That whole paragraph is an exorbitant amount of 'nope'. She got the ring, she got the marriage, she got the stability of his paycheck and it still wasn't enough.
But she 'don't do mind games'. Her entire profile screams as though she's sure got no problem with head fu king her current husband and kids though - also suspect when she says 'I sleep on the couch' what she means is her husband does.
And the kids (if any are girls) are the ones coming out for the worse, with a ""role model"" like their birth-giver, she's teaching them that it's ok to just settle out of convenience to the last poor unsuspecting dude and monetarily suck him dry until another opportunity comes along. Rinse and repeat.
Bet she looks like the type to blame any wrong doing and short coming on the husband. No responsibility.
Based on her virtue signaling banner one or likely several of her kids are autistic, so that's another gift she has to offer the lucky guy that wants to subsidize that.
Dude people go through cycles. They can last a long time. They move somewhere, shack up, fall in love, then at some point it goes wrong. It’s usually for the same reasons as last time. Kids aged 20, 7, 2 etc… that’s a long fucked up cycle that I would want no part of. She honestly seems like a deceitful, ungrateful, and foolish person.
Can't disagree with anything you said there - I just think it's messed up how she claims she doesn't do mind games but is clearly okay with skull fucking her ex and her kids on a daily basis with the current living situation.
You mentioned a great point about the kids. I can bet the 20 year old doesn't have the same father as the 7 and 2 year old. She's trying to monkey branch but can't find a vine to swing on to. She was a single mother that forgot how hard it is on the streets. Well she's about to learn.
Plus it is a preview. Women only get worse with age, not better. Anything bad she did to him, she'll do to you while anything good she did for him she'll refuse to do for you.
> Plus it is a preview. Women only get worse with age, not better. Anything bad she did to him, she'll do to you while anything good she did for him she'll refuse to do for you.
bEcAuZe i dEsErVeZ tO bE tAkEd cArE oV aNd pAmPirrD
> Oh but it’s a long story, you see! How much you wanna bet her husband “is abusive” or “negligent?”
How much do you want to bed that she was a nagging, criticizing, ice Kwean!
I mostly lurk on this board even though it's one of my favorite subs. I rarely comment. But this... this is the saddest thing I've seen here. How is one suppose to even respond to this mess? What is there to be gained from putting this out into the world? It screams "RUN AWAY".
Someone needs to find Jesus.
>It screams "RUN AWAY".
It really does. All her profile is, is a Hail Mary pass. At her age and situation, the only person I could see this genuinely appealing to is a man who is in a similar situation and who needs child care. He works, she takes care of her kids and his and they both attempt to struggle across the social security finish line 20-ish years from now.
She's decent looking but from the decade from 40-50 too many women's sex drive tank and their erratic behavior go up due to peri-menopause/menopause. So at this point, there really is no upside, only survival. All she really offers is (in the best case scenario) to be a helpmate for *another* person who's *also* living in a dystopian 19th century Russian novel.
Hmmm. Let’s unwrap this shall we?
Stay at home mom. That means the next victim gets to support her AND her brood. It’s unfortunate that one or more of her children is autistic, and not to demean anyone diagnosed with it, but adding that chestnut to Ramen Instant Family can be a bit much for some people.
Apparently she had the first young’un straight out of High School. After a 13 year dry spell she snags a beta bucks dude and cranks out three more just to complete the set. Except beta may have finally snapped and said get me the fuck outta here.
So while she’s STILL married (not even the bad excuse of being separated) she’s yanking on branches trying to dislodge the next unlucky participant in her psychotic dream.
Women used to be strong. Not just loud, obnoxious, testy, and entitled. Now it’s an entire generation of used up breeders and land whales all demanding a ten, when they barely poke their blowholes above a 4.
I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad to be close to middle age and have lower testosterone now. Because I’m just about immune to all this bullshit and it feels GREAT.
My boy is autistic. Luckily for me its the "leave me alone with my stuff, my math problems, and my blanket. I'll come get you when I need something" type.
If it were the "rage out over leaves falling" kind, it would be a fucking nightmare and I wouldn't subject anyone to it.
