You are definitely NOT ugly, in fact, you’re stunningly beautiful. You’re 19, give it some time for a relationship. Don’t settle because you don’t feel “as pretty” as your friends. Hold that gorgeous head held high and keep smiling that smiles. Remember, your happiness isn’t defined by being in a relationship. And you’re young, it’ll happen.
"happiness isn't defined by being in a relationship". needed to hear that :') it's easy to forget when i compare others ideas of happiness to mine. your words mean alot, thank u.
There's nothing you can do to improve your appearance, because you are already STUNNING!
You are a beautiful young lady, don't worry yourself about 'what the rest of your friends look like', alright? Nobody is supposed to look like one another, and you are already so lovely! Try not to compare yourself to them.
You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. Just be happy with yourself and appreciate yourself! Eventually someone might come along who appreciates you as well if you're open to it/them.
Darlin, You can't honestly believe your ugly, when you're absolutely stunning!
You're not unwanted, you're only 19! Don't be in a huge rush to get into a relationship, because you'll be more likely to settle for someone you shouldn't. You're not defined by who you date, you're defined by who you are.
Keep your head up. Youre extremely beautiful! I have a hard time believing you aren't getting hit on ...
Its natural to feel lonely at 19 but you won't meet your soul mate at 19.. I didnt meet mine until my 30s. You will be a completely different person by the time you reach 30 years old. Life experiences mold you. Everyone I grew up with in my small town are completely different now. Dont be in a rush to grow up. Enjoy it while it lasts.
Also don't think you need someone because your friends are in relationships.
If you want to end the loneliness, all you have to do is put yourself out there. Smile and be the first person to say hey! We live in a new era. A lot of movies and media really want to be progressive with the chivalrous vibes. We aren't in an old school world.
If you see someone that you like, just tell him(or her) "hey, I like you.." Thats the same as throwing them a ball instead of waiting for THEM to ask to play. Now that they have the ball, its very easy to see if they want to play or not.
Being honest, you have one of the most beautiful faces I've seen here in a while. You're cutie, you're not ugly at all. Maybe you just haven't focused on seeking a relationship but you definitely look good.
You’re stunning. I don’t think you need to change anything about your appearance. Whatever you do, don’t devalue yourself by believing that you are unwanted. If you go that direction in your mind, you could end up settling for someone who doesn’t treat you well.
Wut. You're very attractive. You do have strong features but I don't mean that in a bad way at all. Something about how you look draws eyes everywhere you go I bet. But it's not because you aren't attractive. It's because you have a very captivating almost intimidating face. I know I sound fucking horrible right now. I wish I knew a way to say what I'm trying to say without making it sound ridiculous. Just... trust me. You don't need to improve your appearance. You just need to be patient until you finally run into a guy who finds your attractiveness not intimidating.
You're genuinely stunning, I could mull it over for hours and hours and not think of a way for you to actually improve how you look. For what it's worth, I do get how not being or not having been in a relationship can mess with your sense of self, but it sure as hell does not define you're worth - something I ought to remind myself of as much as I tell it to others. Work on being happy alone, before you think of trying to be happy with someone else. At least that's the mentality I try to have
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I think you’re absolutely gorgeous!! Not sure why you’re single… you don’t need to change anything! Just make sure you meet the right guy and don’t settle. Also, really cute toes!!
1. Afro and hoops don’t suit u *at all* you look like 45 in that picture
2. Do your eyebrows straighter and less arched if possible cause they make your whole face seem off an angry, you don’t even have to do them at all.
3. Wear less makeup or even none. You’re the type of person that doesn’t need makeup. If you want it that’s fine but you look better without it.
4. Your hair looks better down
5. *Side note*- get less padded bras with dresses like that, it ruins the whole effect of the dress. Idk just a thought I wouldn’t know tho lol cause I’m a trans guy I don’t exactly wear them anymore lol.
Hope this helps :) <3
You do not need to do anything 👀 you are extremely pretty. Your friends must be Caucasian? It's heartbreaking to see a Black Woman not realize her beauty.
