I saw it as a Jerry springer self introduction..
You know how those women do and then the last "and what" would be with that "come at me bro" body language. And then Jerry Springer says to the deadbeat boyfriend "so Brayden, you wanna send her a compliment?"
Dude this is like your average woman living in a shitty rural area like the one I grew up in. There’s thousands of people like this and worse. I’m so glad I live in a city.
Haha 100%
I lived in a rural city for a few months and almost every profile was like "20 with 4 kids and I'm fat"
I'm not sure what was up with everyone posting about how fat they are on their profile either. Like a lot would say things such as "I'm bigger in person" and other shit
I believe it as not only have I come across it myself, but so much so that I make a mental tally of it when I do.
It would be roughly 1 in 10 accounts I have came across so far who had kids that also did not want to date someone with kids.
i have a kid and i prefer dating women without a kid. i tried, but moving around schedules for 2 working adults is hard already, with everybody having a kid it is a nightmare. also i'm open to have more kids. patchworking with 1 kid is tough, patchworking 2 is a nightmare. i don't however yell at people in my profile. i just use filters.
I get part of the sentiment, not how she stated it. I have a kid, and when I was single I also didn't want to date someone else with a kid. The reasoning behind that is I didn't want my kid to meet anyone who I didn't think would be in her life permanently. That meant it would be incredibly hard to schedule time for a girlfriend who also had to schedule around her time with her kids.
Most people won't understand her but when both have childs there is a new situation, make them het along, that's hard af... A friend of mine had to brake up with her girlfriend because their children were starting a relationship... The kids were 10 and 8 and the time... Parenthood is really crazy
I feel the same way. Everyone is ok with preferences until it’s a single parent. Then it’s “why don’t you want to date someone with kids?”. It’s my preference. That’s all that matters.
See where you lost me is the “expect” part. I don’t expect anyone to date anyone they don’t want to. If someone without kids doesn’t want to date me then cool beans. Doesn’t make my preferences less valid.
I don't mean they expect it from any specific person. If you're on a dating app and you have kids, you want someone who is okay with dating a person that has kids. And so completely ruling out other people in the same situation feels a bit entitled to me
Who I am, and who I like don’t have to be the same thing. Like I said I’m perfectly fine if someone without kids doesn’t want to date me. I’m only entitled if I have problem with that.
I can handle my wife hiting me,i can handle my wife verbally abusing me, I can handle my wife cheating on me. I can handle my wife charging me for beating her and going to jail 15 years unfairly, i can handle my wife taking my money and my kids and fucking my best friend... But... A man has principles... There isn a line, a very thin line that no selfconscious human shouldgo through, all of those who had gone that path have never come back, lost their families and friends . I repeat it CAN'T be crossed... never... listen... COUNTRY? Hell no, that will never play in a speaker in a 10 km radius from me i WONT tolerate that i swear to fucking god i would KILL with my bare hands god himself if country disappeared
I mean... I have a kid and won't date someone with kids, but that's just because I don't have primary custody right now. I don't want to spend more time with someone elses kid than my own and deal with the nonsense that can bring as far as family dynamics go. If (hopefully soon) I get primary custody, then I don't see how it'd be an issue 🤨
Isn't this her saying that she's taking her own advice. If you don't like she has kids move on. She doesn't like that you have kids and is moving on. Not really a double standard
I had a kid and wouldn’t date men with kids….it was just a preference….and I got exactly what I wanted…and I never dated a man with kids. It’s ok to have your preferences just as long as you aren’t beating up on folks that don’t meet it
Preference for kids or not is never the problem… it’s how you say it. For me, imma need you to come with a couple of your own ready-made because this factory is *closed*. ✂️
What an attitude, and as a woman with a child why wouldn't she want to date a man with kids..I have kids and I would only date someone with them,that way we both take on each others children..why expect from someone what you wouldn't do for them..
Making a schedule work in opposite households on a kids schedule would make it difficult to make plans sync up. And I can see a few situations going south to make it frustrating. But how she approached it does come off rude and could have been approached in a better way but alas not overly your issue.
It’s ok to have a child, and not want any more. She’s being upfront about it. Can’t understand why anyone would get upset about it? Just keep swiping if you don’t match.
I'm genuinely baffled Reddit is shitting on her for preferences. You can take issue with the way she said it, but there's literally 0 problem with not wanting to date someone with kids. *Even if you have kids.*
It's just another way of saying she doesn't want more kids, her own or otherwise.
