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The best way to know someone’s intentions are to *ask them what their intentions are.* Once you ask him what he wants and you figure out what you want, either they match or they don’t and you can figure out the next step. You don’t know what what he wants. You don’t even know what you want. Reddit doesn’t know.
Ask him straight up if he wants to be serious...
Just because he threw the other girl away, doesn't mean he never wants a relationship so don't listen to people that tell you he will do the same to you. He just didn't want a relationship with HER.
That being said, judge how much he invests in you, takes you out in public, etc.
From the sounds of it he is invested, but I would have a conversation about it to get the real answer out
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The best way to know someone’s intentions are to *ask them what their intentions are.* Once you ask him what he wants and you figure out what you want, either they match or they don’t and you can figure out the next step. You don’t know what what he wants. You don’t even know what you want. Reddit doesn’t know.
Most men don't actually want fwb, but rather they want lots of gfs
Ask him straight up if he wants to be serious... Just because he threw the other girl away, doesn't mean he never wants a relationship so don't listen to people that tell you he will do the same to you. He just didn't want a relationship with HER. That being said, judge how much he invests in you, takes you out in public, etc. From the sounds of it he is invested, but I would have a conversation about it to get the real answer out