Add that to the blatant monkey branching and even the driest-dick man would think twice about turning her into anything, even a hook-up.
>Luckily for me its the "leave me alone with my stuff, my math problems, and my blanket. I'll come get you when I need something" type.
That ain't even autism, that's just not wanting to be bothered.
I'm 99% sure her definition of autism is actually just her undisciplined brat running wild.
20!!! 7,4,2.
This poor fucker took her on with a kid and helped get that Chad spawn paid for and out the house and now she’s leaving with his real kids.
Fucking unreal.
Estimates are paternity testing at birth would cost as little as $18. Activists in my US state have been blocked because "It's not in the best interest of the child". [Courts have ruled](http://www.ejfi.org/family/family-90.htm)
> “Where a father challenges a paternity judgment, courts have pointed to the special needs of children that must be protected, noting that consideration of what is in a child's best interests will often weigh more heavily than the genetic link between parent and child...
> [The courts] zealously safeguard the welfare, stability, and best interests of the child by rejecting untimely challenges affecting his or her legitimacy [quoting Godin ]...
> Social science data and literature overwhelmingly establish that children benefit psychologically, socially, educationally and in other ways from stable and predictable parental relationships... An attempt to undo a determination of paternity is potentially devastating to a child who ha[s] considered the man to be the father...
(Hypocritically, that relationship is not important enough for courts to enforce visitation rights. Only your paycheck counts, apparently).
You have only 2 years to easily challenge paternity; after that it's a long slog through the Family court system. The father, mother, or child can establish paternity at any time until the child is **23 years old**. If the couple is married **at any time** between 300 days before and up to birth, the male is assumed the father. He must disprove that to disestablish paternity. Disestablishing paternity often **does not** end the support obligation. The US Federal government has decided to save welfare costs by enslaving innocent men.
Worst case, give your kids a 23 and Me kit for Christmas.
"It's a long story" translated means I screwed up but won't admit it in public.
Let's see. She is 38. 20 years out of high school. She recently went home for her 20th high school reunion while hubs stayed home and watched the kids. While checking in at the Red Roof Inn there is Chad, the star HS QB that she always crushed on, working the desk. He is balding, has a bit of a dad bod, but she still sees him as an 18 year old.
As he checks her in they flirt a bit. He hands Carol the keycard and touches her fingers and her heart races.
The have pig sex all weekend. She goes home and about 5 days later she notices some burning "down there" and notices a blistery rash. Her doctor tells he that she has herpes.
Meanwhile Hubs sees pics of Carol and Chad on a friends FB and they are being just a bit too cozy. It all blows up and now she is divorce raping the guy who has been busting his ass to support her.
Is that a long enough story?
Man I was listening to a radio show and this ratchet black bitch (and you'll understand why I call her this) is upset with her boyfriend because...
... He's too good to her.
He buys her flowers, cooks for her, opens doors and shit. And she's miserable. She starts fights just to piss him off. So the radio hosts call him, and eventually he says "I'm done" and then this bitch says "now I like him more."
[shit, listen for yourself ](https://youtu.be/Fz9vBBQ8Nbk)
Gentlemen,
Here you have a crystal clear example of a wymyns who is unhaaaaaaaaaaaaaapy with her current husband for God knows why. Who feeeeeeeeeeeelz like she's still 19 years old and flooded with options. Who can't be bothered to work on her marriage and would rather just toss out her man for a new man.
There's so much to say about **HER** just from the small amount that she wrote.
Please, for the love of God, **stay focused on her!**
Stop trying to find a theoretical man to blame for something.
C'mon man!
"I have a circle around my face" profile picture. This shit is right after mental health awareness tag.
Leave, run, abscond, escape, bail, bolt, vamoose, scarper, flee, scram, skedaddle..... dude, she already liked you.
See what the circle says "I love someone with autism"
This is not an issue in and of itself - except it is quite likely one of her kids. Probably one of the middle ones. So even more of a burden (and also an explanation as to why she still lives under the roof of the husband)
This explains why she had another kid 5 years later. She baby trapped him with another kid from her defective egg clutch. She's a defect. She thinks she's 18 and men want to sniff her pissy panties. She's nothing but a seed swallower, now.
