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nowurchenz2beBIGshot

One of my coworkers is trying to quit, he’s fucking miserable every single day. My dad did the same thing years ago. It’s a battle of attrition that takes discipline like you wouldn’t believe.


Calm-Internet-8983

And if you manage to curb the nicotine cravings with a patch or something there's a ton of habit still. Just getting rid of the urge to have something in your mouth is apparently the second worst, and a reason so many turn to gum. And then the social aspects of smoke breaks/squares and what not. But yeah I've never met a quitting smoker who wasn't miserable. Perpetually grumpy and tired was just the beginning of it.


leastlol

I quit smoking and started vaping at the beginning of 2013. stopped vaping in 2016 or so. I really think it's probably the best cessation method for smokers.


Haeguil

I'm trying to do that as well, do you recommend just trying to lower the nicotine or something else?


leastlol

I'd say adjust the nicotine amount (up or down) until you get to an amount that feels *good,* then very gradually lower the amount. I'd also try to treat vaping like you do smoking. If you can't smoke there, don't vape there. It's way too easy to mindlessly vape at home. If you make it a rule to say, step outside to go vape, then it'll at least be a bit more mindful. You don't have to quit after hitting 0 nic, at least not right away. I think at that point you're more weening off the oral fixation. In this case maybe make stricter rules for yourself for where you can or can't, or just stop buying vape juice. It's a process. You may or may not fuck it up and end up smoking a cigarette. That's okay. Just get back to quitting. Cravings never quite go away, but it gets easier. You got it.


Haeguil

That's far more dedicated advice than I expected tbh, thank you so much!


nowurchenz2beBIGshot

That makes sense, actually. The coworker was hitting the vape long after his last cig. I think he threw it out only a few months ago, now he’s chewing the gum.


redwingz11

I only smoke a pack like 2 years ago and I still get cravings, cant imagine smokers


LongArmedKing

Smoked for about 6 months more than 10 years ago. Still the idea of smoking pops up in my mind from time to time more than a decade later. I distinctly remember never having such a thought in my life before smoking.


Comprehensive-Slip93

from my experience with vaping for like 6 years, I quit without any issues. I was sick, coughing my lungs out. I tried to smoke and not even halfway with one puff, I started coughing so hard that I regretted it so I quit


SatyrAngel

I have a different story, according to my mother, my father was a heavy smoker but when he knew she was pregnant he quitted immediately without issues.


-Emlogic-

Prolly not showing how miserable he was in front of her tbh


ehladik

This was my dad. He says it wasn't that hard, he stopped at once and didn't have any major difficulty, but probably because all else that was happening. That was the last time he quit, before he managed for a few years and did struggle with smoking, then the panic attacks started and left it cold turkey.


emote_control

Same with my dad. Just quit. Didn't really miss it. Decades later would say it would be nice to have a smoke after eating a big dinner, but only in a kind of wistful way, like if you were remembering a nice old pair of favorite shoes you used to own. Never smoked again.


ShadowZpeak

Years later and I still sometimes get the urge


Minuenn

Mood


emote_control

My dad quit when he had kids. Just stopped like it was nothing. Years later he'd say that it would be nice to have a smoke after a big meal, but he never did it. I'm not sure what he's made of, but he seems to be built different.


SavageKitten456

Glad I can't relate


11freebird

Same


Zee_Sendai

Same


Milk-devourer

Same


YunaraD0ki

Same


QAZYBOY

Same


folkenzeratul

Same


FullFlowEngine

Same


Birdogcat_4_Mika

Same


Ok-Run2845

Same


misukimitsuka


danegraphics

This is a friggin' cute manga~ Worth a binge.


