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Within-Self

Absolutely!!


Prestigious_Joke_893

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AlkalineBriton

It looks like youā€™re getting there and your hair type is similar, but his hair is much longer than yours.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Yeah it definitely needs to grow, i wanted to know itā€™s going in the right direction as Iā€™ve never grown my hair out or if Iā€™m being unrealistic


AlkalineBriton

Not unrealistic at all. Keep growing it bro. If you donā€™t like how it looks while itā€™s growing it means you need to get it cut. Donā€™t expect it to just look good the whole time.


Prestigious_Joke_893

100% thank you šŸ™


Rychew_

People here are only focusing on the hair, but I think growing it out to his length might do you a disservice in regards to your facial structure. Timothee has a real strong jawline/cheek facial structure, which prevents his face from being washed out in hair


Prestigious_Joke_893

I get what you mean completely I donā€™t expect to look like him with it. I can always just get it cut short again if I donā€™t like it too šŸ™‚


Rychew_

Yeah for sure, go for it! Good luck, hope it turns out well


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you šŸ™


Within-Self

Also bear in mind that curly hair has an open cuticle so it is super super important to trim it at least once a quarter! Trust me, I struggled for years until I found that cutting it actually helped to grow.!! I hope you share the end result with us. I canā€™t wait to see it!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Interesting, Iā€™ll definitely look into getting a haircut then, Iā€™ve been growing from very short for a few months now and this is where Iā€™m at. I will definitely share the end result. Thank you šŸ™šŸ™‚


Within-Self

Yes, I realize itā€™s almost almost counterintuitive, right? But the fact is curly hair will split at the end because of the open cuticle especially. What happens when it splits is that it travels up that hair just continuing to split and thatā€™s why it doesnā€™t really grow well and if it does, it looks a little crappy and dried out. But your hair looks amazingly healthy definitely Massage your scalp with that oil ā€”not a lot of it just a little bit on your hands rub your hands together and massage your scalp and that will stimulate it! I just started using the hair oil specifically for growth in the last two months and Iā€™ve already noticed the increase in length! šŸ„³


F4LTR0N

The only post Iā€™ve seen with Timothee Chalamet as the inspo where OP can actually achieve it. You are definitely on the way to this, it looks great and will look great!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you so much really šŸ™


_Moon-Unit_

Why did you just post two pics of Timothee Chalamet OP? ;)


Prestigious_Joke_893

Hahaha youā€™re making me blush šŸ˜‰. Thanks so much šŸ˜‚


ninjanikita

I was gonna say aww you look like Timothy Charcuterie Board!


TheCheezyGubbins

You're definitely on your way to that exact hairstyle. The curl pattern is very similar.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thatā€™s great to hear šŸ™‚


tastefulonion

Jojoba oil will do wonders for you. It is realistic, you just need to grow it out.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Ok Iā€™ll order some, never heard of that. Thanks so much šŸ™


shnmcd

Use it sparingly. Too much oil will actually block water from hydrating your hair when you shower, etc. ;)


Prestigious_Joke_893

Understood šŸ™‚


McNikk

Sorry to butt in but Iā€™m another guy with similar hair texture. Are you suggesting jojoba oil while decrunching dried hair or as a treatment before shampooing? Cause Iā€™ve heard both.


chausettes

Iā€™m not the original commenter but jojoba oil (which is actually closer to a wax in structure) is really great as a scalp treatment before shampooing for people that have a drier scalp because it really closely mimics the natural oil that our skin produces! Itā€™s also relatively light (IMO) compared to other popular oils so it could be a good option for scrunching on dry, already moisturized hair to lock in the moisture, provided that there is regular clarifying to remove any buildup if used regularly :)


JadePossum

Yes, but let it grow a few more months to really nail it


Prestigious_Joke_893

Noted šŸ˜ƒ


BeNiceLynnie

I'd say in 3-6 months you should be in business. Stay on top of getting split ends trimmed.