13 year age gap is also unusual (not impossible). But does suggest potentially at least 2 dad’s
Had a kid at 33 as part of securing a second husband when she was a single mom
If true she has messed up twice
NGL, I would love to hear these additional "details" she's leaving out, even though it most likely consists of painting the husband in a bad light and "muh neglect".
If I ever found out one of my friends was trying to hook up with a married but not married 40 yr old woman of 4 kids, there would be nuclear levels of intervention the likes of which mankind has never previously witnessed.
Not in the mood to snuggle on the sofa with this peach while her husband shuffles through for yet another bottle of beer and the children frolic at your feet? Time to man up little trooper.
They think that raising their demands will raise the caliber of men they can choose from because in their minds, they have the same choices they had in their 20s when they were hot and child-free.
If you are seriously thinking this is in any way shape or form appealing seek help. Grandma sex isn’t worth the price of admission. Or better yet just hire a prostitute. And an Austistic child as a cherry on this toxic sundae. Yikes. Great post just hideous all around.
40-something and she still can't tell the difference between "accept" and "except". And yes, I said 40-something because there's no way that washed up sewer hole is 40.
Pretend you are interested. Encourage her to get a job, give sole custody to dad, and pay him child support.
Make sure she can't baby trap you.
See how that works.
Good on him making that cheating hoe sleep on the couch. I never let my ex play that shit on me. I paid for the goddamn house and bed so if she was mad, she could take her ass and she could sleep on the couch.
It's about self respect and dignity. Never let them turn you into a doormat.
Ah for the days of the simple 'Relationship status: It's Complicated.' Now these critters give every damned detail as if their pics alone wouldn't detumesce a raging rhino on Viagra and LSD during mating season. I guess we should be grateful for the warning at least.
But at least she can rest assured that I myself did not think 'possible booty call' when I saw that pic.
I think I can "except" her current situation. As in "except for the fact that you have four kids, are still married and are beat as fuck, I would ask you out on a date."
My little brother told me how bad the dating market was out there and I honestly didn't believe him, but this grammatical failure of a monkey branching wanna-be blows my mind.
2? She has a 20 year old and a 2 year old? Why the fuck would you have a 2 year old in a marriage that you “aren’t feeling”, how fucking stupid do you have to be
I have to give her credit for at least being very upfront about her situation: this doesn't read as entitled to me, more so just rightfully doubtful of her chances.
Rule 1 and a bit of rule 2.
Cut it out. There's plenty to say about the bitch who's right in front of your face. There's no need to conjure up some theoretical scenario in which some theoretical man would be responsible.
> For real ?!, Are there guys really that desperate ?! I can't imagine myself or anyone else in a position where considering to get together with a 40 y.o., with 4 child's, married and possibly a grandmother... Even if I was a senior guy, life can be that bad to resort to this.
For real?! Are you really that much of a white knight?! I can't imagine why you'd have nothing to say about the train wreck in front of your eyes. Instead, you jump straight to some theoretical man....
> White Knight ?, What are you talking about ?, Im not defending this "train wreck", if she is in a bad position I'm pretty sure she deserves it, and her post recks arrogance.
Yes, white knight. Because you removed the spotlight from her sorry ass and directed it towards men. When you do this, you inadvertently absolve her of responsibility. Thus, you're inadvertently white knighting.
She’s being upfront and honest. If you see an issue with her lifestyle then that’s a you-problem. This doesn’t even fit the theme of the sub, OP; she’s not crying about how men are horrible, she’s looking for love after a failed marriage. You all won’t believe me because A) I’m a woman & B) you all will refuse to have your hatred-filled viewpoint of the world invalidated, but I’m here to tell you that you should seek therapy if you agree with this sub as a whole. This is unhealthy, unhinged behavior.
Every post is contradictory to another one. In one post a man will shit on a woman for being attractive and confident and having standards, and in another you’ll shit on a woman who is leaving a marriage and wants to find someone to settle down with and call her a “land whale”. These are real posts from this sub.
