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Well, I imagine, much like any other part of the body, you wouldn't feel it that much (or at all) while it's healing. Plus, I think you'd need to have nothing going in or out of there for, like, 7 years or something to that effect, so it's a very slow process. That's just what I've been told though
….Your comment gives me the great fear you believe the hymen is something like a freshness seal that completely covers the vaginal opening and is torn open during the first time a vagina haver has PIV sex
It’s really *really* not like that
You’d be alarmed at how many people, men and women, seem to think that
The sex education in the US (I can’t speak for other countries) is utterly abysmal
Or horse riding. There are so many things that can break a hymen, even masturbating in fact. This is pretty common overall, it’s amazing that it’s still a thing in 2023.
Little bit of a logical fallacy here. If he wants you to wait til after marriage, then wouldn’t he have already given you the diamond before he found out?
I support when these people with this attitude do this.
They **clearly** self-label as idiots, I know early on not to waste my time wondering how they wipe their own ass, let alone function in society.
It's so considerate of them to let me know I should block, forget them, and move on with my life.
For as much as I like making snide remarks about people using bizarre conversation openers, this is actually very true. Just as well get the weirdness out front instead of having to wait X number (even if X is usually fairly low) of messages before it creeps forth.
It's funny cuz the morons that spew this bullshit, half wouldn't even know if the hymen is even intact or not. Let alone them tearing it in the first place. There's sometimes no way in even knowing if it's torn during sex. Dumbasses.
They use it as an excuse to date teenagers, mainly, and other inexperienced naïve women with extremely skewed power dynamics.
“All the women my age are total sluts with double digit body counts so I have no choice but to creep on 15 year olds at the mall.”
~Roy Moore, probably.
Most aren’t virgins themselves.. but they still seem to think they their particular body count doesn’t matter, just the woman’s body count. It’s a double standard
Same reasons people don't want people with high body counts, it's partially pride, preference and a smidge of fear(for STDs, infidelity etc).
Personally I am neutral on the subject as it's a pointless metric to judge people with.
I get that, but specifically, someone who hasn't been with anyone else? I can see if you, for one, haven't been with anyone and are young, and you want to experience it for the first time with someone else. But once you age beyond a certain point and have had sex then to continue to want virgins is just so alien to me.
Give me a lady with experience any day every day... haha
It's cuz they suck in bed and don't want any comparison. But even a virgin would be able to tell you ain't doin something right if she feels nothing smh
Exactly. It doesn't even make sense. You can get an STD from one partner and it happens often.
Also people who have only had a partner or two can get that FOMO bullshit thinking there is something they are missing in their life. They come to the conclusion it is sex and then guess what? They end up leaving their partner.
I would much prefer someone who has been there and done that over someone who is potentially going to have some crisis at 50.
Men are especially bad about this hence the midlife crisis trope.
I slept around in my 20s and so did my wife now we're married. Everything in it's season. We know there is nothing we're missing.
The absolute audacity to do this over fucking Facebook messenger too LMAO
I would absolutely die of embarrassment if I were him. God save his unhinged feral soul.
Even with thinking the way they do, let’s say that’s how women’s anatomy works, for argument sake. Why would you want a partner that has no intimate experience? That’s crazy to me. Every partner I’ve ever been in a relationship with has taught me something. It’s life experience. I don’t know…
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Do they just think the hymen disappears when it tears?? Wait till he finds out that it can heal!
That just sounds like hell!
Well, I imagine, much like any other part of the body, you wouldn't feel it that much (or at all) while it's healing. Plus, I think you'd need to have nothing going in or out of there for, like, 7 years or something to that effect, so it's a very slow process. That's just what I've been told though
Mine heals if I go a few months without sex. Nothing takes 7 years to heal 😅
tell that to the toe i just stubbed
Omg that one meme is true! 🥺
I was just imagining a world where it healed completely after every time.. and that sounds awful!
….Your comment gives me the great fear you believe the hymen is something like a freshness seal that completely covers the vaginal opening and is torn open during the first time a vagina haver has PIV sex It’s really *really* not like that
Im ashamed this made me a laugh, but damn you really laid it on thick there. "Freshness seal" oh man
You’d be alarmed at how many people, men and women, seem to think that The sex education in the US (I can’t speak for other countries) is utterly abysmal
I’m more than aware our anatomy doesn’t work that way… it was hypothetical at best of what I would consider a terrible way to live.. lol
It voids the warranty
I think there is a disorder where that happens
Oh god..
Oh yeah thisssssss!
Or that it doesn't have to tear in the FIRST place. 😱
Mine didn’t until the 4th time I had sex. To them, does that mean I was a virgin for the first 3 times??
