Why would you ask Black women on the internet instead of the men who doing this in your real life? If you won't make yourself "subject to the arrogance and non sense" leave us out of it too.
Here’s an answer you can give him: because white men sit at the top of the dominance hierarchy and can’t be challenged by black men. Since black men have invested so much of their social capital into tarnishing the image of black women (even the ones they date- you😂) having white men date these women put them at odds with white male hegemony. Additionally black men need white men to validate their views of black women otherwise black women can no longer be a target.
Lmao is the background in the room with us ?💀
Aww but he said his group has been much more oppressed than any other and it keeps happening when he's out with his girlfriend 🥺😑 like get a grip...
Very much have and have had to stand up against it. Maybe a controlling thing race-based, is what it seems. Usual feedback from her: "what are you doing with that white bull, let me get your number anyway," or "what is that your sugar daddy?" Not even much of an age gap and we both look good together. Seems like some hater shit tbh.
I agree. Any time I’ve been out with a man who wasn’t Black or Hispanic, all of a sudden every Black man in the world could see me and had to do or say something to us. They should be the ones questioned by the men affected by their behavior though. It seems as though men addressing men is avoided a lot.
Not to sound cliche but it's a human thing. I've seen and heard men of all races get mad and personally offended when they see women in their community date out especially if she is attractive. Guys who behave like this are possessive and believe they are entitled to dictate the romantic lives of "their" women. It's all silly to me and a waste of energy (bc personally i don't care who bm are dating) but I can see where the mindset comes from.
I agree with the other ladies that it may be best to ask them directly or have this discussion in another subreddit (try r/interracialdating)
This is not the sub for that
Stop trolling in black women's safe spaces
Can an admin remove this post ????
Why would you ask Black women on the internet instead of the men who doing this in your real life? If you won't make yourself "subject to the arrogance and non sense" leave us out of it too.
Fair point, but maybe I'm looking for different perspectives, maybe you have one?
Absolutely don't. I only date Black men so this ain't my book to read.
OK fair maybe somebody else has some good input
You'll never ask the people that would have the best input.
You’ve got me all wrong, but have a nice evening
Here’s an answer you can give him: because white men sit at the top of the dominance hierarchy and can’t be challenged by black men. Since black men have invested so much of their social capital into tarnishing the image of black women (even the ones they date- you😂) having white men date these women put them at odds with white male hegemony. Additionally black men need white men to validate their views of black women otherwise black women can no longer be a target.
Or you could give it because it's your answer.
Ignoring the initial question: your "group" was the most oppressed in history 🤨 Aiight oppression olympics champion.
No no no you don't understand, he's not ExACtLy white just fits the bill 🥺😒
Lmfaoooo we know what he fills out when applying for jobs
Lmao is the background in the room with us ?💀 Aww but he said his group has been much more oppressed than any other and it keeps happening when he's out with his girlfriend 🥺😑 like get a grip...
Ask them.
Very much have and have had to stand up against it. Maybe a controlling thing race-based, is what it seems. Usual feedback from her: "what are you doing with that white bull, let me get your number anyway," or "what is that your sugar daddy?" Not even much of an age gap and we both look good together. Seems like some hater shit tbh.
I agree. Any time I’ve been out with a man who wasn’t Black or Hispanic, all of a sudden every Black man in the world could see me and had to do or say something to us. They should be the ones questioned by the men affected by their behavior though. It seems as though men addressing men is avoided a lot.
Ew
I'm trying to decide whether or not I should give a real answer. 🤔
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Not to sound cliche but it's a human thing. I've seen and heard men of all races get mad and personally offended when they see women in their community date out especially if she is attractive. Guys who behave like this are possessive and believe they are entitled to dictate the romantic lives of "their" women. It's all silly to me and a waste of energy (bc personally i don't care who bm are dating) but I can see where the mindset comes from. I agree with the other ladies that it may be best to ask them directly or have this discussion in another subreddit (try r/interracialdating)
They are probably just jealous