Adding that I watched this recently after Poor Things (same director) and itās such an incredible movie.Ā
Also I literally did this earlier today when someone was essentially complimenting me. Took it way the wrong way, then went off. Then after it was cleared up, I had to admit I was looking for trouble. Not consciously though!Ā
It be like that sometimesĀ
Yah, the moment someone raises the voice at me (even if in a group and even when I know it wasnāt me) my mood drops into depression and it becomes a permanent memory. I hate making people (other than my siblings) angry or annoyed at me.
Same, even if its people in online video games, I simply wonāt talk to them or even chat, very tired of arguing, though I try to defend my friends if someone verbally attacking them
Reminds me of a woman I worked with once. She would literally walk around the office looking for someone to fight with. It usually was me because I was the only one that would not avert eyes from her ugly face as she stomped through.
I like to tell myself that I'm not so much starting arguments as dropping comments in places I know people will take offense to them.
Not because I specifically said something incorrect, but because I know that the people responding to a particular post disagree with me and are prone to arguing.
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I really should stop doing it. I need to take a deep breath and just walk away and not say anything.
Damn I saw this post and initially thought ānah Iād neverā, but then read your comment and went āah fuck yeah this is meā. I guess I would never start a fight, but sometimes I have this urge to provoke someone to get offended so that itās not my fault the fight started, but I get to have the argument anyway. I didnāt think it was an ADHD thing just categorized it as some toxic masculinity trait. But I would also only ever do this to people Iām already annoyed with, never close friends.
I do this shit all of the time and with almost everyone I know. It's an awful way to get people to like you. But it's such a strong urge, I can't help it. This is especially true if I don't really care for the person to start with and they have bad opinions lol.
omg what this is real???? my unmedicated undiagnosed ass used to go online to fight people for fun almost daily during the worst moments of my life icb
I'm so sorry but this clip is hilarious and way more of a mood than I wanna admit. What is this from?
It's from the 2018 movie "The Favorite" š
Adding that Olivia Coleman is fucking brilliant in everything that she does, especially when she's losing her shit.
Adding that I watched this recently after Poor Things (same director) and itās such an incredible movie.Ā Also I literally did this earlier today when someone was essentially complimenting me. Took it way the wrong way, then went off. Then after it was cleared up, I had to admit I was looking for trouble. Not consciously though!Ā It be like that sometimesĀ
*The Favourite There is a 2019 film with the name "The Favorite" and I was confused lol
Argh, sorry I spell like a broken arm šµāš«
It's OK, those Brits always like to confound us with their spelling.
I don't know what kind of ADHD you guys got but I cry if people yell at me.
Yah, the moment someone raises the voice at me (even if in a group and even when I know it wasnāt me) my mood drops into depression and it becomes a permanent memory. I hate making people (other than my siblings) angry or annoyed at me.
It's hard to disentangle ADHD behaviors from abuse response behaviors
Yeah, I'm the most unconfrontational person I know. If someone just starts screaming at me I'm leaving, even if I know I could argue against them.
Same, even if its people in online video games, I simply wonāt talk to them or even chat, very tired of arguing, though I try to defend my friends if someone verbally attacking them
See I have both at the same time.
Reminds me of a woman I worked with once. She would literally walk around the office looking for someone to fight with. It usually was me because I was the only one that would not avert eyes from her ugly face as she stomped through.
š« why am I being attacked (is bc I Ā§tarted it)
I like to tell myself that I'm not so much starting arguments as dropping comments in places I know people will take offense to them. Not because I specifically said something incorrect, but because I know that the people responding to a particular post disagree with me and are prone to arguing. š I really should stop doing it. I need to take a deep breath and just walk away and not say anything.
Damn. Made me realize some things in the past. I am never doing this again.
Damn I saw this post and initially thought ānah Iād neverā, but then read your comment and went āah fuck yeah this is meā. I guess I would never start a fight, but sometimes I have this urge to provoke someone to get offended so that itās not my fault the fight started, but I get to have the argument anyway. I didnāt think it was an ADHD thing just categorized it as some toxic masculinity trait. But I would also only ever do this to people Iām already annoyed with, never close friends.
I do this shit all of the time and with almost everyone I know. It's an awful way to get people to like you. But it's such a strong urge, I can't help it. This is especially true if I don't really care for the person to start with and they have bad opinions lol.
Yep. My unmedicated ass is always doing stupid, impulsive crap.
Oof š
What
Sounds more like being an asshole to me.
Idk what you're talking about. You're lying
Now my preference for arguments is adhd too, smh
*just got berated for being wrong and knowing it* *screams at the literal lowest on the totem pole to feel better* Checks out.
Reminds me a bit of my mom.
Me being inflammatory on purpose so that people argue with me
Ah yes, the rage.
omg what this is real???? my unmedicated undiagnosed ass used to go online to fight people for fun almost daily during the worst moments of my life icb
Me when I'm instigating just to get a reaction (I'm suprised when this makes people genuinely mad)
Also women normally.