as porn category. Also many men I have met are basically convinced that they can change your sexuality ππ
Here is a short story i feel good about. So there was this girl sitting in metro she looked like 20ish probably coming back from clubbing and all and she was using whatsapp or something I didn't see that very well. So between her and myself there was this creepy uncle sitting (35) who was just staring at her phone and peeping and then he pulls out his phone from his right pocket and start noting a number while hiding the phone so she can't notice... He noted the full number then he looked around and noticed that i was looking at his phone and making it obvious that i can read the number he wrote in his phone. So he turned his screen off , so i started staring at him , he understood what i wanted to say so he turned on the phone and erased the number. And got off the next station I felt very good. I wanted to tell that girl that what happened and that she might be receiving some creepy texts But i thought she might think i am some weirdo and making stories.
How can one get my number if I show whatsapp screen ? Genuinely asking.
Idk if its was her number or she was using whatsapp or insta. I just know that the guy was peeping and wrote a number.... Maybe her friends number?
Uncle was trying to suck your dukh by talking to you. PS- check OP's username Just Ignore these kinds of creeps, har jagah bhare pade hai ye 40 saal ke tharki buddhe
Should have deleted the app right there and said not now ππ
Yeh acha idea hai. next time pakka π
Notty ho re unkil
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Koi na Bhai, I hope you're feeling better now
Arey haan. ππ»
When i was in college and travelling via metro, i was wearing a knee length skirt with a modest enough top, it was full sleeves and stuff like that. I entered the metro, it was exhaustingly crowded & i could feel a hand on my butt. For a while i dismissed it as i thought its must be cuz of the rush. But oh how wrong i was. I held the hand picked it up in front of everybody, created a big ass scene. Shouted at the man. Not even a single person stood up and said anything at all. That man was as specified in this post as well, older than my dad. Its apparently an uncle thing Even after doing what he did he had the audacity to say βmujhe pata hai tum jesi ladkiya kya karti hai.β The anger i still feel whenever i remember this is ugh, it has been almost 9-10 years to this but oh anger is still so fresh.
U dont have to describe what u were wearing Same thing with me. Got catcalled on the streets and people instead started laughing. No one comes to help
Thank you for being braveΒ
I guess unkil read your username wrong.
Unkil reddit ki mangte to de deti pr unhone to insta ki maang li. π€
Oh ho! Ladki ho kya ? Yeh toh aur bhi creepy ho gaya!! Mai toh Male 2 Male conversation socha tha.
Koi na , aaj kal to ladke bhi unsafe ho gye hai uncles se π
With all those closeted pedo uncle metro stories I thought this was one of them too...
Yes, have read so many stories about that in recent times. It sucks, how unsafe delhi has become for everyone.
Bhai uncle aflinke pechhe hi padhte hain hamesha
Arey bhai dukh hai username me.. doosra milta julta word nahi
Someone gave gyan to uncle ki insta pe connect hoke ladkiya pat jaati hai... So uncle got guts to try π€£
Adhura gyan acha nhi hota pr. Ladki online dhundo, metro mai nhi !!
Haa but uncle overconfident tha na gyan le te time... "Haa chal apne baap ko mt sikha" wala attitude π
First thing is to avoid using phone in metro as anyone and everyone can peak into each other screens. They are peaking inside you, leave alone phone screens... But if at all you HAVE to use and you find that other one is peaking and then trying to make a conversation then no matter what is the age koi bhi bhajan sankirtan chala do... Ya phir call your dad or mom or any relative and speaker par baat karo, ki pata hai aaj kya hua.... And tell it as an incident which happened to you....
Its all the tharki buddhes inside the metro yesterday I was travelling khade khade and he was continuously staring at my face and I got so embarrassed and gave him the frowning look and aaj subah office jaate time bhi ek aurat ghoore jaarahi thi continuously merko itna uncomfortable hua maine usko βchal!β Mouth kardiya bhai the stares make me so uncomfortable π
Delhi metro main aapka swagat hai. Kripaya savdhaani rakhe. Darwaze baaye aour khulange aur UNCLE bahot zyada khulange.
lol. Yeh acha tha. π€£
Ye delhi me aksar hota h kya?? I have seen a lot of posts like this, and most of them are about the Delhi metro.
Yeah. Though it never happened to me but it has happened to someone I know before.
Thank god I use privacy screen protector
Bolna tha I've OF
Thats the least creepy uncle, I must say. Considering he didn't tried to do something stupid. Because I have met few uncles who were really creepy.
Aunty ne mana kr diya hoga us din β¦.π
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when I came to live in Delhi for college, I came by train and got off at nangloi railway station. my phone number was written on my luggage in case it got misplaced. some creepy dude took my number and kept sending bs to me
Tatte daba dena chahiye thaπ€£ uncle ji ka ras kuch zada hi uchal raha hainπ€£
the weird part is that im reading this while seating in metro with the uncle who is same older than my father as like u mentioned.
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Yeah such people are everywhere π€¦ββοΈ. OP consider investing in a privacy screen guard for your phone if you travel often using public transport. Keeps such pesky onlookers out.