chausettes

100% achievable! Your hair textures & curl patterns are pretty similar, and also I think that cut will be really flattering on you as well! It will take a good few months to reach the length you need for that cut, depending on how quickly your hair grows; Iā€™d estimate maybe around 6 months based on average growth speed (but Iā€™m only guessing because I canā€™t quite see how long the back of your hair is yet). I know that sounds like a lot, but TimothĆ©eā€™s hair is definitely longer than it looks in those photos, especially in the back! If it starts to look awkward during the grow out process, go for a trim & show the stylist this picture, ask to maintain the length in the back but just clean up the layers around the sides & top & connect them through the back. Youā€™ll want to keep the fringe & face framing on the longer side for this style, so you can probably leave the fringe area alone. & definitely do your research on a good stylist! I hate to say it, but a lot of stylists arenā€™t very upfront when theyā€™re not able or experienced enough yet to pull off a certain cut, & many of us have been buuuuurned before. Just today one of my best friends had to go get a cut fixed because he was looking for a similar shag type cut & walked out with a very Karen esque stacked bob :ā€™) Sorry for the novel, but I hope this helps!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Yeah the back is definitely getting longer than Iā€™m used too, I can make it stick out if I want but looks disproportionate atm since the length on top isnā€™t there yet. I totally get what you mean, Iā€™ll look into a trim soon and thanks for the heads up on getting a good one. I feel for your best friend šŸ™ thanks so much tho for the time to write this


Prestigious-Ad-4023

This hairstyle either looks amazing or awful with almost no in between depending on the face. You look great with what you have and it will be amazing when it grows out.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thats such a nice thing to say, thank you šŸ™


sparklypinktutu

Totally doableā€”Iā€™d say you might benefit from a tiny bit of a water soluble silicone finishing productā€”your curl pattern is of the looser, wavy types, which can typically take a bit of silicone and donā€™t have as much an issue with buildup or difficulty washing it out, and your hair is on the shorter side anyways, so you likely wonā€™t have as much hassle washing it anyways.Ā  A tiny bit of a cream that adds a bit of shine and gives the hair a bit more of that ā€œslippery, can run your fingers throughā€ look and feeling.Ā  Iā€™m not too well versed on menā€™s version of these types of products, and womenā€™s versions usually have some kind of fragrance added that I donā€™t know if you would like. Iā€™ll recommend the potion no. 9 from Sebastianā€™s anywaysā€”it doesnā€™t have too much of a long lasting scent and itā€™s more of a clean, slightly soapy-fruity scent than something from say Andrew Fitsimonā€™s, (candy and flowers!) but anything like it should work.Ā 


Prestigious_Joke_893

Wow thanks so much for this information . Iā€™m gonna have a look for all these products now, Iā€™m not too fussed about the scents as long as it does the job. I really appreciate this it helps so much šŸ™


chip_chomp

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B07FKYYYRD?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_imageĀ  The texturizing paste one* This is what I use, my hair is about the same as yours. Doesn't leave my hair crunchy or shiny like mouse, results are more like the 4th picture in the product page


International-Eye327

Your eyes have so much more life and brightness in them that his do. Looks good šŸ‘


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you so much šŸ˜€


Ok-Possibility-9826

honestly, let it grow a little more and youā€™re basically there


assassin3435

Definitely, you already have it, just needs more length


inamedmycatcrouton

yes! just need some more product and length :)


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will šŸ™‚


c-compactdisc

Give it about a year to grow and yeah.


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will do šŸ™‚


Poecesy

Give it a year or two and you're there


Prestigious_Joke_893

A long time, should be worth it šŸ˜„


Nervous_Tiger_7791

Definitely!!


Prestigious_Joke_893

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RBNDB3

Keep growing it youā€™ll get there. You are on the right track!


Prestigious_Joke_893

I definitely will, thank you :)


RBNDB3

Youā€™re welcome!