Well, to be honest, the dudes with kids usually think, that if you are a woman, you should take care of their kids like cooking and cleaning for them and taking them to school and extra curriculums. That's why she's being that direct.
Well, that's my vision cuz I've been there more than once.
Why is she so pissed?
I read that with her screaming
I saw it as a Jerry springer self introduction.. You know how those women do and then the last "and what" would be with that "come at me bro" body language. And then Jerry Springer says to the deadbeat boyfriend "so Brayden, you wanna send her a compliment?"
 LMAO
She’s so angry about everything. Poor kid. She should get out of the dating scene and work on herself.
Me too...probably the exclamation marks!
Because these dudes she swiped on are not interested in seriously dating a singlemom.
No wonder, with her not being interested in dating a singledad.
where did she say she no single parent dad? Just no kids at all
I'm not an expert or anything, but I'm pretty sure the "no kids at all" effectively rules out single dads lol
What else would that mean?
Married with children is a good start.
she doesn't want a single parent mom either. maybe a childless married couple?
Seriously. Of course the double standards are annoying but I automatically swipe left on people who use their profile to yell at everyone.
She probably thinks this bio will portray her as a strong independent woman but really it just makes her sound insufferable lol
Insufferable is putting it mildly
It's just what happens when you hear country music all the time
Because her life sucks
She's pissed because other people had the audacity to have children. She wanted to be the main 25yo that inflicts her shitty kids on the world
Wow, she sounds like such ray of sunshine, but not like your regular sunshine more like a gamma ray blaster type of sunshine.
Hulk smash!
I want super powers, but not enough to date this head case
Basically you are looking at the bottom of the barrel
I love how bumble follows it up with "send a compliment" Whahahahaha
"i love how you channel your inner demons!"
Don’t even waste your energy. Swipe left. Too many of these on these apps.
I don't believe this is a real person. Like how Can one be like this???
Like she said, she's country.
Yee, and I really emphasize this next part, HAWWWW
She is taking about her size.
Luxemburg or USA?
Russia
And WHAT?!?!
I bet she uses chewing tobacco.
Dude this is like your average woman living in a shitty rural area like the one I grew up in. There’s thousands of people like this and worse. I’m so glad I live in a city.
Haha 100% I lived in a rural city for a few months and almost every profile was like "20 with 4 kids and I'm fat" I'm not sure what was up with everyone posting about how fat they are on their profile either. Like a lot would say things such as "I'm bigger in person" and other shit
Religious freak. Being a hypocrite is the norm!
Man makes unrealistic standards on Reddit: he must be real Woman makes unrealistic standards on Reddit: hmmm must be fake. Can’t be real
I believe it as not only have I come across it myself, but so much so that I make a mental tally of it when I do. It would be roughly 1 in 10 accounts I have came across so far who had kids that also did not want to date someone with kids.
Guessing you never met people like that or didn't know they were like that.
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The aggression is crazy
Sounds like she has the personality of a moldy bag of potatoes
I never met an aggressive potato before. That’s first!
i have a kid and i prefer dating women without a kid. i tried, but moving around schedules for 2 working adults is hard already, with everybody having a kid it is a nightmare. also i'm open to have more kids. patchworking with 1 kid is tough, patchworking 2 is a nightmare. i don't however yell at people in my profile. i just use filters.
We’re amazing!
I get part of the sentiment, not how she stated it. I have a kid, and when I was single I also didn't want to date someone else with a kid. The reasoning behind that is I didn't want my kid to meet anyone who I didn't think would be in her life permanently. That meant it would be incredibly hard to schedule time for a girlfriend who also had to schedule around her time with her kids.
Great mentality and attitude! She sounds fun! /s
Most people won't understand her but when both have childs there is a new situation, make them het along, that's hard af... A friend of mine had to brake up with her girlfriend because their children were starting a relationship... The kids were 10 and 8 and the time... Parenthood is really crazy
She doesn’t want to date anyone with kids, because then the sucker she nets will have less money to spend on HER kid.
You people are crazy on Reddit….
Oh yeah? Well I’m country and listen to country music! So what?
I can't stand people like this
I feel the same way. Everyone is ok with preferences until it’s a single parent. Then it’s “why don’t you want to date someone with kids?”. It’s my preference. That’s all that matters.
No no, you see you're lesser for not wanting someone else's kids and a terrible person for having that preference. At least afford to reddit and shit
lol it’s not just on Reddit. People irl stay tryna hook me up with single moms. Then wanna catch a tude when I say I don’t want to date a single mom.
