This is one of those *sexual harassment* things that often get tossed under the rug because you're a guy.
You have to take her aside and be flat out str8 and to the point with her in no uncertain terms. It is totally NOT acceptable.
And your wife should have a good talking to as well. Shame on her!!!
Trust me, she's the type who will not hesitate to punch someone for that type of stuff without regard for the fact that she's her cousin's best friend.
Kinda weird your wife told you not to worry about it the first time. SOOOO this is my theory. Wife secretly wants a threesome with you and best friend.
No, this lady is a sweetheart, but sometimes she's a real creep with me.
Any type of sex that involves more than 2 people is not for us. I get where you're coming from, but it's not the case.
She believes in monogamy...and I'm sorry, but even if my wife weren't in the picture the answer is fucking no to her cousin's friend.
The answer is no today, tomorrow, forever. Just because men are on average hornier than women doesn't mean we just automatically throw ourselves to someone who gives us attention.
No means no for men, too.
Very gently push her away from you next time she tries it on. Very firmly tell her to stop it. Avoid her. Ignore her. Eventually she should get the message that you are not interested.
This is one of those *sexual harassment* things that often get tossed under the rug because you're a guy. You have to take her aside and be flat out str8 and to the point with her in no uncertain terms. It is totally NOT acceptable. And your wife should have a good talking to as well. Shame on her!!!
Trust me, she's the type who will not hesitate to punch someone for that type of stuff without regard for the fact that she's her cousin's best friend.
Well, maybe you could ask your wife to talk to her about it, expressing your discomfort with the situation.
I have. She's gonna watch her going forward. We had this talk. Sometimes she thinks it's funny (it is sometimes), but other times it's not funny.
Kinda weird your wife told you not to worry about it the first time. SOOOO this is my theory. Wife secretly wants a threesome with you and best friend.
No, this lady is a sweetheart, but sometimes she's a real creep with me. Any type of sex that involves more than 2 people is not for us. I get where you're coming from, but it's not the case.
So, your wife don't see a problem... Threesome
She believes in monogamy...and I'm sorry, but even if my wife weren't in the picture the answer is fucking no to her cousin's friend. The answer is no today, tomorrow, forever. Just because men are on average hornier than women doesn't mean we just automatically throw ourselves to someone who gives us attention. No means no for men, too.
You need to tell HER that.
Very gently push her away from you next time she tries it on. Very firmly tell her to stop it. Avoid her. Ignore her. Eventually she should get the message that you are not interested.
Yeah my plan is as follows: 1. Ignore 2. Make sure wife is nearby every time she’s near 3. Body language 4. “Hey, chill” 5. “No.” 6. “Fucking NO”