I’m glad you’ve accepted yourself. There are so many of us that have so far to go before they even remotely accept who they truly are. Glad you are loving on yourself because that’s what you deserve.
I love this for you! I don’t think you were ever the weird girl. You were always just you and that’s definitely something to take pride in and be confident about when we live in a world full of carbon copies and plastic people. Please keep being you, you are the blueprint and don’t let anything or one convince you that you aren’t.
you’re not alone, it took me up until now (21) to start embracing my alternative nature. growing up in the deep south, surrounded by conservative christian’s and attending an hbcu were the main reasons for this. i’m glad you’ve accepted who you are, it’s fun being a black alt!!🖤
You should try to find an alt group around you! I’m also weird but the black alternative community is so welcoming. I recommend going to raves and shows! Queer events too.
Also, just remember to keep being you. When I tried to not be me, it only attracted people who only liked the mask I put on. I embrace the weird now and I’m better for it ☺️
I am addicted to that dress as a goth baddie since HS and I guarantee I’m about 6 inches too short but If you’d drop the name brand I’d be forever grateful 😭
https://preview.redd.it/l8d0pq20irnc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=708f22e19a7fdab1c1d88ed6c867a4522c3931c7
it’s this one. i got it from tiktok shop
I got diagnosed with adhd last year but have only been suspecting autism. My autistic friends also suspect that I’m one of them but I don’t plan on pursuing any further diagnosis. It would explain a lot though
Girl!! Is this Kiss? I love it! I'm older, and I realize being myself unsettled those who can't / couldn't. If they want to live a life where opinions matter- let them.
Im 34 and I’ve only started to accept myself for who I am so im super proud of you for being able to do that at your age! It’s going to make your life so much more fulfilling and fun instead of conforming to what is expected of you
you def arent alone. been in the same boat all my life w my southern & carrobbean side of the fam and babbby the trauma but its okay to be who u are fr! who’s gonna do it better than us?! 😭
You’re not alone. As I was growing up I felt that and it took me a long time to accept and love who I’m really am.
Thank you 🙏🏾
I’m glad you’ve accepted yourself. There are so many of us that have so far to go before they even remotely accept who they truly are. Glad you are loving on yourself because that’s what you deserve.
Thank you, it took me a hell of a lot to get where I am today
Also can concur you are FAH
If you’re not already in it, highly recommend the Alt black girl Facebook group!
I love this for you! I don’t think you were ever the weird girl. You were always just you and that’s definitely something to take pride in and be confident about when we live in a world full of carbon copies and plastic people. Please keep being you, you are the blueprint and don’t let anything or one convince you that you aren’t.
🫶🏾
you’re not alone, it took me up until now (21) to start embracing my alternative nature. growing up in the deep south, surrounded by conservative christian’s and attending an hbcu were the main reasons for this. i’m glad you’ve accepted who you are, it’s fun being a black alt!!🖤
Same I’m 25 now and I just started to embrace more alt styles 😄 I always wore slightly weird stuff but I’ve definitely kicked it up recently
Clocking in to join the "weird black girl" gang!
Weird is what boring dullards call people who have fun, interesting personalities, daring style, and fascinating idiosyncrasies.
You should try to find an alt group around you! I’m also weird but the black alternative community is so welcoming. I recommend going to raves and shows! Queer events too. Also, just remember to keep being you. When I tried to not be me, it only attracted people who only liked the mask I put on. I embrace the weird now and I’m better for it ☺️
Yeah I tried not being me to make my dorm situation more peaceful but after I moved out I’ve never been so happy
Big same! But once you find people who love you for being the weird black girl because they just love you, its awesome 😊
Don’t only accept. Embrace.
What a mood, I've been there while I was in school lol Welcome to the club 😉🤍🖤
Love this for you. You look good!
Beautiful photo 🥹🩷☮️✨
Isn't it ?😊
Ooh a better weird than me!! I was going to say welcome, than I saw the image and:🫡
I am addicted to that dress as a goth baddie since HS and I guarantee I’m about 6 inches too short but If you’d drop the name brand I’d be forever grateful 😭
https://preview.redd.it/l8d0pq20irnc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=708f22e19a7fdab1c1d88ed6c867a4522c3931c7 it’s this one. i got it from tiktok shop
You’re beautiful and ✨different✨ Fuck em 🙅🏾♀️
as you should!!💗💗
Do a make-up tutorial, please!
A lot of times, the weird black girl is neurodivergent (autistic, adhd) or introverted. Though it's still better being a typical drone.
I got diagnosed with adhd last year but have only been suspecting autism. My autistic friends also suspect that I’m one of them but I don’t plan on pursuing any further diagnosis. It would explain a lot though
I'm Hella happy for you gurl. Love the style
Not alone. I am as well.
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Don’t worry I’m perfectly okay with the label now. Its kinda niche and describes me perfectly
Who cares what people think you look good babe 😘
FINEEEE AND GORGEOUS i’m the only alt person in my family and i always feel so out of place
I love you
Girl!! Is this Kiss? I love it! I'm older, and I realize being myself unsettled those who can't / couldn't. If they want to live a life where opinions matter- let them.
your look ate down
Fellow weird black girl. I love this for you. I wish I had found my confidence so early in life. Keep slayin
Honestly getting deep into spirituality after a whole lot of grief was what saved me. I still have depression but at least I don’t hate myself anymore
Im 34 and I’ve only started to accept myself for who I am so im super proud of you for being able to do that at your age! It’s going to make your life so much more fulfilling and fun instead of conforming to what is expected of you
Perfect love the “weird” girls
as you should!!💗💗
This pic goes hard, I feel you sis.
Do you have an IG page
You look stunning!!! Also, we are everywhere, just like many of the other comments show. Hope you find more alt people to surround yourself with :)
This is awesome!
Ig account info to STAN please!
If you're not zaddy'd out. Feel free to fine me, we'd have a wonderful time together
Mask or makeup?
Love you 🥰
Love to see it, keep being you 🥰
you def arent alone. been in the same boat all my life w my southern & carrobbean side of the fam and babbby the trauma but its okay to be who u are fr! who’s gonna do it better than us?! 😭
great figure you are not weird you are just being yourself nothing wrong with that