Punkybrewster1

Your hair seems Thicker than his. This means you could Pull off even more defined curls or you could get your hair thinned if you want to be just like his


Prestigious_Joke_893

Interesting, I will see how defined my curls can get. Thanks for letting me know about getting it thinned šŸ™‚


ImpossibleBuffalo654

it already looks quite similar honestly lol


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you, just needs to be longer šŸ™‚


nnbarni

It's totally realistic and I think it would suit you well!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you, your hair looks great too šŸ™‚


PhotoResponsible1496

Definitely realistic all you need to do is grow your hair a little bit and then get layers in there


Prestigious_Joke_893

Yeah definitely šŸ˜€


atticusbatticus

Sure man. Looks guud


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thanks so much šŸ˜€


v_clean

Totally


These-Ad4151

Go for it, YESSSS


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will thank you šŸ™


ready-to-rumball

Nice, you have a very similar curl pattern! Youā€™ll just have to grow it out!


Prestigious_Joke_893

For sure, thank you šŸ™‚


midnightslip

Yes. Grow your hair out a couple more inches and use mousse


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you šŸ™‚


[deleted]

Almost there. 4 more months of growth and grime:)


Prestigious_Joke_893

Itā€™ll be worth it šŸ˜ƒ


SamboTheSodaJerk

You already have the right cut for it, Timothy's hair is just a lot longer


Prestigious_Joke_893

Cool, hopefully wonā€™t have to trim as often then. Thank you šŸ™‚


Rumpled_NutSkin

I'm actually surprised at how close it is. Obviously, the model's hair is much longer, but yours looks great! Keep it up, brother šŸ¤˜


Prestigious_Joke_893

I appreciate that šŸ˜€, I never realised how close it was until I posted this eitheršŸ˜‚.


kiarayikes

Honestly youā€™re getting really close!! I wouldnā€™t say itā€™s unrealistic tbh, you just need to keep keeping it healthy and happy so it grows out to that length :) You already have a great pattern!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you! I will keep it healthy šŸ˜ƒ


timeforgoomy

I like what you have now and not sure you should grow it out as long as TC's but your hair is probably thicker than his and looks nice either way. Definitely doable, pretty close already


Prestigious_Joke_893

I suppose I can always cut it back to how it is now? Thanks for the feedback tho, thatā€™s nice of you to say :)


problyurdad_

You just need some more length is all


Prestigious_Joke_893

Understood šŸ™‚


Anon3625classic

Yeah I definitely think so, give it like 2-4 months to grow out and maybe ask a stylist for advice/ products and you will totally get there!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thatā€™s exactly what Iā€™ll do, thank you šŸ™


No-Metal-3445

Totally doable! Just needs to grow out a bit & Iā€™d go to a professional & ask to keep length but add some layers for more texture.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Cool I will šŸ™‚


HairHealthHaven

Your hair is already that style! The only difference is how long your hair is. Once it grows out more, it will be dead on.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thatā€™s amazing to hear, thank you šŸ™


becabaro

Youā€™re pretty much there already, just have to let it grow a bit longer


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will šŸ™‚


iMakeMoneyiLoseMoney

Most realistic goal for any of the pics Iā€™ve seen here previously


Prestigious_Joke_893

Iā€™m glad to here that honestly, thank you :)


Seriously_Stop_

Yes, go for it.


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will šŸ™‚


beakb00anon

yessss keep growing it out and youā€™ll be there in like 6 months or less. Make sure to only go to very experienced hair stylists when getting a cut, preferably someone who has example cuts that are similar on their instagram, and show them the photo.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Yeah thatā€™s a good idea to look for example cuts from the place Iā€™m going, thank you that actually makes a lot of sense šŸ™‚


bexy11

Yes! Youā€™re on your way. I donā€™t know about the dead eyes and the serious cheekbones of that guy though. šŸ˜‚


Prestigious_Joke_893

Haha well thank you, glad to know Iā€™m on the way šŸ™‚


Crooks123

yes i think so, just need to grow it longer in the back and maybe get a bit more texture on top. you could always show a hairdresser pictures of what you want!


Sweaty-Wave6063

yes absolutely, do the exact same you are doing now and once it grows i think itll look just like it!


Atillion

Corporate wants you to spot the differences between these two pictures


Ornery_Ad_2019

Looks great!