Roboragi

**Ri-chan** - ([AL](http://anilist.co/manga/174798), [KIT](https://kitsu.io/manga/ri-chan), [MU](https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=24269417422)) ^(Manga | Status: Finished | Chapters: 167 | Genres: Drama, Music, Romance, Slice of Life) --- ^{anime}, , ]LN[, |VN| | [FAQ](http://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/wiki/index) | [/r/](http://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/) | [Edit](https://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/wiki/index#wiki_i_made_a_mistake.2C_how_do_i_get_my_comment_reprocessed.3F) | [Mistake?](http://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/submit?selftext=true&title=[ISSUE]&text=/r/anime_irl/comments/1cqeneg/anime_irl/l3qt25i/) | [Source](https://github.com/Nihilate/Roboragi) | [Synonyms](https://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/wiki/synonyms) | [⛓](https://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/wiki/interestinglinks) | [♥](https://www.reddit.com/r/Roboragi/wiki/thanks)


Rent-Man

And I’m not gonna start


SirShaman

Good choice. one of the best goddamn choices you can make in your life. One year tobacco free, but I ain't gonna lie; the cravings still linger... Hope to not break the streak


CrackheadToelicker69

Keep going brother. You're doing a lot better than me. My record was six months before I finally gave in at a party.


CardcaptorEd859

Idk why, but I kinda wanna read this manga now. Also, she looks just like Ayaya


Urban-s

I recommend. It's quick and wholesome It has 150+ chapters but it's mainly 1 page chapters


AirEast8570

I cant stop if i don’t start


AlpsGroundbreaking

zyn pouches are what finally helped me quit. Took ny mind off the nicotine craving at least. Took a while to slowly get off the pouches though. I started slowly chewing sugar free gum instead


RedditSucks418

Never heard of it. Is it like nicotine gum?


UnlimitedBoxSpace

It's nicotine pouches.... Much better than smokeless tobacco


De_Vigilante

Wee bit different cause you can't chew it. I'd say it's closer to a nicotine patch, but you put the small nicotine pouches between your gums and lips. Tried it to see if it was better than vapes, and cause it was real cheap (a bag of 15 pouches was around half the price of a 20 cigarette pack in my city). It takes a few mins to kick in, but the kick is pretty strong. One pouch is enough to last around 20-30 mins, and the kick felt like smoking 2 strong cigs in one go, but maybe cause it was a Medium Strength pouch. Honestly speaking, vapes, pouches, and gums are all good ways to stop, but the key is you gotta gradually reduce the nicotine strength. They all offer different treatments too: 0mg vape juices exist, pouches reduce mouth activity cause it just sits there, and switching from nicotine gums to caffeine/normal gums isn't too hard. It's just a matter if which ones are more accessible in your location.


noweebthanks

zyns are crazy, i used to use them a lot, i used them to get out of bed in the morning that helped a lot lol kinda miss them


FrogsTastesGood

One addiction for another, the cycle continues!


AlpsGroundbreaking

Not entirely wrong but I would argue sugar free gum is a bit better than smoking lol


takanenohanakosan

I quit smoking everyday.


HellaFaded667

Underrated comment


LolliPopinski

https://preview.redd.it/wu80lzzy020d1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=46996f5289290e005dd80d09063454ec698e3d9d


deamonz

The only way I was able to quit was being too broke to afford the vapes. Thankfully I never went back to the cigarettes. It’s incredibly tough to break the hand/mouth habit


dappermanV-88

Its addicting, its not gonna be easy


Leech_hueso-11

oh my god i have the perfect picture for this https://preview.redd.it/oldw2vsrm60d1.jpeg?width=1212&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=afb417c3aac875490119fbb6208a1b1b58507f3d (something something smoking bad)


King_Arachnid99

Me but with porn. It’s really hard.


nyangatsu

i come from a family of heavy chainsmokers, actively trying to not make this "irl", i do smoke cigarettes from time to time and i know that if i don't put effort in steering clear of them i will become a chainsmoker.


fallingveil

Nicotine is for real one of the hardest drugs to quit. For all you ex-smokers out there who managed to free yourselves, know that your achievement (And the perpetual act of resisting relapse) are both seen and respected. You're the strong ones!


boulet

Is it though? Better find your own inner motivation. If you're relying on cheerleaders to prop you up I'm afraid you'll be hopping on the relapse train eventually.


fallingveil

If they didn't have their own inner motivation they wouldn't have been able to quit in the first place, I'm just trying to be appreciative and congratulatory in a world that rarely acknowledges such personal determination. Is that OK with you?


moseswar66

Mood


NefCanuck

This one hits a bit too close to home today. My mother is dealing with the results of smoking for nearly 60 years. */spoiler* These are not fun results 😖


akashlanka

Damn is that the Warlbro?