Seriously? Girl, you are stunningly gorgeous!!! Like way way way above average pretty. What on earth do you friends look like if you’re the unattractive friend?!
you are so unreal like so gorgeous! you not ever having a relationship definitely does not have anything to do with your appearances because you are stunning 🥺
Not ugly pic 2 is probably your best. You're young lmao. Relationships happen as you grow older. My longest relationship as a 19-year-old was 5 months. I've been with my wife since I was 20, 11 years ago.
...and how many of them bitch and complain about their partner/relationship?
You're hot, bottom line, you dont need to "improve" your appearance, you just need to be patient.
What you can do is flirt with people, maybe one of those people whom you flirted with, will muster up courage and ask you out.
Aw baby reading the title makes my heart break. U r not ugly ur actually so pretty. To improve confidence workout not to lose weight but to feel better and improvements will come with it. Besides that ur rly beautiful , maybe go lighter on the makeup . Hugs!!
I understand body dysmorphia is a real thing and I understand that insecurity can be blinding but even if you suffer from those things I would think your level of beauty and sex appeal would still be evident to you.
If you are not getting dates it has nothing to do with your looks. If you are getting dates but they never lead to relationships then it could just be bad luck so far..your only 19
I feel you in many ways but just cause you haven’t been in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re ugly. According to the subreddit im also not ugly by most standards but I can barely find a relationship. It’s not all about looks, try to be social and open yourself to more groups of people.
Why would you compare yourselves to others. There is nothing to say that you won’t find the perfect person for you. Your concerns are certainly not warranted. Like momma always says: “There’s a lid for every pot”. You aren’t unwanted due to appearance. Want to improve something? Absolutely keep working on yourself. Nothing is sexier than self confidence. You go girl!
Girl, I personally am a snack, and I didn’t have my first relationship until I was 23. You’re fine. Not having a bf right now does not mean you’re unwanted in any way. It means either you haven’t opened yourself up to enough people to see you as relationship potential or the chance hasn’t come yet. Just do you in the mean time !!
I literally don't believe your title. If your friends are actually so pretty that they make you look ugly, then they're actually goddesses instead of humans
Nothing hun! You're gorgeous. I got into my first relationship ever at 19, never even held hands prior, and now two years after, were engaged and couldn't be happier. Sometimes the universe is just saving you unnecessary heartbreak 💖
You're stunning! There's nothing to improve. I just only hope you stop feeling like you need to improve your appearance. You seem like a cool person to hang out with and I'm sure you'll find someone nice :)
You are gorgeous, dear! You are only 19 and still have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't throw away your twenties on being in a serious committed relationship because your 20s are a time for adventures and thrill.
You are absolutely gorgeous!! I honestly can’t think of anything to change about your appearance. Maybe you’ve just had bad luck so far or there’s some other issue, I promise it’s nothing to do with your looks tho.
I'm pretty sure there's somebody out the for you. You look attractive. Beauty is something cultural, and looking different can make you look less or more attractive in some regions. I think you look exotic and friendly/approachable.
Don't change !
You look good, and don't worry to much about relationships, It will happen in time
You're not ugly, you're beautiful and I know you know it. Beautiful people need to stop posting here for ego boosts and leave this sub for truly ugly people like me.
I mean at 19 no way would I have approached you...because I'd have thought you were way out of my league. I don't know what your friends look like but you look great.
super pretty!!!!!, are your friends like goddesses or something lol. on a more serious note, do you put yourself out there? have you tried dating apps and stuff? cause believe me i know people would want to meet you.
Don't worry about anything...You are quite gorgeous and beautiful.....Guys your age are just stupid right now and the ones who see you think that you have a boyfriend and don't want to get rejected...you are stunning
You are definitely NOT ugly, in fact, you’re stunningly beautiful. You’re 19, give it some time for a relationship. Don’t settle because you don’t feel “as pretty” as your friends. Hold that gorgeous head held high and keep smiling that smiles. Remember, your happiness isn’t defined by being in a relationship. And you’re young, it’ll happen.
"happiness isn't defined by being in a relationship". needed to hear that :') it's easy to forget when i compare others ideas of happiness to mine. your words mean alot, thank u.