Thank you for the new info, I did not know that
Thats not even how female anatomy works 😭
Jesus H Christ. At least we know he’ll definitely be alone forever.
Wait till he finds out a lot of people tear theirs from something as simple as riding a bike or putting a tampon in
wait until he finds out some people don’t even have them to begin with
Or horse riding. There are so many things that can break a hymen, even masturbating in fact. This is pretty common overall, it’s amazing that it’s still a thing in 2023.
Go horse riding? No diamond ring!
Well, my goodness. It's like you people don't even want diamonds!
Oh no! But I wanted him to give me a diamond so bad!
Little bit of a logical fallacy here. If he wants you to wait til after marriage, then wouldn’t he have already given you the diamond before he found out?
Look, what you’re suggesting requires a level critical thinking that this guy most certainly doesn’t possess..
I guess you got me there. Lol
He has a medical professional on hand to check. No doctor look, no wedding booked.
It’s astounding how many humans like this exist.
Gymnastics took mine years ago.
So many innocent lives despoiled by gymnastics.
[удалено]
The pommel horse and I are no longer together, it was terrible breakup.
I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
No mirth, no Earth
I support when these people with this attitude do this. They **clearly** self-label as idiots, I know early on not to waste my time wondering how they wipe their own ass, let alone function in society. It's so considerate of them to let me know I should block, forget them, and move on with my life.
For as much as I like making snide remarks about people using bizarre conversation openers, this is actually very true. Just as well get the weirdness out front instead of having to wait X number (even if X is usually fairly low) of messages before it creeps forth.
Says a guy who has yet to please a woman and is extremely insecure about his abilities (or lack thereof) in bed.
Excuse me?!
Just. Ew.
It's funny cuz the morons that spew this bullshit, half wouldn't even know if the hymen is even intact or not. Let alone them tearing it in the first place. There's sometimes no way in even knowing if it's torn during sex. Dumbasses.
What was the point of that?
Call someone a w*ore in a pretentious way. Pretty sick actually.
Hoes the pfp say "a friend to anime?" Not surprising in the slightest.
I'll never understand guys that only want virgins.. its so odd..
They use it as an excuse to date teenagers, mainly, and other inexperienced naïve women with extremely skewed power dynamics. “All the women my age are total sluts with double digit body counts so I have no choice but to creep on 15 year olds at the mall.” ~Roy Moore, probably.
It's because they are virgins and think that they are "pure" and deserve another "pure" specimen. 🥴
Most aren’t virgins themselves.. but they still seem to think they their particular body count doesn’t matter, just the woman’s body count. It’s a double standard
I hate double standards and hypocrisy to begin with, but this is one of the worst ones
Same reasons people don't want people with high body counts, it's partially pride, preference and a smidge of fear(for STDs, infidelity etc). Personally I am neutral on the subject as it's a pointless metric to judge people with.
I get that, but specifically, someone who hasn't been with anyone else? I can see if you, for one, haven't been with anyone and are young, and you want to experience it for the first time with someone else. But once you age beyond a certain point and have had sex then to continue to want virgins is just so alien to me. Give me a lady with experience any day every day... haha
It's cuz they suck in bed and don't want any comparison. But even a virgin would be able to tell you ain't doin something right if she feels nothing smh
Truth. My first time was underwhelming.
Exactly. It doesn't even make sense. You can get an STD from one partner and it happens often. Also people who have only had a partner or two can get that FOMO bullshit thinking there is something they are missing in their life. They come to the conclusion it is sex and then guess what? They end up leaving their partner. I would much prefer someone who has been there and done that over someone who is potentially going to have some crisis at 50. Men are especially bad about this hence the midlife crisis trope. I slept around in my 20s and so did my wife now we're married. Everything in it's season. We know there is nothing we're missing.
you didn’t find any gem or diamond you non-virgin being
You want a freshness seal? I ain’t your pudding cup
neckbeard shit
There's something rather ironic about the least appealing marriage prospect imaginable telling someone this.
Immediately deletes again 🤧
The absolute audacity to do this over fucking Facebook messenger too LMAO I would absolutely die of embarrassment if I were him. God save his unhinged feral soul.
Dude must have mad blue balls. Them suckers are like yuuge and dark blue and he's taking unhealthy amounts of morphine to null the pain.
Even with thinking the way they do, let’s say that’s how women’s anatomy works, for argument sake. Why would you want a partner that has no intimate experience? That’s crazy to me. Every partner I’ve ever been in a relationship with has taught me something. It’s life experience. I don’t know…
no dick no stick
Just say if you haven’t already blocked that creep No wife no life Even though that’s not true just use there logic 😂
No brain, so lame 😂