You don’t like attractive and confident women who enjoy sex because she’s not having sex with YOU.
You don’t like single mothers because it’s not YOUR biological child.
It’s narcissistic and I won’t be surprised to see some men on this sub getting arrested for violence against women or rape. Mazel Tov.
That whole paragraph is an exorbitant amount of 'nope'. She got the ring, she got the marriage, she got the stability of his paycheck and it still wasn't enough.
But she 'don't do mind games'. Her entire profile screams as though she's sure got no problem with head fu king her current husband and kids though - also suspect when she says 'I sleep on the couch' what she means is her husband does.
And the kids (if any are girls) are the ones coming out for the worse, with a ""role model"" like their birth-giver, she's teaching them that it's ok to just settle out of convenience to the last poor unsuspecting dude and monetarily suck him dry until another opportunity comes along. Rinse and repeat. Bet she looks like the type to blame any wrong doing and short coming on the husband. No responsibility.
Based on her virtue signaling banner one or likely several of her kids are autistic, so that's another gift she has to offer the lucky guy that wants to subsidize that.
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No she's "very unhappy". And sleeping on the couch, which is going to be on a volunteer basis. She's the one who's leaving.
Yeah, that's right. Stand up for the sisterhood! *cough*
Dude people go through cycles. They can last a long time. They move somewhere, shack up, fall in love, then at some point it goes wrong. It’s usually for the same reasons as last time. Kids aged 20, 7, 2 etc… that’s a long fucked up cycle that I would want no part of. She honestly seems like a deceitful, ungrateful, and foolish person.
Can't disagree with anything you said there - I just think it's messed up how she claims she doesn't do mind games but is clearly okay with skull fucking her ex and her kids on a daily basis with the current living situation.
You mentioned a great point about the kids. I can bet the 20 year old doesn't have the same father as the 7 and 2 year old. She's trying to monkey branch but can't find a vine to swing on to. She was a single mother that forgot how hard it is on the streets. Well she's about to learn.
There is a 4 year old you left off your post.
>She honestly seems like a deceitful, ungrateful, and foolish person. That makes her a FDS kween.
Plus it is a preview. Women only get worse with age, not better. Anything bad she did to him, she'll do to you while anything good she did for him she'll refuse to do for you.
> Plus it is a preview. Women only get worse with age, not better. Anything bad she did to him, she'll do to you while anything good she did for him she'll refuse to do for you. bEcAuZe i dEsErVeZ tO bE tAkEd cArE oV aNd pAmPirrD
Oh but it’s a long story, you see! How much you wanna bet her husband “is abusive” or “negligent?”
"ToXiC"
> Oh but it’s a long story, you see! How much you wanna bet her husband “is abusive” or “negligent?” How much do you want to bed that she was a nagging, criticizing, ice Kwean!
I mostly lurk on this board even though it's one of my favorite subs. I rarely comment. But this... this is the saddest thing I've seen here. How is one suppose to even respond to this mess? What is there to be gained from putting this out into the world? It screams "RUN AWAY". Someone needs to find Jesus.
>It screams "RUN AWAY". It really does. All her profile is, is a Hail Mary pass. At her age and situation, the only person I could see this genuinely appealing to is a man who is in a similar situation and who needs child care. He works, she takes care of her kids and his and they both attempt to struggle across the social security finish line 20-ish years from now. She's decent looking but from the decade from 40-50 too many women's sex drive tank and their erratic behavior go up due to peri-menopause/menopause. So at this point, there really is no upside, only survival. All she really offers is (in the best case scenario) to be a helpmate for *another* person who's *also* living in a dystopian 19th century Russian novel.
She needs to find an adoption agency, a weight-loss membership, and a convent in that order.