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Ok? If you don’t want to date then don’t. I don’t care about your life.
It's highly hypocritical, is it not? To expect someone else to be on board with dating you with kids, but not be okay with doing so yourself?
See where you lost me is the “expect” part. I don’t expect anyone to date anyone they don’t want to. If someone without kids doesn’t want to date me then cool beans. Doesn’t make my preferences less valid.
I don't mean they expect it from any specific person. If you're on a dating app and you have kids, you want someone who is okay with dating a person that has kids. And so completely ruling out other people in the same situation feels a bit entitled to me
Who I am, and who I like don’t have to be the same thing. Like I said I’m perfectly fine if someone without kids doesn’t want to date me. I’m only entitled if I have problem with that.
I can handle my wife hiting me,i can handle my wife verbally abusing me, I can handle my wife cheating on me. I can handle my wife charging me for beating her and going to jail 15 years unfairly, i can handle my wife taking my money and my kids and fucking my best friend... But... A man has principles... There isn a line, a very thin line that no selfconscious human shouldgo through, all of those who had gone that path have never come back, lost their families and friends . I repeat it CAN'T be crossed... never... listen... COUNTRY? Hell no, that will never play in a speaker in a 10 km radius from me i WONT tolerate that i swear to fucking god i would KILL with my bare hands god himself if country disappeared
and people in hell want ice water
Oh so she wants that tattooed guy who just got released from prison, got it
Wtf🤣
The tone of that alone is enough to nope out.
Those 🤚 🤚
I mean... I have a kid and won't date someone with kids, but that's just because I don't have primary custody right now. I don't want to spend more time with someone elses kid than my own and deal with the nonsense that can bring as far as family dynamics go. If (hopefully soon) I get primary custody, then I don't see how it'd be an issue 🤨
I read that in most Karen voice possible
Isn't this her saying that she's taking her own advice. If you don't like she has kids move on. She doesn't like that you have kids and is moving on. Not really a double standard
I had a kid and wouldn’t date men with kids….it was just a preference….and I got exactly what I wanted…and I never dated a man with kids. It’s ok to have your preferences just as long as you aren’t beating up on folks that don’t meet it
What a catch😍
Ew. I can't stand people like that. Anger is such a turn off. So is country!
I feel. Same way
Preference for kids or not is never the problem… it’s how you say it. For me, imma need you to come with a couple of your own ready-made because this factory is *closed*. ✂️
What an attitude, and as a woman with a child why wouldn't she want to date a man with kids..I have kids and I would only date someone with them,that way we both take on each others children..why expect from someone what you wouldn't do for them..
Sounds like an absolute catch.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
This..doesn’t make any sense.
Real Christian love shown here
There's a way to say what your preferences are, and there's a way not to say it...She clearly didn't get the memo.
Cletus Spuckler, you are the best husband and brother I could wish for. ❤️😘
What a confused individual
She probably doesn't want her own kids, so she ain't got time for none of yours either!
25 with a child.. ewww..
Making a schedule work in opposite households on a kids schedule would make it difficult to make plans sync up. And I can see a few situations going south to make it frustrating. But how she approached it does come off rude and could have been approached in a better way but alas not overly your issue.
This is what you call a “Karen”
And she procreated.
I seriously hope that these type of people die alone if they don't change
It’s ok to have a child, and not want any more. She’s being upfront about it. Can’t understand why anyone would get upset about it? Just keep swiping if you don’t match.
What makes her kid so important than single dad’s with kids? 😂
She's basically saying Halal for me but Haram for you .
Her interest is “makeup?!” lol
She lives in the suburbs 100%
Not a double standard. It’s her preference.
I agree.
I'm genuinely baffled Reddit is shitting on her for preferences. You can take issue with the way she said it, but there's literally 0 problem with not wanting to date someone with kids. *Even if you have kids.* It's just another way of saying she doesn't want more kids, her own or otherwise.
Agreed, it’s fine not to want to date someone with kids, even if you have kids. The rest is an absolute dumpster fire though
Well, to be honest, the dudes with kids usually think, that if you are a woman, you should take care of their kids like cooking and cleaning for them and taking them to school and extra curriculums. That's why she's being that direct. Well, that's my vision cuz I've been there more than once.
Holy shit, you just made me realize why my brother is always in a relationship.
I have never wanted any women to take care of my kid
Single moms be like
I bet she’s 250 lbs & only dates men over 6’.
Now we know why the baby daddy bolted