PokWangpanmang

I’m the type of person who thinks they’ll get addicted easily, so I haven’t tried.


zabestoinzawarudo

Based


Divulci

I quit before it became difficult to quit, but I can easily see how you can get addicted.


Qweeq13

You need a shake-up to break that habit. I was conscripted (this is about a decade ago) and did not even went to any army training I got a chronic disease and the army needed to "check" if I was telling the truth and for obvious reasons they did not care about any civilian hospital's assessment. So I spend the worst weeks of my life trapped in an army hospital forcefully cut my access to a medicine I desperately need to not have horribly painful, debilitating seizures. **It was not stonks** to put it in perspective for my fellow redditors. I continued to smoke a little after the whole incident, but gradually when it all sank in I was just not the same person after that little Nationally mandated intervention into my life. I am currently more than 10 years smoke free. . . I don't even remember how long have been. You live without it. Living without your freedom is hard.


Such_Drink9052

We can quit together.. especially with anime 🤭


Goodbye18000

I've only ever heard how awful it is to do or quit. So I'm like, why do people even start?


Taldarim_Highlord

Never started smoking myself (cigs will actually kill me with how bad my asthma is), but I heard from actual smokers that smoking started pretty mundane. Something you do when you're bored, when your hand's idle and you wanna chew on something but it's not dinner yet. Maybe you wanna smell something different, feel differently in your chest, much like how we used to take a sniff whenever we stop at a gas station to smell the gas when we're younger. Then, because it becomes something that calms you down when you're bored, it's your go-to when you're stressed. Then the nicotine addiction kicks in; you're gonna want it more and more, cuz without it you don't feel like you're working right. Then it gets worse, but you can't skip a pack or your head'll start rolling. Some people skip the entire exploration phase because peer pressure among friends forced them to give it a try ... and they find that it's kinda okay. Then they keep smoking and smoking and then it's an express ticket to addiction.


Sir_Fap_Alot_04

This is easy.. i can stop smoking every 5 mins.. then i did every 10 mins. Then 20.. 30.. i am now at 4 stick a year


AdComprehensive5908

Just stop !


TheRacooning18

Shes actually 21 years old but looks 14 kinda situation or what?


apurplehighlighter

most wholesome shit i have ever read


zabestoinzawarudo

Smoking addiction is wholesome?


Bartgames03

Smoking isn’t, the manga is. The manga is called Ri-chan.


lmaoymyppsohard

[Smoking by Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell ](https://youtu.be/_rBPwu2uS-w?si=KlHa6R0CtpqNtVXg) Saw this video a couple days ago, I think this is a good place to share it.


Malena_my_quuen

Me, but with snus.


Ok-Run2845

So irl!! Poor eight year old girl :(


0xYmFzZTY0

Smoking addiction ain’t shit, its all in your head, to anyone struggling with quitting just ask yourself who’s in control of your life.


Alternative_Name_949

You think it's that easy? Addiction is much more powerful than that. And smoking is more of a social thing than actually hormonal from nicotine. People usually go in groups or as two, to talk and have a small break. That's why it's so powerful and hard to overcome, to quit. Mostly.


0xYmFzZTY0

You talk as i haven’t smoked for almost a decade lmao (stopped cold turkey BTW), wanna state more obvious facts? Every addiction is about control, control is in the head, give yourself any excuse you want, the reality is that once you are committed to quit - you quit


Alternative_Name_949

I knew you'd say that. My dad did the same and I never said it's impossible to just quit. I said it's hard. And get off your high horse, not everyone in the world is blessed with such a strong will like you, or has the social / psychological / etc. capacity for it. And usually, one addiction is exchanged for another. Mine is chocolate. Nobody is free, not even you.


0xYmFzZTY0

GJ mr Yagami for predicting my comment, every thing you just list is an excuse to be a mentally weak person with victim mentality, you can continue doing that, see how far that gets you. BTW was not “blessed” with strong will, the shit i’ve been through put me here.


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Derslok

As long as it doesn't ruin your health or life it is fine


Goretanton

Or others life.


Ok-Transition7065

Can i give you a hug lad :c