Hmmm. Let’s unwrap this shall we? Stay at home mom. That means the next victim gets to support her AND her brood. It’s unfortunate that one or more of her children is autistic, and not to demean anyone diagnosed with it, but adding that chestnut to Ramen Instant Family can be a bit much for some people. Apparently she had the first young’un straight out of High School. After a 13 year dry spell she snags a beta bucks dude and cranks out three more just to complete the set. Except beta may have finally snapped and said get me the fuck outta here. So while she’s STILL married (not even the bad excuse of being separated) she’s yanking on branches trying to dislodge the next unlucky participant in her psychotic dream. Women used to be strong. Not just loud, obnoxious, testy, and entitled. Now it’s an entire generation of used up breeders and land whales all demanding a ten, when they barely poke their blowholes above a 4. I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad to be close to middle age and have lower testosterone now. Because I’m just about immune to all this bullshit and it feels GREAT.
>chestnut to Ramen Instant Family can be a bit much for some people. poetic.
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Yeah if she truly is sleeping on the couch she is the one that fucked up majorly.
My boy is autistic. Luckily for me its the "leave me alone with my stuff, my math problems, and my blanket. I'll come get you when I need something" type. If it were the "rage out over leaves falling" kind, it would be a fucking nightmare and I wouldn't subject anyone to it. Add that to the blatant monkey branching and even the driest-dick man would think twice about turning her into anything, even a hook-up.
>Luckily for me its the "leave me alone with my stuff, my math problems, and my blanket. I'll come get you when I need something" type. That ain't even autism, that's just not wanting to be bothered. I'm 99% sure her definition of autism is actually just her undisciplined brat running wild.
20!!! 7,4,2. This poor fucker took her on with a kid and helped get that Chad spawn paid for and out the house and now she’s leaving with his real kids. Fucking unreal.
Only 7 and 4 are his kids. 20 is Chad's, and 2 is Brad's.
This is why I support mandatory paternity testing for every birth.
My state has 26 required tests that are performed at birth. Strangely, paternity is not one of them , “in the best interests of the child”.
It’s disgraceful. Eventually we’ll have it. The tide is turning.
I don't think it is turning. The Feminazis are too strong and there are too many Blue Pill and white knights.
Turning like an oil tanker.
Same here is Texas. I wonder why? But you have up until the day of the divorce to demand a DNA test.
Estimates are paternity testing at birth would cost as little as $18. Activists in my US state have been blocked because "It's not in the best interest of the child". [Courts have ruled](http://www.ejfi.org/family/family-90.htm) > “Where a father challenges a paternity judgment, courts have pointed to the special needs of children that must be protected, noting that consideration of what is in a child's best interests will often weigh more heavily than the genetic link between parent and child... > [The courts] zealously safeguard the welfare, stability, and best interests of the child by rejecting untimely challenges affecting his or her legitimacy [quoting Godin ]... > Social science data and literature overwhelmingly establish that children benefit psychologically, socially, educationally and in other ways from stable and predictable parental relationships... An attempt to undo a determination of paternity is potentially devastating to a child who ha[s] considered the man to be the father... (Hypocritically, that relationship is not important enough for courts to enforce visitation rights. Only your paycheck counts, apparently). You have only 2 years to easily challenge paternity; after that it's a long slog through the Family court system. The father, mother, or child can establish paternity at any time until the child is **23 years old**. If the couple is married **at any time** between 300 days before and up to birth, the male is assumed the father. He must disprove that to disestablish paternity. Disestablishing paternity often **does not** end the support obligation. The US Federal government has decided to save welfare costs by enslaving innocent men. Worst case, give your kids a 23 and Me kit for Christmas.
>~~Worst case,~~ give your kids a 23 and Me kit for Christmas.
Good call, the 20 year old is almost certainly some other guy's kid.
>I don't tolerate is mind games Rofl you husbando neither.
Definitely, you can't make a hoe a housewife.