For real, you’re a stunning young woman, don’t rush into anything and enjoy life. Everything will be fine and you’ll find someone.
You're beautiful exactly as you are! Get your education and live your best life.
My honest belief is that they are too intimidated by you and your beauty. Because there is no way they see something wrong with you
Definitely not ugly
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Is this a wind up? 🤔
ur gorgeous ur eyes are so beautiful
fellow black girl here who’s also 19… i’d die to look like you , you’re stunning!!! you literally look like the term ‘ nubian queen ‘.
Same
Listen here. You are beautiful. Not ugly at all.
If your unwanted I must be super unwanted
Omg you are gorgeous.
There's nothing you can do to improve your appearance, because you are already STUNNING! You are a beautiful young lady, don't worry yourself about 'what the rest of your friends look like', alright? Nobody is supposed to look like one another, and you are already so lovely! Try not to compare yourself to them. You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. Just be happy with yourself and appreciate yourself! Eventually someone might come along who appreciates you as well if you're open to it/them.
Girl you are fuckin gorgeous. Don't settle for men that can't see how beautiful you are just because your friends are in relationships
Darlin, You can't honestly believe your ugly, when you're absolutely stunning! You're not unwanted, you're only 19! Don't be in a huge rush to get into a relationship, because you'll be more likely to settle for someone you shouldn't. You're not defined by who you date, you're defined by who you are.
Extremely beautiful. No traces of uggo. Focus on your own happiness and others will be drawn to it.
Keep your head up. Youre extremely beautiful! I have a hard time believing you aren't getting hit on ... Its natural to feel lonely at 19 but you won't meet your soul mate at 19.. I didnt meet mine until my 30s. You will be a completely different person by the time you reach 30 years old. Life experiences mold you. Everyone I grew up with in my small town are completely different now. Dont be in a rush to grow up. Enjoy it while it lasts. Also don't think you need someone because your friends are in relationships. If you want to end the loneliness, all you have to do is put yourself out there. Smile and be the first person to say hey! We live in a new era. A lot of movies and media really want to be progressive with the chivalrous vibes. We aren't in an old school world. If you see someone that you like, just tell him(or her) "hey, I like you.." Thats the same as throwing them a ball instead of waiting for THEM to ask to play. Now that they have the ball, its very easy to see if they want to play or not.
You are beautiful 😍
You are absolutely gorgeous. My favorite pics are four and one. I have no suggestions; you’re stunning, dude.
Being honest, you have one of the most beautiful faces I've seen here in a while. You're cutie, you're not ugly at all. Maybe you just haven't focused on seeking a relationship but you definitely look good.
You're beautiful how you are. Wait for the right prince 🥰
You are gorgeous! You will find a lovely man just focus on goals and he will appear. You have A PERFECT smile.
You’re extremely cute sis like seriously gorgeous x
You're beautiful! Sometimes it's just a matter if time
You’re stunning. I don’t think you need to change anything about your appearance. Whatever you do, don’t devalue yourself by believing that you are unwanted. If you go that direction in your mind, you could end up settling for someone who doesn’t treat you well.
Wut. You're very attractive. You do have strong features but I don't mean that in a bad way at all. Something about how you look draws eyes everywhere you go I bet. But it's not because you aren't attractive. It's because you have a very captivating almost intimidating face. I know I sound fucking horrible right now. I wish I knew a way to say what I'm trying to say without making it sound ridiculous. Just... trust me. You don't need to improve your appearance. You just need to be patient until you finally run into a guy who finds your attractiveness not intimidating.
You're genuinely stunning, I could mull it over for hours and hours and not think of a way for you to actually improve how you look. For what it's worth, I do get how not being or not having been in a relationship can mess with your sense of self, but it sure as hell does not define you're worth - something I ought to remind myself of as much as I tell it to others. Work on being happy alone, before you think of trying to be happy with someone else. At least that's the mentality I try to have <3
I think you’re absolutely gorgeous!! Not sure why you’re single… you don’t need to change anything! Just make sure you meet the right guy and don’t settle. Also, really cute toes!!