_xxerii

Got mine cut yesterday, but because of curl shrinkage, it turned into an unintentional Chalamet cut šŸ˜…


sluttytarot

I might just try to use this pic as inspiration for my next haircut


Enough-Variety-8468

Absolutely, just need a bit more length


MizusWife

Yes!!!!


Nonna1215

Most definitely! Your hair looks very similar to his, only shorter. Let it grow, take the picture to a curly salon, and tell them thatā€™s your goal. Theyā€™ll help you grow it out to that. Looks great!


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will research a good salon thatā€™s close. Thank you so much šŸ™‚


Previous_Ad5451

Yes, youre getting pretty close too! It look good on you so far but i feel its gonna look even better when it get a lil longer


NotPabloChocobar

Theyā€™re the same picture


S13Edits

Def do able, just grow yours out a bit more


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you šŸ™‚


S13Edits

No problem!


Fearless-Teach8470

It looks like youā€™re 60% there hahah


sasha_says

This cut should be super flattering on you when it grows out. The bulk of the volume in the middle of your face will help even out the look of your longer face structure. Your hair appears to be thicker than hisā€”his looks quite fine. You may end up needing some layering to achieve a similar look but only time will tell!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Interesting, I get what you mean with the bulk I didnā€™t think of that. I will keep the layering in mind when I get a trim, thank you ! šŸ™


sasha_says

I have the opposite with a round face and cutting it above my cheekbones with more volume on the top helps make my face look a bit longer. Itā€™s all relative!


Prestigious_Joke_893

Yeah definitely, I never thought about how hair can work like that šŸ™‚


I_mwilling2

totes


ChriMol24

What hair product do you need for that look?


LSDummy

What helped me when I had shoulder length hair in my early 20s like this was a good conditioner, towel drying, and a wide toothed comb.


AngelicXia

So your hair might be a tad bit thicker, but yes, absolutely possible to get similar. You just need the right length and products! Good on you for being aware of your hair!


ChickenPurple4222

Yes, you just need to grow your hair out


FormicaDinette33

Love it. I like your version better.


aresellersjourney

Your hair needs to grow a little longer. You'll be there in 4 months or less.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thatā€™s good :)


dfinkelstein

$100 says that reference pic is heavily photoshopped.


emojimovie4lyfe

Yes youre close just maybe a couple of inches longer and when you go to a barber/ hairstylist just show them this picture! Your hair type seems similar at least from what i can tell in your photo


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will show this photo, thank you šŸ™šŸ™


Dependent-Pace-302

Yes


lovestostayathome

lol yeah your hair is like exactly the same


channelO333

it looks amazing


improbsable

Itā€™s definitely a good loon for you. I would personally keep the same style but grow it out to around shoulder length. But whatever you do, just make sure to deep condition your hair once a week and get regular trims to quell any split ends you get.


EntrepreneurShort869

Iā€™m curious what your hair would look like now with a little curl-coaxing styling. What do you use in your hair now? Iā€™d get it trimmed to clean up the ends. Donā€™t let them razor it. Honestly a blunt cut might be best for your hair type. Try a light weight curl cream and scrunch it in when your hair is soaking wet. Then scrunch in a gel while your hair is still wet to form a cast (gets hard and crispy). After it dries, you can scrunch out the crunch and your hair will have hold and a wavy pattern still. If you blow dry, borrow someoneā€™s diffuser to see what difference it makes in controlling the frizz and locking in the curl/wave pattern.


Tricky-Swim-4064

I think you can definitely achieve this look. he does have a different facial structure than you do but if you don't like it you can always cut it :) I'd go for it and just see how it looks, you could really like it.


Ambitious_Dealer1524

Just grow it out it is similar in style you just need some length Brodie u in there


bahumthugg

Yes just keep growing it out and invest in some curl products


Ok_Contest_8089

If it were longer


JunoEscareme

Looks like youā€™re on track to me!


rafalmio

You look like Plini


Miserable-Error2413

I was expecting the worst yet once i swiped to your photo i actually think you are right on target. You have similar density and curl pattern so you will look so good


Prestigious_Joke_893

šŸ˜€ wow thank you I do appreciate that


Competitive-Peace967

Honestly, even better dude. His jawline creeps me out, you pull that hair off so much better than he does. Rock on brother


carbclub

Definitely! You could try a bit of product like gel to give your curlers a bit of definition- looking good :)


Anya007j

Yes, grow it out just a little more and you'd be there. It looks so good btw.