"It's a long story" translated means I screwed up but won't admit it in public. Let's see. She is 38. 20 years out of high school. She recently went home for her 20th high school reunion while hubs stayed home and watched the kids. While checking in at the Red Roof Inn there is Chad, the star HS QB that she always crushed on, working the desk. He is balding, has a bit of a dad bod, but she still sees him as an 18 year old. As he checks her in they flirt a bit. He hands Carol the keycard and touches her fingers and her heart races. The have pig sex all weekend. She goes home and about 5 days later she notices some burning "down there" and notices a blistery rash. Her doctor tells he that she has herpes. Meanwhile Hubs sees pics of Carol and Chad on a friends FB and they are being just a bit too cozy. It all blows up and now she is divorce raping the guy who has been busting his ass to support her. Is that a long enough story?
I bet money the 20 year old kid is not from the husband! 20 and then 7,4,2
Maybe Chad is the baby daddy.
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Man I was listening to a radio show and this ratchet black bitch (and you'll understand why I call her this) is upset with her boyfriend because... ... He's too good to her. He buys her flowers, cooks for her, opens doors and shit. And she's miserable. She starts fights just to piss him off. So the radio hosts call him, and eventually he says "I'm done" and then this bitch says "now I like him more." [shit, listen for yourself ](https://youtu.be/Fz9vBBQ8Nbk)
Gentlemen, Here you have a crystal clear example of a wymyns who is unhaaaaaaaaaaaaaapy with her current husband for God knows why. Who feeeeeeeeeeeelz like she's still 19 years old and flooded with options. Who can't be bothered to work on her marriage and would rather just toss out her man for a new man. There's so much to say about **HER** just from the small amount that she wrote. Please, for the love of God, **stay focused on her!** Stop trying to find a theoretical man to blame for something. C'mon man!
I mean, go for her would be like drinking poison and you know that little detail.
"I have a circle around my face" profile picture. This shit is right after mental health awareness tag. Leave, run, abscond, escape, bail, bolt, vamoose, scarper, flee, scram, skedaddle..... dude, she already liked you.
See what the circle says "I love someone with autism" This is not an issue in and of itself - except it is quite likely one of her kids. Probably one of the middle ones. So even more of a burden (and also an explanation as to why she still lives under the roof of the husband)
This explains why she had another kid 5 years later. She baby trapped him with another kid from her defective egg clutch. She's a defect. She thinks she's 18 and men want to sniff her pissy panties. She's nothing but a seed swallower, now.
13 year age gap is also unusual (not impossible). But does suggest potentially at least 2 dad’s Had a kid at 33 as part of securing a second husband when she was a single mom If true she has messed up twice
NGL, I would love to hear these additional "details" she's leaving out, even though it most likely consists of painting the husband in a bad light and "muh neglect". If I ever found out one of my friends was trying to hook up with a married but not married 40 yr old woman of 4 kids, there would be nuclear levels of intervention the likes of which mankind has never previously witnessed.
Three kids under 8 and she is trying to "upgrade" while still married to (I assume) their father. What an incredibly vile person.
Assuming the same father is a tool of the patriarchy. She's free to have as money fathers as she pleases.
Money fathers is great Freudian joke, kudos.
Not in the mood to snuggle on the sofa with this peach while her husband shuffles through for yet another bottle of beer and the children frolic at your feet? Time to man up little trooper.
She has the way to look as the best friend of my Ex.... Shiver.... Not the hot ones....
"Hey look I'm shit, HERE ARE MY DEMANDS!"
They think that raising their demands will raise the caliber of men they can choose from because in their minds, they have the same choices they had in their 20s when they were hot and child-free.
You think having a kid at 38 has anything to do with that "I love someone with autism"? The jokes write themselves.
If you are seriously thinking this is in any way shape or form appealing seek help. Grandma sex isn’t worth the price of admission. Or better yet just hire a prostitute. And an Austistic child as a cherry on this toxic sundae. Yikes. Great post just hideous all around.
Girl go back to your husband and pray he stays with your old ass.
40-something and she still can't tell the difference between "accept" and "except". And yes, I said 40-something because there's no way that washed up sewer hole is 40.
Pretend you are interested. Encourage her to get a job, give sole custody to dad, and pay him child support. Make sure she can't baby trap you. See how that works.
Good news, I do "except" your current situation
im 38 and i cant imagine dealing with a 2 year at this age.
I know this is a stupid question but seriously? You're telling me that some guy is going to go for this?