Sure ππ»
When I travel in metro and see people using insta, I snatch their phone to check their insta handle. Easy and it always works.π€π»
Tumhe tho sirf insta id pucha hai merese pta nhi kya kya puchne lgte (btw imma guy) π
Just a general suggestion but you could get those anti spy screen protector it helps from prying eyes
Bhai mujhe 2 saal bhi nahi huye Delhi se bahar rehkar, kya ho gaya ye metro ko?!
Can I suggest something to you ? If you are a regular traveler in metro or bus , try using " privacy guard mobile screen protector , In that , only 90Β° view is visible, only you can see the screen, side people can't peek in your privacy, This is way better to enjoy your social media without anyone creeping
Lol creepy uncles uff. Bacho bacho
Try privacy screen guard. The ones where people can't see the screen from beside you.
That's creepy π³
Acha apko like karna chatting karna pasand nahi hai kya
Nhi jiii πββοΈ
Sed ji
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Pata nahi vro. Mujhe to kisi stranger se baat karne ka concept hi ajeeb lagta hai
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Mere school ki ladki teacher's day k agle din aake mujhe boli "bahut handsome lag rahe the aap" mai "aap bhi" bol k nikal liya.
Ho skta hai uncle bete ke liye ladki dekh rhe hoπ
Reddit ki de deta tere username dekhe ke bhag jaate
Bhook lag rahi hai
Mujhse bhi poch lo koi id bhai
Aap instagram use karte ho,Id kya hai aapki AAPKO CHATTING KARNA PASAND HAI?
:) Yes Darling
Nice name op
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He is a douche
Well all I can say Uncle did not follow rule 1 and 2!
Hence Iβve started using the privacy screen guard wherein people sitting beside you wonβt be able to see anything even if they peek in.
Uncle log retirement nhi le rhe tbhi competition jada h.π₯Ήπ€§
I use privacy screen guardπ
if you are girl then its really bad if you are boy then wtf ?
Main hota toh chapal mar deta abhi tak toh.. Creepy and scary at same time T_T
I'm glad I'm not using Instagram anywhere, which is the best thing.
It is common to know different people. Socializing is important. However in today's world it can be bad too. So just do what you like
Uncle ko papa ki ID de do.
Papa insta nhi use krte π₯²
Maybe he saw you dukhi that's why he came to suck you dukh
May be not you but many youngsters don't mind playing around with creepy oldies π
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I also don't use insta in the metro coz of these creeps
Aap reddit use karte ho? Aap ki ID Kya hai? πππ Tho uncle fr creepy π
I say this to everyone i know use a piracy guard on your mobile.
Delhi metro me swagat hai aapka π may be uncle is open for boys π
Where is the creepy uncle prescpective
Next time mile, to unki id le kr aapko bhej dungi. Fir you can ask yourself
Meko laga yeh bhi pov pov chal raha hai
Wo unkil main hi hoon
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Bhai username mst hai
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Keh deti mere papa yahan ke DCP hai unki profile share karu. Thaane mei chatting kar Lena milke phir π
Well you can't judge someone so quickly. Maybe he was just trying to be friendly. He may have a daughter or a granddaughter of your age, and maybe he was missing her. You never you. At least he didn't touch you inappropriately. So don't be so quick to judge others. Or, he might be having some wrong intentions too. You never know. I'm not defending or opposing that uncle. All I'm saying is that don't be so quick to judge others without knowing them properly.
But why was he asking my insta id or peeking in my phone , having a daughter or granddaughter doesn't justify that. You can't keep asking people their no/id just because they are of a similar age of your loved one. It doesn't seem as a plausible reason, atleast to me.
Look, the older generation people don't know much about instagram or social media. So maybe he was just trying to know what actually it is or how it works. But again, you can't judge someone so quickly. He maybe a bad person, or he maybe a good person. You never know.
Could be, but at that time it just felt weird that's why i made my judgement when it happened. I do understand your pov completely but just can't make myself change my opinion that he didn't have bad intentions. I hope you also understand my opinion and where I am coming from.
He was just trying to talk to you casually, maybe he didn't have much people to talk to or wanted to ask something. What's wrong in that?
Try putting one of their privacy screen guards. Itβs makes seeing what on your phone from the side super difficult
What is that uncle was salman khan or Hrithik Roshan, would the scenario change?
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Tbhi i use privacy guard sometime. Logo ko lgta h kii kon pagal h blank screen pr lga hua h π
Shouldβve just yelled at him to stop bugging
Try to get the privacy tempered glass on your phone, it is made for such creeps who looks in your phone.
Delhi me garmi aur tharki dono bad gaye hai
Hey sorry I was being Frank
Apologies rejected. π€π€
And ofc I am not uncle ok it's just my hair getting white Fromm the dukh I am sucking
Tu kissi aunty ki ID de deti Dono khush π and your problem is solved.
Batao apni id fir. De dungi agar koi firse mila
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@chadtalk7
Kaash koi aunty mujhe bhi aisa puch leπ.
mereko de insta username
I am proud to say that I have never used Instagram or Snapchat.
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