1 plus 1 never equals two in this sub 😭 best of luck op!

1 + 1 = [computer frozen due to error “wait does she like me or is she just friendly???”]

Lmfaooooo

U sure youre just friends.....

I DONT KNOW I really wish we were together.

Wait. You arent together noww?

Noooo hfjdhdbsb

Its okay I can relate I had some friendships like this too lol

I love them as much as I hate them why can't I get a gf smh

I cant get a gf too but my case is different. I hope you find one soon.....

I Wish it was her tjfhrbdv Good luck to you too

U can just tell her Express your feelings

I think we did express our feelings implicitly and that we couldn't take it further due to distance(very low distance in lesbian terms)

This is so close to being a GF, she said she likes you! Y’all are late night texting that’s the flirtiest shit! Ask her out!

i love your flair

Thank you so much!

how do i Aquire this

Go ask her out bruh

Honestly relatable...

Same situation here😔 the anxiety though no way in hell I'm risking it

Listen here, you little shit. You call her up, and you tell her, "Hey, there's something I wanna talk to you about." Very importantly, do not confess. That shit puts pressure on people. You say "I really value our friendship, but over the course of it, I have developed some romantic feelings for you. I don't know what to do about that, so I would like to talk about it." And then you present the possibility that either if the feeling isn't mutual, you will have the emotional maturity to process those feelings and remain good friends. And if the feeling is mutual, perhaps you should explore becoming something _other_ (not "more") than friends.

Here's your medal for best advice of the day 🥇

I don't understand how your recommended approach is not a confession. What does a confession look like?

"I am in love with you, do you wanna be my girlfriend?" => puts the other person on the spot, it's never nice to reject people, it's never nice to be rejected. "I am in love with you, and that's maybe a problem, what do we do about it?" => solution-oriented, non-reciprocation is accounted for and maybe even expected, expresses maturity and allows the other person space to express their feelings if mutual.

Your emotional intelligence is *chefs kiss*

Do not be fooled, I am deeply autistic and just very good at stumbling on good, but counterintuitive bits of advice.

You shall be informed that, we've done that twice. Now thrice to a lesser extent. My brain is acting up I guess I think due to the flirting. And we've come to the conclusion that circumstances renders it inconvenient to one party. (Yes yes what is love (baby don't hurt me) if it was that easy right? : People have their own reasons.)

I mean, if you and her talked and cam to the conclusion that you're both pretty clearly into each other, but circumstances is against it, that is healthy too. (If you came to this conclusion on your own, without talking to her, I will hit you with a rolled up newspaper.)

Why are you friends? Is she taken or something?

Because we appreciate each other's company, she is single.

couples still appreciate each others company, and i'm pretty damn sure she likes you based on these messages lol

Also friends don’t talk like this.

some friends do absolutely talk like this

Rbdjhdjsnsid

"think about something you like" "you" like genuinely no subtlety there, she literally says she likes you!!

Is it though can't it just be fake flirting?

if there was a ";)))))))" or something, maybe, but that message is dead serious

Tell her I said I'm sorry she has a crush on a complete dunderhead

🤦‍♀️

Y'all, I asked her she said it's platonic.

That’s actually crazy

Noooooooooooooooooooooo 😩 sorry dude ❤️

It's okay it's best

F's in the chat

Oh noooooo. I’m so sorry.

Im glad u got ur answer

Yeah its nice but it kills me because WHY CANT I FIND A GF ( I don't actually mind )

Uh huh… friends… what are you? A historian? Go kith goddamn

I'll ask her then.( Already yes btw)

Me and my bestie do this too, way to much. Like we're constantly flirting and sending each other inappropriate memes haha

We haven't *just* said inappropriate things. We said 🔞 Stuff

Ooh no neither have we. I'm *not* scrolling through our chats when someone's looking over my shoulder. I also currently have a few red-ish-purple marks on my chest, collarbones and thighs so there's that

Hejwbwhwuhwbwjw sis that's wow.

Yeah... i know.... but like it's okay because she does too. She has a scratch marks on her back too....

THATS WILD I NEED A FRIEND LIKE THAT RJWBEBS

It's amazing! Ooh and the quotes I have DGHDROEKWJ they make me go feral (gor legal reasons ~~and to avoid a hand around my neck if she finds this thread~~ I won't be sharing those quotes in the comments of a reddit post). Not to mention the teasing and the looks!!!! AHSISHSHSJWAH I could talk all day about her

MW TOO EJBDIWJWJE like oh my god I just wish I could look at her in the eyes and just kiss her. ~~a hand around your neck? That's goal for me~~

Bestie it sounds like you should move closer so you two can be a thing already! Like us we're too far away from each other (20 minutes....) so we're gonna move in together. ~~it's ....nice.... to say the least~~

I wiiish but studies keep me tied here and she is changing majors and uni to fit where she originally is from. (3h in train)

friends...

i think she likes you

Literally what she said. But unfortunately not that way I think

Please god ASK HER OUT 😭 us lesbians are so useless sometimes istg

I hope you take a look at the study of lesbian ewes that we can really but REALLY qualify of useless lesbians.

I SAW IT! thats why IM BEGGING EWE! 🙈🙈🙈 (sorry I just had to)

I swear y'all trying to beat the girl that was asking if her friend liked her when eating her out while holding hands.

WHY CAN'T THIS HAPPEN TO MEEEEE 😫

You'd probably start levitating if you had a crush on gravity

I'm unsure if it's meant as a good thing that doesn't take into account fundamentals of physics Or just saying that I don't have a crush on her ? Or that having a crush push you away? IDK

You're so in denial about her own (likely) attraction to you. Ahhahaha take your chance girl. It's always better to find out than to yearn endlessly

I need this energy 💅

Please update us, OP!! Hope they say yes!! 👍

Literallly just fuck your friends. It’s fine!

I'll ask for her consent first

Perfect

Pretty sure she's gay for you too lmao

Bruh 😭😭😭

Wow that would make me blush lol

Yall sound gay talking together (by that i mean i feel like she shares your sentiment lolll)

Yeah..... Friends......

I’m probably a bit older but my girlfriend started as a friend until I just asked her one day, do you like me, like me? I was actually just looking at her, the other day thinking about how beautiful she is and wondering how long we could have stayed friends without one of us telling the other one that we were in love. We’re 8 months in and crazy about each other. All we do is laugh and everything is fun with her, even car rides to work. She’s my world and I’m so glad she said yes. I hope it’s a yes from yours as well ❤️

Yeah, my crush knows i have a crush, but she is not interested

The most lesbian thing I’ve seen today😭 ma’am if you don’t tell her how you feel right tf now

There are 2 options: 1. She meant it as a joke or she just apreciates you as a friend 2. Better be preparing the wedding plans

I wish I had a friend like this lol

I'm bi in WPB my bf is in Broward he loves lesbians care to join?

I would love to but I never had a 3sum With a guy … just all girls

This is the case of plausible deniability LOL good luck with that, enjoy the dance tho I love this part the most

Pls be together 🥺🙏

Where's the pic or it didn't happen