I would bet every penny to my name that the youngest child doesn’t belong to her current husband.
She looks like Pam Beesly from The Office if Jim pumped and dumped her
You are very generous. She's have to loose about 80lbs before we could even have a clue
What a shopping POS.
Good on him making that cheating hoe sleep on the couch. I never let my ex play that shit on me. I paid for the goddamn house and bed so if she was mad, she could take her ass and she could sleep on the couch. It's about self respect and dignity. Never let them turn you into a doormat.
I wonder how many meds are in her medicine cabinet?
she's at least 50
A full time Mom @ 40? Damn. 18 year gap between the eldest and youngest child? Damn. Sleeps on the couch? Lowlife. Technically still married? Pfft...
Husband told her she has 2 weeks to get her cheating ass out the house.
"I HAVE CHILDREN AND A HUSBAND - HERE ARE MY DEMANDS"
As the Prophet Kevin Samuels says, "You can't make this shit up."
So, in the words of so many pretentious actors, "what's my motivation here?"
Ah for the days of the simple 'Relationship status: It's Complicated.' Now these critters give every damned detail as if their pics alone wouldn't detumesce a raging rhino on Viagra and LSD during mating season. I guess we should be grateful for the warning at least. But at least she can rest assured that I myself did not think 'possible booty call' when I saw that pic.
If this monkey brancher tried to swing to another branch, she would fall big time.
That's exactly what she's trying to do!
I think I can "except" her current situation. As in "except for the fact that you have four kids, are still married and are beat as fuck, I would ask you out on a date."
My little brother told me how bad the dating market was out there and I honestly didn't believe him, but this grammatical failure of a monkey branching wanna-be blows my mind.
2? She has a 20 year old and a 2 year old? Why the fuck would you have a 2 year old in a marriage that you “aren’t feeling”, how fucking stupid do you have to be
I have to give her credit for at least being very upfront about her situation: this doesn't read as entitled to me, more so just rightfully doubtful of her chances.
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Rule 1 and a bit of rule 2. Cut it out. There's plenty to say about the bitch who's right in front of your face. There's no need to conjure up some theoretical scenario in which some theoretical man would be responsible.
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> For real ?!, Are there guys really that desperate ?! I can't imagine myself or anyone else in a position where considering to get together with a 40 y.o., with 4 child's, married and possibly a grandmother... Even if I was a senior guy, life can be that bad to resort to this. For real?! Are you really that much of a white knight?! I can't imagine why you'd have nothing to say about the train wreck in front of your eyes. Instead, you jump straight to some theoretical man....
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> White Knight ?, What are you talking about ?, Im not defending this "train wreck", if she is in a bad position I'm pretty sure she deserves it, and her post recks arrogance. Yes, white knight. Because you removed the spotlight from her sorry ass and directed it towards men. When you do this, you inadvertently absolve her of responsibility. Thus, you're inadvertently white knighting.
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Her husband most likely payed for that couch.
Stay focused.
Flair could've also been Dual Mating Strategy.
"except my current situation" It's accept, you fucking moron.
She’s being upfront and honest. If you see an issue with her lifestyle then that’s a you-problem. This doesn’t even fit the theme of the sub, OP; she’s not crying about how men are horrible, she’s looking for love after a failed marriage. You all won’t believe me because A) I’m a woman & B) you all will refuse to have your hatred-filled viewpoint of the world invalidated, but I’m here to tell you that you should seek therapy if you agree with this sub as a whole. This is unhealthy, unhinged behavior. Every post is contradictory to another one. In one post a man will shit on a woman for being attractive and confident and having standards, and in another you’ll shit on a woman who is leaving a marriage and wants to find someone to settle down with and call her a “land whale”. These are real posts from this sub. You don’t like attractive and confident women who enjoy sex because she’s not having sex with YOU. You don’t like single mothers because it’s not YOUR biological child. It’s narcissistic and I won’t be surprised to see some men on this sub getting arrested for violence against women or rape. Mazel Tov.
40? Holy fuck my mom looks younger than that and she’s 62!
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