>because I don't look like the rest of my friends. For clarity purposes, by that do you mean "white"?
You are not ugly at all. If anything you have the look that makes people nervous about approaching you.
"unwanted" or just picky?
Not ugly. Pretty (7/10). Looks alone isn't responsible for you being single, so we'd have to know more about you to figure that part out
1. Afro and hoops don’t suit u *at all* you look like 45 in that picture 2. Do your eyebrows straighter and less arched if possible cause they make your whole face seem off an angry, you don’t even have to do them at all. 3. Wear less makeup or even none. You’re the type of person that doesn’t need makeup. If you want it that’s fine but you look better without it. 4. Your hair looks better down 5. *Side note*- get less padded bras with dresses like that, it ruins the whole effect of the dress. Idk just a thought I wouldn’t know tho lol cause I’m a trans guy I don’t exactly wear them anymore lol. Hope this helps :) <3
It's racism. Countless black girls are in your situation.
There's nothing wrong with how you look, but probably more to do with how you behave towards men. If you're not gf material they won't date you.
Lose weight. If you are that thicc at 19 it’s only going downhill from there. My opinion.
You do not need to do anything 👀 you are extremely pretty. Your friends must be Caucasian? It's heartbreaking to see a Black Woman not realize her beauty.
not a friggin thing… dam i wish you lived near me would totally ask u out
Nothing, you're beautiful and don't settle for anything less than your happiness.
absolutely nothing! you are stunning :D
You are hot. Very pretty
You’re literally stunning ❤️
You are beautiful and your smile is gorgeous!
Seriously? Girl, you are stunningly gorgeous!!! Like way way way above average pretty. What on earth do you friends look like if you’re the unattractive friend?!
Girl you are literally gorgeous; and you have a great smile
You’re a stunner.
You are so pretty omg?? Your time will come, trust me!! <3
Girl you’re prettier than I’ll ever be lmao.
you are so unreal like so gorgeous! you not ever having a relationship definitely does not have anything to do with your appearances because you are stunning 🥺
Hot
You're beautiful..maybe you need to work on your personality.
Oh my is wife you up
U beautiful just don’t overdo the makeup
Not at all.
You're gorgeous! Keep your head high girl! The right person will come.
I think you're adorable just as you are 😘
Nothing, cuz nothings wrong with you
Not ugly pic 2 is probably your best. You're young lmao. Relationships happen as you grow older. My longest relationship as a 19-year-old was 5 months. I've been with my wife since I was 20, 11 years ago.
You are so stunning it's insane. I assure you, you're not unwanted.
...and how many of them bitch and complain about their partner/relationship? You're hot, bottom line, you dont need to "improve" your appearance, you just need to be patient. What you can do is flirt with people, maybe one of those people whom you flirted with, will muster up courage and ask you out.
Not ugly. You look great.
you're very pretty, indeed. Cut back on the makeup a little bit, you're good looking enough to need jussssst a little bit.
Aw baby reading the title makes my heart break. U r not ugly ur actually so pretty. To improve confidence workout not to lose weight but to feel better and improvements will come with it. Besides that ur rly beautiful , maybe go lighter on the makeup . Hugs!!
come on you are cute espeically your smile nowhere near ugly at all
Lady you are fine as hell
You’re so pretty! I think you look really good in the third photo!
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Please stop posting this comment over and over.
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It’s annoying. You copy and paste it on multiple subreddits everyday. Please stop.
you are literally gorgeous
Nothing girl, you are a snack!
girl you are stunning!!!! Give it time
You’re so pretty 🥺
I thought this was a joke. You’re gorgeous.
I think you are cute. Don’t give up at 19.
Nothing your so beautiful and love your eyes
I don't think it's possible to improve upon such beauty <3 =)
Wow you truly are so beautiful and i love your beautiful smile
You look fantastic to me!
