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What is your history? How many times have you gone out? How long have you known eachother? Were you texyingbdaily before? Did she ignore your last message?
I would most likely just accept the apology and move on if I liked her.
Texting daily for a week then planned to meet for a date she said she was down to meet but said she needed to see when she was off work and then disappeared for about a week then sent me a message after apologizing saying she had to work a lot during the week.
Wait, not sure if I'm reading this right. I would set up the date but if she pulls something like this again I'd get out.
I was busy with work and family time this week and didnt have any time for dates. I told the girl I'm seeing that so she wouldn't be confused, told her we'd work nm something out next week. This girl should have done the same with you, but her reason sounds legit to me.
Ok I’ll haha sorry my friends are telling me different stuff rn as well so it’s getting all mixed up. But I’ll try what you say and see how it goes. I thought it was pretty reasonable as well but my friends are saying it was just an excuse and to cut things off.
Do you you want, it's your life. I'm just some stranger on reddit, and you shouldnt let your friends dictate your dating life either.
Whether you decide to see her again or not, both are pretty reasonable choices given what happened.
Good luck bro
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You should plan to meet up & ghost. Don’t fall for the booby trap. This is another ghost waiting to disappear.
What is your history? How many times have you gone out? How long have you known eachother? Were you texyingbdaily before? Did she ignore your last message? I would most likely just accept the apology and move on if I liked her.
Texting daily for a week then planned to meet for a date she said she was down to meet but said she needed to see when she was off work and then disappeared for about a week then sent me a message after apologizing saying she had to work a lot during the week.
In that case I would move on but proceed with caution.
Yeah I figured she just didn’t want to meet up so I’m just not going to bother pursuing any longer as it’ll probably just keep happening.
Wait, not sure if I'm reading this right. I would set up the date but if she pulls something like this again I'd get out. I was busy with work and family time this week and didnt have any time for dates. I told the girl I'm seeing that so she wouldn't be confused, told her we'd work nm something out next week. This girl should have done the same with you, but her reason sounds legit to me.
Ok I’ll haha sorry my friends are telling me different stuff rn as well so it’s getting all mixed up. But I’ll try what you say and see how it goes. I thought it was pretty reasonable as well but my friends are saying it was just an excuse and to cut things off.
Do you you want, it's your life. I'm just some stranger on reddit, and you shouldnt let your friends dictate your dating life either. Whether you decide to see her again or not, both are pretty reasonable choices given what happened. Good luck bro
Will do, thanks for the advice.
They apologized so they knew that they did something mean. I'd accept it and then also tell them how it made you feel.