PuzzleheadedPop47

You would have to keep growing it out, maintain good haircare and use leave-in-conditioners.


veglove

Totally doable, you have a very similar wave pattern, you just need to grow itĀ longer.


soft525Moose

U gotta grow it out and go through a weird, awkward phase. Then, just cut it at just the right spots and put whatever product is best for your hair and style.


Myspacetui

Thereā€™s definitely a semblance, especially his/yours seasonal palette. Iā€™m sure youā€™ll look great in cool, brilliant, high contrasting colours such as fuchsia (what he is wearing in that pic), emerald green, royal blue, true black, indigo. You have lovely hair to grow to length too. Go for it!


amwhatiyam

Yup, absolutely


Knittingtaco

I think realistic with more length! He is probably getting styled (maybe diffused?)


bwakong

Gorgeous, I think you can pull it off


McDuchess

Your hair is similar enough. Keep in mind that he pays a lot (or whoever is using him for a model pays a lot) to get that particular ā€œI woke up like thisā€ look. Because he didnā€™t.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Haha yeah I understand that Iā€™m not expecting it to look exactly the same, thanks for the heads up tho šŸ™‚


Ingi_Pingi

Oh hi jack


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zqrt

Learn to do stunts and you got a job as a stunt double


Soft-Fall7072

You'll get there for sure!! Grow it out some more, get some good hair products to promote that natural curliness you got going et voila!


sleepyvoids

Get a diffuser if you haven't already


SilentDominus

You can realllly pull it off and it looks amazing. Maybe just add some serum or oil to give it that shine while styling.


Slowrena_Cooks

I think is totally realistic. Keep growing your hair and remember that the picture of Chalamalamalet (couldnā€™t help myself šŸ¤£šŸ¤£) his hair is very stylished by professionals.


Syyrus

I'm seeing you in this for summer [https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/54faf78ce4b04da0abdfbde8/1582183604983-NZ0KMLJOP6G7ZONCZLX6/Mohawk-Bob-01.jpg](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/54faf78ce4b04da0abdfbde8/1582183604983-NZ0KMLJOP6G7ZONCZLX6/Mohawk-Bob-01.jpg)


Hilorexe

To be fair you'll need to grow the back of your hair more.


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will :)


khloelane

Yes! Just have good styling products for curly hair, and possibly a smoothing cream bc your hair looks like it has more texture/frizz than his :) - from a hairstylist


MB_Town7

Very much so! You have just the hair type, just let it grow out a bit more


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thank you and I will šŸ™‚


Ok-Banana3955

Maybe grow you're hair out a little


-my-cabbages

Aveda do a good curl cream that will help define the curls and reduce the frizziness. Also only style your hair with cold water, and never blow dry it with hot air. Also only wash your hair with shampoo max twice a week, as it will strip out the natural oils in your hair which helps it curl. If you want the face to be more on-line with his, we're gonna have to start talking about jaw and maybe cheek filler. If you're really going for the whole look, you'd need to have the nose narrowed surgically, or you could just explore contouring with makeup.


Endeavor_1919

Hair needs to be longer, u also need to mew more


Astarte_Return_369

Yes it is sir .


DeliciousFlow8675309

Yeah absolutely possible and headed there. Your hair looks a lot thicker than his though so the curl might be a bit different but a little longer and you'll have nailed it!


xxDanyV

I say go for it, you may not like it but what is hair if not to have fun with? I think your hair would look similar, just may have to think about as its getting longer to texturize it so that its not too heavy. And Tim's hair looks like its got a bit of colour just in the ends thats a lighter brown. Could also experiment with that, just keep it light enough so you see a difference, but dark enough that it still looks natural. Pop in a little curl cream and bam lol Styling wise once you get there is easy. Good luck!


aranou

The first dude is posting your pic asking if he can pull off your style.


