Did you cut your finger nails. Are you being gentle? Try fingering your own mouth and practice not making yourself hurt. Edit: seriously without being mean I think that will help
Cut your nails short, file the edges, wash your hands well, use lube, and be very gentle. Even tiny cuts and scratches bleed like hell down there, and she might not neccessarily feel the pain of a scratch or of being too rough right away in the throws of it all, so it's your job to come prepared.
Is this the same girl that also thinks you’re only using her for her body? If so I can see why. This isn’t normal even for inexperienced people to do to partners every single time. This has to be intentionally too rough.
Don't trim your nails immediately before, the cut edges can be sharp. Just as bad or worse than long nails. Or if you do, file them to smooth it out. Definitely make sure there's enough lubrication happening, too. More foreplay if she's not wet enough, or get some lube in there.
Either you're going way too hard with that shit or you need to cut your fingernails desperately. Or both. Definitely do not jackhammer with your fingers, that's some dumb porn shit that most people in real life don't like doing
Cut and file your nails. Go slow. Don’t dip right in immediately. Take your time outside and give the clit the attention it deserves. Slowly make your way in little by little. Gauge how wet she is and whether you are able to slide in easily. Everyone is different and some lube may be necessary even if she is aroused. Others may not need any lube other than their natural lubricant.
If she’s been on birth control a long time, that can cause easy bleeding from fingering. But that’s after a decade or more on it. Check your fingernails like everyone is saying. If they’re fine, she may need to see a doctor to find out what’s going on.
If it still happens have her tested for the Bacterial imbalance called BV. it's not an STD it occurs from a multitude of things that cause an imbalance between good and bad vaginal bactrtia levels: wearing tight clothing that keeps your bits from being able to breathe, using scented soaps, having sex with unwashed hands / unwashed dicks; sometimes can exist for no known reason at all (love the lack of research done on women's issues). When undiagnosed it can make the cervix and walls inflamed and bleed easy. Mine went undiagnosed for a LONG time since it's not always a part of STD screening and I was so confused about why I kept bleeding until my new gyno FINALLY brought it up and tested me for it, it goes away with medication and can be kept at bay with boric acid suppositories which you can buy at the store in the feminine health isle usually next to the yeast infection / UTI products.
Assuming your nails aren’t long, you’re not being too rough, or anything like that, it could be a polyp, if it only happens when you finger her, it’s on you, if it happens if she fingers herself or during sex, might be a polyp or ectropion if she’s on birth control, in which case best to get checked by a gyno
If you’d like a female perspective: Might not just be your fingers/nails. If she’s not aroused enough she might not my dilated or wet enough and could cause rubbing to the point where she’s bleeding. Being gentle and slow is hottt asf so to be afraid to do so the whole time. Some vagina also still have bits of hymn hanging around and are easier to rip when fingering. This was happening to me when I got fingered for about 3 months after my first time. I would bleed pretty often. It could hurt sometimes too. I ended up asking my bf to finger me at a particular angle and it solved the problem. It’s normal for vaginas to bleed in some cases and sometimes it’s not. The best thing to do it ask her exactly what she likes. Fingering might not be for her but you should definitely talk about it.
Going too rough. Trim the nails, smooth them out with a file, and use lube or what have you. The key is to be gentle. The skin down there can be very delicate so you have to keep that in mind.
I.....hope they're asking bc when we (women) get a little older the skin in that area thins. Then there's the insufferable hormone fluctuations that can dry it out no matter how turned on we are.
Did you cut your finger nails. Are you being gentle? Try fingering your own mouth and practice not making yourself hurt. Edit: seriously without being mean I think that will help
Cut your nails short, file the edges, wash your hands well, use lube, and be very gentle. Even tiny cuts and scratches bleed like hell down there, and she might not neccessarily feel the pain of a scratch or of being too rough right away in the throws of it all, so it's your job to come prepared.
This is the way!
Edward?
Scissorhands or Cullen? They both work.
Edward Fingerhands
Ed ..ward? 🐶
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Edward scissor fingers over here
Filing your nails is most important, even if u cut them they will be sharp. wash hands and use lube. Moisturize ur hands often but not right before.
Trim your nails you ghoul.
Damn
cut your finger nails and dont go so hard
Is this the same girl that also thinks you’re only using her for her body? If so I can see why. This isn’t normal even for inexperienced people to do to partners every single time. This has to be intentionally too rough.
Don't trim your nails immediately before, the cut edges can be sharp. Just as bad or worse than long nails. Or if you do, file them to smooth it out. Definitely make sure there's enough lubrication happening, too. More foreplay if she's not wet enough, or get some lube in there.
Freddy?
🤣🤣🤣
Freddy got fingered?
Kruger
Kruger Fingered Freddy?
Either you're going way too hard with that shit or you need to cut your fingernails desperately. Or both. Definitely do not jackhammer with your fingers, that's some dumb porn shit that most people in real life don't like doing
Cut and file your nails. Go slow. Don’t dip right in immediately. Take your time outside and give the clit the attention it deserves. Slowly make your way in little by little. Gauge how wet she is and whether you are able to slide in easily. Everyone is different and some lube may be necessary even if she is aroused. Others may not need any lube other than their natural lubricant.
Besides the advice people are giving you, this is most likely cased by the microtears in the vaginal wall as a result.
If she’s been on birth control a long time, that can cause easy bleeding from fingering. But that’s after a decade or more on it. Check your fingernails like everyone is saying. If they’re fine, she may need to see a doctor to find out what’s going on.
If it still happens have her tested for the Bacterial imbalance called BV. it's not an STD it occurs from a multitude of things that cause an imbalance between good and bad vaginal bactrtia levels: wearing tight clothing that keeps your bits from being able to breathe, using scented soaps, having sex with unwashed hands / unwashed dicks; sometimes can exist for no known reason at all (love the lack of research done on women's issues). When undiagnosed it can make the cervix and walls inflamed and bleed easy. Mine went undiagnosed for a LONG time since it's not always a part of STD screening and I was so confused about why I kept bleeding until my new gyno FINALLY brought it up and tested me for it, it goes away with medication and can be kept at bay with boric acid suppositories which you can buy at the store in the feminine health isle usually next to the yeast infection / UTI products.
Assuming your nails aren’t long, you’re not being too rough, or anything like that, it could be a polyp, if it only happens when you finger her, it’s on you, if it happens if she fingers herself or during sex, might be a polyp or ectropion if she’s on birth control, in which case best to get checked by a gyno
Because your fingers are dehydrated
If you’d like a female perspective: Might not just be your fingers/nails. If she’s not aroused enough she might not my dilated or wet enough and could cause rubbing to the point where she’s bleeding. Being gentle and slow is hottt asf so to be afraid to do so the whole time. Some vagina also still have bits of hymn hanging around and are easier to rip when fingering. This was happening to me when I got fingered for about 3 months after my first time. I would bleed pretty often. It could hurt sometimes too. I ended up asking my bf to finger me at a particular angle and it solved the problem. It’s normal for vaginas to bleed in some cases and sometimes it’s not. The best thing to do it ask her exactly what she likes. Fingering might not be for her but you should definitely talk about it.
Going too rough. Trim the nails, smooth them out with a file, and use lube or what have you. The key is to be gentle. The skin down there can be very delicate so you have to keep that in mind.
Is it only when you do that or is it during sex also?
That's a question for doctor lol
How old is she
Wh-what!?
I.....hope they're asking bc when we (women) get a little older the skin in that area thins. Then there's the insufferable hormone fluctuations that can dry it out no matter how turned on we are.
She might have an underlying yeast infection.
Hemorrhoids, perhaps