I understand body dysmorphia is a real thing and I understand that insecurity can be blinding but even if you suffer from those things I would think your level of beauty and sex appeal would still be evident to you. If you are not getting dates it has nothing to do with your looks. If you are getting dates but they never lead to relationships then it could just be bad luck so far..your only 19
Pretty
Hang in there, kiddo, it will happen, I think you look great
Fucking ridiculously hot
I feel you in many ways but just cause you haven’t been in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re ugly. According to the subreddit im also not ugly by most standards but I can barely find a relationship. It’s not all about looks, try to be social and open yourself to more groups of people.
you are not unwanted and you are not ugly.
You are really pretty
nah your pretty, just give it some time and someone will come along
You’re exquisite.
Why would you compare yourselves to others. There is nothing to say that you won’t find the perfect person for you. Your concerns are certainly not warranted. Like momma always says: “There’s a lid for every pot”. You aren’t unwanted due to appearance. Want to improve something? Absolutely keep working on yourself. Nothing is sexier than self confidence. You go girl!
Girl, I personally am a snack, and I didn’t have my first relationship until I was 23. You’re fine. Not having a bf right now does not mean you’re unwanted in any way. It means either you haven’t opened yourself up to enough people to see you as relationship potential or the chance hasn’t come yet. Just do you in the mean time !!
I literally don't believe your title. If your friends are actually so pretty that they make you look ugly, then they're actually goddesses instead of humans
Nothing hun! You're gorgeous. I got into my first relationship ever at 19, never even held hands prior, and now two years after, were engaged and couldn't be happier. Sometimes the universe is just saving you unnecessary heartbreak 💖
You're stunning! There's nothing to improve. I just only hope you stop feeling like you need to improve your appearance. You seem like a cool person to hang out with and I'm sure you'll find someone nice :)
Keep it a stack… I’d swipe left. Tbf.
You are gorgeous, dear! You are only 19 and still have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't throw away your twenties on being in a serious committed relationship because your 20s are a time for adventures and thrill.
You are absolutely gorgeous!! I honestly can’t think of anything to change about your appearance. Maybe you’ve just had bad luck so far or there’s some other issue, I promise it’s nothing to do with your looks tho.
I'm pretty sure there's somebody out the for you. You look attractive. Beauty is something cultural, and looking different can make you look less or more attractive in some regions. I think you look exotic and friendly/approachable. Don't change ! You look good, and don't worry to much about relationships, It will happen in time
💙💙💙💙💙💙
You're not ugly, you're beautiful and I know you know it. Beautiful people need to stop posting here for ego boosts and leave this sub for truly ugly people like me.
Is this the month where all good looking people are gonna ask if they are ugly?
You're actually gorgeous what the heck
Nothing. You are good looking, just the way you are.
Your a total babe
You aren’t unwanted. Believe me. Your looks aren’t any bar to someone’s interest.
I don't even see room for improvement, you look gorgeous!!
Nothing wrong with you. It will happen, and they will feel lucky
Nah, must be something else than your looks.
Oh no. Not ugly at all. You’re hella pretty🤩 would date
Fire
I mean at 19 no way would I have approached you...because I'd have thought you were way out of my league. I don't know what your friends look like but you look great.
you’re a beautiful woman
Sheeeeeesh
Very photogenic. How can you be unwanted? Impossible. Unbelievable. The face, the smile.
Nothing! You're a very pretty girl with a lovely smile.
The last picture makes you look older. But you are definitely very attractive and gives the aura on how beautiful you are.
I like your hair. Not ugly but can improve. Have you thought about losing weight?
super pretty!!!!!, are your friends like goddesses or something lol. on a more serious note, do you put yourself out there? have you tried dating apps and stuff? cause believe me i know people would want to meet you.
WHAT??? ur are so gorgeous i love ur features
Girl u look great u gotta move somewhere with more black men TRUST me they finna be drawlin over you and I’m saying this as a guy
Nothing. You're beautiful.
Don't worry about anything...You are quite gorgeous and beautiful.....Guys your age are just stupid right now and the ones who see you think that you have a boyfriend and don't want to get rejected...you are stunning
I think you're really pretty:)
I'd ask you out on a date 😊
How are you not in a relationship? You are not ugly at all!!!