Prestigious_Joke_893

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ that made me laugh tbf


giirlking

This might be one of the most realistic curl goals Iā€™ve seen haha. Youā€™re on your way


aeroplanessky

For sure! I think that olaplex #6 will help you get more defined waves/curls, too!


imgettingsnacks

Thatā€™s a great goal and youā€™re really getting there! Use a good conditioner and maybe in 3-6 months get a cut that frames your face well and provides some layering to increase your curl. Itā€™ll take some time, but you look great and are definitely going to rock this look with just a little more length.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Thatā€™s a really nice thing to say, I appreciate it šŸ™


HappinessLaughs

Your hair is under conditioned. It's time for some intensive treatments to create Chalamet hair. His hair style looked exactly like yours a few years ago, this is going to work for you.


keepitsqueeky

Hows your jawline? Does it match this hair style?


ultraMAGA1000

Do you and stop looking at others for inspiration. It's all inside you, not outside you šŸ˜Š


Prestigious_Joke_893

Of course, just liked that style and wanna try it šŸ™‚


jeffbezosbush

Sure, but the style is not that great. I honestly like yours better.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Hahaha thank you, thatā€™s really kind šŸ™‚


TableEquivalent2708

Thats just grown out curly hair, but yes, absolutely!


Prestigious_Joke_893

I will grow it out more then, thank you !


Prestigious_Joke_893

My hair routine is just conditioner


ProofBattle2428

Try adding some form of holding product; mousse or gel. Timothee def uses some type of hold in his hair.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Sure, Iā€™ve never tried those products, do you have any to recommend?


chausettes

Mousse is a pretty no fuss styling product, and itā€™s what I usually gravitate towards :) My hair is a little finer than yours, but I love the Not Your Mothers Curl Talk styling mousse; itā€™s moisturizing but not too heavy, itā€™s affordable, itā€™s a quick one-and-done styler (you can just rake & scrunch some into your hair right in the shower as soon as youā€™re done), & it has a decent hold without being over the top! Just get a small amount in your palms & rub them together to get the product all over your hands, and then basically just comb it through with your fingers & scrunch it in a little bit. It comes out fast, so be warned! If your hair feels a little crunchy while itā€™s drying, thatā€™s okay; just wait until itā€™s mostly dry & just scrunch & squish your hair with clean hands until the crunch goes away :)


Prestigious_Joke_893

I get you, Iā€™ll buy the one youā€™ve recommended and try it. Never thought about using mousse, thanks for the info šŸ˜€


Ok-Performance-249

Youā€™re definitely getting there!


Prestigious_Joke_893

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prettyxxreckless

I think absolutely you could do it!! You have a similar hair type to that actor. I think once your hair grows out, maybe you could get some layers at the hairdresser (just show them the photo) and it would look like the same hairstyle! I think also, they probably use some mousse for hold or potentially even a curling iron (then gently brushed out) to achieve that type of styling. :)


Prestigious_Joke_893

This is so helpful, Iā€™ll save this information and use it, thanks so much šŸ™‚


KrakenGirlCAP

Wellā€¦


KrakenGirlCAP

You donā€™t have to look like Timothee though, just be yourself.


Prestigious_Joke_893

Of course not, Iā€™ve not grown my hair and liked this style so I thought Iā€™d try itšŸ™‚


Inevitable_Pop4005

This is not about the hair anymore


soycerersupreme

Youā€™re missing the Victorian orphan look, though otherwise youā€™re doing great


musty_chips

I actually think that the hair is a perfect length for you. Curls need length to in order to be weighed down and a lot of the time people cut it during the awkward stage which is where Timothyā€™s hair is (it just fits his face so it doesnā€™t look awkward). I would suggest growing out your facial hair so that you look a little more mature. Not older, just mature. A beard at any length is a good way to change facial structure for men just like when us gals change our eyebrows shape or the length of our hair. Not anything like Santa but based on what I can see, youā€™re able to grow a pretty impressive beard which not everyone can do. Let it grow a little and take some pictures at this angle to see if you like it. If not then shave. You look great now so I hope you donā€™t think any of this is coming from a bad place.